I have a question, and I'd like to direct it to the gentlemen on the forum, does meeting up in the park with another solo traveler (particularly of the opposite gender) constitute a "date"??
To me, if you are planning on spending time at the parks and feel like "hanging out" with someone else for the day, that does NOT make it a date. you would have been in the park anyway, and the likelyhood of you meeting that particular person in a sea of Disney travelers is very small. plus there's the concept of you meeting up with several solo travelers (the whole DIS meet up thing) and we know that doesn't meet the standard of a "date". the reason I ask is because there are people that see a meet up as just that; a date...now...if something comes out of it afterwards, it is what it is, and you two can move on with whatever you wish to do.
Birdman is right, it's a little creepy/stalkerish to ask girls (or guys) on a date on the board....that being said, you should be prepared to be turned down that same way
Thats a really good question and, unfortunately, its something that could easily snowball out of control. And really, its based on two things: matter of opinion and circumstances.
So, before I answer the question, remember...its only my opinion, everybody is different and has the right to formulate their own
If somebody asks another person on here of the opposite gender(and who they've never met before in person) to meet up at WDW, just the two of them, then thats exactly what it should be, a meet up. Even if lets say, you've really connected with somebody you've met on here, and eventually it came to a point where you've exchanged personal contact information(facebook, phone #, etc.), it should still constitute as a meet up simply because you have to know that this person you've been speaking to for however long that you've met behind a computer screen is the ACTUAL person they've been portraying..and once you do meet this person, and everything seems to be in place, then you go from there..if something comes out of it(dating, relationship, etc.)..then thats wonderful
. And thats where circumstances come into play because so many factors contribute on this subject. from the moment you've started talking, to the moment you've met this person, and everything in between. I mean, everybody is different on this. and unfortunately thats what i mean by it can snowball out of control...lets say "John" and "Sally" have been talking for a few months on here, John asks Sally to meet up at the parks...well, to John it might be a date but to Sally its just a meet up at the parks. thats where matter of opinion comes into play.
But also something to add, I honestly get what Darcy's main point is..and you know, shes been on here far longer than I have, I've always enjoyed reading her posts, and I've never once questioned her judgement on on anything, its just so hard to hit every single thread/post on here that I've just missed these threads about people asking other people they havent met on dates. and shes right, you shouldnt just jump into a thread and ask some random person you've never talked to before in your life on a date... and i honestly don't think she was referring to people asking other people to meet up and hang out at the parks