A friend once asked if she could use my maternity clothing, and I said ok. I was very surprised when she saw me after her baby was born and told me that she gave it all away! I was upset, but in retrospect, I shouldn't have given her the items I didn't want back. Another time, a neighbor borrowed some hardcover books from me, and then sold them at a garage sale I was having (I guess this happens more than we think!) I was caught off-guard and didn't say anything because I was so surprised. I would probably ask the person before selling the stuff/passing it on. Maybe I would have felt better if I had been asked first.
I would ask the person you got the items from....
One time I gave a friend some clothing for her family.
For whatever reason- she decided to try to sell it at the
garage sale I was having (I asked her if she would like to participate).
Wow-
I wish she hadn't done that!
It wouldn't have bothered me if she'd donated it
or took it to a garage sale elsewhere...
Yes, the difference in my situation is that the woman asked me if she could borrow my clothes. I didn't offer! It still bothers me because there were a couple items that had sentimental value. I just thought I would get it all back.Thanks for all the answers! It's mostly what I expected but more saying "do what you want with it" than I thought.
This is what I was thinking for the stuff I got from neighbors. Even though most of it they flat out told me they were giving me (there was no "borrow" about it), I think I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings by selling it. There are only a handful of things I'd do this with though.