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Old 09-27-2012, 09:26 PM   #1
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Two of my kids have decided not to do the dolphin swim

We are going to Discovery Cove for the first time. My husband and I decided that we would ask the kids to pay for half of the dolphin swim themselves to help make the trip a little more affordable but also to get them to really value and appreciate it. Two of my kids have decided not to do the dolphin swim. They say they would like to but not enough to pay $50 for just 30 minutes! In one way I am glad that they are really thinking about what they want to spend their money on but I also fear they will regret not doing the dolphin swim. My oldest has no question that she is doing it! I am hoping to book the trip tonight and wonder if they can change their minds after I have already booked it as a non dolphin swim package. Anybody ever regret not doing the swim?
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Old 09-27-2012, 11:43 PM   #2
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Personally I can't imagine not doing the dolphin swim. I've done it twice and would do it again in a heartbeat. It's a short part of the day but pretty much the best part. If they really don't want to do it, I suppose that's their decision BUT I would very seriously consider what would happen if they change their mind.

For instance, do you think they might think if they change their mind the day of you'd pony up the money? Are they old enough to sit out by themselves while the rest of the family does the swim? Is it going to cause a tantrum? Would you be willing to front the money if they did change their minds with the strict agreement that it would be paid back?
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Old 09-28-2012, 10:26 AM   #3
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Personally I can't imagine not doing the dolphin swim. I've done it twice and would do it again in a heartbeat. It's a short part of the day but pretty much the best part. If they really don't want to do it, I suppose that's their decision BUT I would very seriously consider what would happen if they change their mind.

