So, my actual questions:
1. Which one is more enjoyable for a rambunctious 6 year old?
I personally like both meals but he would probably love the dance parties with Mickey and the other characters at surfs up.
2. Is this breakfast going to completely take over our whole morning?
It should take 1-2 hours
3. Do you recommend we do the breakfast on our first day in
Disneyland or our second day (we're doing 2 days in DL, one day in CA, and we aren't getting park hoppers).
if you do surfs up I would recommend you do it on a non park day if you have one so you can be in the parks as much as possible.
4. How quick on the draw do I need to be tomorrow making reservations?
you have time. It doesn't fill up that fast.
5. Is there any preferred seating or secret tip or suggestion I can ask for that is lesser known that might make the experience even more enjoyable? Something neat that I don't know about?
When being seated I like to be in the middle of the room. When they out you in the back or a corner I felt that we did not get as much character interaction. When we were at Minnie's the last time we went we were in a corner and the back and some of the characters couldn't even fit to come see us so we had about 6 characters that skipped us and that was really dissapointing.