ignore

[princesslisa]

Thanks Jonette for your wonderful response. I just wanted to take my "venting" off.

[JonetteA]

Lisa, I understand what you mean. Not to be a downer, but I think that a Disney wedding puts more stress on a couple than an at home wedding. The reason is the expense, families and friends. Everyone pulling you more or less in one way or another trying to get you to change your mind or at least feel guilty. This has been my experience. Also, I had the doubt thing to. We are probably much older than some people on here, but with such a big decision it is ok to doubt. What I did to overcome this is just spend more time alone with my Fiance just having FUN!!! The wedding has become such a big focus in our lives, that it took away from us. Now that things have slown down a bit we are just relaxing and enjoying our together time. Luckily I have almost everything done for May. Hang in there and let me know if you need to talk. Try and just have fun together and spend that "non-wedding like we used to" time together.

Jonette

[Rustyflwr3]

Lisa,
I too understand what you are going through! My fiance and I have been engaged for two years now and we still have about a year to wait until the wedding. Long engagements are fairly hard because you just want to get married but can't for some reason or another, and sometimes that can cause some tension! Like Jonette said, spend some alone fun time with your fiance and not even mention or think about the wedding. Since you still have a while, put off some of the planning for a couple of months and get everything back in line with you two and then pick it back up again in the near future! I know how frustrating waiting is, but just hang in there and everything will work out! Good Luck!

Jessica

[princesslisa]

Thanks Jessica!!
I took off my post, b/c I felt so awful for doubting myself, especially when I read such heart felt responses!!

[Rustyflwr3]

Lisa,
Please don't feel bad! I guess just take a deep breath and relax a bit :)

Jessica