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[helenabear]

Hmmm... I am now at teh wonderful part of the evening... what to have for dinner ;) Lunch at Crystal Palace was fabulous and my shoulders are just fine after boating. So I am enjoying my day right now. As I think about it, programming might still be great for Luis. Hopefully he'd get the jobs like some of our friends have where they do go home at reasonable hours (like 6-7 pm if they go in at around 7-8ish in the morning) So far none of my friends have had to pull "all nighters" so maybe he'd be lucky. In the mean time he has one PeopleSoft job he is waiting to hear on and a few tech support possitions. He'd take a paycut on those, but at least we'd be ahead of the game with them. So we should hear on Monday/Tuesday about these. If not he will keep going and work on it all... he just is so bored at home now, even looking is boring after a while.

I think everyone needs to have a wonderful weekend. It sounds like we all need it ;) Maybe we could convince jstmee to take us all with her while on vacation ;) Well I need to figure out food... maybe I could get a yummy pizza made up for me... hmmm that sounds good :D

[IASW Rider]

Thanks so much, everyone! You are all so kind to offer such wonderful and supportive words! And lots of {{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}} to all of you! I was kicking myself and feeling guilty all day for writing that depressing paragraph (that will teach me to "enter the Suite" when I am not fully awake, yet!). I promise not to do it again! :(

And SlightlyGoofy, I am sooooo sorry if I gave you the impression that I thought that your comments were anything even remotely resembling "judgmental" or anything else! I appreciate your taking the time to provide me with your thoughts! That's the one "bad" thing about posting or e-mailing - sometimes one might "come across" a certain way in writing, that they don't intend at all! It's hard when we can't see eachother's faces or hear eachother's tones of voice, sometimes! Anyway, I am so sorry if I came across "bitterly" or something similar! :(

You know, it's funny - even though my mother went through those phases of not talking to me and putting me down, we were actually very close at times, too. It's actually because of her that I am so sentimentally attached to IASW! I remember all the good times we had when she and I would vacation at WDW alone or with my cousin, when I was younger (my father stayed back and "held down the fort" at the family business), and how much we all loved IASW! It really brings back fond memories of my childhood and of fun times that I shared with my mother on vacation. I think that she has always been prone to "depression", but never went to a doctor or acknowledged it. Now, on top of being emotionally ill, she is confined to a hospital bed in her room because of diabetes. I know that a lot of the things that she says to me now are probably reflections of her physical pain and frustration about not being able to see very well and not being able to even sit up by herself, much less walk. It's not that I am a horrible or unfeeling person - I have tried and tried to help her or get close to her, but she always manages to push me away (ie: the story about our WDW trips that she most often recounts nowadays, to people like my DF, is "remember that day when we were having breakfast at the Contemporary and you were acting so bratty that I slapped you across the face?" - as if that's supposed to be a "funny" story, or something! Another thing that she recently said, thinking that it was supposed to be "funny": I was telling my parents, uncle, and DF that I had recently had a physical and the Dr. said that I was in perfect health. My mother's response was "well, obviously he didn't check your brain".........and there was total silence. UGH. In the past, I would laugh and go along with it and feel like #$%, but I just can't do it any more - I think I reached my breaking point. I love what Bashful64 said - thank you - about being true to oneself. I think that that is what I am finally doing, for the first time in my life!) Anyway, all this to say, if she would give a little, I would give a little. I DO try to be friendly when I visit my parents, but it's hard when she ignores me or pushes me away. I hope that things somehow get better before our wedding. I doubt that she would be able to physically be there, but I would like to have some peace of mind. Well, Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are coming up - new year, a time to "start fresh" - maybe I will find a way to talk to her without allowing myself to get hurt, then. Uh oh - I promised not to launch into another long, depressing paragraph.....and I just did it again! Sorry - that's the end, I promise! :)

I'm sure that your children don't have "horror stories" to tell about you, SlightlyGoofy! They are very lucky to have you as a Mom!!

And yes, I do think that I've tried for "perfection" with my relationships, probably as a result of my situation with my parents, and probably because I'm an only child (who had to carry the hopes and dreams of my parents on my shoulders alone, and was and still am expected to be "perfect"). I know that I was like that with my ex-husband, as well. I think that I've learned a lot, particularly over the past few years, and I have a much healthier relationship with Frank than I have with my parents or than I had with my "ex", so I hope that I won't "fall into" that "striving for unrealistic perfection" thing, again!

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences, Jstmee! I'm sure that it was very painful and difficult to live with your father and be treated as you were. I am so sorry to hear that. But obviously you have thought about the reasons behind the way he behaved, and I'm sure that you've grown stronger, as a result, and have realized that your father had various issues and none of them had to do with you, as a person. You are a wonderful person and obviously very sensitive and thoughtful!

Congratulations on your new refridgerator, Helenabear! Enjoy it! We also bought Maytag appliances from Sears, and they are very good and reliable. And congratulations to Luis and yourself on all of his great prospects! We will have to have a celebration for him in the Suite when he officially accepts one of his inevitable several offers! I love your Crystal Palace idea - I just love that place! Sorry that I couldn't join you today (still laid up with the headaches. The Dr. determined that they are not sinus-related at all - they are a series of cluster headaches. I should have known - I used to get them every year. I'll be having a CAT scan next week and I have to make an appointment with a neurologist, next - FUN!). But maybe I can coerce you into going back, tomorrow? We can visit with Pooh and friends at the character lunch! By the way, can one really get over to Discovery Island in one of those little boats? Can people really boat over there, get out, and walk around on the island? I once asked my Imagineer / techie friend what would happen to me if I took one of those little boats into the inlet that runs behind Adventureland and Frontierland and tried to visit the EWP in its "home"..........he didn't think that that would be a very good idea (hee hee!)!

Wow - all these trips to WDW coming up, soon! Maybe Jstmee or Bashful64 will let us stow away in their luggage! And isn't your trip coming up soon, too, SlightlyGoofy? 289 more days to go, for me! :) I really hope that we can all meet in person at WDW some day! :) I'm really getting excited about the 100 Years of Magic celebration - now that they're starting to advertise it, and have lots of articles about it in Disney Magazine, I am even more impatient about getting down there! I can't wait to see all the new parades! You'll have to give us full reports, Bashful64, Jstmee, and SlightlyGoofy!

Anyone have any interesting weekend plans? I know that you will be enjoying the company of your little one, SlightlyGoofy! I will be spending the weekend cleaning out my closets in anticipation of Frank's moving in, and waiting for my new hot water heater to be delivered. And......I am going wedding gown shopping on Sunday! :)

Have a great weekend, Everyone, and I promise not to be such a "downer" in the future! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Rider, I am sure glad I am not in the doghouse. I felt so badly that I might have made you feel badly. Nuff stuff. I will tell you a 'funny' story on how I got 'even' with my father. My mother was well educated and my father was not. We were very poor and the highlight of our lives was when the bookmobile would come. It came to our house, just for us, after they stopped downtown for everyone else. We read so much and probably took out as many books as the rest of the town combined. My father would get furious when he saw us reading sometimes. One time he burned all our schoolbooks. He was a 'charming' man. After he died there was a small amount in his bank acccount after all the bills were paid so it was divided between all of us kids. I would have felt funny taking money from someone I did not like (love is another matter. Love is given not earned so - - -)so I comtemplated what to do with the money. I divided it up between the two local grade schools and the public library to buy - - - books!! I felt a bit guilty being thanked for those gifts as I knew I was being kind of evil. LOL

Cluster headaches? I don't know about that one. Is it something that is treatable? My DS has terrible migranes and I know how that goes and it ain't pretty. Are you feeling any better?

Your father must be a saint to have to take care of your mother so much. Is she that way with him too? I am assuming that you are Jewish and wondering if maybe your rabbi could not help with some of this situation. I know that my family hurts me often cause I care so much about them and probably the other way around at times. I envy so much those mothers and daughters who do things together and had asked about going shopping with my DD today but she wanted to take seperate cars and meet for lunch. I had looked forward to spending some time in the car together so we could talk. Small matter. My 4 year old is still here. For some reason these tiny beasties do not like to leave here. Can't imagine why? LOL DD took her oldest shopping with her. That is nice, they can spend some quality time together. Hard to do when you have more than one.

Helenabear, I just bought a Maytag dryer so you can tell I like Maytag products. I am sort of a careful shopper. It is so wonderful that Luis has all those different options of things to do. It makes life so much easier and interesting to boot. I just hope he does not have to take a job that will limit your time together. No sense in having such a lovely new home if you don't have time to spend in it. Have you arranged a moving party? Most important tip, serve the alcohol AFTER the furniture has been safely moved in. (grin) I am making some homemade spaghetti sauce this weekend and will bring some to the suite for your pizza. Loads of tomatoes, onions and peppers in the garden. Can't let them go to waste.

Bashful, we will just miss each other as we will be at Disney from November 2-12th. My DH loves going when the Christmas decorations are up but it was so scary coming home last year that I decided early might be better and except for the soap opera weekend it should be very quiet. Hope we get a bit of a cold snap as cool air is better for my breathing. Anything you want me to check for you when we are there?

Have a great day everyone and hope you can all meet on the balcony tonight. I have arranged for a special treat. I offered to 'help' out Disney by letting them practice the 100 year parades in front of our suite late this evening. I warn you they may have to go by a couple of times until they get it right. (grin)

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all... I was rather busy yesterday (nothing terribly important but was not home much) so I just came in to say hi today. We had a pretty good weekend. Our rental agency is FINALLY putting ads our for our apartment so it can be rented when we leave. We are SOOOOOOO mad at them (long story) but if someone takes the lease over we will be done with them and that is that. We had three inquiries about it so far this weekend and that is a good sign. We still have more and more contacts coming in for Luis so that is a good sign as well.

Lisa, I will always be coerced into going to Crystal Palace as I love Pooh and the food.

I am just glad this place is here for us to share our lives with... it can really help to let things go when we need to get outside opinions and just plain vent.

Linda, I am so looking forward to your sauce for my pizza... that sounds wonderful. And when we move, we will make sure the beer is in the downstairs fridge so that people don't touch it before hand. We are also still considering getting a professional mover for our big things, but haven't made our mind up about that yet.

Well I hate to type and run but I have cleaning to do.... and I just had to get away even just for a moment ;) I will be back to relax and watch the EWP from the balcony... I will need it after cleaning so much ;) I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. So now I will soak in my last bit I can before we need to clean some more.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, have you gotten to check out the balcony lately? They just finished installing the retractable glass ceiling so we can have a/c out there. They were so apologetic that they had not gotten to it earlier. I was sitting in the jacuzzi watching the Little League World Series last night. An area team is playing. I am not much for watching athletic events but this is kind of special. We have stayed at the motel that overlooks the playing field. Williamsport is awesome in the spring with all the azeleas in bloom. They are huge. Where we live they are small plants but there they are almost trees!!

I am glad that things seem to be coming together for you and Luis. Owning your own home is quite an adventure. Mostly good but just wait until something breaks and you can't call the landlord. LOL Our house was such a good house, it waited until it was paid for before it required any heavy repairs. It will make me very sad when we have to move from here.

How did everyone like the parades last night? The Disney people sure appreciated us helping them out while they practiced. Who better than you Disney vetrans to let them know how it should be. It sort of looked like giant snow globes on some of those floats. Bet the characters enjoyed them though as I read where they are air conditioned. Wish they could a/c the crowds too. Bet we would pay an extra $10 per day for that luxury! LOL

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Sorry that I disappeared, there, for a few days! I was busy cleaning out my closets and reorganizing my house, in anticipation of DF's and his belongings' (and cats'!) arrival, in a month and a half. I also bought a wedding gown, this weekend! I couldn't believe it - I thought that I was just going to go to the store and try on dresses, to get an idea of what I wanted to ultimately buy......but I fell in love with the first one which I tried on, and bought it on the spot! They made me take it (and the headpiece.......and the weird bra, which looks like something that Madonna would have worn 10 years ago!) home with me, though - they wouldn't store it until it's time for alterations. I'm just very nervous because they say to keep the dress away from pets and smoke.....and I have 4 cats (and will soon have 6!) and both DF and I smoke (I know, I know - it's horrible!). So I have it hanging in my bedroom (which the cats are not allowed in - I always keep the door closed - and which DF and I don't smoke in). Eventually, I will move it to my childhood closet in my parents' house, which is essentially otherwise empty. Anyway, I'm really happy that I have it and that it fit almost perfectly! (Hoping to lose a pound or fifty before the wedding, though - hee hee!)

Wow - that retractable glass ceiling over our balcony was a great idea, SlightlyGoofy! Now we can sit out there all the time, regardless of the weather! And I really enjoyed seeing the new parades rehearsing, right outside the Suite! How did you swing that?! I hope that they come by again, today - I want to take in all of their details and listen to the new music, again! And of course I was not upset! Now I'm upset that you thought that I was upset! :)

Unfortunately, there is no real treatment for cluster headaches - they just come and go (for periods of 1-3 months, every year or every few years) at random. I have had them many times before and mine usually last a month (every night, same time of night for a month). But this is the first round of them which I've had since 1995. However.....last night was the first night in over 3 weeks that I did not get "hit" with a headache! Please keep your fingers and toes crossed for me.....maybe this is the end of this "cluster"! I made an appointment for a CAT scan on Thursday, and I will keep that appointment, even if the headaches are gone by then - better safe than sorry. I will also make an appointment with a neurologist. Even if the headaches are gone, maybe I can ask the doctor's advice about how to possibly prevent them (if there is a way to do so) in the future.

Yes, my father IS a saint for taking care of my mother 24 hours a day, seven days a week, with very little assistance (he refuses to have a nurse more than one day a week). But I think that it makes him happy, in a strange way, to do everything for her - he's the sort of person who really needs to be needed. On the other hand, I think that my mother is trying to "get him back" for all the time he spent caring for his own mother, when she was dying of cancer 15 years ago. My mother resented the fact that he spent so much time taking care of my grandmother and spent very little time at home, when she was very sick. I almost think sometimes that my mother ALLOWED HERSELF to get as sick as she is now, just so that my father would have to take care of her night and day - like she thinks that that's DUE HER after he spent all that time taking care of my grandmother. Very sad. And that's a great idea about asking our Rabbi for advice.....but my parents are the kinds of people who don't "air their dirty laundry" and are very concerned with "public image", so I doubt that they would ever seek outside "assistance". Besides, the Rabbi who always officiated at our synagogue recently retired, and my parents don't really have a relationship with the Rabbi who took his place. And I recently stopped paying dues at the synagogue where my family has always belonged because it's a Conservative Temple, and the congregation would not accept DF and me as an interfaith couple. We are being married by a Rabbi of a Reformed synagogue - perhaps we'll eventually join his congregation.

I think that that's a wonderful thing that you did with the money from your father, SlightlyGoofy - I actually think that that's a very nice and heartwarming story! I cannot believe that your father burned your books and did not approve of your (and your siblings') reading and learning. I'm sure that that was because he felt threatened by what he did not know and perhaps felt that he would be shut out of your lives if you all continued to read and learn - maybe he worried that eventually you would see that he didn't "know as much as you do" (whether or not that would actually have been true - maybe he just worried because of the way he felt about himself) and then wouldn't respect him any longer. Regardless, I'm sorry that you had to experience that. But I think it's so kind of you to have donated funds to schools and a library so that others could benefit from your generosity!

How's is everything going, Helenabear? Has your landlord / landlady found someone to assume the lease on your apartment, yet? Have you begun packing and preparing to move? I'm sure that it's very exciting! Any news on Luis's job front?

Well, now that I'm feeling a little better (the remains of the poison ivy are even almost gone from my arm!), I think it's time to get back out there and hit the parks! I think that I will go for the Disney-MGM Studios, today - I could go for some meatloaf at the Prime Time Cafe, and a visit with the Muppets!

Have a great day, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hey, Rider, do you think you could arrange for us to sit in the balcony with those 2 grumpy men at the Muppets show? I think that would be way cool. Next time we go to the Golden Horshoe Review I am going to glom onto one of the balconies on either side of the stage. It just makes everything better when you get a great seat!

I hope your 'clusters' are gone and never find their way back. I have had a few headaches in my life and they ain't pleasant. Funny thing is they mostly went away when I left home. You summed up my dad pretty well. If he had ever shown any of us any love we would never have noticed he wasn't very educated. We grew up in a house without hugs or expressions of love. Must be why all of us married so quickly and some of us so often. LOL

Your father is awesome. I have a neighbor who is mad because her husband is spending so much time taking care of his mother. I think it is wonderful. I have a husband who refused to bring me a drink one time when I had just gotten out of the hospital on the grounds that he 'doesn't do housework'. (sad smile) If a man is bad to his mother he won't be any better to a wife IMHO. There are rare instances where a man is a bit too much of a 'mother's boy' but in the main I like guys who like their moms and other women (in the right way, of course). LOL

Everybody is sure busy in here lately. Helenabear is packing to move and you are packing to be moved in on. It is happy busy though so I am happy for you all. I have my fingers crossed that Helena's apartment gets rented so there will be a bit less stress on them. Can't wait for the pictures of when they get all moved in and comfortable. I love looking at houses, not in a snoopy way, but I get ideas from them on what to do in my own.

I will have to pass up the meatloaf at the Prime Time. I love to eat 'differently' when on vacation and could not bear to pay those prices for food I fix on a daily basis at home. I have started making a list of where we are going to eat on our Nov trip. DH doesn't care where as long as they have large pieces of meat and potatoes for him to chow down on. (grin)

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi everyone... sorry I have been away for a while. I got busy at work and last night I was playing Disney's Magical Racing Tour :rolleyes: My DH is close to beating the game but I am not too far behind (okay yes I am but I won't admit it openly). No new word on Luis' job hunt, but keep the PD coming as he keeps finding more jobs to apply for. Luis is going to call the rental agency tomorrow to see the status. There were so many applications in that someone has got to take that apartment. Someone else saw it on Monday and another couple is coming tomorrow... so there is hope there.

It is amazing to hear about everyone's lives... it helps to put things into perspective doesn't it? You guys are also great to talk to... I was about to pop on here and say Luis was beginning to become sad when I realized he had been bored this afternoon and he was just hungry... I hope he finds any job soon... he needs it, not for the money but to give him something to do.

I love this new AC... it is great. I don't always like the hot heat so this is a great option... and it would be great if the parks could be airconditioned. Maybe we can get bubbles put over the entire park area and an artificial sun so it will alway be low to mid 80's and sunny whenever we are there ;) What do you all think?

You know I need some cookies... where are those men of ours to get us food when we need it... ah here comes Bo... (hon can you go get me some peanutbutter & chocolate chip cookies... thanks). Now I am happy. While I have Bo fetching cookies, anyone care for anything else? I hope everyone has a wonderful evening and I will keep you posted on the job front for Luis and our move... and I will take tons of pictures once we are settled in :D

[jstmee]

This will be quick, quick, quick.............2 children in school and 2 more will start next week. Homework abounds and children fighting. aaargh. But, I just got done reading the posts. Thank goodness for a little serenity. Talk to you all soon.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Just wondering? How much would you be willing to pay for a bubble the would encircle each Disney park and provide perfect 75 degree weather? How much extra per day on top the the regular ticket price? I bet it would be much higher if you had to pay after you had been in the parks for awhile on a long, hot summer day.

Hello Jstmee, so glad you could drop in. That is what we are here for, a place to relax as little or as much as you are able. I know how you feel. Today was an afterschool day for me with my grandson. He needs extra help cause he has an eye condition called Nystagmus. I like to help him get his homework etc. done before his parents get off work so they can spend time together instead of fighting over homework. Only had one small temper tantrum tonight. Pretty good as far as I am concerned. LOL Grandchildren are ever so much easier than children IMHO. Someone told me that grandchildren are our reward for not killing our children. (great big old silly grin) You will look back on these days and miss them someday. I promise. Come by whenever you want, we always enjoy hearing from you.

Helena, just don't you and Luis worry too much about the 'opportunities' that are passing you by. Wouldn't you guys feel really badly if you took one of them and then a few days later a 'dream' job opened up? Be glad that Luis is already bored etc. My DH has been retired for 2 years and he is perfectly happy to lay on the couch and watch tv. He never was a bundle of energy before and now it is awful. I am irritating him cause it makes him nervous to see me work. Not nervous enough to get up and help me though. Ahhhhhh

I have some bad news. We live in a tiny rural community and a mom picked up her son from school to take him to the doctor's office. Her son is in my oldest grands class. She had two other kids in the car with her and they had an accident. All three of the children are dead. My heart just aches for this family. We all know each other. Don't know if the mother and the other driver are still alive as yet. It is so important to tell people we love them and part with a hug because we never know what will happen.

[[[[[Great big old fluffy hugs]]]]] to you all.

Your friend, Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

I am so sorry to hear about the family who suffered that horrible accident, SG. I hate hearing about things like those - you never think that something like that could happen to someone you know, and it's so sad to hear when it does. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and with the people of your community who are so affected by this tragedy.

Thanks again for your kind words - I agree - my father is an amazing person to do all that he does for my mother. And it's not just for her - even though he is limited by what he can do now (as he rarely even leaves the house any more), he still helps my uncle with his finances (ie: running to the bank to roll over his CD's, etc.) and he used to help me all the time, too (waiting for the plumber or electrician or other such person to come to my house and do whatever he had to do, while I was at work. etc.). I think it really gives him great pleasure to help people. I just feel badly that he doesn't allow himself to have any sort of "life".

And I agree with you, Helenabear - it is wonderful to be able to come into the Suite and relax and get away from the trials and tribulations of every day life! It's so nice to speak to all of you and to learn about all of your lives, experiences, and daily happenings!

Great to see you, Jstmee! I'm sure that everything will settle down a bit, once the school year really gets underway and the children get back into the "swing of things"! Hang in there and enjoy this exciting time!

I like the idea of the bubble over the parks......as long as it does not affect the various fireworks shows! We have to have Fantasy in the Sky, Fantasmic, and Reflections of Earth! It would be great if the parks were somehow climate controlled - walking around in the 90+ heat in June was a killer! (but I wouldn't have traded it for anything!)

Well, time to get ready for work! In the mean time, I will dream of going to visit the Muppets and sitting up in the balcony with Statler and Waldorf!

By the way, is anyone else but me petrified to go into Honey, I Shrunk the Audience????

Have a great day, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Rider, I know what you mean by Honey, I Shrunk the Audience although you might be frightened by a different part than I am. The snakes bother my DH but the mice terrify me. I remember the first time I went to it (last also). I could tell the mice were coming next so I managed to throw my legs up the back of the seat in front of me. Now, that might not be a big deal to you younger ladies but for me it was a truly amazing feat.

Your dad might be very happy doing what he does. There are wonderful people like that. They just have to be useful. I like to do things for people BUT I also treasure my alone ME time. Haven't had any since DH retired but I do remember it with fondness. If he does not complain there is a good chance that he is happy. I have a sister who does the tiniest, least little thing and by the time she gets done bragging, complaining and carrying on you would have thought she had saved the world. She complains about taking care of her grandkids and she does not do that too very often IMHO. I think she should just not do it if she feels that way. Don't think that grandmas HAVE to take care of the grands if they don't want to, I just love doing it.

