maxiesmom
The Mean Squinty Eye Works
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- Jul 6, 2004
So the aunt has no fault in this for inviting herself and increasing her domination of their vacation? Just because you are old doesn't mean you have the right to expect others to bow down to your wishes. If it does then we have a he k of a mess coming when we have millions of old baby boomers in this country.
OP is compromising. The aunt can stay 2 days. What compromise has the aunt made?
I'm not saying the Aunt is faultless. But I'm saying if she is getting on in years, and this is something she has looked forward to for a long time, then the OP should be the bigger person. Sometimes that is what you do for family members. Not play tit for tat. I did this, now you do that.
And it could very well be that the OP would regret her actions if she tells her Aunt she is not welcome.
I think you are right though. If so many people don't treasure or honor their older family members, it is going to be a sad time in this country. What happened to having respect for your elders? It is pretty sad that an Aunt wanting to include themselves in a family trip equals them expecting someone to bow down to them.
I really get the feeling that many of you don't love and treasure any family members outside of your own immediate family. If you aren't a husband or wife or child you don't count for much. And that is very sad.