Love love love that picture of the 3 of you! Made me a little misty eyed to be honest...can't wait to experience it myself.
Funny what you said about Ray...in Juno, the Jennifer garners character said that a woman becomes a mother when she gets pregnant and the guy becomes a father and feels that connection after the baby is born. I think that's true to a point-totally not saying you guys out there don't love the babies in your wives bellies though! But that bond comes once they are born whereas the mommy feels it immediately. I remember when my niece was born...my mom and I were literally outside the delivery room, heard her first cry and moments later, my 215 lb, former football player, cop and overall stoic man, came out bawling and bursting with pride while giving us hugs.
Looking forward to updates on the 3 of you (don't you just lve that...3 now!) and hope things keep going well!