I just knew you would know the names of the 2 grumpy men in the balcony. I am awful at remembering names and such. Thank you for the info even tho I will forget it by the end of the day. TA moments.

Just how much are you ladies willing to pay, extra, for climate controlled parks? I think I would gladly pay $20 more a day per ticket. Being a cheap sort of person myself, others might be willing to part with much more. I am curious just how much? How much for a ride on a moving sidewalk to take you from the park to the buses or your car? Heck, Disney could let us in the park for free and make money just on these options and other ideas alone.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

The reason I know the names of the 2 grumpy Muppet hecklers is because I was a big fan of the Muppet Show! I just love those Muppets! And no matter how many times I see Muppetvision 3D at the Studios, I still laugh at the same parts - I think it's adorable! I even videotaped it - I taped the movie! My favorite part is when Kermit asks Sam Eagle if he has the finale prepared and Sam says "yes, it's a glorious 3 hour finale"....and Kermit says "you've got a minute and a half!"! I am totally petrified to go into Honey, I Shrunk the Audience because of what I have heard about the mice and the snake. I think that the mice would bother me more than the snake, as well. For some reason, I am very sensitive to those experiences where you are surrounded by sensations - that's why I refuse to go into the Alien Encounter at the MK. I survived It's Tough to Be a Bug....barely. I was sitting at the end of a row of seats, and I spent the entire time curled into a fetal position and covering myself 'cause I was afraid of getting "freaked out" by things touching me! The noises that the blasts of air made were probably the most disturbing thing in there - I hate loud, unexpected noises. I didn't mind the bugs on the seats at the end, though - I thought that that was a cute touch! As much as I love Rick Moranis and those "Honey I Shrunk the Kids" movies, I just don't think that I would be able to handle the mice and snake in that attraction! I'm also afraid to go on Dinosaur, for the same reason. I guess I am just a wimp! Perhaps Helenabear can use her powers of persuasion to convince me to ride / experience some of these attractions on my next trip to WDW!

Hmmm....let's see - I would pay an extra $20 a ticket for climate control, as well. I don't think that I could foresee paying more than that - since admission is so expensive as it is! I would pay for climate control before I would pay for moving sidewalks - I actually enjoy walking around the parks - great exercise - and taking things at my own pace. It's just so uncomfortable to do that in the heat. So I would definitely pay for the climate control, first! I think that one of the greatest inventions in the world are those water straps that you can buy in the parks. They make great souvenirs and using one makes carrying a bottle of water around so much easier! Since there is no real climate control, I'm really happy that those straps exist!

Sorry that this is so short - back to work! Will check in again soon! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Rider (and any lurkers:)

I got a chuckle out of your apology for being so 'short'. I think you and I are alike in that we are very verbose and anything less than a few pages is 'short'. LOL

I think you are a fan of a lot of the attractions. I love your enthusiasm. It is interesting that you are not crazy about some of the tamer rides. Do you ride roller coasters and such? I do not do them. I am terrified of anything new. I love the video site where I can experience the ride and decide if it is for me. I have no sense of balance so even small dips like in the Mexico ride unnerve me. Please let me know which rides you are afraid to try. I may have been on some and will fill you in on the details, if I remember them all. LOL That is the big attraction for me at DW, that and the on site transportation (night blind). I do not get much out of most amusement parks since they are heavy on thrill and not much on atmosphere but I love Disney. I see it tilting a bit away from my kind of rides though.

I don't carry much of anything around with me as I have trouble enough just carrying myself around. I have a purse on a string thing that I put the barest necessities in for vacations. I won't carry water cause if I did I would have to go the restroom all the time and since the water is by the restrooms I just combine the two. Just wait until you all catch up with me in age. Don't know if I have ever told you my age. It is an ancient 53!!! LOL Well, you are only as old as you feel and somedays I feel like a hundred.

I got all the interiors of my old cabinets painted last night. The next project will be punched tin panels for the built in cabinet panels. Just the old ones, not the new ones. Got to have a bit of character in a home, all new can be sooooo boring.

Have company coming this weekend so it is giving me an incentive to work a bit harder. Thank you for the kind words about the family tragedy here. It could have been my DD and family just as easily. It was only about 3 miles from here. My heart goes out to the families involved. The 18 year old girl pulled out in front of the trash truck causing it to roll over on the small truck carrying the young mother, her step brother and 2 young children. They were in my grandson's class. I am going to write yet another letter to my DIL in hopes that they may come this weekend and things might work out somehow. Life is too short to go around hating people and if I can put up with her imperfections possibly she can find it in her heart to forgive mine? Lots of PD needed on this one.

BTW, I loved the bugs running under the butt thing at Bug's Life also. Just one of the many magic touches that Disney is so wonderful at. I think I will wander over that way and check out the Tree of Life and Bug's Life. A bit of BBQ under the trees sounds mighty nice also. I wonder how many creatures there are on the Tree? Anyone want to help me count?

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all! I'm here for lunch... hmmm I was thinking I would probably only pay for the climate control in the summer time. When we went in Oct. I couldn't have asked for better weather... but I'd probably pay $20 and no more since the ticket price would be way too much. There are times I could use that walkway as well... when you are tired and want to head back to the Poly... It'd be nice.

Slightly Goofy, I am so sorry to hear about the tragedy in your town. That is always sad when something liketh at happens.

I was not afraid of Honey I Shrunk the audience though... I will say if you put your legs just a little further out and you lean forward you don't feel much (same is true for ITTAB). Actually in the ITTAB, I hardly felt anything and I wasn't very impressed with that one. I go back and forth with which I love more HISTA or Muppets... they both have good strong points to each of them.

Luis is home today showing the apartment again although we are not sure if it is even available at this point or not. I guess I will find out around 1:30 if they don't show or not. This at least gives him something to do while at home. We just keep hoping that something comes up soon. He is having trouble getting one guy to call him back from a temp agency. This job would be great for him and he was supposed to hear back from the guy on Monday. I told Luis he should keep calling today until the guy answers back... and not to leave a message in the mean time. I think HOW RUDE. A temp agency should know that people need jobs and shouldn't wait so dang long to get back to them... okay I am done venting now... now all I need is a warm yummy lunch.... oh guys... get me some food please (they all turn and I get a good view of their rears ;)). Have a great day everyone :D

[IASW Rider]

SlightlyGoofy - lots of pixie dust to you as you write your letter to your DIL - and lots of good luck! It's very nice of you to extend yourself to her, as you do. I hope that you receive a positive response very soon!

Of course I like the tamer rides - in fact, they are basically all that I will ride! (hee hee!) I was coerced into going on Space Mountain ONCE (never again - hee hee!), but aside from that, the most "adventurous" I get is Big Thunder Mountain, Star Tours, and Body Wars. I am way too afraid to try Tower of Terror, Rock 'n' Rollercoaster, Dinosaur, Alien Encounter (the list goes on and on!), and......Splash Mountain, though perhaps Helenabear has convinced me to try it! I am also afraid of HISTA, as I said. But I love things like Peter Pan's Flight, Snow White. Legend of the Lion King, and especially Carousel of Progress, the Country Bears, and the Tiki Room, not to mention my 3 big favorites, IASW, the Haunted Mansion, and Pirates of the Caribbean!

I'm sure that your cabinets look great, SG!

And I'm sure that Luis will hear back soon about that job (and hopefully many others), Helenabear! They really SHOULD have gotten back to him when they said that they would, but hopefully they will do so soon! Also, hopefully you will find out for sure about whether or not your apartment has been rented, soon!

If you don't mind, I will come and join you for lunch on the veranda (and a nice view of our gentlemens' butts - hee hee!)! I wonder what they will be serving, today?

Have a nice afternoon! :)

[helenabear]

I thought we only got a great view from the guys.... if they have brought me food I guess I didn't notice ;)

Hi everyone! I hope you all had a great day. Luis and I went for a nice long walk on the beach. We had a great time together and now he has left to go watch something on his TV. My baby Gwen has joined me however and is enjoying the nice view outside... she loves watching the ducks looking for food that everyone seems to leave them near the beach. She is just soo cute and cuddly I cannot believe that she is really mine :D There is nothing more relaxing than having a cute fuzzy sitting in my lap purring away...

Yep, Luis cannot stand being home. I don't blame him if he takes a part time or temp job just to keep busy while waiting for "the" job to come up. He is looking into consulting firms and that might be great too... he can go from one type to another... Of course all I care about is that he is happy. It seems like our apartment is rented. The person who is going to take it is Chinese or Japanese (I honestly couldn't tell... and it only matters because....) and since he has very little American credit he has to get a letter from his employer stating he works there and give the deposit and then the apartment is his. So it basically is a done deal and I am relieved... of course I will be more so once he signs.

Oh my Gwenie wanted to say hi to everyone. She tried to type it herself but didn't do such a good job.... but what can you expect, she's only a baby ;)

I think I am just going to sit and relax with a glass of lemonade now. I will keep you posted if anything comes up for Luis... and with all the jobs he has applied for, people will have to call more soon :D Have a great evening everyone... oh and Rider, don't spend tooo much money on the IASW clothes at JC Penney's :p

[SlightlyGoofy]

Ummm, wonder if our suite credit card is good at J.C. Penny? Would be great if it was. Have to watch it a bit as our investments are not generating quite as much money right now. I am sure glad that I locked in the 7.10% for the next two years. It will help a bit.

Now you younger ladies can watch all the behinds you want, I will look for a little more action, brain that is. I want a guy with the brains of Ben Stein, sense of humor of George Carlin, handyman skills of Bob Vila, Mel Gibson looks, laid back personality of James Garner and whose tastes run to fat and sassy women like moi!!!! Yeah, may be old but ain't dead yet. (grin)

Helena, did you bring Luis to the suite or did they build a beach in Columbus that I don't know about? Does he have your meal all ready when you get home from work and greet you with a kiss and a nice cool drink? My DS and BIL from Columbus are coming to see me in a few weeks. I have not gotten to spend much time with this BIL so I am looking forward to it.

Rider, I am too chicken to try most of the rides you ride. My DH got hurt on Star Tours once. The ride did not do him in. It was my fingernails in his arm. LOL Have no sense of balance and have trouble riding in a regular car without holding onto something. My rule is that if it requires a restraint it is not for me.

I could not get an accurate count on the animals on the TOL. They kept moving,or at least it felt that way. :cool:

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

It's evening and I'm ready for some rest and relaxation. SG all of my prayers, thoughts and PD go out to the friends and family of those people that have been effected by that terrible accident. These things happen and we all learn from them, it's unfortunate. Our town of 3,000 lost one teen girl last year in a car wreck and one teen girl this year from cancer. A few young father's were also brought back to their maker from cancer and heart disease.

Rider, no word lately on your poison ivey, I sure hope you got rid of that nasty stuff. I remember my mother would have it all over the place and it seemed to stay with her forever. I get migraines and take imitrex for them, they go away, thankfully in about 1/2 hour if I rest afterwards. Of course they come back and I suffer sometimes for 3-5 days with them. Cluster headaches sound horrible. I hope you are over them. Good luck with your CAT scan.

Elaine, put Luis to work cleaning, lol.... I am also praying for something for him to come through also. Keep your options open, something will come up and maybe it will be better than expected. A walk on the beach sounds wonderful. We had another warm day here, but I can tell summer is just about over. It gets rather cold in the evenings.

OKAY, now come on you gals, have you no sense of fun. Contrary to all of you scaredy cats, lol no pun intended. I love all, every and each ride there is....... the higher the better, the faster, the better, the scarier, the better. I went to Universal California and went on the ???Robo Cop?? something, show, so scary and realistic, 3D, poofs of smoke etc. Ah well, not everyone can have this much fun, heee heee. And to think I'm 40 also......... By the way SG, my best friend is 62 ---- and just a young chicken--- we go to the gym every other day together. Of course, we always go out to breakfast afterward, but at least we know we are in shape. hee hee Wow I was typing happy today, cya on the veranda, and I too will look at Bo's butt, my DH is in Ohio this week.

[jstmee]

Oh my gosh, I've just hit 50 with this post. Unbelievable to me. I know i'm a newbie when I looked at your posts. I didn't think I'd even go over ten. Really had no reason to. But now with this wonderfull suite and this beautiful veranda and jacuzzi, I can relax and submit until my hearts content. Anyone for Beaches and Cream after Illuminations

Rider, I forgot to congratulate you on finding your wedding dress, lucky you!!! Check with a local dry cleaning, maybe you could store it there, not sure what the fee would be but might be worth it.
:bounce: :pinkbounc

[helenabear]

Hi everyone, we just got back from another walk on the beach... yes we stopped in here together for a while (now he is watching WWF) and he thought the place was cool... he did ask why our room at the Poly wasn't as nice... I told him to hush :D Truly life is nice and calm and I have some reading I was going to get to and now that I am here "on my own" I think I will get it done. I hope you all have a wonderful evening :D

Remind me later to explain how tame some rides are if you can go on Body Wars or Star Tours. I have a not so happy neck & back so I judge a lot of things based on them. Like Space Mt... that one hurt me the last time. But if you can hack Body Wars & Star Tour Dinosaur is nothing :D See you all later and feel free to disturb my reading when the night lights up with colored lights :D

[bashful64]

Hi everyone!

I hope you are all well this evening. I am so farbehind with everyone's posts that I figured I would catch up on the weekend (my parents are taking all three of our kids for the weekend). We are getting ready for back to school here (go back September 4th) so have been busy shopping and all that kind of stuff. It is so great to have somewhere to come and relax and just "hang out" with friends.

SG any news on the fab four?

IASW I hope you are feeling better now.

Helenabear any news on the job front for Luis?

Jstmee how are you doing today? I see that you hit 50 posts....Congrats!

Well I am going to go sit on this wonderful balcony that SG has had the guys make some wonderful adjustments to. Then I am going to have Bo bring me some dinner and I am just going to sit back and watch the world go by.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Yawn, stretch. Ah, another perfectly lovely day. I am not much of a morning person but there is something so special about waking up in our suite. You guys are so nice to be so quiet and allow me to wake up at my own pace. (sweet smile)

Helena, it was so nice of you to bring Luis to walk on the beach. He needs a bit of magic just riight now. How has he handled the 'scenery" around here, Bo, Don etc. (grin) I was wondering, could you tell me a bit about the "Dinosaur" ride? Not scared of dark, noise etc. but cannot handle even the smallest type dip. Do you have to be restrained? If so, why? I hate missing rides that I don't have to miss. When is your moving day?

Jstmee, congratulations on your 50th posting. I am so pleased that some of them have been here with us. You have a good idea about the wedding dress but I bet that Rider wants to keep it close by so she can sit and look at it often. I had a niece who shopped for a year and went to several large cities looking for her wedding dress. She ended up buying the first one she saw!!! It was a huge wedding and we all had a blast, even I was out on the floor getting down with my bad self. :smooth: You seem to be our resident dare devil. BTW My best friend is 84 and I had to threaten her to stop her from climbing a ladder a couple of weeks ago. She is a caution but we almost lost her the beginning of the year so I am watching over her a bit more nowadays.

I think I will wander out to the veranda to visit with Bashful and talk over today's plans and then Beaches and Cream tonight with Jstmee. I have a good feeling about today and what it will bring.

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

Good morning to all. SG you are so right about waking up to a nice calm place, with a gentle breeze blowing on the veranda while I sip my cappucino. My DC are still sleeping and my DH is STILL in Ohio-Cincinatti so I have a few moments to enjoy the view.

bashful, glad you could make it back we've missed you. I'm sure Bo has room in his schedule to give you a nice back massage and maybe fix you a nice refreshing drink.

Anyone want to visit Fastasmic tonight, I haven't seen any evil villians get their tushes wooped lately--we might have a nice dinner somewhere first, any suggestions? jstmee

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Soooo happy that it's the weekend - this week totally knocked me out! We have been unbeliveably busy at the office (which is strange, since this is supposed to be our "slow season") and since there we are so understaffed, it's been extremely draining. But.....(please keep your fingers and toes crossed for me!) I think that my horrible headaches are gone for good! I haven't gotten one in almost a week, so I'm hoping that I've experienced the end of them, at least for awhile. And the remains of the healing poison ivy are almost gone from my arm, too. So, I won't be boring everyone with my silly "medical issues" any more! (hee hee!)

Frank has gone rafting with his sister and her friends, today. Since I am not really an "outdoorsy kinda girl", I'm going to go into NYC and visit my oldest and dearest friend, Gary, whom I've asked to be my "man of honor" at my wedding. We decided to do something a little different - instead of a bunch of bridesmaids and ushers, Frank's sister will be serving as his "best woman" and Gary will be my "man of honor"! Or at least I hope that he will be....when I first asked him, he said "yes", but now he's saying "I don't know", so I'm going to try to convince him when I see him today! What's the big deal? All he has to do is pose for pictures, stand next to me during the ceremony, and make a toast! He's very protective of me - sort of like a "big brother" - and never thinks that anyone is good enough for me. Even though he likes Frank, he "wants to make sure that I am doing the right thing" by marrying him (ie: religious and cultural differences, etc.).......I think that he just feels threatened that he and I won't be as close after Frank and I get married. (My ex-husband felt very threatened by Gary and made it very difficult for me to stay in touch with him as much as I had before marrying him, so I guess he's afraid that the same thing would happen with Frank.....which it wouldn't, because Frank isn't like that!). Anyway, I'm hoping to have a good conversation with him in person, today. I know that he likes to be "coddled" - he's very fussy that way - but I'm not going to beg him. If he really feels uncomfortable about "standing up for me" at my wedding, I will have my 4 oldest and closest girl friends share the "position" (since I wouldn't want to choose between them!). Anyway, I'm sure that it will be a nice day, regardless - it's sunny and not too hot, and it will be a great day to walk around in the city! Then Frank will come over later, to spend the rest of the weekend, once he has returned from the great waters of Pennsylvania!

Speaking of the wedding, if you'd like to see a picture of my wedding dress, here it is:

http://www.davidsbridal.com/TESTshow_dress.cfm?search=yes&style=2445

I also picked the first one I tried on, just like your niece, SG! It's still hanging on the back of my closet door in its garment bag......will have to transfer it to my parents' house, one of these days, for safekeeping - maybe over Rosh Hashana.

Belated congratulations on your 50th post, Jstmee! And thank you for your kind words!

Speaking of rides, SG, Jstmee, and Helenabear, my Imagineer / tech friend at WDW wrote me a big long tirade, a few days ago, about how I'm missing out on some of WDI's best work by refusing to go on ToT, and how R'n'R, Dinosaur, Test Track, and Splash Mountain aren't as scary as I think they are, etc. He then proceeded to offer me an additional speech on the safety of all WDW attractions! I know that I should trust the professional, but I'm still chicken! I'm sorry that your DH was hurt on Star Tours, SG. I'm not particularly thrilled with Star Tours and Body Wars, but I will ride them with Frank since I feel badly that I don't ride many of the other things which I know he'd like to try. I don't want to hold him back, but he refuses to go on, without me, even though I don't mind!

How are all of your grandchildren doing, SG? Did you ever write your letter to your DIL?

How are all the moving preparations going, Helenabear? Glad that your kitty cat could join us, for a bit - hopefully your other furry one will join us soon, too! One of my "furry foursome", The Big Ragoo, celebrated his 6th birthday, yesterday!

How was the first week of school and getting ready for the first week of school, for your children, Jstmee?

Lots of good luck to your children as they get ready to go back to school, Bashful64!

Hate to type and run, but I don't want to be late for my train! Hope that all is well with all of you! Take care and have a great weekend! And meet you all back in the Suite, later, so that we can decide where to have dinner and pick an "evening activity"! Any ideas? :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Oh my Rider, what a lovely dress. It is simple, classy and with the bustier type top very sexy also, just the perfect wedding dress IMHO. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. The guys were seen checking it out and I have a feeling that you will be getting a bit extra attention in the days to come. Bo had tears in his eyes at the thought of you getting married and not being around as much. I told him you would never desert DIS and that your Frank was a fan of the Mouse also. He was greatly comforted.

I love your wedding plans being tailored around your personal preferences. That is what should be. I hope your friend Gary consents to be there as you wish him to be. How sweet to have someone who cares about what is the best for you. You have to be the final judge but it is wnderful to have such caring friends anyway. I am so glad that your medical problems have gone away. Makes you appreciate good health even more now.

My DH only got hurt on Body Wars because I grabbed his arm and accidentally dug my fingernails into him. LOL I was so scared that the safety belt would let go and I would go sailing out into the rest of the audience crushing them. I don't care how safe the rides are, and I do believe they are, I just have no sense of balance cause of a chronic ear disease and am not able to do rides that are too disorienting. I imagine that some thrill riders would love to have my condition as it would add to the thrill of the rides. I would gladly give it to them. (smile)

Jstmee and Bashful are enjoying a few quiet moments while their darling children go off to be edumacated (grin). How can you miss them if they never leave? A penpal from England tells me that they have vacacation clubs there where the kids go a couple of days a week during summer break. I think my house was the 'vacation club' when my kids were growing up. LOL

Jstmee, my brother is coming from Cincy tomorrow to have lunch with us. We only live about 80 miles from there. I will cast a wave in that direction toward your DH. My DB is bringing his family for the first time. He was missing for over 18 years so it is terribly special to see him. I have seen him several times since we found him (on the Int ernet) and we keep in touch with phone calls and emails. I saved the bill from our first phone call. It was over $25 and worth every penny. DD and family are coming for lunch also so there is a whole lot of cooking going on around here. I will bring some leftovers to the suite tomorrow. Sirloin steaks, Stuffed Manicotti and Chicken Fingers are the entrees. Very fussy family have I. Have to fix a variety to please everyone. I am fixing only enough for the people I know are coming. Figure if I fix enough to include DDIL and DS etc. I will jinx it. They would never call to say there were or were not coming anyway. They did not do that before either.

Today is my DD and DSIL's anniversary. The boys are to spend the evening with their other grandma. Hope she does not cancel out like she does so often. Hope she survives having the both of them at the same time. Sperately they are wondeful kids but together they are a dangerous combination. LOL

I will miss you all today as I have so much work to do here today but tomorrow evening I will be there begraggled and weary and looking for some serious pampering by "The Boys".

Slightly Goofy

[CathyCanada]

I'm sorry I haven't popped in to check on you all, but this was the week from $#@! for me. Next week WILL be better! :)

IASW, your gown is so lovely!! So classy and has beautiful lines in it. I am all for having a non-traditional wedding too. I was "best man" at a friend's wedding. It was what he wanted and I had no problem with it. What is important is the union of you and Frank, not how anyone expects your wedding to be. I hope Gary agrees, but if not you certainly have a good group of friends to be there for you too by the sound of it.

