You do realize that you are doing the very same thing?? dontcha. from you're last sentence You are assuming that folks who drive new or luxury cars can't afford the things tthat are important to them.
If you looked in my garage you'd see a 2013 Infiniti, doesn't mean I'm not frugal. it means I finally traded in my 12 year old Nissan Maxima and treated myself to a luxury car.
lol, a discount is a discount. I love my Infiniti, I work 50 miles each way from my home. I'm up and down 95 so I have no problem admitting having Sirius satelite radio is nice. Is it the most important thing in my life? No but when you spend an hour each way in city traffic having some great fleetwood Mac tunes makes the day nicer.
I've never gotten any looks but then I live in major cities all my life (NYC, Philly and DC). I think in NY where there is great wealth, people are use to going into Saks 5th ave looking "ratty" and then dropping 7K on a pocket book so there is a little less judgement.
I worked in Macy's on 34th street during Christmas holidays and that was the first thing that they made you aware of, you never know when customers with substantial wealth will roll in, treat everyone like they have a million dollar net worth.
I really think that's an old concept. thankfully I see individualism celebrated. Most women I see out and about are in nice jeans, although it's made the price of jeans ridiculous. You really can't tell who is frugal and who is not from how folks dress.
(What's up with the jeans with holes in them?
We have a mall near me called hte King of Prussa mall, one wing of it has very high end stores. Louie Vuitton, channel, that kind of stuff. you see all shapes and sizes of folks. I go in LV all the time, knowing full well I'm not buying. sales folks are as sweet as can be to everyone. offer bottled water to anyone walking in the door.