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RookieLady 12-04-2012 01:23 PM

How do you feel about unaccompanied minors on flights?
 
My 20th anniversary is coming up next year, and I want to go to Disney without my children for a couple of days. However, I cannot bring myself to go to Disney without my kids, despite my repeated readings of posts about it being okay. I am seriously considering driving down to Florida with my husband and visiting the World a few days. Then, I am thinking about having my mother put my children on a direct flight to Orlando, where my husband and I will pick up the children and complete our trip with them. Has anyone sent children (2 in my case) unaccompanied on a direct flight and what were your experiences?

Thanks in advance.

robinb 12-04-2012 01:26 PM

How old are your kids?

RookieLady 12-04-2012 01:29 PM

They will be 13 and 10. They will have flown twice before, but with parents on prior occasions.

brymolmom 12-04-2012 01:30 PM

Agreed. Totally depends on the ages of the kids and also how the kids are with it. My son would be fine and I would be fine sending him...He is 10 and as long as Grandma watched him board a direct flight I would be OK on the other end. My dd, however, is 9 and would be very scared to go 'alone' - even tho her brother would be with her. Of course, if I told her it was either that or no Disney at all - she likely would be fine with it. And having them together would make it a bigger bonus.

I loveStitchnippyjon 12-04-2012 01:34 PM

As long as it's a direct flight, and the kids have been coached on what to do at every step along the way, I would consider it if my kids showed enough maturity to handle it.

BrDubs 12-04-2012 01:48 PM

When I was a minor, I flew alone. My parents contacted the airlines prior to and Delta knew to watch for me. I had to switch planes, and the airline had someone waiting for me to take me to the gate. Very nice service that hopefully they still do and may give you some piece of mind.

lost*in*cyberspace 12-04-2012 01:49 PM

I think you mean a nonstop flight, not a direct flight. There's a difference.

Kids fly unaccompanied every day. It's not a big deal. Choose the airline carefully; many require you to pay an unaccompanied minor fee and it can be expensive.

RookieLady 12-04-2012 01:54 PM

Thanks for your replies. It seems I have some investigating to do.

theworldneedscolor 12-04-2012 02:12 PM

My sister flew alone last summer (she was 13) and even had to catch a connecting flight! She was too old to have someone escort her, so she was nervous, but she handled it very well. She just asked the airline staff for help if she needed it. If your kids are mature, I think they will be fine.

mm1971 12-04-2012 03:13 PM

I would probably not with my kids (based on my kids and our situation), but I know people who have had their kids fly to relatives several times without any issues.

If you feel they would handle it well then there should be no issues, especially if they are together. If you make the airline aware, they usually will take extra steps to make sure they are OK.

DisneyRegulars 12-04-2012 03:19 PM

They should be absolutely fine. At age 13 I flew by myself from malaysia to the US, including an overnight in Singapore, and stops in singapore, taiwan, seattle, detroit and finally boston. A single flight with no customs to go through seems like a cakewalk. Unless your kids have behavioral problems they will be fine!

SmallWorld71 12-04-2012 10:36 PM

Totally depends on the kids - but I don't think it's a crazy idea. I have a 13 year old and a 9 year old and I would let them do it if need be. They have flown multiple times and they are very responsible. I took my first unaccompanied flight at 12 - with my 9 year old brother and 3 year old sister.

That said, I would be thinking about their upcoming arrival the entire time I was there alone with DH and that would put a damper on the fun. DH and I would probably end up talking about them the whole time and it wouldn't seem very much like an anniversary. While I have absolutely no problems with people who take adult only trips to WDW, they're just not for me. I would be much more inclined to bring the kids and then plan a few adult activities/ an adult evening or two into the trip.

Oh, and congrats on 20 years - it will be 15 for DH and I next year.:)

Lizzybean 12-04-2012 11:02 PM

I first flew alone at 10 I think? Maybe 9. Once my parents divorced at 11 I flew alone or with my little sister (who was 6) every other weekend back and forth between Chicago and D.C. I remember my mom dropping me at the curb outside of O'Hare and walking myself to check-in, through security and to the gate by myself. Many times my just picked me up outside baggage claim which I got to alone. When I flew they didn't assign a Flight Attendant to supervise me but when my sister flew alone they did (and of course she wasn't running around the airport by herself).

I was already well-traveled by that age by I know the experience made me a much more confident, independent, self assured traveler. I wouldn't hesitate to fly my kids at that age, particularly if they were flying together. We almost always drive to FL b/c it's become tradition and is usually just so much cheaper that I prefer it but otherwise we fly everywhere else.

My solo minor trips were shortly before 9/11 but that doesn't change how I feel at all (other than disliking the TSA). I think it will be a great experience for them!

Lizzybean 12-04-2012 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by DisneyRegulars
They should be absolutely fine. At age 13 I flew by myself from malaysia to the US, including an overnight in Singapore, and stops in singapore, taiwan, seattle, detroit and finally boston. A single flight with no customs to go through seems like a cakewalk. Unless your kids have behavioral problems they will be fine!

You beat me lol! Seriously though, this is another great example in favor of kids flying solo.

bumbershoot 12-05-2012 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by SmallWorld71 (Post 46856312)
That said, I would be thinking about their upcoming arrival the entire time I was there alone with DH and that would put a damper on the fun. DH and I would probably end up talking about them the whole time and it wouldn't seem very much like an anniversary. While I have absolutely no problems with people who take adult only trips to WDW, they're just not for me. I would be much more inclined to bring the kids and then plan a few adult activities/ an adult evening or two into the trip.

That's how I would be, too. Maybe. I've done actual solo trips, knowing that DS was home and happy with DH. I'm not sure if I could handle knowing DS would be on a flight coming to me on vacation. Then again, we have NO trusted family to watch DS, none at all. The one that would do in a pinch has now had a series of strokes that have damaged her memory, and also she had a BIG one right in front of him and he's terrified it's going to happen again.

So I can't come close to putting myself in your shoes, OP, since you have trusted family and I do not.

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Originally Posted by DisneyRegulars (Post 46852764)
They should be absolutely fine. At age 13 I flew by myself from malaysia to the US, including an overnight in Singapore, and stops in singapore, taiwan, seattle, detroit and finally boston. A single flight with no customs to go through seems like a cakewalk. Unless your kids have behavioral problems they will be fine!

But we that your third flight in your life, or had flown more than that?




I have a friend who puts her now 9 year old on cross country flights to visit her husband's parents. I can't imagine doing the same with DS, who is 8.5. He's a seasoned traveler, but for one thing, she is FAR ahead of him in reading, which can be a big deal with being comfy in an airport. On every flight I try to help HM learn more about navigating airports, as I want him to not be nervous in airports and on flights!

Maybe by ten I'd be comfy with my son flying alone. The OP has the advantage of the teenager! No the question is if they get along, and if they would listen to each other and not fight.


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