Disney Trip with ex-husband

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mamaesq75

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• Apr 8, 2015

• #1

My ex and I have a comfortable co-parenting relationship and took many trips to Disney (with and without kids) while married. We've been divorced for about 4 years and have decided to take the kids together. We're staying in a one bedroom suite

Are we crazy? Any advice from those who have tried this?

Thanks.

 

goofystitchfan

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• Apr 8, 2015

• #2

I have no advice, but applaud you both of being able to do that for your kid(s).

 

msmama

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• Apr 8, 2015

• #3

My second trip with my ex is coming up in about a month. We generally spend most of our time together but we also do both take some alone time. It's also way easier than a solo trip (which I have also done).

I don't have any specific advice or anything , but have fun!

 

Bluegrrl

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• Apr 8, 2015

• #4

Where? What suite? Cause I would spring for a two bedroom, if only to give the kids some room or whatever. Are you guys going to sleep together, where will the kids sleep, etc?

And, btw, you guys are awesome for doing this "for the kids" Cause I went with a soon-to-be-ex in college, and it was horrid. I thought I could "get him back" and that was the furthest thing from his mind. Pretty bad. So like others are saying, good for you guys!

 

hkkatie

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• Apr 9, 2015

• #5

My only thought would be to make sure the sleeping arrangements are agreed upon before the trip!

 

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Thing 1

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• Apr 9, 2015

• #6

You children are so lucky to have parents that co-parent well. I agree to work out all the details ahead of time concerning space and money, time etc. Also be very sure that the trip does not give your kids the impression that you guys are again one big happy family. Communication is going to be key.

 

I M Fearless

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• Apr 21, 2015

• #7

What fantastic parents to work so well together.

My parents hate each other with a passion. They divorced 6 months after our first trip to Disney World. It wasn't WDW that tipped them over the edge, they couldn't stand each other for years before that. I doubt they would even be comfortable in the same airport let alone hotel!

I would talk to each other about your expectations and as others have said ensure the children have a good understanding of what the situation is.

I honestly think if you get on well enough day to day life the arrangement would make for a great trip for you and your children.

 

wdwchamp

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• Apr 21, 2015

• #8

I just had my christmas trip with my wife, her ex and our 2 boys. Like yourself we have a good relationship with the ex and he is involved with the boys as often as he can make it. Our trip went well and we shared a room at CBR. The boys spent special time with their dad. It took the stress off myself and the wife taking care of the boys. If you have a good relationship before the trip, I doubt it will change during or after the trip. Just have fun and enjoy the experience.

 

ADisneyQueen

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• Apr 21, 2015

• #9

wdwchamp said:

I just had my christmas trip with my wife, her ex and our 2 boys. Like yourself we have a good relationship with the ex and he is involved with the boys as often as he can make it. Our trip went well and we shared a room at CBR. The boys spent special time with their dad. It took the stress off myself and the wife taking care of the boys. If you have a good relationship before the trip, I doubt it will change during or after the trip. Just have fun and enjoy the experience.

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Do you mean all 5 of you shared a room at CBR?

 

wdwchamp

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• Apr 22, 2015

• #10

Yes we were lucky it getting one of new renovated rooms with two twins and a murphy bed in the room.

 

ADisneyQueen

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• Apr 22, 2015

• #11

wdwchamp said:

Yes we were lucky it getting one of new renovated rooms with two twins and a murphy bed in the room.

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Sorry I wasn't accusing you of having too many people in the room. Just thought it would be awkward for the adults having husband, wife and ex-husband sharing a room and bathroom.

 

wdwchamp

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• Apr 23, 2015

• #12

It wasn't awkward at all. Everyone enjoyed their time at Disney