roliepolieoliefan
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My DD is in 5th grade. 11 years old. There's a boy in her class that "liked" her.
Since November this little crush was going on. They bought something small for each other for Christmas. Obviously they never went anywhere together alone. But a group of kids usually walk to Starbucks after school on Fridays. Sometimes they did that with the group but that's it.
DD was really upset Tuesday, crying . Found out " boyfriend" "broke up" with her. His excuse was she was cheating on him because she was talking to another boy in their class. Huh?
A little possessive at 11.
But it didn't stop there. He sent her nasty messages tuesday evening on Instagram.
Blocked him. Then he had his friend do it on Wednesday Blocked all his friends.
She has a snapchat account but doesn't go on it that often. Lo and behold I just looked at it a few min ago and there's a message from him that read: go die in a ditch by a terrorist.
I am so ticked I want to string that kid up.
She hadn't talked to him today. She was with me all day (snow day) and all her electronics are taken away for a completely unrelated reason.
This can't go on. Do I just let it play out? Call the parents ? ( I don't know them)
I'm beyond ticked.
Kind of scary too that if he acts like this at 11, what will he be like in say 10 years ?
Any advice appreciated.
Since November this little crush was going on. They bought something small for each other for Christmas. Obviously they never went anywhere together alone. But a group of kids usually walk to Starbucks after school on Fridays. Sometimes they did that with the group but that's it.
DD was really upset Tuesday, crying . Found out " boyfriend" "broke up" with her. His excuse was she was cheating on him because she was talking to another boy in their class. Huh?
A little possessive at 11.
But it didn't stop there. He sent her nasty messages tuesday evening on Instagram.
Blocked him. Then he had his friend do it on Wednesday Blocked all his friends.
She has a snapchat account but doesn't go on it that often. Lo and behold I just looked at it a few min ago and there's a message from him that read: go die in a ditch by a terrorist.
I am so ticked I want to string that kid up.
She hadn't talked to him today. She was with me all day (snow day) and all her electronics are taken away for a completely unrelated reason.
This can't go on. Do I just let it play out? Call the parents ? ( I don't know them)
I'm beyond ticked.
Kind of scary too that if he acts like this at 11, what will he be like in say 10 years ?
Any advice appreciated.