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09-15-2001, 04:52 PM
it seems I jumped the gun in posting that I was pregnant. I was but Weds.Sept 12 I started to miscarry there is not much hope that I will carry this pregnancy to term.I can not thank you all enough for your well wishes and words.But it seems this one was not meant to be.


09-15-2001, 05:01 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss! I also had a miscarrage (at 10 weeks) before I had my beautiful daughter. I kept quiet about my second pregnancy until almost 4 months along because it was so hard to tell people about the m/c. I hope that you and your family are doing well. {{hugs}}

09-15-2001, 05:46 PM
Oh Mal I am so sorry........ If you want to talk let me know-I've been through the same thing twice. My heart is breaking for you.

09-15-2001, 05:58 PM
there are no words i could offer to bring you any comfort,, I'm just so sorry for you and DH
and DS .. you'll be in my thoughts and let me know if you want chat,, love laurie

09-15-2001, 06:02 PM
{{hugs}}. I am so sorry :( .......


LI Debbie
09-15-2001, 06:07 PM
I'm so very sorry, Mal. What heartbreaking news.

Please know that we love you.

Big hug,

09-15-2001, 07:22 PM
I'm so terribly sorry, Mal. :(

09-15-2001, 07:41 PM
Oh Mal, I am so sorry! I wish I could take your pain away!

09-15-2001, 08:11 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know the heartbreak you must be feeling. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.



09-15-2001, 09:06 PM
I m/c between my two dds. The good news is, I had a successful pregnancy about 1 month after the m/c. My closest friend had the same thing. It seems much more common than you would think. Good luck and remember we're all here for you.

09-16-2001, 12:24 AM
I'm so sorry Mal. I have been through 4 of them. If you ever want to talk feel free to PM me.

09-16-2001, 12:54 AM
I'm so sorry Mal! My mom had one before the birth of my little sister, and I remember how hard it was for her to go through. You have my thoughts and prayers.

09-16-2001, 07:56 AM
Mal- I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. You are in my thughts- laura

09-16-2001, 08:19 AM
We are very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Jackie and Dave Costantino

09-16-2001, 08:53 AM
sorry Mal, there are no words to make you feel better. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care!!

09-16-2001, 01:58 PM
I wish I could say the right word right now, but all I can say is how sorry I am for your loss. I'l pray for you and your family tonight.


09-16-2001, 03:12 PM
they really mean alot.As many of you know this is not my first miscarriage but I do hope it is my last.Thanks again everyone for the kind words they DO mean more to me than you know.


09-16-2001, 03:14 PM
Oh, Mal, I am so very, very sorry!! :(
My prayers go out to you!

09-16-2001, 03:43 PM
:( I am so very sorry,Mal.You are in my thoughts.

09-16-2001, 04:26 PM
Blessings to you Mal. I too have been thru miscarriage. {{{HUGS}}}

09-16-2001, 06:47 PM
Oh Mal I am so sorry........ God bless !!!

09-16-2001, 09:26 PM
My heartfelt sympathies go out to you Mal. (And to everyone else who has suffered the pain of losing a child)

Be Well

09-17-2001, 07:08 AM
I hope you & your DH are doing ok. I miscarried a twin pregnancy on 9/2 @ 11 weeks and the road has been a tough one. Prayers for you & ((((hugs)))) too...

09-17-2001, 11:35 AM
Mal- I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I too understand how you feel- I had a miscarriage at 18 weeks. God Bless- Diane

09-17-2001, 01:00 PM

So sorry to hear your news, Mal. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

09-17-2001, 01:45 PM
I'm sorry, Mal. I know it hurts.

09-17-2001, 07:40 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Have fun trying again! ;)

09-17-2001, 11:52 PM

{{hugs}} to you too. I know how fragile I was only 2 weeks after my m/c.

09-18-2001, 09:27 AM

I am so sorry! Prayers & hugs to you.

09-18-2001, 05:07 PM
so sorry to hear about your loss Mal. When I lost my first pregnancy, I felt like I was the only one grieving for my lost baby. I was fortunate and became pregnant again before my original due date. Although I still wonder what if I had been able to have that child. I could not have had that child and my beautiful 7 year old son.
Take time to grieve & do whatever you need to do to get through this difficult time.

09-18-2001, 07:59 PM
{{{{mal}}}} to you and your family :(

09-18-2001, 08:31 PM
I too am very sorry to hear about your miscarriage. My DW almost lost our first DD and it was a very anxious time. Fortunately, her ob/gyn had her come to his office immediately for a blood test. We found out she was deficient in a certain hormone (progesterone?), was able to provide hormone supplements and saved the baby just in time. Apparently, w/o this hormone the fetal sac pulls away from the uterine wall causing bleeding and the miscarriage. Sure enough she had the same problem with the second DD, but the doctor and DW was already prepared for it.

Several friends of ours had lost pregnancies before their ob/gyn figured out it was the same problem my wife had. I bring this up in case others here have had similar pregnancy problems as well. Apparently not all doctors rush to do blood tests until it's too late. Some even think this is just part of nature and don't want to do anything about it. BTW, my wife's ob/gyn happened to be certified for dealing with high-risk pregnancies as well (although we didn't come to him because of this). So maybe he had seen enough of these in the past to know what to do quickly for my wife.

I'm not saying this is the cause for anyone's miscarriage, but maybe this info will be of some help to some one.

09-18-2001, 10:35 PM
thank you for the info although this was not the cause of my miscarriage it might help someone else.

and my deepest sympathies go out to all the other DISers Robin,frann,bashful64,mom2boys and welovedis that have too suffered through this.My heart really does go out to you.{{hugs sisters}}

love to you all-


09-19-2001, 11:21 AM
I am so sorry..I haven't been on the rewards boards much lately. I live in Queens..in NYC and things have been a little hectic of late. I just read your post. All I is can say is..tomorrow is another day...things will work out for you. I had only one pregnancy and I have a simply beautiful and healthy 2 yr old..but it was so difficult for me, on the advice of my doctors I will have no more. I never wanted only one child..but ,...she brings such joy and happiness...I will accept what's happened. you just wait...you will too! Good luck,...and HUGS!! to you!!!http://www.disneyclipart.com/images23/Television/Disney_Babies/Baby_Minnie/babyminnie01.gif

09-19-2001, 11:40 AM
I am so sorry malificent ,my heart breaks for you!!

09-19-2001, 12:11 PM
I've also been away from the boards for a while, with everything going on. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Mal. I know there are no words to heal the pain you feel right now, just know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.