Well just popped in, I love reading about all of your lives and just wanted to say I missed you all! :D

Have a wonderful weekend friends!
CC

[helenabear]

Rider your gown is beautiful!!! I am sure you will look stunning in it! One suggestion I will have is not to leave it hanging. If you can wrap it in a nice cloth to help prevent dust from getting on it and you can let it lie on a shelf or in a big closet, that might work much better. That way the weight of the dress won't pull on it so that nothing gets stretched out of place. We made my dress (my cousin and I) mostly because I am short and the amount of money that would have gone into the dress would have been really expensive (about $250 for alterations alone). My cousin and I worked together to get a wonderful looking dress from the pattern that is similar to the one used to make the dress Kate Winslet wore in Titanic (the night she almost jumped ship). Lace was brought in from Puerto Rico (when family was there they picked lace based on what I loved and Fed Ex'd it to me and then I called back and told which I loved) and everything was hand picked and made... including my flowers. I hate being traditional so I had to pick my best friend Marc to be my Man of Honor :D Personal touches always make a wedding better in my eyes.

Well Luis likes it here and he doesn't mind the eye candy we have to look at. I go for much more than looks so that is why I picked my sweetie (yes I find him absolutely hansome, but there is so much more to him than looks). He loves it that we can come and go as we please... it makes the waiting for the next trip so much easier.

Dinosaur is an easy ride to go on. If you can handle a little jerking side to side (no worse than BTM or Body Wars) there are no true dips (a little bumpy up and down though... more like Pooh ;) ) then this ride is easy. My back can handle it w/o any problems at all and I rate it about the same level as the Safari ride honeslty (okay maybe right between the Safari ride & BTM). I personally do not like Body wars at all and this one is much better... no "restraints" from what I remember (similar to BTM).

Well Luis and I are heading out for the day. I hope you all have a wonderful weekend :D

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone! :)

Thanks so much for all of your compliments - I'm glad that you like the dress! The opinions of my EWP Suite Mates and friends is very important to me! :) Yes, something about it just "called out to me" from the rack, so I had to try it on! Of course, it looks much better on the model in the photograph than it does on me, but…..!! Thank you for your advice about storing the dress, Elaine - that’s actually very similar advice to that which they gave me at the store! They suggested taking the dress out of its garment bag, wrapping it in a white sheet, putting it back into the garment bag, then hanging it that way or lying it down. They also suggested putting a white pillowcase over the veil and hanging the veil in the pillowcase on a hanger or with clothespins. Right now, the dress is still in its garment bag - when I move it to my parents' house, I will wrap it in the sheet. Maybe my parents have a place where I can lie the dress down - I will have to see! Your dress sounds beautiful, Elaine! You wouldn't happen to have any of your wedding pictures on line, would you??? And that's so amazing that you made it! It's even more special that way! I loved that dress from "Titanic", too - I'm sure that you looked wonderful!

And I'm glad to hear that you also had a "Man of Honor", Elaine (isn't Marc your friend who introduced you to Luis? I think I remember reading that on your web site!), and that you served as "Best (Wo)Man" at your friend's wedding, Cathy! I also like "non-traditional" sorts of things! My first wedding was very traditional, in that regard - I had several bridesmaids and my "ex" had several ushers, etc. But that meant that I didn't get to include my closest friend. So THIS time, I wanted to be sure that Gary was honored in some way, and I wanted him to be a special part of Frank and my celebration. Plus, it worked out well, because Frank has a sister with whom he is very close, so it seemed logical that she would serve as his "Best Woman". And Gary DID ultimately say that he would be my "Man of Honor" - we had a nice talk over lunch on Saturday, and he explained his reasons for wavering in greater detail (just that he wants what's best for me, wants to be sure that I'm doing what I think is right for me, etc. He also sort of admitted to a bit of "jealousy" / worrying that we would not be as close, etc.) I understand his feelings and why he wasn't sure to begin with…..but I'm glad that he definitely agreed to stand by me on that day!:) As you said, Linda and Cathy, I am very lucky to have such great friends in my life. Because I'm an only child, my closest friends have always been like extended family to me, and are extremely important in my life.

Oh - and Bo and the rest of the gentlemen needn't worry……Frank and I both plan to be spending a lot of time in the Suite after we're married! Can't get rid of us that easily (hee hee!) I keep trying to encourage Frank to come in and join us, now…..but I think that he's too shy! (Plus, he STILL hasn't figured out a good "DIS Name" for himself - hee hee!)

How was your visit with your brother and your daughter and the rest of your family, Linda? It's so nice that you have reunited with your brother and that you stay in touch regularly and get together! Happy anniversary to your daughter and son-in-law! And your menu sounded wonderful - I hope that there were some leftovers that we can sample…….!

Great to hear from you, Cathy! I'm sorry that you had a bad week, last week :( (mine was the same - YUCK!). Hopefully, this one will be much better for you! (and hopefully, it will go quickly!)

OK - one more question about "Dinosaur", Elaine - I understand that things (like dinosaurs, I guess!) pop out at you while you're riding through. Do they "pop out" in the same way that things do in "It’s Tough to be a Bug", etc.? I'm such a baby when it comes to being startled by things!:( I guess I'm less concerned with the "jerkiness" of that ride than I am with the "startling factor"! There aren't any big dips in there, are there? Have you been on Test Track? If so, what are your thoughts about that? And Maelstrom is pretty tame, isn't it? Just one dip? (am I imagining things, or did we already talk about Maelstrom?!)

Well, time to get back to work, here! Thanks so much again for your thoughtful and supportive words, everyone! And "hi" to Jstmee and Bashful64, out there! Have a great day! :)

[helenabear]

Hi all! I hope everyone is enjoying their day. Okay I am trying to get over the fact that I still have four more days until the LONG weekend and we get our house :D

Lisa, I think you should have stand next to you who you think is comfortable. Marc just loved it and he didn't think twice about it... we have been friends for too long to even care. I went to his senior prom and we have always kept in touch. Actually he wasn't the one who introduced Luis and I. It was another friend Mike whom I actually went to high school with. And no I do not have pictures of our wedding online... maybe after we move I will take the time to scan them in (right now it is packed away). My cousin did an excellent job on the dress and the lace made such a beautiful chapel length train.

I did double check with Luis and he agreed there were no big scared in Dinosaur. I'd say the dinosaurs themselves were as scary as the ones in Universe of Energy. Honeslty if you don't mind a few bumps, this one is pretty cool! It is dark but it isn't bad. I get startled easily and I really liked that one a lot. I wasn't to fond of It's Tough... I hate eight legged creatures and I wasn't to fond of the bugs jumping out (but on the other hand HISTA wasn't so "jump out at ya" feel) so Dinosaur is pretty easy to handle. As for Test Track... if you drive on a highway it is about the same... although in a convertable (which I think is cool). There is a small jerk to it and they make you go through a fairly jerky/swervy course, but nothing scary to me at all. Nothing jumps out at you and at times it is bumpy but I think as long as you go in there knowing you will NOT crash, you will be fine. They warn you about which test will come up next so remember that the breaks test is the worst one and that you will be jerked around a little you will be fine. It is a good ride and I love the feel of the wind in my hair at 65 mph.

I do try to be perfectly honest on rides and I try to remember what people can handle and what they can't. But really I think if you can handle BTM the only ones that would be questionable are Space Mt., Body Wars & Star Tours, RnR, & TOT (I don't think I missed another questionable one).

Well we are prepping for the move, and we have most of our utilites set up. We just now have to notify the mail and our bank (along with a few others as well). Well I think I had better just sit back and relax now... I had a long day at work... and there seems to be no sign of relief :rolleyes: Oh well... I could use a little overtime right now :D

I hope everyone has a great evening :D

[IASW Rider]

I'm sorry for confusing your friends "Marc" and "Mike", Elaine! Well, at least I remembered the first letter of the name correctly! :)

I agree with you - it's only Tuesday and this week is dragging - it feels like the long weekend will never get here. And I'm sure that it's even more difficult for you, since you know that your house is waiting for you at the end of the weekend! We will be doing similar things, this weekend - getting ready for Frank's move. I'm trying to do a few tiny projects around my house each night, to get it straightened up - I made lists of what needs to be thrown out, moved, or stored in each room. We only have about 6 weekends left until Frank moves, and we have plans to do some "wedding stuff" (ie: meet with musicians, florist, etc.) on some of those weekends, so I really need to stop being so lazy after work and get some things accomplished, then! And I just reminded Frank, yesterday, to do the things that you mentioned - notify the post office, bank, etc., before he moves!

If you have a chance, once you're moved and settled in, please scan in one or two of your wedding photos - it would be wonderful to see them! :)

And I agree with you about having whom ever we feel comfortable with in the wedding, and who we really want to participate. Gary is like a member of my family - he's the one person who's consistently "been there for me" throughout my life, ever since elementary school, since we've known eachother since kindergarten! We're very much alike and have the same feelings and philosophies about everything from religion and politics to music and hobbies, so we understand eachother very well. I'm lucky enough to still be close to my best girl friends from elementary school, high school, and college, as well, but Gary is even more family-like to me than they are, and that's why I really want him to be a part of our celebration. Unfortunately, my friendship with him suffered a bit during my first marriage - my "ex" couldn't stand Gary - I think he felt threatened that I had such a long standing relationship with another man. Also, Gary is gay (I hope that I didn't offend or bother you or anyone else out there by saying that!), and I think that that "freaked out" my "ex", in a way. My "ex" made it very uncomfortable and difficult for me to speak to Gary on the phone (bellowing like Fred Flintstone for me to get off the phone, etc.) and wasn't thrilled when I made plans for all of us to get together in person. But our friendship survived that, and Frank really likes Gary and understands his importance in my life. That's the main reason that Gary was questioning being my "Man of Honor" - I think that he was somehow afraid that if I got married again, we wouldn't be able to talk or see eachother comfortably or often any more. Anyway, I'm glad that he realizes that Frank wants him to be a part of his life, as well as mine, and decided to be in our wedding!

Thank you for your ride descriptions / advice! Sometimes, my imagination gets carried away and I envision things to be a lot "scarier" or more threatening than they really are! Well, I have 280 days to psyche myself up for trying some attractions which I've never tried before! I think that I could handle bumpy or jerky rides - it's just those huge drops and things which pop out and startle me which I'm wary of! I wish that we were all at WDW, right now! I think that we could all use a vacation!

Speaking of which.........here come Don, Kas, Bo, and Marv with our morning coffee and pastries! They also have copies of today's Orlando Sentinel for all of us, as well copies of the weekly guides to what's going on at the World, this week. Haven't been over to EPCOT in awhile......maybe today is the day to try Test Track!

Have a great day, Everyone! :)

[helenabear]

Just checking in really quickly... I wanted to see how you guys liked the new avitar I have. I got the inspiration from Lisa... let me know what you think :D

[bashful64]

Hi everyone!

How are you all today? Anyone feel like a stroll through World Showcase?

I am in such a relaxed mood todaythat all I feel like doing is taking a nice relaxed stroll.

IASW...I love your wedding dress. It's beautiful!

Helenabear.....How is the job hunt going for Luis? How is the moving going? Have you rented the apartment yet?

SG - how was your weekend? How goes the family things?

Hi jstmee how are you?

[helenabear]

WE GET THE HOUSE ON FRIDAY :D

Okay I am done now :tongue: But that is the official word on that. We get it Friday. Luis is still looking. He has had a few offers but nothing really worth taking (massive pay cuts for phone support, or icky 12 hour days rotating between days and nights) but a few more things might come his way soon. Our apartment is effectively rented. The guy's references checked out and now he just has to get his deposit it. He lives in VA so it will probably take longer and he made sure he could get the apartment Oct. 1st w/o a problem (which it isn't) so that looks tko be taken care of.

You know Shannon, after the day I had, I could use a long stoll in the World Showcase. I will have to join you for that.

Lisa, you know Mike... Marc... they're all the same to me ;) Seriously it would be easy to confuse the two and I am surprised you got it that close! And you know what's really funny... Marc is gay as well and his first question he asked me about being the Man of Honor was "Do I have to wear a dress?" He isn't a cross dresser but we joke about his being gay because he can honest to goodness be soooo stereotypically gay... and he is kind of proud of it. I love him to death and I wouldn't change him for the world :D

Well I think I will join Shannon on her walk now. I hope all is well with everyone!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Whew, people. I have been out there wandering alone in the wilderness. I downloaded a 'free' firewall yesterday and started having problems with my server. I went in and uninstalled it but it was even worse then. I contacted my server's tech support and played many hours of Free Cell whilst they kept me on hold. Finally got ahold of a most pleasant young man who walked me thru some steps to correct my problem. Did not work, back on hold, more Free Cell etc. for THREE more times. After the last time I was not even able to boot my computer. Not quite the blue screen of death, but close. I finally was able to pull out my emergency boots and after much effort got it up and running with just a few tweaks necessary to get it back to 'normal'. The kicker to all this was that the last 'tech's" final words to me were "Is there anyone in your home who knows more about computers than you do?" Don't know whether to bop him on the head or laugh. Guess I'll laugh since I really am not as knowledgeable as I should be BUT I was able to correct what these paid professionals could not!!! :bounce: :pinkbounc :bounce: :pinkbounc

The family thing went great until later as everyone was getting ready to leave. Got a dreaded call from DSD. She was calling from the new car lot and had a new car picked out and all she needed was for us to cosign for her. Um, she has really bad credit and has a history of not paying for anything and making really bad choices. We have never cosigned for anyone and would not. Not rich or poor but we have worked really hard for what we have. DSD decided threats would work so she told her DD that he 'owed' her. He paid child support for many years without getting to see her and when his ex remarried he was advised to allow the new man to adopt so he would 'treat the daughter better'. Very sad situation all around. She informed him that since he had supported out 2 children she deserved the same. Bad choice of words. Our kids had jobs at age 15 and paid for their own cars and insurance. They have turned out to be responsible citizens. Poor DH. He had to have lots of extra hugs to calm his nerves. He worries so much about her and cannot get through to her. One time she called and wanted $5,000 for acting lessons as she had just gotten the part of "Catwoman" in the movie "Batman". Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! We have always told her that if she got into bad trouble or got sick or something she could come here and live as long as she follows the house rules. Did I mention that she is 40 some years old?

Nuff Stuff :mad:

Helena, I am so thrilled for you in that it is all working out so far. Hope poor Luis is maintaining his cool. It is a good thing that he will have the time to get the new home in order though. He can spend evenings in here relaxing and use the fancy computers to search for the 'perfect' job. I am so impressed that you made your own wedding dress, not surprised tho. I can cut a board quicker than I can cut out a dress pattern.

Rider, I can relate to your problems with your ex and his behavior when you tried to talk to your friend. I used to have some of that stuff too but I finally put my foot down and it has gotten better. Funny thing is that my MIL and I used to talk on the phone everyday cause we were the only ones our DH's would 'allow' us to call. You are better off out of that kind of controlling atmosphere. He must have been very insecure. Anyone who cares more about what they want instead of what you want is not a fit partner, man or woman. IMHO Who cares what sexual preference your friend has? We are all grownups here and are above that sort of silly nonsense.

CMCathy, we have surely missed you around here. We are glad to see you whenever you can get away for a few moments from all your awesome duties.

You might all be interested in knowing that I will be attending a DIS meet Saturday in Indy. Several people from the forums will be there and there is some talk about laptops and other equipment that will allow 'realtime' photos to be taken. Wheelsie, Serena, Poohlover, Dan Murphy and a couple of dozen others will be there. This will be the very first time I have met anyone I only know from the Internet so I am quite nervous and excited about it.

I am sorry to have rambled on so much about me. I am just all a flitter about so much going on right now. Please forgive me.

Slightly Goofy

[Janet2k]

I have not had a chance to read the EWP thread yet because my scuba mask is all fogged up but will try to do so soon. Did I mention that I have been on an underwater mission of sorts for the past few weeks? Well, I have, and you would be amazed by all the wonderful and exotic things that are lying at the bottom of Seven Seas Lagoon. I should also mention that you can probably catch my latest escapades on the Animal Planet show, “The Crocodile Hunter.” Yep, you’d be amazed by what Fabio Licious and I have been up to. Simply amazed. Okay, who wants the crocodile pumps? And who wants the crocodile handbag? Have I got a deal for you…

[IASW Rider]

Hey - welcome back, Janet2k! We sure did miss you! Looking forward to viewing your adventures on "The Crocodile Hunter"! Sounds like you and Fabio had a pretty wild time down there, in the Seven Seas Lagoon!

Glad that your computer is back up and running, SG! I would have been totally petrified if something like that happened to me - I would have had no idea what to do (other than call for service!)! Glad that everything is back to the way that it should be! And that is so wonderful that you're going to a DIS Meet, this weekend - I'm sure that it will be a lot of fun! Please say "hi" to everyone out there, for us! And I hope that someone takes lots of photos and posts them, so that we can see! And that was some story about your DSD calling to ask you and your husband to co-sign for her car loan, out of the blue like that. It sounds like your DH has always been there to support your DSD, but there comes a time when you both obviously had to "draw the line". I'm sure that you did the right thing - I'm sorry that you both had to experience that uncomfortable situation. And I know that your DH appreciated all of the extra hugs and encouragement that you gave him!

CONGRATULATIONS, Helenabear and Luis! It's great that you'll have your house on Friday! Does that mean that you will actually be moving into it on Friday? Or over the weekend? Or are you going to slowly start moving in, over the next month? It's good that Luis is holding out for the sort of job that he really wants - no sense in settling for hours which he doesn't want or taking a pay cut unless he absolutely loves or wants the job in question! But it sounds like the offers are definitely rolling in and that he's sure to find something that he will really enjoy, soon! Hey - how did you type words on to that avatar?!!! That is so neat!!! :) And I also think it's neat that you also had a gay male friend "Man of Honor", as well!

Thanks, Bashful64! :)

Speaking of DIS Meets, I still say that some day we will all meet at WDW and watch the EWP together! :)

In the mean time, I understand that Janet2K will be giving a presentation and showing underwater video of her adventures with Fabio Licious in the Suite tonight, immediately following the EWP. Looking forward to seeing everyone there!

Have a great day, Everyone! :)

[jstmee]

Just a quick drop by. I was told that there will be no EWP during the time I visit since the parks close early, can anyone give me any information on this? I am going 9/22-9/30...... I have been studying lately, for the rural route carrier associate position for the post office. Took the test yesterday, so I believe I have a ressie with Fabio for a shoulder massage for later today. My arm is sore from the little black dots you have to fill in. I did well on most of the test, but I think I bombed throughly on the memorization part. Oh well.

I tried to upload pic of my kids. Not sure if it will work or not so bear with me if this post has a messed up picture on it. Hi to ALLLLLLL.

[IASW Rider]

Hi Jstmee! I have never heard of the EWP not being "performed" because the parks close early - in fact, I would think that that would be MORE of a reason to show it! To the best of my knowledge, the EWP "performs" EVERY night and NEVER fully "shuts down" (hence the "mini pageant" that those of us saw when visiting in the spring and early summer, when 1/2 of the EWP was down for rehab!) I think that you will be able to see it! Has anyone heard anything different? Where will you be staying? I'm sure that the CM's at your resort will be able to confirm whether or not the EWP is running, when you get there! You are so lucky - your trip is coming up so soon! :) I'm sure that you did a wonderful job on your test! Do you know when you'll be finding out the results? We'll have to celebrate, here in the Suite, after you receive them! And please upload a picture of your children so that we can see! (Then, after you've done it, please teach me how to upload a picture into a post - hee hee!) Have a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

jstmee, I too have never heard about shutting down the parade because the parks close early. Maybe they were thinking of the Electrical Parade in MK :confused: When we were there in Oct., the parks closed at 6 or 7 pm (well MK that is) and they had the EWP every single night... it was a very nice thing to be able to see right outside my patio window. I am sure you passed your test with flying colors. In the mean time the massages are excellent here :D

Janet, glad to see you resurfaced here ;) I can't wait to hear all about your underwater expeditions tonight!

Rider, I am glad you like the avitar. I just did a "right click" on the mickey mouse hat avitar and saved it to my computer. I then changed the file type from .jpg to .bmp since all I have to edit things in is Paint. Then I went into my Paint program and zoomed in as big as I could get to it and carefully pixel by pixel wrote out the words myself. I had a heck of a time with the 'W' but I think it looks okay. Of course then I uploaded it to my website and then put it on for my avitar. It didn't take too long and I kind of like it :D Luis and I are holding out for at least a "better job" than what some of what he has been getting. I don't mind a pay cut but really, some of what he has been offered is way too beneath him. I, of course, will let you know when he gets a good job!

SG, I am glad you are back and running ;) I don't know what I would do if I didn't have my internet access... whenever I move, my computers always move the exact same day I move to live in a place. I just cannot live without it... probably bad but I guess I have grown up with computers all of my life.

Well I have spent a little too much time here, so I had better get myself back to work :D

[SlightlyGoofy]

Such an amazing group of talented people we have here. Helena, may I please borrow your EWP logo? I would like to use it on my postings when I visit other threads. I would like them to know where my 'home' is. Pretty please?

Can't wait to see the pictures of Jstmee's children. I love kids. They are the best thing I can think of and never a bit boring. My oldest grandson (10) told me the other day that he 'felt like he was invisible at school). It is just so interesting to know how their minds work and see them grow and learn. What an interesting job you are going for. We have the first rural carriers museum in our town. My best friend's mother was a carrier way back when women did not do such things. Hope you live where the weather is accomadating to your travels though.

I cannot imagine how wonderful it would be to stay at a resort where you could see the EWP, fireworks and other wonderful things from the comfort of your room. Now that we are retired people and stretching our income further and further it will probably not be in our future but it is a lovely dream. I will have to fulfill that fantasy in our suite. Our home is always the center of activities on our Heritage Days as it is close to everything and on the parade route so I have a little sense of how wonderful it would be to be actually 'in the middle of things'.


Janet, I am sure that the croc handbags and shoes are faux. You and our wonderful Fabio WERE down there photographing the croccodiles in order to replicate the beautiful skin texture for your acessories. Knowing that killing crocodiles for the skins is illegal and being such a kind hearted person I know you would not do anything wrong. (smile) Looking forward to seeing the videos of your adventure. Please remember that I blush easily tho!

I will make it a goal for us all to meet at the EWP one of these days. What a pleasant thought that will be to get me through those days when everything goes wrong and I need a goal to strive for. (grin)

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[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I hope everyone is having a good day! Life here is much the same and tomorrow we may go buy some new furniture. Rhodes is having their 0% financing until 2003 so we can't pass that up (and it won't hurt us right now financially) and we found a set of furniture that I love. It has this amazing chase lounger that just hugs you... I may have to get another one (or five maybe) for here :D As for that little "EWP GROUPIE" Mickey Mouse Hat, I hope everyone uses it. I had meant to say that earlier... but sometimes the thoughts just don't get through. The link where I have the hat on my webpage ishttp://www.geocities.com/helenabear/ewp.bmp. You should be able to copy that link in and get the DIS to upload it for you. Sometime I will have to go to WDW and get a Mickey Mouse Hat that actually says that on the back.

