MickeySP
Cruisin with sunnies & cold longnecks
- Joined
- Jan 11, 2005
ok, confession, I actually know what I'm doing. Heck, got married,had a baby, got divorced, bought a house & got recently engaged without DIS advice but I just wanna here perspective.
So I got a wedding invitation from a friend of my DS, he is more to me than that. We took him in for 6 year when his Mom's husband threw him out at 17. He stayed for through HS graduation, through trade school & I was present not his "parents" at both grads.
Problem - he and my DS are having a tiff. It is stupid to me, but to the young & dumb it seems to matter. He said something about DIL, my DS said something about his fiancée. None of which I know is true on either side.
Now dilemma, marrying guy wants me to essentially be mother of groom, aisle, dance, toast etc. My DS is being all - DON'T!!!! My DIL is acting 12, the fiancée is acting 16. They are all late 20s, one just 30.
Now WWYD?
So I got a wedding invitation from a friend of my DS, he is more to me than that. We took him in for 6 year when his Mom's husband threw him out at 17. He stayed for through HS graduation, through trade school & I was present not his "parents" at both grads.
Problem - he and my DS are having a tiff. It is stupid to me, but to the young & dumb it seems to matter. He said something about DIL, my DS said something about his fiancée. None of which I know is true on either side.
Now dilemma, marrying guy wants me to essentially be mother of groom, aisle, dance, toast etc. My DS is being all - DON'T!!!! My DIL is acting 12, the fiancée is acting 16. They are all late 20s, one just 30.
Now WWYD?