DDC XXV: It’s a Special Holiday Episode of the DISDad’s Club

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Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry it didn't work out. As stated, things usually happen for a reason.
 
We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry to hear it and glad you are ok.
 
If the shirts had "Disdad's Man Date" across the back Aaron would have had a much harder time getting people interested in them.

:rotfl::rotfl2::lmao:

Hey Mark. There is still time....

Come on...everybody's doing it...:wave2:

If I actually could expense the whole thing, I'd be on the first plane down there!

Instead, it'll be a vicarious trip.:sad1:

:wave2:

Back at work (and the DIS) after a nice long 5 day weekend. 2 days of work, 2 days off, a half day of work on Monday, the longest Tuesday imaginable, then I'm on an airplane for the DisDad's Play Date (or whatever we're calling it now:rotfl2:)

DW's birthday is the day we fly down. We arrive just after 4 and her parents are picking us up so we can bypass ME and go straight for the MK where it's going to be Casey's Corn Dogs (her favorite), a Dole Whip or two (duh) and WISHES. Pretty good way to spend a birthday. :thumbsup2

Sounds awesome! I'm making you an honorary state worker with that schedule.
 


Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com
What an interesting story. I'm sorry things didn't work out, but it seems she just doesn't want to be here for one reason or another. I guess if I think about it this way, I'd think it would be hard for any 14 year old to want to leave everything and everyone they know to move almost half way around the world. I pray for the best for her and your family.
 
Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

So sorry to hear this didn't work out. From what I've read on here from you and just now reading your wifes blog this sounds like it has been a very trying and confusing couple of weeks or even months. The fact that you even put yourselves out there is very admirable. I hope that you can find peace in the decision.:hug:
 
Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Sorry to hear that, Chris. I know this has been in the works for a long time and you were excited about it. But if she doesn't want to be there, then it's the only possible outcome. I hope she'll be ok. And I know better days are ahead for you.
 
What an interesting story. I'm sorry things didn't work out, but it seems she just doesn't want to be here for one reason or another. I guess if I think about it this way, I'd think it would be hard for any 14 year old to want to leave everything and everyone they know to move almost half way around the world. I pray for the best for her and your family.

Indeed. The girl is in a tough spot no matter what. While I think she made the wrong decision, it's her decision. On the bright side, there's still time to get my money back on Rosetta Stone! Considering I just dropped a sizable sum of $$ on a 10-day non-expiring parkhopper, I think I'll return it.
 
Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com
Sorry to hear that Chris. As others have said, it's got to be quite confusing for a 14 year old girl to visit another country and another family and grasp the fact that they want you to live with them and be your family. Something good will come from this, you just need to have a little faith.

Sounds awesome! I'm making you an honorary state worker with that schedule.
Sweet! Do I get my own shovel to lean on?

You're right. I need to give him several forms to fill out in triplicate.
I assume as an honorary state worker, there will be someone else I can pass this menial task on to, right?
 
Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen...

Read your wife's blog and very sorry that it didn't happen. Your family's compassion and caring is admirable. I hope the best for her.
 
Seems like there would be more red tape than this.

Nem, saw your meetup on facebook for the half; Not sure how many of us are doing the full, but let me know when you're in the bag drop area for the full if you want to meet up quick. What corral are you in?
 
Fellas-
My grand plan to set up a thread to keep people updated on our adoption story just isn't going to happen. It's more work than I care to do and I can sum up the whole thing with this:

It ain't gonna happen.

We had a long talk (via google translate) with her last night where my wife and I were pretty much the only ones talking. We asked if she wanted us to come to Ukraine and get her. She said no. So that's the end of that. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement. DW and I are doing fine. I'm not sad at all- in fact I'm relieved that after 5 months of wondering, we at least have an answer and can now think about other things.

Oh yeah- if you want details and pictures, my wife kept a blog. www.themoretheperryer.blogspot.com

Chris...I am so sorry to hear this!!! Those of us who have adopted know how the process is a roller coaster of emotions and we all fear the outcome that has come to be for you guys. Sure will be pryaing for you. God has a mighty plan in store for you...this heartbreak is going to prepare you in some way for what God has ahead!! Is adoption something you think you will attempt again?
 
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