During the meals, can you seat yourself, or do you have assigned seating? Are you seated with the same people each time? If so, does Disney try to seat families of the approximate same age together? Thought it'd be nice if our son could have other kids his age at the table. Long time ago when we took a RC cruise, (pre-kid) I do remember our table mates were the same at each meal, and we were put with other grownups around our age, no kids at all at our table.