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It is ok to go alone.. no matter what anyone says

renderman7

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So, there are threads happening all the time about, I am a single man, women, table, washing machine, etc and I worry about going to Disneyworld solo. People ask, can I do character meet and greets solo, what about dining, tours, etc. Here is the simple truth... YES

I have been to Disneyland twice with people and out of 12 trips the rest have been solo. I have done 3 solo trips out of 4 to Disneyworld, with a 5th coming up. I have also done solo to Hong Kong Disneyland and recently got back from a solo trip to Tokyo Disneyland and I never felt like I could not do anything because I was on my own.

Character meet and greets - Honestly, doing them on your own is not an issue. No one is going to judge, heck they might just think the rest of your party is off doing something else. If someone asks and you feel like you don't want to tell people your alone, just say that my "blank" is off riding "thrill ride X" and its not for me, or something like that. Last time I was at WDW, I did Chef Mickey solo, the characters come and interact with you, no matter if your 25, 50 or 1, they will do whatever they can to make sure that you are having a good time. So really, don't worry about them, if you want to do it, jump in the line. If that makes you feel strange do, go do the ones that have dedicated space, gives you a more private meet, rather than the open ones around the park.

Dining alone is a great experience - There are many instances of dining alone, where I did feel out of place, but that was more the place I was eating at than anything else. I personally, don't do fancy, but when I try, I just feel odd. But sitting down at Cosmic Rays, or Backlot Express on your own is no big deal, most people are going to be there in order to eat and get back out to the park, so they wont really care. If you are concerned that eating solo within Be Our Guest, or Le Cellier is going to make you look strange, again don't worry, the people there are there to enjoy their meal, the surroundings and more importantly, their dining partners. I never felt that sitting on my own made me a target for ridicule, now ordering the biggest dessert in the place, will draw attention, as will placing the soup bowl on your head.

Riding solo - This is the one where I feel Disney do a much worse job than anything anyone else can say. Almost everytime in WDW whenever I go on Pirates, Space Mountain, Big Thunder and such, I am pushed to the back of the vehicle, even if by allocation, I should be in the first row. Now that is not to say it happens all the time, but its common enough for me to notice, but as for riding solo, you normally can only get 4 people in the big rides at once, 2 is standard and their are the odd 3's like thunder, so riding solo is never as big a deal as people think. Plus, if they have single rider lines, the wait times can be much nicer.

Does this make it sound like going solo is perfect, I hope not, because it is not. When you are resting back in your room, you are on your own, when standing inline, if the people near you are speaking another language, you most likely won't be able to jump in and have a chat, but these are minor issues and can be addressed, by simply doing other things. Last November I was standing in line for Tower of Terror at DCA and saw, at least 12 familes playing that who am I game on their iphone, they were all having a blast, firstly I have windows phone, so no game for me, but I remember just chuckling at one description the teenager in one group gave for the little mermaid and that was it, I was in the game.

Going solo is not the worst and if you want a test run, go to a movie and dinner on your own, in your home town where people know you. If you can deal with that, WDW is not going to be an issue.
 
I think smartphones are the greatest asset for solo travelers. Whenever you feel uncomfortable being alone standing inline or waiting for your food you always have something with you to focus on. And it also helps when you feel alone to talk to a friend via messaging or social media.
 
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I too am a solo traveller, not just Disney parks but random city breaks in my own county and Europe when ever I can afford it.

So many people get hung up on the fact that Disney is marketed as a "family vacation" that they think they shouldn't or cant do a solo park trip. They feel they cant or wont enjoy it as much if they dont have a SO or kids with them, when in fact going solo in Disney especially can be even more enjoyable on your own.

Also for many people, going to Disney parks is about doing what the kids want, their whole visit is centered around the kids, that they don't realise that they never get to do something just for themselves. In a group there is alot of compromises and for some going solo may be daunting as for the first time they don't have to compromise or just do what the group want to do. They are stepping out of a set routine or pattern and for some this unknown may make them anxious or nervous.

I just love my solo trips, it gives me a chance to escape my day to day life and recharge.
 
What I tell people is:
Whoever pays the piper calls the music.
if this is how you want to travel do not let anyone tell you not to. You are enjoying your life, not doing anything illegal, so have a great time.
If someone want you to go on vacation and they are willing to pay for it, go and have a great time on them. If you are going to pay you go where and when you choose to go.
 


