Sheree Bobbins
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 9, 2000
I come to the Dis with my relationship questions. This is the same friend who called me "curt" a few months back. Since our friendship deepened, I notice that she has this characteristic of always having the last word, or being "right."
Because I value the friendship, I say nothing. But does it really matter who is "right?" For instance, I say, my sister really suffered with the flu last week. Here I am feeling sorry for my sister. My friend, says, "It probably wasn't the flu. It was the Norowalk virus. Look it up and you'll see I am right."
Well, I was still wanting sympathy for my sister, but I did go and look it up. And DANG, my friend was right. I guess I don't always want an intellectual respone, but a humane one.
Anyone else bothered by this?
Because I value the friendship, I say nothing. But does it really matter who is "right?" For instance, I say, my sister really suffered with the flu last week. Here I am feeling sorry for my sister. My friend, says, "It probably wasn't the flu. It was the Norowalk virus. Look it up and you'll see I am right."
Well, I was still wanting sympathy for my sister, but I did go and look it up. And DANG, my friend was right. I guess I don't always want an intellectual respone, but a humane one.
Anyone else bothered by this?