Give the kid a break will ya!
She has just found out what she has been married to. She's at a low point in her life when and all her dreams and hopes have just been crushed, and she has pregnant horomones to deal with. Sheeesh, talk about kicking someone when they are down! She needs to sort out what she will be doing, making some very important decisions that will effect her and her son for the rest of their lives. No one is saying she is going to stay with him- she herself isn't sure what she should do. That is why she is posting, to get some other perspectives in her plans. From her posts, moving to Canada is a very real possibility, or she wouldn't have mentioned it in the first place. She needs people to bounce ideas off of, and support. I really hope you didn't mean for your post to have the tone I read in it.