Petals & Pixie Dust
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Dec 22, 2007
I know there are some people here who have had a ceremony before their disney wedding...how did this work? Was it more of a VR or did you have to get paperwork?
I thought this was only for the Disney Cruises.
I did this so I can get benefits. My wedding planner told me it is considered a vow renewal but can be treated at your actual wedding. I was told we'd only need to bring our marriage certificates and our drivers licenses to get married at WDW. HTH!
Are the prices the same?
We got married in Canada before our Disney wedding. We wanted to get the immigration process moving early. It also made life so much easier not having to worry about any legalities in Florida or any issues using that wedding certificate when we got home. We told our planner that we were already technically married, but that to us, this was really our wedding...the other was just for "immigratory convenience". We also made sure our officiant knew and was comfortable. We still did everything as if it was the wedding, not a vow renewal at all...except there was no signing of anything. We had to bring a copy of our Marriage Certificate, but I honestly can't even remember if anyone actually looked at it.
It made the day of a little less stressful too. We knew we were already married so that level of nervousness was gone and we could just enjoy. Some people that were there knew, some didn't. Didn't matter, that was our wedding...end of story. Although, we did joke that when we were asked to say "I do" that maybe we'd say "Umm, not, not really" instead.
We didn't lie to people about it. We just didn't really discuss it. My parents, my sister, my best friend and his mom were the only ones there. We needed pictures and for it to look real for immigration, but that's all it was. We don't have two anniversaries...we have one...May 5th. We will always remember Jan 3 but May 5th is our anniversary. Our Disney Wedding was our wedding. I wouldn't have done it if there weren't legit reasons for getting "pre-married". I wanted him around to help with the planning process. I'm not sure what effect it would have on benefits though? Other than to get them earlier than normal. If your company has issues with you being married in another place, you could always go to City Hall when you got home instead of going before. A great example would be my boss who is getting married in Mexico. She has to do blood tests, etc. down there. In that case, I would do it here first to eliminate all of that.
Just how we chose to do it...
I talk about this in my PJ, but like Scottish/Canadian...we are also already married (also for immigration reasons)....however, this is our one and only wedding. Getting married at city hall was like getting your drivers license, nothing more.
We are only having family at the Disney Wedding and they all know, but for our at home reception, there will be some who think our Disney Wedding is our wedding date. Because this is the way we wanted it. It's not that anyone was lied to, the subject was just not brought up. And I really don't believe people will have a problem with it, in any case they want to celebrate with us, so it shouldn't matter what date we got married and what date our wedding was, as long as we have made the decision to spend the rest of our lives together.
Our WC knows as well as our offiiciant and neither have a problem with it or are calling our ceremony a VR, it is a wedding.
There are a definitely a few Disbrides who are in the same boat...
I know there are some people here who have had a ceremony before their disney wedding...how did this work? Was it more of a VR or did you have to get paperwork?