12-10-2012, 10:30 AM
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Sounds like way too much annoyance for what amounts to a casual relationship.
FireDancer might be right...he may be dating a few people. Not in and of itself a bad thing but at least be polite of you're going to break a date with one woman to go out with another. And FireDancer may be wrong and the guy could have a "serious" girlfriend or wife & is looking for a little "sumpin', sumpin' " on the side. Either way, I wouldn't pin too many hopes on this guy...if he calls he calls, if he doesn't he doesn't. I might be "busy" the next few times he calls...holiday season and all...you know how it is. Meanwhile, as you said, keep looking around.
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12-10-2012, 12:15 PM
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I don't think it's too much annoyance, I think it's smart to consider it a marker of his consideration for you (or people in general) and the end of any possible relationship developing.
I can't believe people are advocating to give the guy another chance. I don't think anyone is saying he's cheating on OP. There's no relationship to cheat on. He's just a jerky guy who's shown his worth. Just because you want to date doesn't mean you have to date anyone that comes along.
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12-10-2012, 01:02 PM
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12-10-2012, 01:16 PM
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Make a date really close by you, tell him to call you when he arrives. I would be blunt, you stood me up, & my feelings are hurt. I would also make it clear if it ever happened again - DONE!
But only if you see any worth in him, only you know that. As far as he is dating other people, of course he is - so is OP I would guess. I met my SO on POF, 5 years later
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12-10-2012, 04:53 PM
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I have no hopes pinned on this guy, no worries there. And whether his behavior is due to a serious girlfriend, some other casual date, real family drama or just that he's not into me, is not the point...it all boils down to bad behavior. It is simply frustrating when people ask for a date, then blow it off.
Anyway, what's done is done. I have a date with another guy on Thursday. Life goes on! 
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