Linda, you know if you could find another couple to "bunk" with, the cost of going to stay at the Poly Concierge wouldn't be so bad. Two adults does add $50 a night but if you divide it all out, it comes to a more reasonable price. And the money we saved by eating breakfast in the loung every morning and eating dinner there at night, more than made up for the price. I did an estimate one time of how much it would be for four adults sharing a room... six days/ seven nights with airfare and estimated spending money. It came to about $1650 a person :eek: but compared with how much Luis and I spent for our honeymoon that looks like a good deal :rolleyes: I made a really cool spreadsheet that soon I will make it so that we could get a good idea of cost of a trip like that (with a bunch of different rooms listed) might cost... I just haven't gotten around to seeing if that is possible yet.

Well I could use a nice lemonade and maybe they could turn that wave machine back on for me... I could use a nice relaxing evening. And I too will hope that someday we all can meet to watch the EWP together... it could happen... :cool:

[SlightlyGoofy]

Ahhh, Helenabear, thank you so much for the ideas about how to afford the upscale resorts but truth be told I am plain just too cheap to do it. Would rather have a cheaper room to ourselves than share with anyone else either. Different strokes for different folks. We spend longer lengths of time at Disney as I have trouble getting around sometimes and need extra time to see everything. I 'cook' 2 meals a day in the room to keep expenses down but mostly because we just hate those crowded food courts. We often drive down to eat breakfast at Dixie Landings also. I cannot eat large amounts of food, looks to the contrary also. We live in a huge old home that I have rehabbed thru the years to worth many times what we paid for it, furnished it with garage sale and auction finds and we buy a new car every 5 years and pay cash. The money others spend on interest we spend on Disney. You are so lucky to be able to have those great sales going on just when you need to furnish your new home. Most of those sales are at the end of the year. The lounge sounds just cozy as can be. I may have to drop by and take a cat nap someday!! Actually that might be a real dream as my sister in Columbus has invited us to come for an extended visit. I have never been to COSI and would love to check it out. Been to the Columbus Zoo many years ago and I am sure it is even better now. I will let you know if we head that way.

I love the idea of us all using the EWP hat in oujr posts. We are just as special as the cheerleaders (yep, I know we have some of them in here too and they are just doubly special) :jester: I will put it on my thingie when I get a chance.

I went ahead and put my picture on here since they are planning on posting 'real time' photos this weekend anyway. Rider sent me a PM that she has added some great pictures to her postings also. We are getting so colorful in here.

Went shopping and found the best Christmas present for my littlest boy. It is a comfortor that has every conceiveable type of sports ball on it. Fits in with his room decor just perfectly. He stands and shoots basketballs for hours at a time. We had a lad from French Lick that did the same in his youth so maybe we have a future star in the making?

I went over to walk the Boardwalk this morning. A nice tall icy glass of orange juice on a bench overlooking the lagoon is just a wonderful way to start the day. If I had won the big lottery last week I had my home in Celebration all picked out. Have any of you ever done the tour over there? Lots of rules and such but I don't mind a bit. I love the small yards with courtyards and private areas. Sort of like the home we have now. Very small yard but so secluded and private. I have lots of zinnias blooming and the butterflies just zoom all over the yard in the sunlight. Such a pleasant view. I had a nice visit with Jstmee, Helena and Rider this afternoon out on our veranda. Rider was whispering with some of the guys. She must be up to something again. Can't wait to see what she has up her sleeve. I saw Jstmee practicing her one handed driving on Blue Bonnet. We will all have to come up with some extra special things for Luis and Helena this weekend because they will be in sore need of some TLC after all their hard work this weekend.

I will let you all know about my meeting with some of our good friends in Indy this Saturday. I am especially looking forward to meeting Wheelsie as I have read lots of her posts and she sounds like 'swell on wheels.!

Slightly Goofy

[SlightlyGoofy]

Good evening all. I am checking to see if I have my new hat on properly. Hope you don't mind my using you guys in this way?

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi!

Just wanted to check in quickly and say "hello" to everyone! Will write more later! Just wanted to say "thanks" to Helenabear for making the great avatar, and for letting all of us use it, too! And thanks again to SG for helping with my picture posting, as well - I'm now working on a DIS web site.....but it needs A LOT of work!

Have a great day, Everyone - will be in touch again, soon! See you all at the monorail station in an hour - I think it's an MK day, today! :)

[helenabear]

Hi everyone, just popping in for a quick lunch. I am glad you guys like the new hats we have... wear them in good health :D

SG, I totally understand what you mean about the desire to have your own room. I'd share it with my dad & sister (because we have in the past) but I'd rather be alone. I dream about going back to the Poly (only my second stay there... once when I was about 9) because it was so beautiful and wonderful and the staff was excellent. I told myself nothing could be worth that much to have to go back... boy was I wrong :( So now I don't know where we will stay when we go back. The convenience of the monorail and everything else was just so worth it to us... I don't know what we'll do. The trip that we went on in '99 was at Coronado Springs (an excellent resort) and before then we always stayed at reasonably priced placed... and I got so used to taking the bus everywhere so now I am way too spoiled. Well we don't go that often (and I really had to talk Luis into going for our honeymoon since we had just gone with my family the year before) so maybe we'll keep staying at the Poly (yes wishful thinking) and if we do, anyone here is invited to join us in our room to watch the EWP. Well I won't have to worry about this for a while as we have bigger things to deal with in the mean time.

Well I should get back to work unfortunately but I surely enjoy every moment I get to spend here.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, what a wonderful thing you did in making the distinctive avatar for our group. Bet it brings in a few newcomers just to see what we are up to. Being that I have never stayed at any of the fancier resorts I don't know what I am missing. We have stayed at the AS, CBR, Port Orelans (used to be our favorite) and the Institute back when it was called the Club Villas. Since they messed up PO it just has taken away any incentive to stay at a more expensive place. We would love to come over and join you at the Poly for a viewing of the EWP. You are so nice to invite us all.

Rider, hope you are having a relaxing day in preparation for all the work you have ahead of you this weekend.

I am about to head out to the Contemporary for a long lunch. I enjoy watching the monorail glide along.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

I always stay in the MK resorts......not because they are "deluxe resorts", but for sentimental reasons. When my mother and I first started visiting WDW in the 70's, of course there WERE only the MK resorts! So now, even though I am curious to explore some of the other beautiful and newer resorts, I remain loyal to the originals! I remember that back then, the way you made reservations (believe it or not) was to WRITE LETTERS to WDW Guest Services, and basically beg for a room in either the Polynesian, Contemporary, or Golf Resort (which is now Shades of Green)! My mother used to type letters on a typewriter (with carbon paper between the sheets, no less!) and send the same letter to WDW EVERY DAY until they wrote back and said that they had a room available during the time that we wanted to visit! It's very weird, when I think about it, now - the fact that everything was done through the mail! We always tried to get into the Poly, but it was virtually impossible to do so, back then. So although we went to the Luau there every year, I didn't actually get to stay there until I was an adult. Coincidentally, the first time I stayed there was the one trip that I took to WDW by myself......and I have stayed there every year since! There's just something about staying in that part of the World that feels like home to me! And the fact that the EWP passes by is a major factor, as well - I can't leave WDW without seeing it! I've seen the EPCOT and MGM resorts from the busses, and they all look very nice, distinctive, and interesting. I am curious to see what they're like. But it's unlikely that one could ever tear me away from the MK area (especially now that it has even more sentimental meaning for me because Frank proposed to me, there)! And speaking of the Poly......since our gentlemen have the weekend off (they work so hard for us - they deserve the weekend off!) for Labor Day, why don't we head over to the Kona Cafe for some Tonga Toast and great coffee? :)

Guess what? When I got home from work yesterday, there was a message on my answering machine.....from WDW! They were calling in response to some complimentary letters that I had sent about various CM's whom we encountered there in June, and wanted to talk to me about them. I can't wait to call them back....I am always happy to ramble on about WDW to anyone who will listen.....especially to someone FROM WDW! :)

CONGRATULATIONS, ELAINE AND LUIS!!!!!! Today is THE DAY, isn't it??!! Lots of good luck and happiness in your new home - officially!!!!! :) :) :) And lots of good luck with the purchasing of your new furniture, too - I'm sure that you will pick out some great things - can't wait to see more pictures!

And I can't wait to hear about your adventures at the DIS Meet, tomorrow, Linda! Please be sure to "report in" to us as soon as you have a chance!

Take care and have a great weekend, Everyone! :)

[IASW Rider]

Just wanted my "milestone" 500th post to be "in the Suite"! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Congratulations RIDER!!!! WTG We are so pleased and flattered that you would honor us with your 500th posting. Even though the fellows have the weekend off they have not left yet and I saw them practicing a special dance routine for this evening to celebrate your verbosity. Thank you so much for the history of the MK resorts. I can relate to your love for the area. You reminded me of things I knew but had not thought of. I remember the awe of the first time we went to WDW. It was so magical as I would never have thought I would get to go there when I was growing up. It was as unimaginable as Europe or the Moon. We stayed off site the first time. We had been heading for the World's Fair (New Orleans?) and kept running into people at the rest stops that were so disappointed in it so we changed course and went to DW. Money was very tight in those days and it was quite an investment for us but worth it. The next trip we skrimped and saved and stayed at the Villas so we would have more room to spread out and also wanted to be on site so we could enjoy the transportation. I believe that was the nicest place we stayed. Quiet, restful and could always find a pool that was not crowded. Then we moved up to a package at CBR. For the directionally challenged it was awful as all the rooms looked alike and it was so huge we kept getting lost all the time. We found PO and found our home. So beautiful and romantic and had a sitdown rest. and the courtyard. We loved going across the water to eat at Dixie Landings. PO was so small that buses were a breeze. The pool was so much fun and walking along the paths in the moonlight was awesome but the piano player that played each evening was the capper. When they changed most of that we just started going to the cheapest. The only complaint I have about the AS is that there is no comfortable chair to sit on. We don't spend much time in the room so it is ok and with the money we save we can go for more days (10+ days next time). I love the idea that it is at the end of the main road too so it is harder for me to get lost. LOL Your mother must have a wonderful heart and imagination hidden among her problems to have gone thru all that effort to get to DisneyWorld. Maybe your shared love for the place will bring you together one day. Much Pixie Dust is being sent her way to open her heart to see what a wonderful daughter she has and how much you guys have in common.


Helenabear and Luis - Blessings upon your new home. I hope you have everything organized and don't forget to pack things you need for your first night in one box, clearly marked so you will have sheets and a toothbrush at least. Got to have a good start to your new lives.

I have to go help the guys rehearse. They need a few suggestions on what parts to wiggle and when. The things I have to do for you guys in here. Sigh. (ornery grin)

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all! I am here for my last long lunch of the week... Starting next week, I will be required to put in four hours of overtime so there go four of my lunches... or something like that. I haven't decided how I will do it, but I should have a break or two that I can pop in to say hi on during the work day... otherwise I'll be here mostly in evenings. I am not looking forward to this as I enjoy my relaxation here, but oh well. I am looking forward to the overtime pay though as it would be excellent to get that much more money on a regular basis.

Rider :bounce: :bounce: CONGRATS ON YOUR 500 Posts!!! :bounce: :bounce: That is wonderful that you would choose here to post you 500th post. I feel honored.

SG, if you do ever come to Columbus for an exteded visit, please let me know. I would be more than happy to meet with you. I have never been to COSI myself and I do have two tickets to the zoo I need to use, so I'd be happy to be able to meet one of the fellow EWP Groupies :D

You know it is very interesting to read everyone's history of where they stayed. My first trip, I was very young, I was only five but I remember it quite well. We stayed at the campground... EPCOT was being built and they had the monorail going from the TTC to EPCOT and you could see the unfinished Spaceship Earth. Our second trip (one year later) was us staying at the Club Villas. We had nine people in one van and we all drove donw (all family) and stayed there. The bus system then was very different from the way it is now. You had to get on buses with different colored flags to take you from point A to B. It was very confusing. Then we finally stayed at the Poly. I was nine... it was an amazing stay. So then the next trip was at CBR, and I loved it as I thought the cheap price (about $100/night then) would let us go back more often :) I was afraid of the buses as I remembered the old bus system. I was truly pleasantly surprised. I do think that the resort was a little big and I never did find the "main pool" but it was a wonderful trip. Next came staying at the Hotel Royal Plaza. I went with my marching band and we had no choice, but it was a good hotel. The bus service was good and that was when early morning entry applied to ALL parks, one hour early every day. That was excellent and no one was at the parks that first hour. When we went to plan the next trip, I was ready to stay at the All Stars (they were finally available for stay) but my dad said no way to that and we opted for the new Coronado Springs. It supposedly is a bigger resort than CBR but I cannot see it. I though the layout was excellent and it was a very good themed resort! So when I finally got Luis to go to WDW with me, I showed him PO for our stay. I said we are either staying at PO or a deluxe resort. I'm not sure why or how we really decided to pick the Poly but we did. I remember loving the resort but we were thinking of trying something new. So unbeknownst to Luis I upped our room from a standard view to concierge lagoon view :D I do not regret doing that ever! The only problem is that it makes it really hard for us to go back. I thought the value resorts were a great thing, but I am not sure I will ever get to try them. I am also not sure I will ever want to go to anywhere but the Poly. My sister is dying to stay at the Contemporary and hints at wanting to stay at the GF, but I don't know.

Well we did buy furniture. We got exactly what we wanted and all is going to be delivered on the 8th (with our fridge). The only thing that was back ordered was the ottoman for the chair so I cannot complain at all. So today Luis and my dad (who is on vacation) are moving things into our new home. We won't be living there for two weeks, which we both want to do that way. So now we move. If it stops raining, we can move our one queen mattress to the house as well.

Well I need to get back to some other things. I hope all is well with everyone and I hope you all have a wonderful weekend!!!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, you and Luis are so very lucky to be able to have the luxury of moving a bit at a time over the next two weeks and then be able to just close the door on one home and walk into a fully furnished and ready to go new home. Wow!!

I remember the buses with the colored flags. I bet the bus drivers went nuts as everyone always was asking where did the bus go? My DH still does that. I keep telling him to read the signs on the side of the bus but he gets antsy.

I think if I won the lottery or came into some extra money I would probably choose to stay at the Institute (formerly Club Villas) again out of all the places we had stayed so far. Would be fun to try some of the other places sometimes but now that we are retired we have to be careful. We are not rich nor are we poor but we have always been a one income family and I spent my time and energy making the $$$'s stretch so I feel I earned my way through the years. Always wanted to work as I love office type work but my DH is older and is firmly against that. We would have had 2 pensions etc. if I had had my way. Being a SAHM can be a very hard job, especially since society does not seem to value it much. I did enjoy being there for all my children's milestones and was able to do some things for other kids as well but for myself I would have enjoyed being out and about. I love people.

We were at Epcot, MGM and AK all the first year they opened. I read posts where they complain about the new parks not having so very many attractions but I enjoy being there at the beginning so I can appreciate how far they have come in later years. It must be exciting to be able to remember Spaceship Earth when it was a mere skeleton of itself.

Please come by when you get a chance and I hope the overtime lasts as long or as short as you want it. Maybe Luis will have a nice meal waiting for you when you return home from those long days? It would be a nice touch. Hope he can cook. My DH literally cannot make a bologna sandwich. Helpless or hopeless? (grin)

I had better go fix some lunch and figure out what I can fix for dinner for that finicky grandson of mine. He eats so many chicken nuggets that he is starting to grow pin feathers!

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

SG brought up a neat question. Where would you stay if you won the lottery. I would probably check out a few of the resorts for a night or two that my sister thought of trying or something like that, then I would spend a nice long week at the Poly concierge lagoon view. Then I'd take the rest of the money and pay off our house, cars & student loans then invest the rest nicely so I could go back every year :D

How is everyone doing this morning? We are procrastinating from moving stuff and Luis is still in bed... so I may go over to the house and do some cleaning myself. It doesn't need a lot but since I have scratches from the cats I have played with recently I think I will need some good rubber gloves first (otherwise it might hurt too much). It is a beautiful weekend here so I will open up a ton of windows as there is some stale smelling air in the rooms. We have some air purifiers from Sharper Image that I will take over as well. I can live with out them for a few days :D

SG, Luis can cook but he does not. He thinks I do a better job of cooking than he does and I don't mind doing it. He cleans afterwards. But when I got home yesterday, he was standing at the door waiting for me... I thought that was really cute.

Well as much as I love it hear, I need to get cracking. I hope everyone has a wonderful day & weekend. SG, let us know how the meet went!

[CathyCanada]

:waves to all her EWP buddies!!:

Just popping in to say hi and catch up on the latest.

All the best in your new home Elaine and by all means wear rubber gloves. I have very dry skin and have to but with little scratches, you should protect yourself.

Linda, glad you got things worked out with the 'puter.
Congrats on the 500th post Rider!

Janet you brave woman scuba-diving in that bacteria-infested Seven Seas Lagoon......of course with Fabio along, it would make things a little better. I wonder what kind of interesting stuff you would find at the bottom there? I guess I will have to watch the video to find out.

jstmee is your DH back from Ohio yet? My DH used to travel a lot, glad he doesn't have to now.

bashful, how are things on the West Coast? My SIL (affectionately nicknamed that "Wicked Witch of the West"...well maybe not so affectionately!) :\ is here visiting from Penticton. You might know her, she wears a tall pointy black hat and rides a broom? ;) BAD Cathy!!

Well ladies, just wanted to say hi and hope you are all well. I am leaving 2 weeks today to do a 4-night cruise on the Disney Magic (Wonder is in drydock). Taking the kidlets and my Mom, DH and I had planned on doing the 7 night cruise on the 29th before I won this 4-night trip. I can't wait for the break!!

Enjoy the long weekend friends!!
CC

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Hope that you're all having a great weekend!

Did anyone else notice that the Boards were down, yesterday? Or was something just wrong with my computer?! I kept trying to check the "Suite" to see if SG had posted any pictures from her DIS Meet, but I couldn't get in! :(

How did the DIS Meet go, SG? I can't wait to hear about it! And how has the rest of your weekend been? Yes, my mother and I had lots of great times at WDW together and some very special memories. Too bad that we're now going on 3 months of her not talking to me! Oh well - I'm pretty much used to it, now. Maybe it's like the old saying "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all".....I would rather have her not talking to me than picking apart and criticizing all of the plans that Frank and I are making for the wedding, for his moving in, etc. Well, like I said, Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are coming - maybe she will decide to break down and talk to me, then.

And thanks for helping the guys arrange that great dance routine for me, SG! That was a wonderful treat! They definitely deserve the rest of the weekend off after all that hard work! :)

It's neat to hear about everyone's experiences at the different resorts! Although there are lots of great things about the Contemporary, and I also enjoyed staying at the Golf Resort (more quiet and "removed" than the other MK resorts), I am very partial and attached to the Poly. Even though it is expensive to stay there, I figure that we only take one real vacation per year (and I only started doing that recently), so might as well do it the way that we really want to do it and save up for it! If I won the lottery, aside from paying off my house and Frank's car and putting money away for savings (all the "responsible stuff"!), I would buy into DVC, so that we could go to WDW more frequently, and / or in terms of hotels, I would always want to stay at the Poly! I've never done concierge, but I understand that it is amazing. We always stay in the Samoa longhouse - very conveniently located - between the two pools, not far from the Great Ceremonial House or the waterfront. And since Frank proposed to me there, I don't know that we would ever stay in any other building there! Boy, talking about all of this, I really cannot wait to get back down there! Oh well - just 260-something days to go! :) Spending time with all of you in the Suite and corresponding with my friend who works there really helps me get through these days until we can get back down to WDW!

How's the moving going, Helenabear? That's great that you were able to get all of your furniture and slowly begin moving things into your house! That's definitely the way to do it. I keep encouraging Frank to start bringing his things to my house, so that we don't get totally overwhelmed when the moving truck comes with the majority of his things in October. But our company (we work for Merrill Lynch) is paying for the movers (as the majority of the NJ operations are moving to another part of the state, and ML is paying for employees to move closer. Since I live somewhat closer to the new site than Frank does now, ML is paying for his move into my house.), the movers will be packing up his things. So, there isn't very much that he can bring over earlier. I'm trying to make as much space as I can in my house, in anticipation of his various boxes and things arriving. And I want to have as little stress about that as possible, during the actual moving time, so that we can concentrate our energies towards "introducing" his 2 cats to my 4. UGH - I'm getting anxious just thinking about it! Anyway, I'm digressing, as usual. I hope that everything is going well, Helenabear, and that you're getting a lot accomplished! I can relate to the possibility of not being able to check into the Suite during the day time, any more. It seems that every time I try to "sneak on line" during work to make a quick post, my boss inevitably comes by - even when I'm just eating lunch at my desk! She never says anything, but I'm afraid that one day she will, so I will try to be a good girl and only post either before or after work! :(

Have a wonderful time on your cruise, Webmaster CC! And please pop in and tell us all about it, when you have a chance, when you get back! I'm sure that you will have an amazing time!

Well, I'd probably better start moving, now. We're going to a BBQ at the home of Frank's sister's business partner a little later, and I haven't even taken a shower yet! Also, Frank is being extremely kind and is now outside pulling weeds behind the house (as I am petrified to go back there after THE GREAT POISON IVY INCIDENT), so I feel the need to do something "productive", too........what, I don't know, but I'll think of something! :)

Hope that you're all having a great weekend! See ya soon! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Good going, WMCathy. Will this be your first Disney cruise? We went way back when it was Premier(?). It was pretty nice but cruises just aren't my thing but maybe a Disney one would be? Have to give that some thought. Please give us a trip report when you return. One good thing about your WWW of a SIL is that she lives far away. I have a DsD who lives in Ca. and it is a blessing. Sigh. As far as seeing Janets vidoe goes I am afraid that I will have to check your ID as it is not G rated. Not bad mind you just interesting. Our Janet has talent and class.

Yesterday was a blast. I went to the Indy meet and got to meet Serena, nativetxn, Dan Murphy, Wheelsie and so many others that my mind is swimming. I am mostly deaf so it was difficult for me to interact with a lot of people unless they were right by me. Wheelsie, bless her heart, insisted I sit with her and her DH and made my day so much greater. We were tickled to find out that we would all be at WDW together in November so they have offered to give us a tour of US. I just may have to adopt that girl. Am not sure I will be able to keep up with her as she has more energy than a nuclear power plant! LOL Wheelsie handed out packets of PD and Dan gave us all Chicago Mickey's. The one on my purse was looking a bit tired and I now have 3 hanging there, I stole my DH's. He added elk to his list of odd things he has eaten so he was a happy camper. Had french fries made from corn . Had about 6 different dipping sauces to go with it. I like things I don't cook at home.

HelenaB, yep, loves hurts doesn't it? The scratches are worth it for the love you get from your little friends tho. I don't know how you are going to get all the moving done and work all that OT. Of course, you have youth on your side. LOL Please stock up on plenty of film so we can see your new abode. I have serious picture taking to do also and try to remember how to use my scanner.

Bashful must be busy welcoming her wandering DH home but I am sure she will be by soon to tell us what she has been up to.

