irishsharon
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- Jul 6, 2010
I know this is not a budget question but I love all the great people on the budget board So here is the vent/problem ds is 10 and has ADHD and this is his 3rd year in the co-teaching class,he is friends(more so this year than the last two years) with a boy who has aspergers.First let me say we really like his friend! His friend just joined cub scouts and is in ds den.We went on a camp weekend, this boy and his parents came for the day.The parents.who I have only meet twice,started correcting both of my children.Later I found out when they left that they had talked about my boys to the other parents(we are a small den of five boys total).The other parents just meet these parents that day and my son has been in this den for 3 years!One parent told me she said that my child was the reason her son would get in trouble.The parent told her that she had a hard time believing that since she has known my child for 3 years and before my ds had even arrived her child was asked to leave the bebe gun area for not following the rules.It was a very frustrating day as anything my ds said or did was an issue with them.My ds does dwell on things and it can be annoying at times but my son is a people pleaser and not a behavior problem(never been in trouble in school EVER!)her son however has.I want to say dh and I where there and where on top of things but it did not matter they kept on my son for eveery word or action at one point my ds said to them I'm sorry I talk to much.I will now see at least one of these parents every week What would you do or say?really need adviceWant to nip this in the bud Thanks everyone for listening I needed to get this of my chest.