When does being frugal become unethical?

I have a former friend who claimed to be "frugal" by doing things that I deemed were unethical. For example, to get Florida resident tickets, she created a fake Florida college student id. She also doctored her mortgage statement with a Florida address even though she lives in NJ. She claims that she could not afford to go without doing these things.

Other things she bragged about doing were: Buying a toy at a thrift store (one of those walking dogs- new in box) and returning it a Target for full price. Abusing Bed Bath and Beyond's return policy by returning a used, beat up vacuum, (that she did not even buy there) and getting a store credit for a brand new vacuum.

She also frequently pretended to be a "poor single mom (husband lived with her)" so that her kids would be able to attend extra curricular activities for free. She is no longer my friend for obvious reasons, but I wanted to know, how far would you go to be "frugal"?
Ridiculous. Frugal? Not exactly what I would use
 
What about a wealthy household shopping at the Goodwill? A coworker said that only poor people should shop at the Goodwill. Is it unethical for someone who can afford "retail" to shop at thrift stores?
That could be considered MORE ethical because by reusing goods, you are being a better steward of the environment than purchasing new.
Goodwill uses thrift store sales to help people...again, it could be more ethical than buying new.
 
That could be considered MORE ethical because by reusing goods, you are being a better steward of the environment than purchasing new.
Goodwill uses thrift store sales to help people...again, it could be more ethical than buying new.
I think so too..but she was adamant about the person who could "afford" higher prices taking from the poor who could only afford to shop thrift.
 


What about a wealthy household shopping at the Goodwill? A coworker said that only poor people should shop at the Goodwill. Is it unethical for someone who can afford "retail" to shop at thrift stores?

Nope, Goodwill is there for everyone. Goodwill, and other charity thrift stores, survive and support whatever charity it is, because people buy things there. If only poor people shopped there, they would not sell a whole lot of goods.

I don't see any signs that say, "This store is only for the poor. If you make over $XX amount per year, you are not allowed to shop here."
 
Some of you are either trying to make this really difficult for others to figure out or you're just trying to stir the pot.

Goodwill has no restrictions and is not there for "poor" people to buy from. It exists to resell donated items to raise money for Goodwill charities. They donate to schools and help out others. Used to be only disabled people that were helped.

Knockoff Designer items that are labeled to appear as the real thing is illegal (and unethical). If it just looks like (style) then it's neither.

As for the teenagers sharing a kids meal and scarfing up ketchup, that is a parental issue and has nothing to do with this thread's subject.

Here's the easy way to decide. Does what someone does impact others (i.e., increase costs for all due to theft, returning items not purchased there to a store), if it does, then it's unethical and probably illegal. If what someone does only benefits them (i.e., shopping thrift stores, eating a kids meal), then, no it's not unethical. Couponing is a good example as it's completely ethical and encouraged, although in my opinion, the extreme couponers waste a lot of their time doing so, it's still not wrong in any way. Too many self-serving people try to justify their behavior because they "can't afford" it otherwise. Oh well, get over it. I can't afford a Lamborghini but that doesn't mean I'm entitled to one.
 


Isn't the whole knockoff thing somewhat of a grey area? I use a laptop with Microsoft Windows that was basically a knockoff off the operating system that Apple was using. Apple also copied the look and feel of the operating system from something Xerox developed but was too stupid to realize what a goldmine they had and never fully developed it.
 
Isn't the whole knockoff thing somewhat of a grey area? I use a laptop with Microsoft Windows that was basically a knockoff off the operating system that Apple was using. Apple also copied the look and feel of the operating system from something Xerox developed but was too stupid to realize what a goldmine they had and never fully developed it.

As someone said upthread, it depends on if its a counterfeit - which infringes on someone's copyright (or what you are talking about is patents) or a knockoff.

(Computer companies pay a lot of money to each other to use each others patented technology - and spend a lot of time suing each other over infringement).
 
As someone said upthread, it depends on if its a counterfeit - which infringes on someone's copyright (or what you are talking about is patents) or a knockoff.

(Computer companies pay a lot of money to each other to use each others patented technology - and spend a lot of time suing each other over infringement).

That is why I think it is a grey area. If it wasn't a grey area patent lawyers wouldn't have a booming business. Obviously an identical copy of a patented product is illegal.
 
That is why I think it is a grey area. If it wasn't a grey area patent lawyers wouldn't have a booming business. Obviously an identical copy of a patented product is illegal.

It isn't that grey at all when you are talking about counterfeit products. Knockoffs - ethical, counterfeit - illegal in addition to being unethical.
 

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