I have not seen the threads, but I can imagine what some people are saying.
My husband and I took our son to
Disneyland for the first time in April for his 5th birthday. He proudly wore his Tinkerbell & Fairy shirt. We noticed people talking about him, but we didn't think he did. Until we were waiting for a ride and the girls (tweens) who were right in front of us the entire time, got into their car and then yelled rude remarks about our "gay son" as the ride pulled away. He looked confused and asked why they were yelling at him. My husband had to stop me from climbinh over the gate. Seriously. My poor baby was introduced to cruelty at the Happiest Place on Earth. We went on the ride and talked to him about what happened and asked him if he wanted to go buy another shirt to wear. He chose to wear his favorite Disney shirt and we took him over to the Tink meet n greet right then so he could get some love.
People can be cruel. There is nothing wrong with a boy who wants to wear a dress, "girly" shirt, barrettes etc. I wish people would just let kids be kids and protect their feelings instead of trying to hurt them.