I've only been around the DIS a couple of years, and to be honest, I never really thought about finding someone here. I'm happily single, but would love to meet a man who shares my affinity for Mouse culture.
I have never had much luck with online dating, and the older I get (43 now), the more difficult it gets. I *have* had luck with meeting long-time friends via message boards (other interests outside of Disney). Some of my most cherished friends I've had for over a decade and may have seen them face-to-face one time or not at all.
I'm planning a big solo trip for 2019 (celebrate my 45th birthday!), and I'd love to meet up with some folks I befriend on here. If some of those folks turn out to be single dudes, all the better!
I probably need to hang out in parts of the boards other than the credit card churning thread from time to time though if I'm going to "meet" anyone. Hee hee.