Don't worry. I don't think you offended anyone. We're are use to getting beat up on the other forums. Some of us get amused with the comments about hicks, barefoot/backwards, "campers" (as if it's a bad thing), "can't afford a real resort" and lots of others.
We know they all come from an uninformed perspective.
To the OP, I'll agree with others. The Fort may not be your best option. It definitely feels different than staying at "hotel" type property. The size can be a deal. Depending on what you want to do, where you end up and your expectations, transportation can be frustrating. The best way to deal with it is plan on an hour to get anywhere outside the Fort. It will usually be less than that, but then it's a bonus. There aren't many places to eat since most of us bring our kitchens and our own food. If you plan on a dining plan or eating at table service places, the Fort doesn't make that as easy as the places without kitchens.
I have stayed at Saratoga Springs and Caribbean Beach Club. CBR was just for a day when I was racing at Daytona. Transportation from SSR was about the same, time wise, as getting places from the Fort. It seemed to take a long time to get anywhere except Disney Springs. The difference at the Fort being taking 2 buses or needing a cart to avoid the internal buses. The Fort has the boats to MK and the monorail (via a resort launch to the Contemporary) that most other resorts don't have. I did like having more places to eat when I stayed at SSR/CBR, but at SSR, it was a 10 minute walk or a bus ride AND the waits were ridiculous. It was spring break when I was at SSR, although it was the same at CBR in January.
Bottom line. The Fort is a luxury campground for those of us that enjoy a relaxed, open, pampered camping experience. This is intended to be different than staying at a "hotel" resort. The cabins allow people to join the atmosphere without a large investment. (Yes, cabins are priced as Moderates, but I have over $100,000 in my truck and 5th wheel. Apples vs caviar.) If the atmosphere of a really nice campground within the WDW bubble isn't your idea of "being on property", there are plenty of "hotel/condo" style options that will give you buses to wait for, lines at the CS eateries and LOTS of people that don't say "Hi" or wave when you walk past.
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