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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    So I wanted to come back and update a little more now I'm back home and Henry has decided he doesn't need to eat every ten minutes! The birth ended up being relatively easy and drama-free. I was watching TV in the afternoon, got up to get a drink and found myself in a big puddle of water. My...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Very quick update - he's here! Baby Henry was born yesterday at 1.11am 8lbs 1oz 20 inches long. He is perfect - literally perfect! I don't know what else to say about him! :goodvibes
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Hey everyone - don't get excited, no baby as of yet but the doctor thinks it could be in the next 48 hours! I went in for an appointment this morning and she said everything is ready to go, just need to convince the little one to come out! He's still kicking around in there so hopefully he knows...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I should clarify - the exact words he used were "I don't know how my life ended up like this." It seems pretty obvious to me. I almost feel sorry for him at times - how do you make such a mess of things and not be able to understand where you went wrong?! His parents have been very, very nice...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    So I thought I'd come on and update today since it's been a while. First up, I know people were asking about my due date - baby is due December 1st, so actually the beginning of next month. He's measuring right on track and everything is still good with him, gaining weight and doing...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Yep, the mom is (was?) a friend of the family, that's how DH met this girl. The mom knew me through DH, but not well - she always adored DH and called him the son she never had. Honestly, unless she's an absolute idiot she must know something is going on - I know at one point she had looked...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to add that I have seen a counselor, twice now with another appointment next week. I'm not great with opening up to people, but she's nice and I think it will help to have someone to talk to. Talking to DH isn't upsetting me to be honest, it's just odd. He seems so upset that I...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to drop in and let you guys know how we were doing. Most importantly, baby is doing well. He's measuring right on track, kicking and wiggling around in there. I have a new OBGYN who is absolutely wonderful, I like her a lot, and I've been to visit the new hospital I'll be...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Just letting you know baby and I are OK. I had an ultrasound at my appointment this morning, and got to see him wiggling around in there. At one point, the ultrasound tech showed me where his hands were right in front of his face, and I put my hand on my stomach right there - he reached up...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to let you guys know I got to Canada safely. The flight was uneventful and so far the baby seems to be doing fine. We have our Dr appointment tomorrow morning to double check on him (and on me, I guess.) Leaving was the hardest and most horrible thing I've ever had to do. It's...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    One more quick update - after this, I won't update again until I'm in Canada. The flight is soon, I just don't want to say exactly when. I've thought about DH being mentally ill, at the very least depressed. I did suggest therapy a few days back, and his response was "no, because the...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    This is the third time I've tried to update today, DH keeps coming in and interrupting. The flights are all booked. My parents found an OBGYN for me in their area who was recommended by a friend, and I have an appointment to meet with her the day after I get in to check up on the baby after...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Another quick update. The Dr appointment went well and my Dr told me to go ahead and fly, but to do it sooner rather than later. So my parents are looking for flights right now - we're looking for a nonstop flight so I don't have to worry about a layover. I'm not going to say on here when...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Sorry for not updating in a while, I've been busy with appointments and getting stuff done, etc. I'm sorry for those who thought my not updating meant this was a hoax - I sort of wish it was, I don't think I could have made this stuff up if I tried! Lots of stuff has happened in the past...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    Any idea how to forward texts to an email account?
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    So I wanted to update you guys on today. First up, my attorney called to reschedule the appointment for Friday instead. Another one his clients needed him for an emergency, and since she's paying him and he's doing this consultation with me for free, I understand him needing to be with her...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to clarify - it's not that I want to stay and forgive him, or that I think I will. I know in my heart leaving him is my only option - not only does he not want to work things out, but after the things he's said and done, I just don't see how I could trust him again. I just...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I don't really have much new to add, but I haven't told anyone else yet (talk to the parents tomorrow after they get back from vacation) so you guys are my only outlet. For the poster who asked, I was born in Canada and lived there until I was 21. So I would assume my baby would be eligible...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to update quickly, although at this point not much has happened. I called the attorney I know yesterday and he made an appointment for me to go in and see him on Monday. He asked me to bring any financial information I have, so I have to spend this weekend looking around for...
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    7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

    I just wanted to say thank you again for the advice - I never imagined so many people would read my post and take the time to write back. I called my OBGYN and made an appointment for Monday (I work all weekend) to go in and get checked out. I'm going to let him know what's going on so he...




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