I have been thinking of where I woujld stay if money were no object and I need some input from those of you with more experience than I do. I would like a room with a king bed, whirlpool for DH, a comfortable seating area, small kitchen area (big enough for snacks and drinks but not big enough for me to have to actually cook, variety of sit down restaurants available on site, evening entertainment,computer access, laundry service (no laundramats for the nouvo riche) room service, unlimited Fastpasses (hey, dream big), private shuttle service and of course a balcony overlooking the EWP. Might be the only place we can get this kind of service is here!!! Sure glad we have this until we can manage to make it a reality. Just thought of a way to make it come true. If we become huge celebrities and get asked to the the narrator at the Processional it would work? Probably a better chance of that than winning the lottery?

Getting ready to go to the movies with my grands so I had better close and get in gear. Hope you are all enjoying beautiful weather and pleasant company this fine holiday weekend.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

WOW - how did you do that, SG? I checked to see if you were on The DIS when I last posted, and you weren't, and then I just checked back in the Suite to see if anyone had posted, and you did! Glad to hear that you had a great time at the DIS Meet and got to meet so many great people! Did anyone take pictures? I sure hope so! I'm sure that it was a lot of fun! And that's so neat that you ate french fries made of CORN!

OK - time to sign off and do that responsible stuff that I'm still procrastinating about, now!

Once again, have a great weekend, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Rider

What happened was I was writing my post when company came by and when they left I signed off and clicked and went back to check my messages and you had slipped in. LOl Sorry I missed you. I have promised to check in on a chat one of these days and maybe we can meet up?

Slightly Goofy and Out the Door

[SlightlyGoofy]

Good evening everyone!

Thought you might like to be forewarned about these very dangerous viruses that might attack at any time.

POLITICALLY CORRECT VIRUS: Never calls itself a "virus," but instead refers to itself as an "electronic microorganism."

STAR TREK VIRUS: Invades your system in places where no virus has gone before.

HEALTH CARE VIRUS: Test your system for a day, finds nothing wrong, and sends you a bill for $4,500.

RIGHT TO LIFE VIRUS: Won't allow you to delete a file, regardless of how old it is. If you attempt to erase a file, it requires you to first see a counselor about possible alternatives.

OPRAH WINFREY VIRUS: Your 200MB hard drive suddenly shrinks to 80MB, and then slowly expands back to 200MB.

TEXAS VIRUS: Makes sure that it's bigger than any other file.

AT&T VIRUS: Every three minutes it tells you what great service you are getting.

THE MCI VIRUS: Every three minutes it reminds you that you're paying too much for the AT&T virus.

TED TURNER VIRUS: Colorizes your monochrome monitor.

ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER VIRUS: Terminates and stays resident. It'll be back.

GOVERNMENT ECONOMIST VIRUS: Nothing works, but all your diagnostic software says everything is fine.

ADAM AND EVE VIRUS: Takes a couple of bytes out of your Apple.

NEW WORLD ORDER VIRUS: Probably harmless, but it makes a lot of people really mad just thinking about it.

FEDERAL BUREAUCRAT VIRUS: Divides your hard disk into hundreds of little units, each of which does practically nothing, but all of which claim to be the most important part of the computer.

MICHAEL JACKSON VIRUS: Hard to identify because it is constantly altering its appearance. This virus won't harm your PC, but it will trash your car.

CONGRESSIONAL VIRUS: The computer locks up, screen splits eratically with a message appearing on each half blaming the other side for the problem.

AIRLINE VIRUS: You're in Dallas, but your data is in Singapore.

PBS VIRUS: Your PC stops every few minutes to ask for money.

ELVIS VIRUS: Your computer gets fat, slow, and lazy and then self destructs, only to resurface at shopping malls and service stations across rural America.

OLLIE NORTH VIRUS: Turns your printer into a document shredder.

NIKE VIRUS: Just Does It!

SEARS VIRUS: Your data won't appear unless you buy new cables, power supply, and a set of shocks.

FREUDIAN VIRUS: Your computer becomes obsessed with marrying its own motherboard.

JIMMY HOFFA VIRUS: Nobody can find it.

KEVORKIAN VIRUS: Helps your computer shut down whenever it wants to.

GEORGE BUSH VIRUS: It starts by boldly stating, "Read my test.... no new files!" on the screen, proceeds to fill up all the free space on your hard drive with new files, then blames it on the Congressional Virus (see above).


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Please let me know if any of these get through our ultra up to date security system in our media room. LOL

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

The virus warnings are very cute, SG! :)

Sorry that I missed you, too! I'm sure that we will catch each other on line, one of these days when we are "stopping by the Suite"! What movie did you see with your grandchildren? I haven't seen a movie in a theater since we saw "Planet of the Apes", several weeks ago. I did rent "Pay it Forward" on Friday night, though, and that was very good!

Hope that everyone is out and enjoying this beautiful weekend! We had a nice time at the BBQ yesterday. Frank's sister has some friends from New Zealand visiting and staying with her for a month, so she brought them along. They were very nice and interesting to talk to! The hosts of the party are in a band, and the band played several sets yesterday, and it was fun to listen to them.

Frank is still sleeping, now. Today we'll probably work on putting away the three large bags of miscellaneous stuff that he brought over (included in one of the bags are 2 huge Disney Grams which I sent him!), and maybe visit his sister and her houseguests for awhile.

In the mean time, let's head over to Chef Mickey's for breakfast!

Have a great Labor Day, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Rider

I have a New Zealander friend also. She is on the trivia forum and is a neat person. I enjoy meeting people from different countries and learning about the ways we are similar and the ways we differ. Have been searching my whole life for what a 'normal' life is. Now that I have attained close to middle age I have found out that there is no such thing as 'normal' but am continuing the research to just plain learn more about other people.

It sounds as if you are having a lovely weekend and so interesting. We went to see "Shreck" and the boys were not enthused but with the 'fart' jokes and such they soon were giggling up a storm. Grandma roared at the Disney digs and in general there was something for everyone. Have to admit I was a bit disturbed at the ending where the princess reveals her 'big' secret tho. Fat does not equal ugly nor lazy IM(large)HO. (grin) I had not gotten to go to a movie with the boys since the Star Wars sequel came out years ago. It was just sort of a fluke as I had mentioned we were going to see "Shreck" and DD said they were going also. I had a lapful of boy most of the movie and got great hugs when we parted. They wanted to come home with me. We watched "Pay It Forward" recently also and enjoyed it. One of my favorite movies I have seen in the last few years is "The Full Monty". It was very touching, sweet, sad, funny etc.

I am spending the day making batches of stuffed peppers, some for the freezer and staining some wood in my closet and cleaning the closet. Such fun. Would be easier if my DH did some too but since he is totally inept (and proud of it) I get to do the household upkeep and repair and the cooking and cleaning. Thank heaven for the suite. I just love having a place where I can go where I get waited on. LOL

I have to go over to Innovations to check out the new exhibit by Pioneer. I hear it is quite interesting. You all may find it interesting as it is a Virtual Resort. La Cellier for lunch later?

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I am sorry if I am not too talkative today but I am finally resting from this weekend. We moved a lot more than I thought we would and the cats are getting kind of anxious I think about seeing all this stuff gone and then we disappear for hours. We have two beds, a dresser, a love seat, chair & ottoman, entertainment system & a few dining room chairs moved. So we are a head of schedule now I think. Everything we have moved is set up (with the exception of a box of my books... we need to move some other things first for me to put them in). Next Saturday we have our new fridge and our new furniture so that will be nice. Luis is looking to hire some professionals to move our big things.

SG, I loved the viruses. They were cute. It sounds like you had a great time at the meet as well. I keep hoping we can pull one together for Columbus, but it never seems to happen...

Well I need to sit here and relax for a while. I hope everyone had a great weekend!

[bashful64]

Hi all....we are having a busy holiday weekend. Just wanted to pop in and say hi to you all and to say that I hope you are having a good weekend.

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I hope everyone is recovering from the busy weekend we all had! I needed to get a quick break from it all and just grab a lemonade and some cookies and enjoy the quiet. There is nothing like watching the Seven Seas Lagoon in the morning before the business of the day comes around. It's quite a pleasant experience to have!

Poor Luis is getting down on himself. He was thinking last night that he might not be good enough for a job and that's why he's not getting any call backs. I think he needs to take a decent job to feel better about himself and even if it is only temporary, I think he needs to feel like he is worth something.

Right now we are trying to decide on who to move us. We can either spend about $150 and have someone move our last big things, or we can spend $60 and do it ourselves. Which would you pick?

Well I should get back to work :( I hope everyone is having a great day!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Good morning Helenabear

I would go for the pros if at all possible. If they are really good and not slock jocks tho. If they will go pick it all up and put it in place it is worth the few extra dollars IMHO rather than wear yourselves out and possibly even get injured. Poor Luis does not need physical injury on top of everything else. I am sorry this is so rough on him. It really has been a very short time since he lost his job but it must feel like ages. Men are so tied up in what they do that it is very hard on them when they don't have a job. My DH is doing just fine being retired but then he is quite a bit lazy. It was rough getting him to go to work at all but he did enjoy the salary. LOL Just keep reminding Luis that if a bad job came up and he took it he might have missed out on something great. Maybe he could sign up to work at some very temporary job just to have something to do. It always seems easier to get a job when you already have one. He could even try out something new just to see how he likes it if it is just for a few weeks. I used to work temp jobs years ago when I was a single parent. I needed the flexibility as I had 2 children with health problems. It can be sort of fun and if you get a job you don't like you won't be there long anyway. The upside is that sometimes a temp job can turn out to be permanent. You get to check them out while they check you out. Win, win for eveyone. Now granted this was over 30 years ago when I did all this so thngs might have changed some. Tell Luis to come over to the suite and get some PD to take home with him and we will all be his biggest cheerleaders. RAh, rah, sis, boom, bah! Go Luis!!!!!!!!

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My youngest grandson starts school today. He is 4 and rearing to go. My DD and himself dropped by this morning. We got our picture taken, exchanged hugs, visited the canteloupes and went in to surprise Granddad with a wake up call. Great way to start the day.

Has anyone come up with the perfect resort for myself and DH to stay at when we win the lottery? I met someone over the weekend that got to visit the 333 club so I think we should go over and check that out one of these evenings. They posted the pictures of the Indy meet and I like the picture of me that has most of me hidden under the table. LOL (grin)

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hey Slightly Goofy! So glad that you mentioned that Dan had posted those pictures from the DIS Meet that you attended - it was great to finally see photos of yourself and your DH - you both look great!!!! It looks like everyone was having so much fun! Lots of good luck to your grandson on his first day of school - that is so exciting! And that's so nice that your DD brought him over to see you and your DH before he left for his new adventure! I also saw "Shrek" and thought that it was cute! And I agree with you - while on the one hand, I think that the end of the film sent a positive message ("it's not what you look like on the outside that counts"....) at the same time, it did send a derrogatory message about "larger" people (ie: fat, lazy, sloppy, etc.). They seem to do that a lot in children's films and TV shows, for some reason - I guess they think that "fat people" are humorous and buffoon-like, or something. I think it's important that parents teach their children the right and fair way to think about all people, in all shapes, sizes, and colors, so that they will be able to be more sensitive and understanding when they see those things on TV, or hear other kids talking, etc.

And it sounds like you are making some great moving progress, Helenabear! It sounds like you really took care of a lot of things, over the weekend! I'm sure that everything is falling into place, now! I agree with Slightly Goofy - I would pay the bit of extra money to hire the movers to take the rest of your things. First and foremost, they are trained to know how to lift things - you don't want to risk hurting your backs or pulling muscles. Plus, they can assemble and disassemble things and set them up in your house. And they know how to get things in and out without scratching walls, etc. Even though it would be a little more expensive, I think that you should go with the movers, if you can! I'm sorry to hear that Luis is getting down on himself! :( I wish that he didn't feel that way! :( Unfortunately, I know many people who are in the same position as he, and they are beginning to feel that way, too. It's just really tough out there. I agree with SG, once again - perhaps if he took on a temp job, it would keep him busy and keep his mind off of "things", as he is waiting to hear back from some of the places where he's applied. Plus, he may find that he enjoys the company to which he is assigned, and might even wind up finding a permanent position there! Maybe that's something that he would consider. In the mean time, I'm sure that you and the kitties are doing a good job of cheering him up! And I'm sure that he's really excited about your new home, too!

Nice to hear from you, Bashful64! Hope that you're having a nice week! :)

I don't know if I'd mentioned, but a few days ago, a lady from WDW called and left a message on my home answering machine. She said that she wanted to discuss the letters I had written (to various WDW managers), after we had returned from "the World" in June. I was really excited to hear from her - I always love having an opportunity to talk about WDW....especially with someone who works there! Well, she called back last night, and she and I spoke for almost 2 hours! It turns out that she is representative of the Guest Communications area, which is the area that personally responds to guest comments and concerns. We had a really nice conversation, and I was able to pay compliments to some of the CM's whose names I had inadvertantly left out of the letters that I had written, too.

Well, here I am, doing exactly what I promised myself I would not do.....posting while at work! But I couldn't help myself! Plus, I need a break. As it turns out, as understaffed as we are.....now my boss is not well (emotionally exhausted and physically ill - possibly as a result).....so she is taking a leave of absence for an indefinite period of time......thereby sort of leaving me in charge! UGH. I am in no way equipped to run what is left of our group - there is so much "stuff" that I am not familiar with, nor do I WANT to be "in charge". It's such a disaster - first everyone quits or gets laid off or fired, now we have no manager, and we STILL don't have enough people to do all that we have to do! Oh well - we'll carry on somehow, I guess! It's times like these that I REALLY just want to pick up my life, move to the greater Orlando area, and beg WDW for a job!!!!

Hope that everyone had a great weekend! Have a nice day, and see you back at the Suite later on, so that we can meet up before our IllumiNations Cruise! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Rider, you made my day. I don't believe I have ever had anyone agree with me quite so much. Being a mother, I am not that smart. It all started when my children began to talk. LOL

I loved Shreck right up until the princess revealed her 'horrible' secret. If the worst thing anyone can say about me is that I am fat I will die a happy woman. I found the secret to being happy with your size. I married a man who likes me just the way I am. Simple, shame I did not think of that the first time around. I cannot blame people who don't 'like' fat people tho as I used to feel the same about skinny people. I figured they would not like me so I avoided them. I am proud to say that I have friends of every single size, shape, color, religion and economic status now. What changed my life was having my stomach stapled. I regained every single pound I lost and often joke that the only thing I lost was the $7,000 for the surgery. I almost died and it sure changed my outlook fast. I learned how to drive, became the outspoken 'broad' that I am now and found out that my demeanor was more to blame for the way people treated me before than the people themselves. I am one sassy lassy now and very proud of it. Worth almost dying for too!!!

I am glad you looked up the pictures. Dan Murphy did a great job and was so wonderful to everyone. Being hearing impaired being in crowds is difficult for me. Bless Wheelsie and her DH who took me under their wing and kept me on track. I got lost trying to meet up with them at the Disney Store. Very embarrassing.

I am so happy that Disney called you for input. I truly believe that the members of this thread are so knowledgeable about WDW and very able to give constructive criticism. I would be interested in hearing what you commented on.

Bashful, Helena, WMCathy, Janet (hope I am not forgetting anyone) I hope you all had a wonderful day today and we are looking forward to our next adventure.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Linda, it is great to put a face to your name! I was so happy to see how you guys look! Now I can picture you doing your table with and taking care of cute kids and then picturing your DH while he is retired ;) You know, I never did see Shreck. I wasn't too keen on it for some reason and if someone could be so kind as to tell me what the big secret was at the end. I too don't like it when people imply that big people are lazy or something. It doesn't matter as long as you are happy with yourself and if you are happy then that's great! I don't like anything that makes fun of another group so I eliminate a lot of movies just by seeing previews. Like that Bubble Boy movie... ick! How much more demeaning can one get?

Well we did decide to go with the movers. We decided to move a couple of things ourselves but they are moving the VERY big things that two people cannot easily move themselves. So it will be a hair more than $100 and that is fine with us. The things we decided to move ourselves was a chest of drawers (not very big) and our bed (completely collapseable), so that took some $$ off the bill.

Luis is doing much better now. He is going to look for a temp job or a job he can get out easily. It will "keep him off the streets" and make him feel much better. He just had one day of 'distress' and then he was fine. He doesn't dwell on things much so that is good. I wish I could let pain go so quickly ;)

I must say again how much I love coming here... you guys seem to have a great out look on life and are the kind of people I love to hang out with. Non-judgemental. I may have my opinions about people and things but I surely don't expect my friends too... when I am in an ornrey mood, I love getting my diverse group of friends together and have a good friendly debate... it is fun and for those weirdos like myself who love to think things out and get all 'intellectual' it is a world of fun. Anyway... I was a little upset by a thread I read today here... actually not here but the words some were saying about others behind their backs on another board... it was awful! It almost made me cry that people said such nasty things behind our backs... I guess I am over that now.

Well Luis' parents called so I have to go talk with them. I wish I could get them to come visit sometime especially now that we don't know what Luis' vacation schedule will be like. Then again, I kind of look forward to having Christmas at MY HOUSE :D Anyway that is a whole other story for another time. I hope you all are having a great day and I will be glad to join for the IllumiNations Cruise!

[jstmee]

I'm baaaack.......I was among the missing for awhile, I just spent the past hour reading the past posts, I need to keep up more often. Takes too long to catch up on all the news.

Rider, you are going to have your hands full with the cats. I only have one and I know what it's like for another animal to come into our house. Whew.

Helenabear, I've held many jobs and in between jobs, I've always gotten temp jobs, and usually, they like me and want to hire me. It's a great way to get into the door of a company. Hope the move is going well. I have 4 children, so in between kids, I would get temp jobs, heeee and get pregnant again.

SG, congrats on sticking up for the no cosigning stuff. It's a hard decision to make, or is it, but it's good you could stick to your guns.

I am having a last minute garage sale so that we'll be able to eat while down in WDW, lol. Too much to do and no time to do it in. All the kids are in school now. So, I'm back to my normal routine so to speak. Excerise in the am....unless I can find a reason not to go, and house cleaning.

About the movie Shrek, I agree with all the opinions. I am a very large woman myself, however, I am comforable with myself and very athletic. I'd like to be lighter so my back wouldn't take such a beating, but when I ready that will happen.

Ah, speaking of weight, my friend just called, and off to breakfast we go, hi ho hi ho it's so good to be back. I'm going to add the avator also when I get a chance to figure how. bye all

[IASW Rider]

Hey Everyone!

How are you all doing? How are your weekends going?

I've been keeping busy, working on my house, doing more organizing, etc. Tomorrow, Frank and I are going to see "The Producers" on Broadway - can't wait! Unfortunately, we know that Matthew Broderick will not be in tomorrow's performance because he is on vacation(Telecharge called to let us know, in case we wanted a refund). But that's all right - I have already seen him live on stage once. As much as it would have been neat to see him again, I'm sure that the show will be great! I'm really looking forward to seeing Nathan Lane! Some friends of mine went to see the show a few weeks ago and said that Mel Brooks showed up and did a "cameo" - maybe he will be there again, tomorrow!

I also felt kind of uncomfortable with some of the inferences in "Shrek", SG. Especially since not only was the princess's transformation an issue, but Shrek, himself, was also depicted as a "fat, lazy, slob" (albeit an endearing one!). The "secret", Helenabear, is that the princess (the one shown in the commercials, voiced by Cameron Diaz) had a secret all along, which she hid from the other main characters until the end of the film - at sundown, she turned "ugly". But there really wasn't very much that was "ugly" about her, with the exception of the fact that she was plumper and her hair was slightly messed up. I think that the writers of the screenplay probably intended for audiences to get the message that it doesn't matter what you look like, it's the sort of person you are that really "counts". But at the same time, they inadvertantly wound up sending a conflicting message, by implying that the princess had reason to be ashamed of her "true self". And I agree with you, Heleabear - I would never see that "Bubble Boy" movie - the commercials bother me, also!

You have a wonderful and amazing attitude, SG! And you look fantastic and happy and are obviously very confident and happy with yourself! I, too, have learned through the years that there are many worse things that someone could call me than "fat" and that there were many times when I was a lot less happy than I am at my current weight when I happened to have been "thinner". Don't get me wrong - I would like to be healthy and could stand to lose a few pounds from that perspective, but I refuse to ever starve myself to death again, or torture myself about eating this or that. Life is too short to be concerned with things like those. I'm sorry that you had a bad experience with stomach stapling, SG. It sounds like the aftermath was very frightening and unpleasant. Thank God you are the healthy, happy, great person whom you are and that you recovered and moved past it!

Hi Jstmee! Are you beginning to get ready for your WDW trip? How are your children enjoying school, so far? Glad to hear that your schedule has calmed down a bit and great to hear from you!

And glad to hear that Luis is feeling better, Helenabear! I'm sure that he will find a great temp job and will soon have a completely different outlook on his job situation! How did the rest of your move go? (the movers were coming today, weren't they? Or am I losing my mind and remembering incorrectly??) You're probably up to your ears in boxes and unpacking! How are the kitties adjusting and settling in to their new home? I remember how mine hid behind the boxes and refused to move, when I first moved into my house - I bet that Frank's cats will be the same way when they move in, next month! But they adjust and settle in quickly and are soon enjoying exploring their new surroundings and finding new favorite places to sleep! Can't wait to see more pictures, when you're all settled in!

I'm sorry to hear that you ran into a thread where people were saying unkind things. I'm surprised that people would behave that way on The DIS - I've never seen anything like that before, here. Well, we know that we have eachother, here in the Suite, and we are lucky to have found such wonderful on-line friends with whom to share our lives and experiences! I'm so happy that we can all get together and "talk", as we do here!

Well, time for dinner! Hope that you're all having a great weekend! :)

[luvdsny]

:wave: Hello all you crazy and wild :crazy: EWP types! :D Welcome to the CB. :bounce:

[bashful64]

Hi everyone.

I hope you are all having a fantastic weekend. I am just getting into the back to school stuff here. My DS is starting kindergarten this year and is only going for 1 hour a day. Unfortunatey the school is a 20 minute drive away so I need to stay there until he is done (takes up over 2 hours of my day) and then my DD gets out 1 hour after him (stillno time to drive home). So basically my days have been spent anywhere but at my PC. By mid week next week though life should be back to more or less normal. Then hopefully I can catch up with you all.

Take care everyone and I will be back in residence at the EWP suite very soon!

[SlightlyGoofy]

I am so sorry people. I was in here the other day and tried to post twice and had both disappear. I meant to try again later and got caught up in my hectic life. I had written such insightful, wonderful, perfectly composed thngs too. (grin) I could blame it all on Jstmee as I was trying to give her directions to add our EWP hat and kept slipping out of the forum but I won't as it must have been that new hand cream of mine.

