I can't believe that guy and his gum-chewing sensitivity!
What was up with that? First of all, unless your mom was smacking right into his ear or popping bubbles right into his ears and it was somehow intruding upon his personal space, then he should have kept quiet. I mean, I doubt your mom was being loud with the gum at all, and some people - like that guy - are just weird. But, let's say, for argument's sake, your mom WAS loud with chewing and the guy was standing a good distance away and could hear her. He may be annoyed by it, but he had NO right to ask her to stop. She can chew her gum just as he can listen to his iPod. People get too carried away with what they think they have a right to expect from other people. People do get on each other's nerves, but you can't just ask someone to stop something harmless like gum chewing that they have a right to do just because you don't like it! If we could all just ask people to stop doing things that we personally don't like, then we would have perfect lives, wouldn't we? It doesn't work that way!
One time a neighbor in my building knocked on my front door. I think I had just gotten out of the shower so was not dressed. I didn't open the door. I only listened to her stupid voice. She proceeded to say that I was supposedly 'clearing my throat' and that she was a student at night and slept during the day and my throat clearing was keeping her awake! Huh???
First of all, I had no clue what she was talking about. I worked during the day at that time. I wasn't 'clearing my throat,' nor would I have been loud enough to keep a tenant in another apartment awake! I mean, that would have to be some pretty loud throat clearing, don't you think? BUT, let's just say I HAD been the phantom throat clearer. This wench thought she had a right to come and ask me to STOP doing it because it was bothering her! I kind of chuckled at her through my front door and said, "Ummm....I have no clue what you are talking about, but are you kidding me?" She proceeded to go on and say I was very loud with the throat noises. You know, you can ask someone to turn down their TV or stereo or whatever if it is playing past 10:00 p.m. and making noise, or having loud parties at all hours of the day and night. But you can't ask someone to stop clearing their throat! I wish I had been dressed so I could open the door and look at this stupid woman. To this day, I am not sure which neighbor of mine it was!
By the way, I eventually
heard the phantom throat clearer myself! I have no clue who it is/was, but on several occasions I heard the very loud throat clearing that must have been disturbing this stupid neighbor in the middle of the day. It was very loud, and I can see how it would be annoying - but guess what? No matter how loud that person was with their throat clearing, the stupid neighbor STILL can't ask them to stop when they are clearing their throat in their own home. Maybe the person is ill or something! And they are paying rent too, just like the complaining neighbor is!