DisneyFan32WI
Grumpy Cat
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- Apr 5, 2008
I disliked the photo. EDITED TO ADD: I just saw there were more pictures! I felt very, very uncomfortable with all except the first one.
I breastfed both my kids for a few months each. Once they got teeth and could eat baby food out of a jar or rice, I bowed out!
I have somewhat of a strange stance on breastfeeding. I believe every woman should at least attempt it. I don't understand why some don't even try? After all, that's what they are made for! (I'm talking healthy women who wouldn't have a very valid medical reason not to). I completely understand that some women have a difficult time with it (I'm one of those who had cracking, bleeding, mastitis, lack of milk, etc). I still continued on and didn't give up because I had an enormous amount of pressure from my own mother. I felt as though I was a failure every time I mentioned wanting to quit. She lived nearby and was always over. In hindsight, I wish she didn't meddle quite so much, although I know she had good intentions and was just trying to help.
Now, on the flip side..... I also don't like seeing kids being breastfed too long either. The nutritional value just isn't there at some point, and children need to be moving on to other foods and drink. I don't understand the need for mothers to be that attached. For me, that age cut-off would be somewhere around 9-10 months before it starts to make me feel uncomfortable (like looking at the photo in the OP).
BUT... my kids are all grown up now. I don't know if I'd feel or act any differently now if I had to do it all over again. I personally wouldn't judge anyone if I saw them out in public whether they were breastfeeding or bottle feeding babies (up until the age where I find it uncomfortable). I don't notice that kind of thing. It's not an issue that bothers me either way. Sure, I have an opinion, but it isn't very strong.
I breastfed both my kids for a few months each. Once they got teeth and could eat baby food out of a jar or rice, I bowed out!
I have somewhat of a strange stance on breastfeeding. I believe every woman should at least attempt it. I don't understand why some don't even try? After all, that's what they are made for! (I'm talking healthy women who wouldn't have a very valid medical reason not to). I completely understand that some women have a difficult time with it (I'm one of those who had cracking, bleeding, mastitis, lack of milk, etc). I still continued on and didn't give up because I had an enormous amount of pressure from my own mother. I felt as though I was a failure every time I mentioned wanting to quit. She lived nearby and was always over. In hindsight, I wish she didn't meddle quite so much, although I know she had good intentions and was just trying to help.
Now, on the flip side..... I also don't like seeing kids being breastfed too long either. The nutritional value just isn't there at some point, and children need to be moving on to other foods and drink. I don't understand the need for mothers to be that attached. For me, that age cut-off would be somewhere around 9-10 months before it starts to make me feel uncomfortable (like looking at the photo in the OP).
BUT... my kids are all grown up now. I don't know if I'd feel or act any differently now if I had to do it all over again. I personally wouldn't judge anyone if I saw them out in public whether they were breastfeeding or bottle feeding babies (up until the age where I find it uncomfortable). I don't notice that kind of thing. It's not an issue that bothers me either way. Sure, I have an opinion, but it isn't very strong.
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