Bashful, I can relate. My 4 year old grandson is going to preschool and I am doing the duty getting him from preschool to daycare each day. I remembered my tactics that I used when my kids were growing up. I used to take 'work' in the car to do while waiting. I even had wipes to clean the inside of the car while wating. It was amazing the things I got done back in the days when I had more to do and even less time than today. You are wonderful to do all these things for your children. It does give you a bit of one on one with your DS while waiting for your DD though. There were times when mine were teens that the only conversations we ever had were in the car (they couldn't jump out). (grin)

Hi there Luv. How wonderful of you to drop by. I checked out your profile. You are our kind of people- Domestic Goddess and warped sense of humor. Please free to move furniture around to suit yourself or even better, just ask Bo Dacious or Don Juan to do it for you. You see here our main living area with complete entertainment center and the newest and fastest in computers, DVD's, large flat screen tv's etc. The enclosed veranda surrounds the suite and there is a Mickey shaped jucuzzi overlooking the lagoon where the EWP saunters by just for our perusal. Pick up your resort credit card at our private conceirge's desk. Thru wise investing we are able to enjoy the Kingdom without the mundane worries of actually paying for anything. Looking forward to sharing adventures with you.

Rider, I am so jealous. My sister went to see "The Producers" for her 50th birthday recently. Naturally she had bought her tickets way back before it was a mega hit so she had wonderful seats at half the price of most around her. I saw a show on PBS with Mel Brooks and company showing the rehearsals. It has long been a dream of mine to see a real Broadway play. I have been to many of the shows after they have long been off Broadway but it is not the same. I wonder, is it possible to drive to the NYC area and then find a tour to take you into the city for a tour and some of the shows? I am not a big city driver, heck I am not even a little city driver. That is one of the big things about Disney, I can drive down, park it and enjoy any type of recreation that I can think of all in one wonderful place.

Thank you for all the kind and thoughtful things you said. As I have already said I was guilty of judging people by their looks also so I was not blameless and I had such low self esteem that I bought the cheapest and ugliest clothes and that did not help things either. I am over all that and have learned so much. I wish it was true that I am healthy though. I have survived better than lots of people who had the operation but there are side effects and they are not very good. I just wanted to scream when I read about Carnie Wilson's surgery. Mostly I wanted to punch her mother who said the day before the operation how happy she was that her daughter was having the surgery and how proud she would be when she lost the weight and was beautiful!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhh!!!! Isn't having a wonderful singing voice, being kind and nice enough to be proud of? Nuff stuff.

Jstmee, you are a queen among women. Taking care of 4 children no matter how wonderful and loving they are is quite a job. I wonder that you have any time to join us at all but I am so very glad that you do. You need to get away now and then for your sake. I will make sure that the 'boys' give you some extra special pampering. About the avatar thing. I am afraid to go back and go through the steps for fear of slipping away again so I will try to go by memory. At the top of the page is "user cp" click that and go to 'user preferences" Go through step by step and choose how you want your options. At the bottom is the area for the avatar (what the h eck does that mean? I am an English major and have never heard that word). They ones preset you can chose or you can do your own. I believe that you type "" then paste the url for the picture you want then put" " at the end. (Do not include the quotes) You get the url by right clicking on the picture and picking 'properties'. I hope I did that all right. Good luck. You can add any picture to any post by doing this.

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Helenabear, I just see you both all cozy in your new home this evening. Am I right? Not being an animal person (scared to death of them and allergic) I might be wrong but I bet if you are moving from an apartment to a home with some yard that your cats will be in heaven once they get used to things. Did you and Luis argue about what went where or is one of you in sole charge of such things? My DH always argues but he loves most of it when I am done. One major fiasco with a bedroom many years ago. He should have told me he did not like the color yellow before I painted the walls. I don't suppose the orange shag carpet helped either. Do I need to mention that this was the 70's? ROTFL My grandson's great grandma came by today to visit while they were here and liked the tile job so much that I am going over and doing over her sink. She is 88 and going strong. Yeah!! I hope all your furniture got moved in without any scratches or dents and you have enough energy left over to life a toast to your new life in your new home. Best wishes Elaine and Luis

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Good night my dear friends. I am ambling off for an early evening. Too much fun today for an 'old' lady like myself. Take care and I hope the rest of the weekend is everything you want it to be.

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

testing image, 123, testing img, now I want to add EWP Groupie. I copied the one from you SG, but can't figure out how to get it in. Do I choose upload? then but img/......../img? If you don't know that's ok, i'll keep trying till I get it. Later friends.

[jstmee]

I know this avator thing is probably pretty simple, but, aaargh........I've spent too much time on it. My DH is having a business guest to our house today. This man is from Switzerland. I've been away yesterday for a retreat and my house is a disastor, and what am I doing? Taking some R and R with Bo and Don. I guess I needed it after seeing the disaster in the home. The temperate up here is hot. I have a little sore throat and my daughter does also. Less then two weeks till WDW and I'm panicking that we will all have colds. So much for venting I better go clean.

[SlightlyGoofy]

WTG Jstmee!! You got the hat. I am not sure what happened with the words though. I copied mine from Rider's so maybe that is the key? Maybe Rider can get it fixed when she drops by. I just learn what I need to know as I go along. I wish I had time to sit down and go step by step to really learn what I am doing on the computer but life keeps happening.

The boys were pooped by the time their parents came to pick them up late last night. They were so good and so sweet. There were so many pleases and thank yous and excuse mes that this granny's heart was full of pride. Their parents would have died from shock though. LOL

Jstmee, I am so sorry that you are having a stressful day. Just don't sweat the small stuff. I have found that the 'messes' in my home are mostly in my own mind. When you live in a space you notice small things that a visitor would never notice. Besides there is a good chance that your visitor lives in the 'real' world also and will be more comfortable in a less than perfect situation. I go bananas over cleaning my house. My DD tells me it is because I have picked the 'wrong' friends and I should find less perfect ones. LOL Speaking of 'perfect' friends, they are all coming to my house Wednesday. You should see the list of things I think I am going to get done by then. (big belly laugh). I have a feeling that your visitor is going to be so entranced with meeting your children that they will never notice the Cheerios under the couch cushion. Relax, enjoy and have a nice visit. The place I am most comfortable visiting is the home of a dear friend where we have to push piles of papers around the dining room table to find room for our glasses of tea. It is the company and not the clean that counts IMHO.

Hope your husband gets a bunch of new business from this gentleman and you can afford a maid to take care of all the mundane and uninteresting things of life!!

I am going over to O'Hana for lunch and then a walk around the Polynesian to see what is going on. Anybody want to come along or have a better idea?

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

OMG, the Swiss man just left and he is another Bo or Don, you wouldn't believe it. Very handsome and very nice. Figured out how to put the avator in, woohoo. Wow I posted a lot today. Guess I needed a virtual place to go. At least the house is now clean, the Swiss man is gone, his name was Skip by the way, and he is married with two children, I gave him a couple of little toys for his girls to take home to Switzerland with him and he took some pics of our family to bring to his family. Now, that I'm done playing with the avator, I've got to get kiddos ready for school tomorrow, cook dinner, etc. Hope everyone had a good weekend. Helenabear, are you rested from your move, or still moving?

[SlightlyGoofy]

Jstmee, the key to most things is tenacity and you have lots of it. Good job. See, I told you the visit by the magnificent Swiss man would go well. He will remember the thoughtfulness of your gifts to his children far more than he will the fact that you dusted the ductwork. (grin) I am glad that all went well and I hope it brings your DH enough extra business to afford an extra trip or at least a longer trip to DW in the future.

I am having a luncheon here Wednesday so I will not be lazing around the pool as I would like. I will crawl in here for the next few evenings to get reguvinated for the following day. All work and no play makes for a very grumpy Goofy!!

I hope you are all having a great day.

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[helenabear]

Hi all... a quick pop in for a quick get away here at work. We are still moving. We did get our comfy furniture and nice fridge on Saturday and the movers are moving things this Sat. So we should be living there on Friday... I will have to keep you posted later but I wanted to say hi and stop in for yummy food and great atmosphere :D

[SlightlyGoofy]

Just popping in for a minute to see what Helenabear is up to. Comfy furniture and a fridge - what more could a person want? Sounds like home to me already. Most other things are things you have to work with so they are best left until last anyway. LOL

I think I have all the glass picked up and vacumned up from where my DH knocked over the marble topped table last night. He still does not understand why I was adament that he not walk around in the room until I got it cleaned. I am the one who goes barefooted so I know the dangers of ground in glass. Why do these things happen when you already have so much to do? Cest la vie!!!


Off for a quick stroll around the grounds and to check out the gondola that Don had brought to the lagoon just for our use.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Howdy everyone!!! I hope you all are having a great day! I just bought Luis' birthday present. He never wore a watch before and so now I bought him one that he liked. He used to hate the thought of having a tan line but he grew up a little ;) He pointed this watch out to me before so I know he'll love it!

As I said we got some more stuff moved this weekend (hence my absence from here :( ) Our furniture is wonderful and as soon as I get my camera unpacked and batteries recharged, I will take pictures of the newly furnished home. So far we don't fight much with where things go. We have so much more space than before (about 600 on the main floors and 300 in the basement) so we don't have much problem with spacial issues :D We brought the cats over for a visit on Saturday and Cleo LOVED the place. Gwen was a little shy but she seemed to be okay but boy did Cleo just prance around like she owned the place. It was rather cute and that made me happy to know I picked a good place for my babies!

I am shocked by the message sent out in Shrek. I really can't believe that they would have a princess so unhappy with herself that she can't show her true self in public. To me that isn't good. I think you should be happy with yourself and if you aren't then do something about it, but never let yourself get to be a Clasita Flockhart or anything like that. Someone compared her to Audry Hepburn and I about died! Audrey was beautiful and elegant... not wafer thin (granted shew as thin but not deathly thin). She was more like my grandmother... naturally skinny but it didn't look bad. My grandmother is funny too... she always made sure I ate enough because I am not much of a big eater and she was always afraid I would starve. She was always feeling my wrists to make sure they had some meat on them.... silly lady :)

Luis just found another job to apply for that I would love him to get. It would be a bilingual tech support job. My Spanish is so horrid that at least he would be able to speak with someone else in Spanish once in a while. So here's to hoping.

Well I should get back to reality. I have a few things to do but I promise after we move I won't be so busy :D

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helena, I got a kick out of Luis' fear of tan lines. I vaugely remember being that young once but as you age little things matter less and less. If my underwear is clean I am a happy camper nowadays!!!

I am sure glad to hear that your kitties approve of the new home. I bet they would like anywhere that you guys are tho. 900 sq ft. is enough when you are still newlyweds. We have over 3000 and there are some days when we could use some more. LOL

I won at trivia tonight. I am very competitive. Not the kind that gets mad if I lose tho. I am one of those sick people who loves to take tests. I am ducking as I can feel those bricks being thrown in my direction. (grin)

My DD helped put up the last curtain for me when she came to pick up her oldest son. It looks very nice. They are white on white with little floral patterns on the edges that just match the wallpaper perfectly. Once I get the copper panels put into the cabinet fronts I think I will be done with this room and ready to get to the next project. I work kind of slow now. I am also very picky so it makes it harder.

The stars sure are lovely tonight. Sometimes you have to remember what is important and get back to the basics. Even Disney cannot compete with some things.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hey everyone! Sorry that I haven't been around for a few days! Just wanted to drop by quickly - will try to sneak in some time at work to post again! Hope that all is well with all of you! Will be in touch soon! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Today we gather here in the only safe sane place in the world. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the innocent victims of this terrible situation and hope that it does not esculate further and that the people responsible are brought to justice, such as it is in this world. May all your loved ones be safe.

Slightly Goofy, Really Mad and Very Hurt

[bashful64]

I pray that all of my EWP friends are safe.

My prayers go out to the people who lost friends and family in this tragedy.

[SlightlyGoofy]

It is a sad day in America when they have to close down Disney World and Disneyland. No words can come to mind to convey the anger, pain and fear I feel. Dear friends, I pray that you and your loved ones are safe and that this thing comes to an end soon with the proper people being brought to justice.

Linda (too focused to be even slightly Goofy today)

[CathyCanada]

I agree Linda, it is a sad, sad day. My prayers are with you all on this terrible day.
Cathy

[helenabear]

I cannot say how sad of a day this is for America and the world as a whole. I just pray for those who lost family members, those who are hurt, or have a loved on hurt by this sensless act...

We do have family in the DC area and so far we have doubts that any were hurt, but I will keep you posted!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Cathy - Thank you so much for being a neighbor and a friend. It means so much to people and even a country at a time like this. Helenabear, I am sure that your family and loved ones are safe but it will still be a terrible time for them and all our prayers and support will be needed to help restore their sense of safety. I have a BIL and a nephew in government service that are often in the third world countries and I am awaiting news of where they are. Since they are high ranking officials I would feel that they are probably safe but at a time like this you want them all near. I have left my grands where they are as they need to be sheltered from the newscasts for as long as possible. I am thinking over how to answer their questions and pray for the wisdom to make them be able to sleep well tonight and every night after. God willing that all children in all countries could be granted the same.

Linda

[helenabear]

Hi all! I just wanted to let you know that Luis' mom called and she is fine (she works for the Library of Congress). I also heard from another friend in DC and she is fine. I only have two friends left to hear from! So all is looking good! I will definitely be back later tonight as I will need to get away from it all... in the mean time I am going to my Dad's house to pick up some of my old stuff.

[SlightlyGoofy]

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We are family, we may fight among ourselves from time to time but woe be to those who hurt one of us for we will band together and vanquish them. To our Disney family and their loved ones we send much Pixie Dust and prayers for your safety and those of those you love.

The EWP Group

[helenabear]

I just wanted to wish everyone a good night and I hope you enjoy th evening... with all of our nice servers away today (out of respect for the bombing) it was kind of quiet here in the lounge this evening... but I needed it after today. I feared for my MIL and this even makes me wonder why I should bring children into a world like this. I hope we can all mourn when we need in our own way and try not to let this effect the important things in our lives in a negative manner. Sleep well everyone!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Elaine

We bring children into this world to make it a better place, to teach us anew about innocence and joy in simple things. To lead the way, to teach us pure love, and because we need them.

Linda/SG

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[helenabear]

Linda,

When I was so upset about the whole situation yesterday, my thoughts were why have children if they are supposed to make a difference and then we have people in this nation and across the world who breed hate. How can my children go up against them? I was sickened by the footage the BBC had of the Palastinian children cheering with their families. A few other groups are cheering as well! How can a country be so cruel! I may not agree with how the Palestinians live their lives or treat some people or whatever but if they had this happen to them, I would not cheer and I would hate to see any young child out there cheering. Your points of finding simple joys and love is very true. I even saw that in my babies last night. They were sooo cute and cuddly it made the world better. There is something about a cute fuzzy face coming right up to yours and licking your nose that is totally irreplacable with anything else.

I am getting over this, but it really was sick to watch how some reacted. I am also afraid as to what will happen next. Even going and bombing a country at night so there are few casualties will destroy a nation. Or at least it could destroy lives of the people who do not agree with what the majority felt. I am such a passifist I will admit, so any war to me in excessive. This is obviously my opinion and I don't want anyone to think that their different thoughts are wrong... that is why we are here so the ones who can agree to a war will balance out the people like me ;)

I want to thank you all for letting me vent. Life will get back to 'normal' soon and Luis will turn 24 tomorrow so I have to make sure he gets a good birthday :D I hope you all have a splendid day!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Helenabear

I understand. It is so difficult to think of bringing children into a world where they might find pain and horror. Each baby has the potential to change things though. This is the perfect place to state your feelings. No one will berate you for them and we will do our best to make you feel better. I know I enjoy having this place when my life seems out of control and painful.
Please do not dwell on the children in the other countries that appeared to be celebrating. They don't have access to papers and news like we do and only know what their 'leaders' tell them. If a child thinks he/she may receive something to eat by doing a happy dance over events that they do not understand and they are starving it is hard to judge them. Forgive them for they know not what they do.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LUIS!!!!



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I hope that this day will bring everyone a better understanding of yesterday's events and more rescue miracles and good friends to share the sorrow with. Please fly your flags if you have them.

[jstmee]

A sad time indeed. My prayers are stronger and my hugs to my children stronger, I don't want to be away from them. God graced my DH with a work week that didn't include flying out this week, he drove to his destination. He usually flies out of Boston. I thank my God for this miracle--I still want him home though. My brother who is a Master Sargeant in the US Army for 21 years is in Louisiana right now. He was meeting with officials for a peacekeeping effort in Kosavo. I think these plans will change now. His family, my 2 neices, and wife are under complete lock down on their military base with the highest Delta code ever. Yesterday school let out early and they searched the busses, under them, the kids and under the seats, my neices where petrified. My SIL's car was completely searched also. I live on the Canadian border and they closed borders for a short time also, my sons dentist is in Canada, but I can't go there for fear of not being able to return for now anyway, they are searching all cars. Which is a good thing.

Remember the Swiss guy I was talking about? My children are very shaken up about all of this and in their little minds, they are wondering if he had any part in these hijackings, etc. What a world we live in. I watched the 13th Day, a video about the Cuban Missile Crisis on Sunday and commented to my DH how lucky we are that we don't have to live in that fear. And what happended Tuesday not only confirmed a fear, but put it into reality.

We are supposed to go to WDW in 10 days, and we fly out of boston, one stop in Maryland, the kids are soooooo mad at the hijackers for potentially ruining their trip. God Bless America and God love all of you. Whoever your God is...............Also, Elaine, about having children, I said the same thing at the age of 18, I'm 40 now. I figured the world wouldn't be fit for children around this time, and wow, I'm right, however, children will keep the world going and we will keep going because of our children. Have a good day everyone.

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone,

We, here in the NY area, are still shell shocked from the horrible events of yesterday, as are people in every area of the country and the world. Thank God I have now (finally) confirmed that none of my friends who live and / or work in NYC were hurt, yesterday. (It was virtually impossible to get through to any NY telephone number yesterday, and my own phone was "down" for parts of the day, as well.) Some of them didn't go to work at all. Some tried and (fortunately) never made it close enough to the financial district to be near the tragedy. Some were evacuated from their buildings early enough to be safe. And from what I understand, our Merrill Lynch colleagues are all safe, as well (I don't know if you noticed on the maps which they've been showing on the news how close the ML buildings are to the World Trade Center site). The past 24 hours have been unbelievable. So glad to have found all of your words of comfort and inspiration on this thread, today.

Hope that you're all hanging in there, today! I decided not to go in to work - even though the Exchanges are closed today, ML is open. But I had an appointment with the neurologist this morning, and by the time I was finished, I thought it best not to make my 20 mile commute, if the office was going to close early as I suspected that it might.

Thoughts and prayers to you and your loved ones and everyone else in this country, today.

And wishing Luis a very Happy Birthday, as well!

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone - just wanted to check in.

Jstmee - I don't know how I missed your last post when I posted. I can't imagine how difficult it's been for you and your DH to explain what's been happening in the world to your children. Or you and your DH to your grandchildren, SG. Thank God your husband didn't fly to his business destination. I hope that it will still be safe for you and your family to fly to WDW - I'm sure that the authorities are doing everything they can to ensure that when the airports reopen, air travel will be much safer.

Yesterday, I received an e-mail from an old friend of mine who is a radio and TV news reporter in NYC. She sent a message to all of her friends, letting us know what she had seen and experienced first hand and sharing her feelings. Thought that you might like to see some exerpts from that message (the rest included personal messages to other NY news reporters and police people whom she had encountered at the site and who had been injured, and her wishes for them to recover quickly):

"for starters...i want to thank everyone who called me in the past 24 hrs...a few of you heard me on the radio in california, chicago, florida and boston...as i described the towers coming down..

i was a safe distance away...but many people i know were not...

for those of you who dont live here...
new york city is stunned...there is an errie quiet...like someone dropped a nuclear bomb on us...and in a sense they did....all i heard all night were ambulances, fire trucks and
emergency vehicles moving about...and all i could think about was the massive loss of life.

as i watched the towers burn...and then the first one explode and tumble...i couldnt believe my eyes,,,it was hard to process- simply mind- numbing ..my first thought was - this is what they wanted to happen back in 1993...during the world trade center bombing...they wanted to take down both towers..and they didnt succeed...

but in the same split second of thought...i thought of the THOUSANDS of people who work in those buildings everyday...coming to work that morning...sitting at their desks...in the bathroom, on phone calls...and dying on impact when a plane hit them...and then i cant help but think of the people on the planes...total horror...

all of the firefighters that are gone..and the chief...and the police officers ...it is a sin what happened..
the people who worked at morgan stanley..the people who ran the port authority...the people who worked at windows on the world..all the folks who worked in the eateries and mall stores underground...i just cant imagine...so many law firms and accounting firms in there...

my thoughts are of the handicapped in wheel chairs who just didnt have a chance.

if you had never been in the buildings..you just cant imagine how huge they were..and how many people worked,visited and admired them everyday.

and i think about all the security desk people...since 93...security was really beefed up in the building...they really tried after the free for all atmosphere that used to exist there...after the bombing you had to call upstairs, have a contact, get a photo taken, get a paper/sticker id, check in again by the elevator be escorted up...a great effort that ultimately failed big time.

but back to the towers tumbling...
one man said to me...as we stood frozen on the street " a part of america is gone"

and i feel the exact same way..

like all new yorkers...no matter how many times since i was a little girl that i have seen these 110-story buildings...i would always look up and admire them...
they were a symbol of our beautiful city...a symbol of freedom and free enterprise in our country and obviously buildings known around the world...on monday i worked all day at the new york stock exchange...spent my lunch hour outdoors- just blocks away from the trade center.....and as i drove to work that morning via the fdr drive...i admired the buildings - like i always do,,...always reflecting on the bombing back in 93...the thought of soot on people;s faces...remembering all the school kids that had been stuck up there for hours...the tour they gave reporters a few days after the bombing...the thick black dirt on the carpets/ on the walls- everywhere...the smell in the air...the open newspapers on peoples desks and the half full coffee cups...linger in my mind...the speed in which people evacuated...they ran and theft everything...i thought that was one of the worst days...until yesterday.

as the towers tumbled...people screamed OH MY GOD OH MY GOD and people men and women young and old were sobbing. some mumbled...this is just not right.

the other chilling moment happened about an hour later on lafayette street...thousands of people - like ants...making a huge exodus north...imagine a baseball game or a rock concert letting out..multiply that thought by 1-hundred....imagine all of lower manhattan being evacuated...on foot...some had masks on...others barefoot...some on bikes or rollerblades...business men and women in suits...wall street floor traders still wearing their jackets...all silent - all in a state of shock...

but there was this one woman in tears...i asked her what was wrong and she told me her husband...she heard was alive...seconds later...this guy- covered head to toe in white dust and plaster...emerged...she wailed and hugged him and this sea of people making the journey north ,,stopped and clapped...he works for the port authority...his name is chuck and he was on the 68th floor of tower 1...15 flights below where the first plane hit...he climbed down 68 flights of steps...he told me.."it was easier this time"- he escaped in 93 as well. he looked like he had survived a war...
his hair looked like it was shampoo'd in plaster...sticking up and thick - he was covered in ash...his eyelashes were even covered with grey dust...but he was one of the lucky ones...he was alive. it;s the only good bit of news i reported all day.

this is a wake up call...a wake up call to not be so petty...be nice to people.. when you ask someone "how are you?" mean it and wait for the answer. hug the ones you love...life is soooooo fragile...you just never know. yesterday proves it.

robyn"

I hope that all is well with all of you and hope that you are hanging in there and have a nice day.

