Hi girls! I've been a lurker for a while but finally decided to join in on the fun! My wedding is this November and I hadn't realized how behind I was on planning till I came on here! We're getting married aboard the Magic, as it just worked out well for timing. The last time I was aboard a
Disney Cruise ship was when I was 9 and that was the Wonder, so I feel a bit clueless to the
DCL thing.
I have a couple of questions, as I am a very young teen bride and in college, I'm trying to get the most "bang for my buck" with my DCL wedding. Which options are worth the extra cost in your opinion? I definitely know I can't do an outside photographer, too pricey for us. Instead we are using the DCL photographer and my bridesmaid who is an amateur but still very good is taking our pictures too. What about the other extra expenses? Are they worth it?
How does everyone feel about welcome bags/favors? I noticed most brides did some and I just can't imagine packing so much extra stuff but I really want to thank my guests for coming so far. We live in CA, so it's a long journey. It is beginning to look like a lot more people are coming than we expected, I'm thinking 30+(we expected 15ish).
Also, for anyone who got married aboard the Magic, where did you have your ceremony? The Sessions lounge just doesn't seem appealing for a wedding but maybe it's nicer than it seems. Our party may be way too big for the deck, so I guess its our only choice.
Thanks everyone!
Welcome Aboard! Unfortunately, I'm most versed with the Dream and how they do weddings on that ship, but the general procedure for DCL weddings should be the same. I'll be sailing on the Wonder in a couple weeks if you want me to do some investigating for you. I know it's not the Magic, but they're similar since they're sister ships.
I know how you feel with having more people join you than expected. I was under the impression that I might get 15-20 guests and I would up with a party of 47! My party was too large for the standard on-board wedding locations, but everything turned out beautifully even with the added stress of more guests!
I agree that it's a nice gesture to give favor bags to your guests since they're making a large commitment to come on a cruise wedding
I ironed on a custom made wedding logo (designed by DIS-igners, you just have to find the right forum and ask nicely!) onto canvas bags and twist-tied them to the "Fish Extenders" by their stateroom doors. I included an essentials kit (plastic baggie with Mickey band aids, single-use polysporin, sunscreen, antibacterial wet ones hand wipes, shout wipes, q-tips, safety pins), Pixie Dust vials, Handmade Mickey soaps, glow sticks, customized matchbooks, Door magnets for every guest, Ring Pop candies, Lip Balm... Every time I go over the contents of my bags, I feel like I forget things because there was SO much in there! I collected (and made!) my items over time so it wasn't such a shock on my wallet! Check out my PJ for more info on that- I was a very very DIY bride!!! (Also, if you want, I can make pixie dust vials or Mickey soaps for you, just PM me or message me from my Etsy) I also saved some money by having my friends deliver all of my guests favor bags instead of having them delivered by DCL... they had a lot of fun on their scavenger hunt hanging favor bags and sticking magnets to the doors!!!
If you're looking to stretch your money the farthest on the cruise wedding package, I would not worry myself of a lot of add-ons. The only extras I paid for were 5 Mickey crystals for my bouquet! I would have LOVED to have Mickey and Minnie there for us and our guests, but there wasn't room in our budget. To me, photography was one of my top priorities so we brought photographers onboard with us. I just didn't have any friends or family known with a knack for photography! I was also fortunate enough that one of my guests is a professional cosmetologist, so she did my hair and makeup onboard without needing to go to the salon! Also, instead of paying for floral for my family (boutonnieres, corsages, and bridesmaid bouquet) we made our own out of silk flowers and saved a lot of money. It was time consuming, but rewarding! Keep in mind that there's TONS of wedding DIY tutorials all over the internet, and make best friends with Pinterest if you haven't already
You can really customize your own wedding by adding personalized touches! I would also check out freckledginger's PJ, she had a lot of great ideas for her wedding!
I'm curious about your sailing! Are you leaving out of LA? How many nights are you sailing and what's the itinerary? I've only embarked from Port Canaveral (and soon I'll try Miami!) so I'm incredibly curious about other types of sailings! Welcome again to the boards! I'm excited for you!!