For instance, do you think they might think if they change their mind the day of you'd pony up the money? Are they old enough to sit out by themselves while the rest of the family does the swim? Is it going to cause a tantrum? Would you be willing to front the money if they did change their minds with the strict agreement that it would be paid back?
My kids are all old enough. The two that are going to do the swim are 17 and 13. The two that have decided not to are 11 and 15. Actually dh and I were not planning on doing the swim either. Dh has no interest and and wouldn't mind but it isn't huge on my list. If my 11 year old decides to do the swim then I will have to do it because he is under 12. I don't mind if they change their minds as long as it doesn't cost extra at the time and as long as they are allowed to.
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We are going to Discovery Cove for the first time. My husband and I decided that we would ask the kids to pay for half of the dolphin swim themselves to help make the trip a little more affordable but also to get them to really value and appreciate it. Two of my kids have decided not to do the dolphin swim. They say they would like to but not enough to pay $50 for just 30 minutes! In one way I am glad that they are really thinking about what they want to spend their money on but I also fear they will regret not doing the dolphin swim. My oldest has no question that she is doing it! I am hoping to book the trip tonight and wonder if they can change their minds after I have already booked it as a non dolphin swim package. Anybody ever regret not doing the swim?
You can add the dolphin swim once you get there if there is any still available. But be warned, if the price you are paying now, is say $169.00 you will pay the price difference of that day, so if it is $229 that day, you will have to pay the difference! I learned the hard way. We did the dolphin swim one year, and the following took my niece and her family with us, we were doing the resort day, and her family was doing the dolphin day. Well my kids wanted to do it with them, I ended up with paying almost $300 more that day just to add the dolphin swim for them, as my annual passport was not usuable the day of!
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Old 09-28-2012, 10:27 AM   #5
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You can add the dolphin swim once you get there if there is any still available. But be warned, if the price you are paying now, is say $169.00 you will pay the price difference of that day, so if it is $229 that day, you will have to pay the difference! I learned the hard way. We did the dolphin swim one year, and the following took my niece and her family with us, we were doing the resort day, and her family was doing the dolphin day. Well my kids wanted to do it with them, I ended up with paying almost $300 more that day just to add the dolphin swim for them, as my annual passport was not usuable the day of!
Thanks for this warning, I would not want to be surprised by that!
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Well then I guess they're older enough to understand the consequences of their decision and you can inform them that if they change their mind later it'll cost them that much more. I had no idea if we were talking about a 7 year old who might say no now then yes tomorrow then no again you know?
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I expect my child to use some of her own money to pay for souvenirs and such but can't imagine asking her to pay for part of a family vacation. As someone who was a huge saver as a kid it would have killed me to be expected to pay a portion of a family vacation. I would really worry that one or more of the kids will regret not doing this and I guess if I couldn't afford for us all to do it I would skip DC. I'm not sure how big your kid's allowances are but $50 would take a long time for my child to earn back. It wouldn't even cross my mind to have her pay, but now I have a great story to tell her about kids that do have to. We've been selling some of her old toys and some of my items on ebay to help pay for our DC tickets so I think that has helped her understand just how pricey this day is going to be.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:37 PM   #8
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I expect my child to use some of her own money to pay for souvenirs and such but can't imagine asking her to pay for part of a family vacation. As someone who was a huge saver as a kid it would have killed me to be expected to pay a portion of a family vacation. I would really worry that one or more of the kids will regret not doing this and I guess if I couldn't afford for us all to do it I would skip DC. I'm not sure how big your kid's allowances are but $50 would take a long time for my child to earn back. It wouldn't even cross my mind to have her pay, but now I have a great story to tell her about kids that do have to. We've been selling some of her old toys and some of my items on ebay to help pay for our DC tickets so I think that has helped her understand just how pricey this day is going to be.
Well, part of the reason we are doing this is that they really wanted to go to Discovery Cove. Dh decided it was way too expensive. Once I realized we could do it without the dolphin swim it made it a little more affordable so we decided that we can afford it without the dolphin swim but if anybody wants to do the dolphin swim bad enough they can help out. They all have plenty of money in the bank and receive Christmas and birthday money and I know they all can afford it if they want it bad enough. For us to put out that much extra for 30 minutes just is not something we feel we can do at this point. But the point of this post was not to find out if we are doing the right thing as parents but to see if it is possible for them to change their minds last minute (and I found out the answer) and to see if people have chosen to go without the swim and then regretted it. I know for myself that I would love to go to Discovery Cove even without the Dolphin swim and don't really feel I would regret it but would hate for my kids to feel like they missed out.
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I expect my child to use some of her own money to pay for souvenirs and such but can't imagine asking her to pay for part of a family vacation. As someone who was a huge saver as a kid it would have killed me to be expected to pay a portion of a family vacation. I would really worry that one or more of the kids will regret not doing this and I guess if I couldn't afford for us all to do it I would skip DC. I'm not sure how big your kid's allowances are but $50 would take a long time for my child to earn back. It wouldn't even cross my mind to have her pay, but now I have a great story to tell her about kids that do have to. We've been selling some of her old toys and some of my items on ebay to help pay for our DC tickets so I think that has helped her understand just how pricey this day is going to be.
So its okay for you to sell your child's belongings to help pay for your DC experience, but its not okay for the OP to have their children contribute some of their Christmas and birthday money to offset the cost of the swim portion?

janinca, I think you know your family best. I am a huge advocate of teaching kids early on the value of money, and to make them fiscally responsible (I work for two financial planners.....let me tell you, you can't start too soon in my opinion). Your kids are not little, and as teens, I can appreciate that most of them would have their own slush funds which they could dig into if needed to help finance an otherwise out-of-the-budget activity. My 16 year old works full time all summer, and part time during the school year. He would not hesitate to kick in money for a vacation activity if we ever asked him too.

Discovery Cove is a wonderful park that will be enjoyed immensely even without the dolphin swim. That portion of the day, while awesome and amazing and very worth it to do at least once, is only a small part of the whole experience. It literally will take less than 45 minutes from start to finish. Those that choose not to participate can watch their family's dolphin encounter from the shoreline. If those not taking part won't feel "left out" as they watch their siblings, then book them the day resort admission and know that they will still have an awesome and amazing time.

Our whole family did DC on August 29th and didn't do the dolphin swim (*gasp!*) and still had an amazing day. We did the swim on our January visit and while it was a ton of fun, its not a necessity. If the dolphin swim is going to be a budget breaker, skip it without guilt.
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