I was a CM for the past 3 years and I learned 2 great things: I can't wait to have kids and bring them to 1 of my favorite places in the world and 2. Disney is 1 of the best forms of birth control ever (besides Walmart)
So when I have children, some things I will hopefully remember are: Not to drag a young, screaming, terrified child onto a ride they are truly scared of. It's not worth it to traumatize them and ruin the experience for the guests around you. I realize all kids are different, but I refuse to do this. Rider switches are there for a reason!
Not take children until they are old enough to remember and appreciate it. I have no problems w/young children because they can see the magic in the smallest things, but I want the vacation to be worth it! And no strollers! I've dealt w/more strollers in my lifetime and I don't even have kids yet!
I love the ideas of bringing goodie bags from home because I know firsthand how expensive Disney things are. And no balloons! Biggest waste of $15 dollars ever, no matter how cool they look!
Not going during the summertime, Christmas time, Spring Break or New Years Day. (Fun fact: Ya'll know how insane it is on NY's Eve but people are dying to see the MK fireworks? They do the exact same fireworks Dec. 30 as a test run. It's still crowded, but definitely better than NY's Eve!) During those times, working 60-90 hour weeks was common so I know what the parks are like! I will always try to pull my kids out of school. Easier said than done, I know! But it's not worth it. Ever. I applaud all of you who brave the chaos!