I believe Vickie has a terrible way of expressing herself but many times, she says it like it is. I believe she knows that Meghan is a trophy wife and was saying what a lot of people are thinking. In their circle, marriages don't tend to last long so you need a back up plan. I was a stay at home mom and it did hit me the wrong way at first when she said
"his" money but I think she was driving home the point to make a plan for yourself "in case". I actually did the same to my two daughters. Be self sufficient, if someone comes along great. We were pretty middle class and if we spent anything over $100,($500 now adays) we discussed it. (both of us). I wouldn't say it was because I was spending his money but because I was spending our money. I expected the same from him.
Jim being gone, the problem I have with that is he moved Meghan out to CA, doesn't give her an itinerary. There are rumors out there and has been for a long time that she's a beard. My ex had to travel, I knew what town he was in, what hotel, when he would be home.