More than anything - this family member was lonely. This family member stayed at a time share, which we advised against. This person complained from day one that following the schedule was a pain. We met at Downtown Disney in the evening the first night. If the bus wasn't caught, then the next one wouldn't be for another 4 hours. Another day, this person wanted to go to Epcot, missed the bus, and another wasn't for awhile.
The first meeting down there (at DTD) the first thing this person said was that we looked stupid in our mickey ears and to take them immediately off. Wearing them is not unusual for us - DFi has an album full of us in ears at the parks.
We'd ask what this person wanted to do. "I don't care". Then when we'd suggest something, it was like we were twisting an arm to do it.
Not to mention the whole trip was booked around one event - and the family member knew this when they booked. This family member then booked a F&W non-refundable event at the same time for all of us! When I went to the event that I booked the whole trip around, apparently this family member didn't like it. When DFi finally met up with me, they texted the whole time. It was a complete waste of time because I couldn't enjoy myself while they were texting back and forth.
Apparently, this person felt like a third wheel and was lonely. However, the whole time we were there, they'd walk together - not include me. I'd be a few strangers behind them. The most awkward interaction was when a CM congratulated DFi (wearing just engaged button). Family member thanks them. CM sees me a few people behind, wishes me well wishes - and asks where DFi is. I told the CM he was a few people ahead - that he already congratulated him. He looked confused - and I said "oh his family member thanked you" and was even more confused and asked why we weren't walking together. And this was the whole trip.
This person is not unfamiliar with Disney. It was just... Missing the SO. And unfortunately, the SO probably wouldn't make it for the wedding either. Disney would serve as the honeymoon - which both of our families would make into a vacation. My family was there this time and didn't bother us. But if the wedding trip is anything like this past trip - I want NO PART of it! Being told you look stupid and constantly being left behind isn't how I enjoy my vacation. Toward the end, I told DFi I'd rather just tour by myself but wouldn't have any part of it.
Umm... I guess that's been building up... Whoops.... But truthfully - I don't know what to do. Help!