I prefer to have company for table service meals, and enjoy meeting up with other Dis'ers during my solo trips, whenever that works out.

But for the table service meals where I am solo, my favorite aspect of being there solo is that I have the chance to focus more on enjoying my surroundings, and to notice more details of the restaurant theming.
 
I prefer to have company for table service meals, and enjoy meeting up with other Dis'ers during my solo trips, whenever that works out.

But for the table service meals where I am solo, my favorite aspect of being there solo is that I have the chance to focus more on enjoying my surroundings, and to notice more details of the restaurant theming.

Oh, please don't misunderstand, there is of course nothing better than having a meal with someone, even if its a dismeet, having someone to talk to is always better than sitting alone. I am just saying, sitting alone is not the end of the world.
 
I prefer to have company for table service meals, and enjoy meeting up with other Dis'ers during my solo trips, whenever that works out.

But for the table service meals where I am solo, my favorite aspect of being there solo is that I have the chance to focus more on enjoying my surroundings, and to notice more details of the restaurant theming.

This, the dining thing, is the biggest issue I am having about planning my first solo trip. I don't have anxiety about it, but the thought of it does make me a little uncomfortable.
 


This, the dining thing, is the biggest issue I am having about planning my first solo trip. I don't have anxiety about it, but the thought of it does make me a little uncomfortable.

I dont feel uncomfortable dining alone either in TS or any other type of restaurant. I always have a book with me and my phone. I also like to people watch and take in the atmosphere of the restaurant. Just go for it, book a restaurant if you like the menu, and dont worry about what others may say.
 
Oh, please don't misunderstand, there is of course nothing better than having a meal with someone, even if its a dismeet, having someone to talk to is always better than sitting alone. I am just saying, sitting alone is not the end of the world.

That's subjective, lol. I'd rather sit alone than with someone else any day of the week!
 
having someone to talk to is always better than sitting alone..

That's subjective, lol. I'd rather sit alone than with someone else any day of the week!

I agree with @Trixie15 alot of the time I CHOOSE to sit alone in a restaurant, sometimes I just dont want to talk to anyone, I dont want to have make small talk when I just want a bit a bit of peace. I am very comfortable just going to a restaurant, including table service, fine dining if I have the money and like the menu on my own.
 
I agree with @Trixie15 alot of the time I CHOOSE to sit alone in a restaurant, sometimes I just dont want to talk to anyone, I dont want to have make small talk when I just want a bit a bit of peace. I am very comfortable just going to a restaurant, including table service, fine dining if I have the money and like the menu on my own.

Yes, I am that way inclined as well, which is why I go solo, but most people would be the other way. In any case, sitting alone or with people, the Disney restaurants are worthy of your time, for theming and food servered
 
Just back from my first solo trip to DLP and I had the BEST time! As a single mom with an elderly mom/stepdad who also rely on me, I rarely get a chance to indulge and focus only on myself. I don't think I could have been happier than I was for that 1.5 days I spent in blissful aloneness at DLP. I ate at Wine Country Trattoria and Blue Bayou solo--dinner packages at both so I could show up 15 minutes before WOC and PTN and get a great spot. I enjoyed myself beyond measure. I people watched, planned my activities for the following day, and enjoyed my meals at a leisurely pace. I didn't feel self-conscious at all. The kid at the table next to mine threw up after dinner and I was so happy that 1) he wasn't mine to worry about; 2) the wait staff cleaned it up before the yuckiness wafted over to my table; and 3) that I didn't have to cut my evening short to run back to the hotel with a sick child. I was free, and it was all about ME!

The parks were gloriously uncrowded (relatively speaking) and the weather was perfection. I did all the rides I wanted to do without so much as a whine or complaint (the beauty of traveling unaccompanied). I met some really nice people in line and had lovely conversations...when I wanted to. Nobody bothered me if I didn't initiate a conversation, which was nice too.

Did I miss my daughter and wish I was having fun with her instead of being by myself? Yes, I'll admit to that. I missed her.

But I will take another trip to DLP by myself in a heartbeat. I have a smile from ear to ear just thinking about it!
 
