I see the point you're trying to make, but I'm wondering if you are going to be there to bail them out should things go poorly.
I think the point that Dean was trying to make (and if it's not then I'll make it) is that the pattern of buying first and paying second has had some very disastrous consequences for many American families. As our reliance on debt continues to grow, our ability to achieve financial independence is compromised. I can see how this can appear to be a conversation surrounding haves and have nots, but that's really not the case. The crux of our argument is that delayed gratification is a more financially prudent strategy for any major purchase, especially a luxury one such as DVC. Delayed gratification, not no gratification.
I'm glad your strategy for acquiring the things you want has been working for you. But for many, that strategy keeps people in a perpetual cycle of having to borrow to buy the things they want. Think about it this way...if you spent the early years of your life as a saver and got to a point in your mid life where you had no car payments, no mortgage and no debt, think about how much money you would have on a monthly basis to indulge yourself on things like vacations, DVC and the like. I'm not suggesting that there are people out there who should not own DVC. What I am suggesting is that some people (like me when I was in my 20s) should delay these types of purchases until they are on a more stable financial footing (like me in my 30s). I'm sorry if these opinions are offensive to anyone, as that is not my intent. There is a continuum that has complete financial responsibility on one side and complete enjoyment on the other. It's important for people to figure out where they lie on this continuum and make decisions accordingly. As long as they are well informed and prepared to live with the consequences, it makes no difference to me what decision they make. My only goal is to add a different perspective to the conversation and help point out some potential pitfalls. I'm certainly not here to judge and I apologize if it comes across as if that's what I'm doing.