The feeling is mutual
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But to play along, let's say my favourite restaurant serves a dish I absolutely love. This dish happens to cost tons of money, but I gladly spend it because I love it. One day the restaurant decides it's more beneficial for them to make the dish extremely spicy. I do not like spicy at all. Do I need to buy this expensive dish again to know I won't like it? Or can I safely say since I don't like spicy food I won't like the dish?
So there are two sides to that, and I see both.
My dog eats some pretty sick stuff. I am pretty sure I wouldn't like it. Example - stuff in the cat litter box. I have never tried it, and I really don't feel the need to. I can state with some good certainty that I would not enjoy that particualr dog treat. Yet she swears by it. I get that.
On the flip side, I was pretty sure I didn't like broadway plays. I kept that view for a very long time. never tried it, but never felt the need - I had seen them on TV and found them boring. I lived perfectly content with that belief for 30 years. After all, I HAD seen them on TV so I even argued I had tried them. My girlfriend dragged me to one in my late 30's. Now I love them.
So I know wht you are saying, but I am also not positivie it's an apple to apple compare.
For the record, I have tried the system. I don't hate it, but there are a few issues that I really do not like.
And I think that's legit. I also think tweaks are to be expected and it's fair and positive to have feedback for Disney. They may not always take everything you personally want done and do it, but I also think they care about the opinions of the masses and will enact reasonable changes to the system to make it better for everyone.
I just think it's ridiculous how people's negative opinions are constantly dismissed because they haven't tried it.
An experienced Disney fan can read facts about FP+ and know how it will impact them.
My concern is not the experienced disney fan's who mostly know better and know to take the internet with a grain of salt, and know what Disney can and can't and do and doesn't do.
My concern is the average newcomer who has never been and is starting off what should be one of the happiest times in their lives that they paid a lot of money in order to be able to do - maybe only once in their lives - and they are starting off with all these negative vibes.
It kind of ruins the magic that they should be able to enjoy. One can argue they do it to themselves by coming here, but on the other hand I don't think Disney is just a vacation. I think it's an experience and it should be enjoyed not when you get to the airport, but months before. Coming to boards like these and learning and seeing and PART of that experience.
But we few who should be the abassadors and help spreading the magic are ruining it.
Take the
Disney Cruise lines as an example. My first cruise I had no idea was fish extenders were. By my second, we were fully engaged making FE's for all the cabins and doing lots of cool stuff. And it was cool and fun and the thing I loved the most is it WASN'T DISNEY DOING IT. It was US. The fans. The people on the ship. You and Me. WE WERE THE MAGIC. We were taking what Disney had created and making it better - not just for us, but for random people we didn't know and never really would. And that was COOL, because the magic wasn't Disney's. It was OURS.
Instead we here are killing it for the random others. And that's really, really sad.
Anyway... off my soap box.