Just back from my first solo trip to DLP and I had the BEST time! As a single mom with an elderly mom/stepdad who also rely on me, I rarely get a chance to indulge and focus only on myself. I don't think I could have been happier than I was for that 1.5 days I spent in blissful aloneness at DLP. I ate at Wine Country Trattoria and Blue Bayou solo--dinner packages at both so I could show up 15 minutes before WOC and PTN and get a great spot. I enjoyed myself beyond measure. I people watched, planned my activities for the following day, and enjoyed my meals at a leisurely pace. I didn't feel self-conscious at all. The kid at the table next to mine threw up after dinner and I was so happy that 1) he wasn't mine to worry about; 2) the wait staff cleaned it up before the yuckiness wafted over to my table; and 3) that I didn't have to cut my evening short to run back to the hotel with a sick child. I was free, and it was all about ME!

The parks were gloriously uncrowded (relatively speaking) and the weather was perfection. I did all the rides I wanted to do without so much as a whine or complaint (the beauty of traveling unaccompanied). I met some really nice people in line and had lovely conversations...when I wanted to. Nobody bothered me if I didn't initiate a conversation, which was nice too.

Did I miss my daughter and wish I was having fun with her instead of being by myself? Yes, I'll admit to that. I missed her.

But I will take another trip to DLP by myself in a heartbeat. I have a smile from ear to ear just thinking about it!

Firstly, congratulations on taking a trip for yourself, they can be amazing. And secondly, did you mean Disneyland in california, or Disneyland Paris?
 
Firstly, congratulations on taking a trip for yourself, they can be amazing. And secondly, did you mean Disneyland in california, or Disneyland Paris?

Sorry, I meant Disneyland Resort, not Disneyland Paris! Sometimes these acronyms just trip me up!
 
One solution for those not sure about dining alone... choose places with communal seating like Biergarten and Teppan Edo or with bar seating like Flying fish.
 
This, the dining thing, is the biggest issue I am having about planning my first solo trip. I don't have anxiety about it, but the thought of it does make me a little uncomfortable.

Don't be uncomfortable. When I am on a solo trip the waiters give me more attention than anyone else with a group. You will have a great time. The best meal I have ever had is at Sanaa, AKL Kidani.
 
When I was doing the DCP the people I made friends with always were working when I was off so 90% of the time I went into the parks solo for six months. It was fantastic! I never felt uncomfortable and I did what I wanted when I wanted. Never beholding to someone else. It was great. I was always texting my gf (who was back home) so I never was to lonely. Going solo is great!
 
I completely agree! Travelling solo to disneyworld last year was something I will remember my whole life, after a terrible breakup I travelled to the U.S. for 6 weeks the first 2 weeks I spent with my sister on the west coast and did disneyland (I had been before and it was her first trip) and while it was good 2 weeks later I flew East and fulfilled my dream of visiting Disneyworld. I only had 4 days which in hindsight too little cannot wait to go back one day! Would I do it alone again of course! I had just come out of a long term relationship when I went so was not used to be alone at all let alone a million miles from home but was an amazing experience and one I will never regret! and even as a younger single female there was never i time I didn't feel safe in the parks and travelling to and from (although I did stay at a disney resort). So totally agree with original poster If u thinking of doing it just do it!

Ps I also ate at be my guest and didn't not feel out of plave at all and my server talked to me a bit ao don't give up something on your wish list because u don't have a travel buddy
 
I did five night solo trip to WDW back in 2009, and honestly it was great! It was fantastic to be able to do what I wanted when I wanted, and not have to compromise or adapt to someone else's touring style. There's so much to do that I never felt bored or lonely, and I found that people are more open to meeting and talking with strangers while they're in "vacation mode".

My only regret is that I stuck with QS restaurants, thinking it would be too awkward to eat alone at a TS place. Since that trip I've gotten married and I now have a preschooler, and a meal all alone in a restaurant sounds heavenly.
 
I loved your post, thank you. I have been contemplating a solo trip for a few months now. On my last trip this past January I chickened out and took my sister along.
But I wish I had the guts to go alone. For me the worst part is actually the rides, not the dining or characters. I'm afraid that if I do solo I won't have the guts to get on any rides.
And we're talking international travel here- that would certainly be a a wasted trip..!
Anyway, thanks for that :) I admire you.
 

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