[SlightlyGoofy]

I don't know how it is possible to be both numb and angry but that is how I feel. I did not realize that Rider was so very close to it all. I am so glad that it seems that the denizens of this suite seem to have escaped the worst of the terror. My heart is full with concern for the victims family who are just now able to grasp the enormity of what has happened. America has to gather together and support New York and Washington. We are family and what happens to one happens to all. If we all pitch in the burden will be lightened enough that we can all go on.

I am a student of history and can guess some of what will now have to occur and have no fear that we cannot do what must be done. I am so proud that we will not do it without concern and even some doubt. It seems as if the information is coming forward quickly so we will be able to place the blame where it belongs.

Rider, thank you so much for posting the views of your friend. The professional coverage does not often cut through to the human pain. So much information can become overwheilming and deaden you to the real pain.

My 4 year old is far too young to know what is going on and I just listen to my 10 year old grandson and am so awed at his thoughts. He has obviously spent many hours thinking about these things. He has requested a Friday sleepover with some homemade pumpkin pie baking. I imagine a great deal more talking will occur. It helps to talk. Thank you all for listening.

May this day bring some miracles and bring us one day closer to being able to understand some of this.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

This will be short because we are moving more things today... Luis' birthday present is the house ;) so he doesn't mind.

Rider, I am so glad you are okay. I didn't realize you were so close to it all! I am still mellow but this will probably take time I am sure. Everything feels so out of control and even with our new house, things just aren't as exciting as they could be... it will pass and hopefully by our anniversary we will be up to celebrating 100%. Sorry to sound so down but everything around me feels sad. I am so glad I have my baby kittens... they help me remember how sweet and innocent some are. They are happy and loving always... I could learn something from them :D

I hope everyone is doing good! And I think in honor of the president's request, maybe we should take the time to pray, meditate or whatever we do when a sad situation passes and give the EWP lounge some time to be closed tomorrow... what do you all think?

[SlightlyGoofy]

I agree that closing the suite for the day in honor of our dead and wounded is a good thing but I also think that changing our way of life for what those low life #@&%%$ have done is not something I would care to do. If it is ok with everyone else how about posting the best thing that you can find on the Internet to commerate the sad events of this week? I am not the type to get out of sorts if people do not agree with me so whatever everyone else thinks is fine with me.

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[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone,

How are you all doing, this weekend? Things are starting to become "regular" around here, again. Needless to say, we still have 24-hour-a-day news coverage of the tragedy, the destruction, the rescue effort, and updates on volunteer programs, people still searching for loved ones, and what's going on in the hospitals. I've been so wrapped up in watching the coverage in all my free time that I haven't signed on to my computer - sorry that I haven't visited the Suite or been able to find something appropriate from the internet / e-mail to post here, as SG suggested (I think that that's a good idea!). They moved a bunch of people from Merrill Lynch's World Financial Center offices into our building, yesterday. Everyone on my street has American flags flying from their homes, and people put candles in front of their houses last night, too. I am pretty close to NYC - about 30 miles away - Central NJ is really considered a suburb of Manhattan. There are areas of Central NJ which are high enough so that the NY skyline is visible on clear days. (It looks very strange, depressing, and surreal without the "twin towers", as well call them.) Many people who live in my area commute to work in Manhattan, and many of my friends moved there after college. I spend a fair amount of time in NYC, visiting friends, going to the theater (I was there just last Sunday!), etc. I've also spent time in the Wall Street / Financial District area for work, so I'm very familiar with all of the buildings and images which they show on TV. I'd been inside the World Trade Center towers many times as a child, or while showing out of town friends the "sights". I'm also about 20 miles away from Newark Airport. It's strange - I'm so used to hearing planes flying over my house, since they have to do that to get to Newark......but now all I hear is the occasional military fighter plane flying overhead en route to NY. We had a very violent thunderstorm here, a few nights ago. I hate thunderstorms in the middle of the night in general - I'm a real baby when it comes to those things - I refuse to go back to sleep until it's over! But when the thunder started a few nights ago, I was totally petrified - I really worried that it was another explosion or a bomb, or something. And since the thunder and lightning continued through the night, I barely got any sleep at all - it was very unsettling.

Anyway.........

How was Luis's birthday, Helenabear? And when is your anniversary? My cats provide a great comfort to me, as well! As I've been sitting for hours watching the coverage on TV, lately, one of my cats in particular has been very sensitive to my moods and has been spending a lot of time in my lap and licking my face (I drew the line when he decided to munch on my forehead, last night!). They really cheer me up and always put me in a good mood.

How are you and your family doing, SG? I agree with your thoughts about what must be done now and that it's positive that so much forethought is going into the planning process.

Jstmee - how are you and your family doing? Will you still be able to take your WDW vacation? I hope that you will be able to do so and are looking forward to a safe and enjoyable vacation.

Hope that all is well with all of you! Take care and speak to you soon!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hello Rider. I thank you so much for your remarks about your personal experiences. It helps us to understand more of what is going on. I want you to know that all of the US is willing to pitch in and do whatever it takes to help NYC and DC at this time and whenever needed.

I have been having terrible headaches and I don't usually have them. I am trying to turn off the tv some of the time as it is just too overwhelming. I am finding other things to do that might be of some use so please pardon me if I am not able to come in as often as I might like. It helps to do something.

I hope that Helena and Luis are sitting on their back deck and enjoying a sunset these days. Makes me smile to think of it.

Bashful, Cathy and all - you are all in my thoughts and prayers and hoping that we will once again get to meet in the suite and share silly stories and fond memories.

Slightly Goofy

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[helenabear]

Hi everyone!!!! It's been since Thursday night since I have had my cable hook up and boy did I miss it! I hope everyone had a good weekend. We moved almost all of our stuff here and I was so happy to finally have a dishwasher that I must have done about 6 loads in two days. With just the two of us, we probably won't use it every day even, but it is so nice to have it! I was very happy to have our cable hook up here as well on Saturday. TV land has had Brady Bunch reruns and it really helped to get my mind off of everything.

Luis' birthday was nice. It was quiet on Thursday (we didn't do anything too special) but yesterday we had the family get together. We weren't sure we would be able to as we were waiting for my dad to return from PA. But we were lucky, my dad got a flight out and was on time as well :D

Rider, our anniversary is Oct. 7 (just three days after our baby Gwen's first birthday). She has grown so much and now weighs 13 pounds!!! The cats are happy here and both have adjusted very nicely!

Well I should get going... I've been away a long time and have a lot of things to catch up on!

[jstmee]

Hello, everyone. It's Monday and we have 5 more days until WDW. We are still in a numb state up here. On the Canadian border the US guards stop you, search you, etc. I exercise in Canada and on Friday at 8:45 they stopped everything for a 3 minute moment of silence. Gosh, how touching. The flags in Canada are all half-mast, the fire department has an American flag hanging on top of one of their huge ladder trucks sticking in the air. At the end of mass on Sunday we sand America the Beautiful and I was sobbing. Couldn't help it. The reality is setting in.

On a good note, we are all set for WDW my DD is all packed. She packed on Saturday. I am still waiting for some meal coupons I bought through connections. I sure hope they come in before the trip.

I think we should all meet at the jacuzzi tonight for some much needed relaxation. Helenabear from your move. Rider from your tests that they did (do you have results yet) and SG most likely from you sleepover. Also, CathyCanada and Bashful, come on in the water is warm.

Until tonight, everyone have a wonderful day

[SlightlyGoofy]

This is the start of a new day in America. Things may never be the same but that does not mean all bad news. We have awaken to what is truly important in life and will be stronger and better for it. If we lose some things we will gain others. This country has proven over and over again that it can conquer any adversity and thrive in times of stress.

Jstmee, please save me a spot (large one please? grin) in the jacuzzi tonight. I am so looking forward to being with my EWP friends this evening. I will arrange for Don, Bo and the guys to deliver our favorite foods and have some lovely blooming flowers to the balcony. When you return from your trip would you please post on your experiences with Connections? I have read so many different posts on the subject. Can you get your certificates on your trial membership and then cancel? I don't believe it would be worth it if we had to pay the whole fee. Also, not sure I could eat so many courses. We often order one big meal and I just eat part of my DH's. Might be worth it to try some of the more expensive places though. I hope that your trip is wonderful and you have so many memories to help you get over some of the bad ones that we will carry the rest of our lives. We are so blessed to have the Canadians as our neighbors. It meant so much to me to get messages from so many of my international friends after the tragedy. At times like this you learn what is important in life and it sure ain't tthings.

Helena, you are so right about finding something on cable to watch. My head has been aching so much for the past few days and I don't usually have headaches. Had to go to the store to get more aspirin. I felt badly when I first turned to H&G but soon realized that I could not be effective and get the other things I needed to do done if I was so stressed out. My heart is 24/7 with the victims and families no matter what I am watching on tv. Frankly, I spend an awful lot of time cleaning the house. It seems to help me to put some order where I can. I cannot give blood as I have had so many operations but we have sent as much cash as we could to the effort and plan to do more as it goes along. It seems to be the only things that we can really do. It is difficult to figure out where to send it so it will be used to good effect.

Had a strange thing happen here yesterday. A well dressed man came to our house wanting to get us to invest with his company. Never seen a broker going door to door. Did not seem kosher to me at any rate. We will have to watch for people who will take advantage of times like this. Sad situation.

Cathy, Bashful, Rider, Janet, please join us this evening. We would so enjoy seeing your beautiful faces and hearing your experiences.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi ladies! I am popping in very quickly since my back is hurting from bending over so much. All is well but we are tired from moving... so now I am going to hop into the hot tub and enjoy the rest of the evening! I will not watch TV as my heart can only hurt so much and I need to relax before I unpack some more :D

[IASW Rider]

Hi All!

Once again, sorry that I have not been around very much, lately. I enjoyed catching up on everyone's posts today, though!

SG - have you seen a doctor about these headaches that you've been having? Do they always seem to come at the same time of day or evening? And are they always in the same place or on one side only? I really, really hope that you don't have the same sorts of headaches that I was having last month. I hope that they go away soon and that you are feeling much beter - I know how painful those can be and how they can interrupt your life. How has everything else been going?

(On another headache-related note, I actually got the results of my CAT-scan - they know that my headaches were not caused by anything sinus related. I went to take the MRI and MRA, today....but the second that the technician put me in the machine and put the mask-like thing over my face to hold my head still, I panicked and freaked out from claustrophobia, and wasn't able to go through with it! I was so embarrassed for acting like such a "baby", but the technician admitted to me that many people have trouble dealing with MRI's (plus, she told me that I would have to be in there for an HOUR!).....and that many people toake DRUGS (ie: valium, xanax) to get through them! I couldn't believe that! I couldn't imagine taking medications before having pictures of my BRAIN taken! Anyway, who knows if I will ever get the courage to go through with it.)

So glad to hear that you are almost fully moved in to your new home, Helenabear! And glad to hear that Luis's birthday was nice and that the kitties are enjoying their new environment! And glad to hear that you're enjoying the dishwasher - I can relate! The things that I appreciate most about my house are the dishwasher and washing machine / dryer!

Thanks so much for your account of how things have been up there and in Canada, Jstmee. I agree with SG taht we are very lucky to have Canada as a neighbor. And that it's wonderful that so many other countries are showing their support of the United States at this time. Also, so glad to hear that you and your family are still planning to go to WDW. I'm sure that it will be a much deserved break and distraction, and a great opportunity to relax and concentrate on having fun! Please tell us all about your trip when you get back!

Well, people in the NY area seem to be heeding President Bush's and Mayor Giuliani's advice and are trying to get back to work and "normal life" and schedules. I'm still trying to get back into the swing of things at work, as I was out for the past 2 days for Rosh Hashana. But aside from that, things seem to be settling down a bit (I don't know if that's a good thing or not!). I have one friend (who happens to be 8 months pregnant) who is literally petrified to return to her job near Wall Street and is begging to work from home. I have another friend who doesn't have an office to go to any more, even if she WANTED to return to the Financial District. It's very weird and scary. I make the mistake of watching the news coverage just before I go to sleep....and then I can't fall asleep because I keep hearing (probably imagining) noises and I get scared that terrorists are trying to break into my house! As of 2 days ago, some regular programming returned to our TV stations and we no longer have 24-hour-a-day coverage of the progress being made at "Ground Zero" in NY.

I agree with you ladies - I think some nice quiet time in the Suite and jacuzzi, with good conversation and company, and some nice music and snacks provided by our loyal staff, is just the thing that we need right now!

Hope that all is well with all of you! And hope that you're all having a nice day.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Rider and Helena, I understand the fact that we have a hard time getting into the suite these days. There is just so much going on and then the constant worry about our fellow Americans and what might happen next is enough to make anyone a 'Nervous Nellie". I was about my oldest grandson's age (10) during the Cuban Missile Crisis and lived through school safely drills where we had to get under our desks and put our hands over our heads. What that would accomplish I still don't know and I sure as heck could not get under a desk anymore and if I did manage that feat I would not be able to get back out without the help of a crane. LOL Bomb shelters were on everybody's minds in those days and instead of planning for a hope chest my daydreams were all about what I would furnish my bomb shelter with (IF I were rich enough to have one). My number one love is books so I had it planned out that I would have all the Reader's Digest condensed books in order to put the maximum amount of good reading material in the smallest place. I have a huge bookcase in the game room and I have almost every single volume dating from the 50's. The night that Kennedy gave Castro the ultimatium we all went to sleep (or tried to), not knowing if there would be a country when and if we woke up. It breaks my heart to see the children of this generation having to fear the unknown like this again.

I consider this suite a isle of sanity and plan to avail myself of it's pleasures as often as I can. Life is not worth living unless you can find a smile here and there among the trials and tribulations of everyday life. IMHO I admit to a nagging feeling of guilt when I find myself, for however a tiny amount of time, 'forgetting' about the horror. I have tried to do some of what I could to help the people so grieveously injured and killed by these attacks but I think my head will explode if I do not try to live a bit more normally and I pray to God that the victims of this atrosoity will soon be able to regain as much of thier lives as possible and I stand ready to help in any way I can to make that come true.

Rider, you are so wonderful to worry about my little headaches while you are coping with so much more. I have decided that I have a plain old sinus infection and it seems to be improving. Thank you for your concern. If you must take the medication in order to have the test I am sure that your doctor can reccomend one that will not interfere with the results. I will keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and hoping that they find what is wrong with you and it is something easy to resolve.

Helena, do you perchance happen to have a hot tub in your new abode also? I hope so. Trouble with hot tubs are that by the time you get old enough to NEED one you are too feeble to crawl in and out of one!! LOL We are planning some small vacations next year and my DH has requested a Smokey Mountain cabin with hot tub on the deck and whirlpool inside. If I can bring a lot of good books to read and their is a restaurant nearby we will be set. Has Luis been able to unpack or are you so picky (like myself) that you HAVE to do it yourself? You younger ladies need to take it from me and allow your DH's to do some of the chores, no matter how imperfectly or different that they might be accomplished. Otherwise you end up at the end of the day being a handmaiden and servant. Ugh!!!!

I called to see about a room for my sister today and there were still no cancellations for that date. It is getting down to the last 5 weeks so I am a bit n ervous. I suppose I can find a place for her just outside the gates if need be but we do like to have rooms at the same place for when we return from 'howling at the moon". (Jellyrolls)

My grandson is asleep on the couch as we speak. He has a headache. I think he stayed up too late last night IMHO. He is not getting any school work done and that is such a worry. I went to preschool this morning to help his brother with his feet painting. The kids are so special at that age when they are just natural and full of love and energy.

Have a lot of company coming this weekend and have been in the nether regions of the upper stories trying to clean enough bedrooms for everyone. The bathroom was full of cobwebs. I just don't go up there too much anymore since we moved our bedroom to the first floor. I hope no one opens a closet as that is where I pushed everything. (grin)

I am planning on going over the American Theater to see the show this evening and then maybe a walk around the world to see what is going on there. I think I will stay for Illuminations and then find a quiet place to sit and watch the crowds as they wend their way out to the buses then saunter slowly out in time to catch one of the last rides of the evening. Maybe you guys will join me and you can pick where we have dinner.

Slightly Goofy


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[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I have been kind of busy with the move but it could be worse as my DH is doing most of the unpacking and cleaning of the apartment :D I have the things where I want them in the house and the rest he can put away as some of it is plain just his junk. I told him where things go and that seems to suffice. I have "won" all the battles about locations so far so I can't complain. Of course I make it seem like we are discussing the best location for everything but in reality, I know I won't give in ;) We are still a little cluttered but that is okay and we'll manage to get it all put away soon. I now remember why I like hardwood flooring... it is easier to clean up with cats... but at least we'll use the vacuum more than once a month.

Rider, I hope you aren't too hard on yourself about the MRI. I have heard the exact same thing you described. People who really aren't closterphobic suddendly become that and require valium or something in order to last through the whole 60-90 minutes of time. They've had to do that with my grandmother as well. I do hope the MRIs can help you find what is wrong as not knowing is the worst thing I can think of. I also hope that those around you can find a way to get their life back to "normal". I cannot imagine what that would be like. I know my company has some people out in NYC and fortunately all were fine. However one of our "rival" telecom groups lost their building. I guess our company has been nice enough to loan some space to them but even that would be hard for the others as this is just a loaned space. All the things they held dear in their previous office space are gone... and that is sad. I am not talking about the material things, but the little pcitures and stuffed animals and drawings we all have in our cubicles at work. Personally I would lose photos of my babies and some precious things from Luis if that happened to us. So here is to hoping for the best for those you know out there...

SG, I do hope your sinus trouble goes away soon as well. This is awful that you and Rider have been dealing with headaches. I hope yours won't require medication as when my dad gets a sinus infection, he always has stomach trouble from the meds he has to take. I wish we had a hot tub but there is not one and I am not sure where I would put it on the deck. I wouldn't want to take away part of the deck for that, so mabye some day I will get a whirlpool tub. If we decide to stay in the house for a long time, we will re-do the upstairs and push out the back wall so we have more flatness to the ceiling than we do. That way we can also put windows in the back of the upstairs bedroom. If we can manage that, we will make the half bath upstairs a full bath and at that time we will install a whirlpool tub. In the mean time I dream about using one and come here to use the wonderful jacuzzi we have here.

I hope everyone else is doing well. I too am trying to get on with a sense of normalcy in our life. Luis finally decided to take a job that doesn't pay that well but at least it has decent hours. So we can stay away from our savings account for the most part. He will continue to look elsewhere but at least he knows that next week he can start the training for a new job. The only negative is that the training is in the evening. He will leave before I come home and will return after I am asleep. It is only for five days though and we will survive that easily. I will try to nap when I come home so that I can talk to him while he is getting ready to sleep. After that, he gets the day shift and will work between 30-40 hours a week. So that helps with our normalcy as well. Well back to work... I've done enough day dreaming for now ;) I hope you all have a wonderful day!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, things are just going great for you. I am so happy. It sort of worked out great as Luis was able to have free time to do most of the moving. It sounds as tho he has had luck in the job department also. It seems to me that it is always easier to find a good job when you already have one. On the subject of jacuzzis - they sell a thing that you can put in your tub for a jacuzzi feel and I believe it is about #100. We have an older model in the upstairs bath. My DH loves hot tubs and jacuzzis and often talks me into one when we are on a long vacation but he only takes showers at home. When I remodeled the downstairs bath I wanted to put in an oversized shower but he wanted a jacuzzi tub. Now he is older and I am large and unweildly so it would be a safety issue so the old tub is still in place. I think I should have gone ahead and did the shower thing as it was a beauty with a seat and extra showerheads which would have satisfied his 'fancy' quotient and been just what 2 physically impaired people could use. I had to smile when you told of 'discussing' where household items were to go. Having been married much longer than you and getting tireder with time I just plan and do things myself. DH has given up even making a token argument as he always likes it when I get done (except for a yellow bedroom once but we won't count that one) LOL. My DH loves a low stress life and that means 'letting' me make all the decisions. He goes to sleep whenever he wants and has no hassles over what needs to be done next as that is 'not his job'. I have been up for a couple of hours and gottne a few things done and he is slumbering on and will probably for a couple of more hours. Rough life he has. (sigh)

It is so wonderful to see people and companies lending a hand to each other especially nowadays. Your company is to be commended for helping it's rival company. There is always some good in every bad thing and in a bad thing of this magnitude I suspect there will be a large amount of good also.

Rider, Helena is so right in what she told you about your MRI. Headaches might not rank high in most people's listings of the worst thing that can happen to a person but you know how it affects each second of your life and diminishes your quality of life. You can sometimes forget for at least a bit injuries to other parts of the body but when the pain is in your head it is unforgettable. Please get the best care you can. You are special to us and so many others and we want to keep you around and happy for many decades to come.

I hear a coujple of bathtubs calling for some attention so I had better run so I can get it done before "The Boss' wakes up and needs his breakfast.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

How are you all doing, today?


So sorry to hear that you are suffering from a sinus infection, SG - believe me, I know how that can be! I've had many, myself. Did your doctor give you an antibiotic? That usually gets rid of them quickly, for me. (but unfortunately, they sometimes upset my stomach, as Helenabear was saying about her father's reaction to them). Thanks again for your kind words, as always. I will somehow summon the courage to get into that MRI contraption for an hour….at some point! Maybe I'll wait till after Frank moves in - then I will have one more thing off my mind. I'm just getting so tired and disgusted with all of these doctor's appointments - I can go for years without having to go to a doctor, aside from a regular check up……and now it seems like I'm coming to work late or leaving early because of one at least once a week. UGH. I feel perfectly fine, now - I just don't want those headaches from last month to come back!

Congratulations to Luis on his new job, Helenabear! I'm sure that the week of training will go quickly, and then he will be able to be on his regular schedule, and you'll be able to spend more time together. That is wonderful news! And it's great that he's helping unpack and put things away! I'm sure that your new home is shaping up very nicely!

Sounds like you are going to have a full house, this weekend, SG! It's nice of you to have so many people over at once. Entertaining is a big job!

Frank and I are going to meet with the florist for our wedding, tonight, and then with some musicians, over the weekend. Then we'll be all done with the preliminary wedding plans, with the exception of invitations………and the honeymoon. I was so looking forward to making our WDW reservations, this week…..but I'm afraid to make flight reservations, now. Who knows what things will be like, 9 months from now? There are Amtrak trains which go to Orlando from NY, but that would mean that 2 of our (full) days would have to be spent travelling. And we really wanted to be there on June 3rd, because that is the one year anniversary of the date on which Frank proposed to me (with the actual wedding date, the 2nd, corresponding with the year anniversary of the day). Oh well - I guess that we'll have to wait a bit longer and see what happens.

I know what you mean about feeling badly for people who lost their offices and their personal belongings, Helenabear - I have a lot of sentimental things on my desk at work, too, which I would not want to lose. But I have to admit….everything on my desk is a duplicate of something that I have at home! So if any picture frame, etc. gets lost or stolen at work, I know that I have another one at home!

