... It is hard given up your independence when you are a admitted control freak.
Oh girl, you are preaching to the choir!
That is why I bought my own ECV. I wanted to be able to go WHERE I want, WHEN I want. I searched until I found the lightest weight ECV that I could find that would accommodate me, and I bought one used, on CraigsList, for about ½ price. Without me, it weighs 35 pounds with the battery. When I got it, the first thing I did was remove the seat back (it removes anyway to fold down into the golf-bag size bag it travels in) and put it away; I also took off the little fabric "shelf" or basket that can hold things, and reduced the weight by about 2 pounds total. An added bonus is that without the seat back, I can mount it just like a bike by holding on the handle bars.
I *GO* now. Nothing stops me. My depression is gone, because I am more "me" again.
My insurance didn't pay for it, and my husband was skeptical at first. After less than a year, he bought me a brand-new, updated version of my ECV because he saw how happy I was being able to go and do things on my own again. It arrives later TODAY, and I am so excited! New wheels, and we just booked a "surprise" trip, staying at WL for late September to catch Food & Wine, and Mickey's Not So Scary!
I'll be the one grinning, and waving like a Princess as I sail on by...
Rent the ECV. Bring (or rent) the stroller. An average family can *easily* cover 5 miles or more per day in the theme parks. Relax, and fully enjoy your trip. An ECV, a wheelchair, a cane - a stroller - all those things are TOOLS that will allow you to have the best possible vacation at WDW. Use the tools, and don't worry about it. If you use a calculator to do math? You've used a TOOL in your everyday life. Use glasses to see? Yep, those are a TOOL to improve your vision.
Mobility assistance devices are nothing more than TOOLS for those of us who have bodies that won't cooperate. Use your tools, and go on to live the incredible life you want, with your family and friends, and wonderful memories from WDW!