|02-11-2008, 02:44 PM||#1|
Join Date: Jun 2006
HELP NEEDED!! Need to lose 100 pounds
I really need some help and support..... I've got 100 pounds to lose, each year I've tried to lose some weight and each year I lose a bit and then put it back on and more.
I've had a horrible last 3 years. I was planning my wedding in 2004 and had lost 4 stone, when my mum was diagnosed with Cancer, we tried to bring the wedding forward but my mum died in November 2004. My mums family disowned my dad, brother and me as they couldn't cope with the loss of my mum and blamed us for everything. So I planned my wedding by myself. I then lost my Grandfather in 2005 and my Gran in 2006. Since my mums death I've put on 5 stone. My mum was my rock and helped me do everything. I'm lost without her. I've started so many diets, I've lost count, nothing is working and I feel really depressed. I even started having counselling but that didn't work.
My Husband understands how I feel but doesn't know how to cope with my thinking of food all the time, my cravings and has tried to help me so much. He has come up with this goal.....he knows how much I love Disney World.
The goal is loss 100 pounds and he will take me back to Disney World. I have to say that we live in the UK, have been to Disney once a year since our Honeymoon (3 times) and my husband isn't a big Disney fan like me.
The goal is great but I just don't think i can do it, I just still can't get my head round losing weight, don't know where to start. I so much want to loss weight and keep it off. I can't talk to anyone here about this, no one really understands how I feel and I talked about going on diets so many times that no-one listerns to me anymore. I wish so much for my mum to still be here.
So I have no one to help me, can anyone give me any suggestions/help?? Anything....
Apologies for such a long story. Thanks
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