We would never do reserved seating and none of my gripes or complaints were about the crowds or the " stampede" at the beginning as some like to call it. That part is fine and I still think greatly exaggerated to make owe paying $50-100 more feel justified in that.
My gripes were about the party itself. The quality of food was way down. Save for 1 or 2 items, there was nothing I wanted to go back for more of. Almost every winery was from CA. Not much variety in the wines. The performance by Cirque was not what it usually is. One acrobatic segment and the rest was just music. Good music but just music. I enjoy the Cirque piece so this was a disappointment. By adding reserved seating, more space was taken up and they cut the number of standing hi- tops way back. This made it no longer a viable cocktail party but more like a buffet/ banquet. Not what it is supposed to me but all the people clamor ing and griping for years about tables finally got their way and made it into a different type of event.
Now, it is possible we just had a week where the offerings weren't things we personally loved. We head back again on Saturday night so I am hoping my review will be that the food was great and there were lots of things we loved. Let's see.
And, BTW, the grapefruit beer is absolutely out of this world good. And if you get there early enough, the glasses they were giving away were awesome and far, far, nicer that the F&W event wine glasses.