the problem is ..it isnt just a few seconds..most of the time ...sometimes severak minutes..whatever it is on that phone is not that important.
With all due respect, that's not your judgement to make.
I have been running my own business since my kids were 3 and 1 yrs old. I have a private office in my home. I'm here when the kids leave for school in the morning and when they step off the bus that afternoon.
Over the last 8 years I have spent FAR more quality time with my children than anyone who works a 40 hr/week job outside of the home.
The trade off is that I don't get to take "vacation time." I'm on call 24/7. That means taking the occasional phone call, monitoring emails and other minor duties anywhere from the Grand Canyon to Walt Disney World. All total, it's a few minutes of my day. And I can guarantee my children aren't moping around thinking "gee, I wish dad had time for us."
Other times I'm using the phone, tasks may include:
- Taking photos of our
family.
- Posting photos to Facebook so that
family members who are not on the trip can still share our adventures.
- Looking at the Hidden Mickey app as our
family searches for the little buggers.
- Double-checking ADR times of our
family meals.
- Checking ride wait times. (Please don't tell me I'd be a better father if I dragged my kids across the park to view the Standby board for Splash Mountain rather than looking on my smartphone.)