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- Sep 14, 2009
I don't think anyone walks the perfect parenting line between being over protective and under protective. We all do our best based on what we know about the world and what we know about our children.
The hardest thing about parenting IMO is pulling back a little....taking the training wheels off.....letting them go to the mall with friends....letting them drive the car...first date....spend the night with friends....go camping with his buddies.....going to girl scout summer camp....
We want to protect our children but we also want to prepare them to face the real world. Be too protective and you will find yourseld sending a 'child' off to college instead of a young adult. Not be protective enough and we put them in a situation they are not prepared for yet.
Read the various opinions on the matter but in the end, trust your instincts as a parent. Only you know your child.
Yep, this is exactly what I am going through right now. She has been going to Girl Scout camp since age 6. I don't know those camp counselors, anything could happen there. So does that mean I don't send her? No, I understand that something horrible could happen at anytime, but I can't keep her tied to me forever.