Well, my prediction came true and now my father's health has been compromised by all of the things that he does for my mother. As a result of lifting her and dealing with her hospital bed, etc., my father now has a hernia which needs to be operated on. I knew that that was going to happen. Frank and I spent the better part of Monday night trying to convince him that he needs to hire a nurse to care for my mother (not to mention for HIMSELF, when he is recovering from his surgery), but as usual, he is being totally stubborn and is "in denial". I know that this may sound horribly selfish - and I don't mean it to sound that way - but I really hope that he doesn't think that I am going to move in with them, quit my job, and take care of them both. First of all, I am physically incapable of doing all the things that my father does for my mother - I am not strong enough to pull her into a sitting position, etc. But also, I am emotionally unequipped to give up my life, like that, especially since A) Frank is going to be living with me, soon, and we are going to be starting our life together and B) my mother STILL isn't talking to me (unless you "count" coldly talking, as if to a stranger, and only about necessary / "business" matters to be "talking"). UGH UGH UGH. Plus, there is no way that I could take a leave of absence from work, even if I wanted to, because we are so ridiculously understaffed. So, I have a feeling that I am really going to be in a bind, in a few weeks. It's not a matter of finding a nurse or aid to help them - I know that we could do that research pretty easily - it's the problem of CONVINCING my father that that's the right (and only) thing to do, that he can't do all those things for her any more, and that I am not in a position to do everything that he does.

Help! Help! OK - that's better - now I'm back in the Suite and feeling much better! Funny how stopping in, here, always relaxes me and cheers me up when I'm having a rough time! Maybe it's the nice atmosphere. Maybe it's the great views (inside AND outside the Suite - hee hee!). Maybe it's the great food and drink. But most of all, it's the great company and having such a wonderful bunch of "Suite Mates"!

I think that some of the new parades are premiering, today - anyone want to come along and see if we can check one out?

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

I'll be glad to join you for the parades Rider. You always seem to know the best places to sit for the best view.

I can imagine what you are going thru worrying about your parents and the 'guilt' over what you are expected to do. IMHO you should get your parents doctor or some other professional to tell them what they need to do. Sometimes people will listen to a professional where they will not from their children. It is terribly hard to trust someone you used to potty train. LOL You should not give up your life totally for your parents and loving parents would not expect it either. I am trying to plan my life so I won't have to depend on my children for anything. I love them dearly but they have a very different way of living than I do and I have been disappointed so many times that I dare not depend on anything. Would you parents ever consider moving? There are so many wonderful retirement communites now that could provide your dad with some much needed help and offer social activities for them both. No lawn care or outside maintance and since the living areas are small because of the large community areas there is just a much easier way of life IMHO. My father expected all of us to be at his bedside 24/7 even tho he had never done that for anyone in his life and was not a good parent to any of us. In fact he was a mean person and it was a tribute to our mother that none of us deserted him. Some might have taken his money (not me) but none of us deserted him even tho we were never there enough to satisfy him.

I have a very large house so having company is not quite as bad as it might be. We sleep downstairs so they will have plenty of privacy upstairs. It is just hard on me because of physical limitations that make it difficult for me to do as much as I would like. Everyone has different food requests and that makes it very difficult (impossilble) to plan food everyone will eat.

I surely hope that you go ahead with your wedding plans. You will have plenty of time to change them if need be and you would hate it if you backed out of your dream and then found you could have gone ahead with them. Besides, we will allow you to borrow Bo, Don and the fellows for any chores you might have. With all that PD how could you possibly go wrong? (grin)

I can understand your frustration with the tests and such. After getting several diagnosis I have given up my search for definitive answers and will just await the autopsy report. (great big silly grin) You are far too young to have to deal with this pain for the rest of your life so you should go for it and chase those nasty headaches away. I do wonder how much might be the strain with your mother cause even tho you say you don't let her bother you I can tell it is much on your mind. I really wish I could drop by and give that lady some sage advice from a lady who would give anything to have her children want to sit and talk to her. Grrrrrr!!1

Please enjoy the evening of planning you have ahead of yourself. It is such a special time of your life and too important to let anything ruin it.

Slightly Goofy



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[jstmee]

In 35 hours we will be at the airport on the way to WDW and the children are totally excited. So excited in fact, that they are acting up and quite out of control. I am taking a much needed break from everything and visiting the suite. I've gotten all of my "stuff", for the trip, now I just need to pack it all. Most of the kids are packed and DH doesn't get home till tomorrow night so we'll have to wait on him also.

Rider, what a tough situation. There won't be any reasoning with your father probably. You'll just have to hire someone after his surgery, he won't have any choice in the matter "lol". My Great Aunt was/ill this past winter and she thought my parents would come and live with her the rest of her life.....My parents aren't letting that happen, they are helping, but has had to let her know that they couldn't do absolutely everything for her. My headaches are caused by stress..........but I think i've mentioned before, mine are migraines.

SG, hope all is well with you, I can remember having to run into the hallway at school and putting my hands on my head in case of a bomb. I'm 40. We didn't do under school desks then, I guess it's because the the desk and chair where attached.

Helenabear, congrats. on Luis getting a job, it will tide him over until something comes up that he likes better.

I better continue packing, and doing laundry and all else. I'll join you all for the parade though.

bye

[helenabear]

Hi ladies! I hope everyone is having a good evening. I just went out and spent money I didn't need to spend on Clinique make up. Now I am honestly not much of a make up wearer so it is rough when I spend money like that. I almost can't justify it, but their make up colors are so nice, natural and they wear very nicely. The only I thing of theirs I seem to not use is their blush and foundation... oh well... fortunately I don't like buying make up much but the colors for my eyes (what I usually try to spend my time on if I do anything... I figure they are my face's best feature so I will accent them as much as possible) well the color for my eyes I bought today were just phenominal... I wish I had the time to do them every morning ;) Oh my... I can't believe I just spent all that time talking about make up:p

SG, I hope your weekend goes well. Try not too hard to go out of your way for the guests, especially with the food. That just makes it tough. No matter where we seem to go for Thanksgiving, I always seem to do some of the cooking so I can relate on how tough it can be. My sister is vegetarian and that just makes life really difficult. I have to make two kinds of stuffing because of her now. I make mine with chicken broth and she won't eat that. We also have to cook her stuffing outside of the Turkey (away from it completely). I make a bunch of stuff I hate but I don't mind because the others seem to like it. The funny thing is my sister gets offended if I don't like something she makes, when I know she hates most of what I make.

Jstmee, have a wonderful vacation!!! I hope it is a great trip for you and your family although it sounds like the kids won't be disappointed no matter what :D I hope you have a safe and happy trip. Be sure to let us know how it went when you return :D

Rider, good luck with the wedding planning. Just keep reminding yourself of what is important and what is not... that seems to be something a lot of people forget when they get married. For some it is all about the flowers the dress... and they forget the important part of the wedding. I swear my friends were just waiting for me to go psycho and I never did. The morning of my wedding, I went and had my hair done (as it is so long my arms tire before I could have finished it) and I also got my ring checked and cleaned. There were no bridesmaids there and it was just my time to be by myself. I truly enjoyed the quiet of it all. When my veil was left at home, my cousin freaked out more than I did. We had plenty of time and I knew my friends could get it. When my sister started down the isle too early, who cared!!! Some would be upset with the little things. I say go and plan your honeymoon. I think all will be well by then. If not, don't worry about your being a day later to WDW. I know the day means a lot to you, but imagine how you could be all cuddled up in your own part of the train with your DH. It would be a trip to never forget I am sure! We were extremely late getting to WDW for our honeymoon. I was tired (got up for a 6:30 flight) and upset because my "magic" was being ruined by our airline. You know after a while, I smiled and thought, we are going to be there TOGETHER and that is all that mattered! I didn't mind that we only spent two hours in the MK that night, I was very thrilled to be there again (so shortly after my previous trip) with my DH. It was my first trip without family and it was very special. Boy did I ramble there... Also good luck with your dad. It is a tough situation and I wish I had words of advice for that. My grandmother feels good when her Catholic Social Service nurse comes in as well as her meals on wheels. She is 90 and honestly enjoys not having to do anything like that for herself. Maybe it would be wise to line something up for him just in case and when he is feeling down from the surgery maybe he will be greatful for the help... who knows though? I agree with jstmee though... get the help and let him live with it ;)

Well I have rambled on and on. Luis is out right now and the longer he is gone the quicker I forget how much I spent tonight ;) I am just lucky I didn't find any clothes I was interested in buying. I hope you all have a great evening!

[IASW Rider]

WOW - thanks so much for the great advice, everyone! I'm sorry - I don't mean to come in here an whine and complain all the time - I feel like I am such a "downer"! At least my father has made his appointment to go and consult with the surgeon. Maybe after the doctor tells him what will actually be involved after his surgery, he will be brought into reality and start investigating nursing services on his own. I'm still waiting for "the other shoe to drop" and to be called an inconsiderate, selfish person by my mother, but I guess I can't sit around with a dark cloud over my head waiting for that to happen. Thank you all for your words of support and encouragement - I really appreciate your taking the time to think of me and write them! And they really mean a lot to me!

Do you want to hear something really disgusting? I came home from work the other day to find my 2 next door neighbors outside, discussing something. When I got out of my car, they said to me "do you notice something different about our houses?" I looked at the houses (we live in adjoining townhouses) and realized.......that all 3 of our American flags, which had been flying side by side for the past week.......were GONE! Someone had come and stolen all of our flags! I couldn't believe it! With everything that's going on in the country, now, who would do such a thing?! My neighbors speculate that perhaps some kids came in the middle of the previous night and took them to sell elsewhere, since there is such a shortage of American flags, now. One neighbor said that he'd even thought that he'd heard something outside in the middle of the night, but thought that he was imagining things, so he didn't go and check it out. They filed a police report on their behalf and mine - I doubt that our flags will be recovered, but I'm just upset with regard to the principal of the act. (and one more "whiny note" - when I told my parents what had happened, my mother's response was "well, unless the flag was lit, it never should have been flying at night, anyway..." very typical. Her blaming me for things that are out of my control - and being blamed for just about everything, anyway!)

Jstmee - have a wonderful vacation! I'm sure that you and your family will have a great time! Can't wait to hear all about your trip, when you get back!

SG - Have a great time with your houseguests, this weekend! I'm sure that you will have a lot of fun. Maybe they will help prepare the different types of food, with you? It's very kind of you to be so accomodating to their requests!

Helenabear - it's great that you went out and bought that makeup - we all have to treat ourselves to things that we wouldn't necessarily always buy, sometimes - enjoy it! I'm sure that it looks great!

Well, amidst our getting ready for Frank's move stuff, we did order all of the flowers for our wedding, this week, and now I am off to meet Frank so that we can go and listen to some bands and musicians. Things are rolling along! I'm really not getting stressed about the plans, themselves - I think that we are accomplishing things early enough so that we won't have to worry at the end (except about how to pay for it all - hee hee!). I just worry about my family "thing", and that sometimes affects my thoughts about the wedding. But you're all right - when I start doing that, I just think about the "end result" and the reason that we are doing this - because we want to be married and be together. Plus, I enjoy planning the actual wedding, too - I like doing all that stuff! Well, I'd probably better get myself moving, here. Will try not to be such a "downer" next time!

Hope that you're all having a nice weekend! Take care and thanks again!

[SlightlyGoofy]

I am sorry to rush in and right back out but I just have a few minutes until my family gets back. I wanted to post a 'safe journey' note to Jstmee who is so lucky to be at DW right this minute. I hope she and her family have a wonderful time. I know they will and I cannot wait to hear her trip report.

Rider, just post whatever you want according to how you feel that day. We do not stand on ceremony here and it is better to get this stuff off your chest here than to complicate your life even more by getting it out with the people in your real life. Everybody has good days and bad days and that is life. You will survive and trust me, you cannot do everything and you certainly cannot make everyone in the world happy. All you can do is try to be as nice to people as you want them to be to you and then from there on out the ball is in their court.

Thinking of you all and am hoping to get in the suite for an extended stay on Sunday. I am having Disney dreams and am thinking of extending even further our 10 day trip the first of November. I think I will let the fates decide and wait until we get down there and if there are vacancies I will take that as a sign to stay until the money runs out. LOL Hope I get home for Christmas though!! (grin)

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all! I hope you are having a good day! We had a few friends over today for the OSU vs. UCLA game (and no don't ask me who won :( ) but the bad thing was that my baby Gwen had tummy trouble. I noticed some loose stool in the litter and then at one point baby didn't make it to the litter. She was so embarassed the poor thing and I had to give her a bath. It's been many hours since and I think she is fine, but of course we will be watching the litter for a while. We don't know but it could simply be her being anxious about the move and it finally caught up to her. Otherwise we have no idea what she could have gotten into (although it could have been almost anything with the way she chews on things). Things are better now and she has been playing and lying around in one of her favorite quiet spots. I am still a little worried about her but we will see how she is.

Rider, don't you worry about venting. It is always good to vent about things. I was thinking a little more with your dad situation and I was thinking if it was possible to have your dad's doctor highly recommend him getting help after the surgery? We do little things like that with my grandmother's doctor and it works to get her to stop doing things she shouldn't be. I also agree, planning a wedding is fun. I remember that life was odd after the wedding because it was so much fun to do. Then we bought the house and now I will need a new "project" to work on soon.

SG, I hope you have a great time with your company and I hope you get the needed rest tomorrow.

Well I need to clean up some more and check on the baby. I hope you all have a great remainder of the weekend!

[angelina]

Hello, again. I have been catching up on your posts, and I've been thinking about everyone. I have been, like everyone else, in such a state of shock over the events of the past two weeks. That first week, I was hesitant to leave my house to go anywhere I might be more than walking distance to my children at school, in case anything happened. I just haven't felt like straying too far from home. I feel so sorry for all those people who have loved ones missing in NYC and DC, it's hard to "get back to normal" while so many have not yet been found. I'm glad to see that you are all still here. I've enjoyed keeping up with your goings-on. Helenabear, I'm so glad to hear you're moved, and Louis has a new job. Slightlygoofy, everyone should have a grandmother like you. Rider, I didn't realize you were so close to the events in NYC. It must be just unbearably painful for everyone who is used to those towers being there everyday. I'm afraid I was one of those nervous nellies who cancelled my ressies for November, not because I am afraid, really, but maybe more because I don't feel right about going when things are so unsure right now. I hope the feeling passes, I know we should "carry on," The EWP suite is a nice haven, isn't it?

[SlightlyGoofy]

Welcome back Angelina! It has been a long time and we have missed you. I am due to go in November also but have not cancelled as so much can happen in the next few weeks and I have almost a month before I lose anything by cancelling. Of course, we are driving down as usual so that makes a bit of a difference. I have a sister and bil who are supposed to be flying down the end of Oct to go on a cruise and they are in a pickle as they were close on times before this tragedy and now need to change the times to accomodate the long waits at the airport. I hope it all works out. They are going on a cruise with our sister who lives in Florida. That sister will come over and visit while I am at DW also. My visit with my 2 sisters went well this weekend even tho one brought all her own food and caused quite a mass of confusion. That is what 'baby' sisters are for. LOL Angelina, what have you been up to lately?

Helenabear, I sure hope your kittie gets to feeling better. Could she have possibly gotten into something in your new yard? Are you finding it hard to sleep in your new surroundings or are you so tired by the end of the day that you sleep the sleep of the just?

We traded bedding with our daughter and sil some months ago in order to give them a much needed king bed. SIL and DH swapped the bedding and cause I was not doing too well at the time I asked my DH who is so proud of his lack of housekeeping skills to make the bed up. I spent the last week trying to get the upstairs in order as I don't go up there much as it is so hard on me but I managed to whip it into a semlance of shape while taking many breaks. I was proud of getting all the woodwork and wood floors cleaned and the little touches of books to read and candy in candy dishes etc. I asked my sisters how they slept and one smiled and said - Just fine after we found a sheet. It seems that when they pulled back the comforter there was no sheet on the bed!!!! Men may be from Mars but mine is from a totally different galaxy altogether!! My family will be back in a couple of weeks cause we went to church yesterday with DD and family and DD went forward and will be baptized in about 2 weeks. I am feeling very happy for her but a bit sad since she did not feel close enough to tell me about it in advance. While my feelings are hurt I will not whine nor cry or try to put a guilt trip on her. Thanks for letting me do my 'bad self' thing here where it is safe. (grin)

I have nights like this where I cannot sleep and so I am taking advantage of the suite. The stars are so very bright tonight and the calm of the place is amazing. There is something about being here without lots of bustling crowds. It would normally be a wonderous thing but it is making me sad because of the reason. As much as I hate crowds I would gladly be last in line of a crowd of 6000 or so.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Welcome back, Angelina! Great to hear from you! How have you been doing? Sorry to hear that you cancelled your WDW trip.....but hopefully you will be able to reschedule, soon.

Thanks for letting me "vent", Everyone! And thanks for listening. And thanks for saying that it's all right (and that I won't scare everyone away by being too depressing), Slightly Goofy! And it is a great idea to secretly talk to my father's surgeon and ask him to encourage my father to get help after his operation, Helenabear. After my father meets with him and actually schedules the surgery, maybe I will be able to do that. I think that he may be making a bit of progress - he said that he's going to have my mother's physical therapist teach her how to pull herself up into a sitting position, by herself (so that my father doesn't have to do it any more). It would be great if that worked, but I'm sure that my mother won't make it easy for either of them.

I'm sorry to hear that Gwen wasn't feeling well, Helenabear! I think that you're right - I think that she may still be adjusting to her new surroundings. I fully expect that either my cats or Frank's will have a few "accidents" after Frank's cats move in, while they are getting used to their new surroundings and their new "step siblings". I think that they do that on purpose somtimes to show us that they're scared or uncomfortable. A few years ago, one of my cats, Boo Boo Kitty, used to purposely wait till I was looking at her.....then pee in her bed (to show me that she was mad that she had to share a room or the bed with the other cats)! I know that she was doing it on purpose 'cause she never did it unless I happened to be looking directly at her, and I knew that she knew where the litter box was and how to use it! Unfortunately, after washing it 100 times, I eventually had to get rid of that bed! Maybe Gwen ate something that upset her stomach? Sometimes, I give my cats "people food" treats, like a piece of cheese. Sometimes after that, they have loose stool because I guess their stomachs are conditioned to eating only cat food. Did she eat any "people food" or try a new cat food recently? I hope that she is feeling better!

That is such a funny story about your sisters finding no sheets on their beds, Slightly Goofy! Well, your DH's heart was in the right place, anyway, right? :) Glad to hear that you had a nice visit with them. And glad to hear that you are still planning to take your WDW vacation in November! That is coming up so soon - I'm sure that you are getting excited about it!

I hope that Jstmee and her family are having a great time - I wonder what they're doing, now....!!!

Maybe they will come and join us for breakfast at Chef Mickey's, today! What do you say, everyone? Let's go!

Have a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

Just popping in to say hi for a while. Life is pretty good. I miss Luis already. We can talk via the phone during the day but it isn't the same. I saw him for a few minutes last night and a few this morning. It's only been one day but I am glad that I don't have to do this long term. Gwen is doing okay now. We took a stool sample to the vet and they think it was a small little parasite. The pump for the condensation on our A/C doesn't work very well and knowing our baby Gwen she probably was licking that up with vengence. She seemed fine yesterday and she hasn't had an accident in about 48 hours now. We knew it wasn't a mental thing because she felt so bad about it (we could tell) and the stool was not very firm at all so we knew it wasn't just her going potty on the carpet. We thought she might be stressed and I think a small part of it is her being stressed as well. If it isn't any of those we would have no idea what it could be otherwise. They said it looked like a bug found in creek water and we surely don't have any of that, so that is why we think it was the condensation water. But she has some liquid meds that my sister is helping me to give her after she gets off of work. I don't think Luis gave her anything but I can't be sure that she didn't find something to eat that she shouldn't have. At any rate I think that she is getting better on her own so maybe the meds aren't necessary but since we don't know how she feels really we can't tell.

I am a little tired today. Gwen fell asleep on my chest and I know that didn't help me sleeping either ;) And I had better get back to work but I wanted to let you all know that we still have no real answer on what Gwen got into but at least she is doing much much better.

[bashful64]

Hi everyone!

I have been away so long...I have missed you all. I hope that you are all well. Life is starting to return to normal around here. I have been incredibly busy with PTA and Brownies (I am a troupe leader this year) as well as work.

I am looking forward to spending some time in the EWP suite and visiting with you all.

[SlightlyGoofy]

How lovely, some of our stray friends have been coming by. My, how we have missed you. Bashful you have such a good excuse tho. I was a 4-H leader for many years and I know how much goes into leading a troop of Brownies. How lucky t hey are to have you and I suspect you feel the same way about them. It is such a joy to see one of my 'children' from years ago. A lot of them bring their kids to my house for Halloween every single year. I make homemade cookies for all the adults to repay them for some of the trouble they go to to take their children out on that night. I saw one of my 'kids' Sunday and got such wonderful hugs.

I have never been on one of the Disney chats yet and was wondering if it was possible for us to have a chat one night? I am on ICQ and if enough of you guys were we might be able to get together if I can remember how to link more than one on at a time. Just something to think about.

I still have not been able to get my sister a room on November 10th when she wants to come over to visit. I am thinking about checking out the discount site and maybe reserving a room for us over at Boardwalk and letting her stay in our room at AS that one night. It would be nice to have a base of operations since we always end up over at BW at Jellyrolls in the evening anyway. I can see up having pastries on the balcony in the morning before she leaves. Just an idea. Does anyone know if you can see fireworks or anything from those balconies? Any ideas would be most welcome. I don't mind spending money if it is worth it to me but I am not wanting to just pay a lot for a room without any added ammenities. After all we are 'old' retired folks. LOL

Helena, what a terrible week for Luis to not be home at night. I hear it is even colder there than it is here and it is only about 50 degrees here. I had my paint clothes and on and was planning on painting the doorways (we have 4) and putting up new weatherstripping today and it is just too darn cold. I am cleaning closets and such instead and putting up a few Halloween decorations. I like to putter.

I hope there is such a thing as recarnation and I come back as Helenabear or Rider's new cat. What a wonderful life I would have. I suspect it would even surpass the attentions that Bo and Don lavish on us.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

It is cold here! Very very cold here. I want to go to a nice warm place like Florida as it isn't even OCTOBER yet!!!! It is about 40 degrees here but yesterday after work I swear I saw snow flurries :eek: and two of my co-workers agreed. I am just glad I am indoors and glad that our cars whether in the garage or outside don't make us have to walk far to get to them. Right now I have the garage until we make a pull-off for the second car. In the mean time Luis is parking on the street.

I'm at home now and just about to call my sister to see if she can help with the baby's meds tonight again. I did buy the little ones a fountain for them and they seem to love it. So one is playing iwth the water as I type and the other is sitting on a chair that I placed for her, looking out the storm door we have to the deck. Okay now Gwen is making a lier out of me adn now the two of them are sharing the chair looking out at our neighborhood squirrels. They really are quite a pair. You know SG, I had to laugh when you said you'd like to be one of my cats because I'd love to be one of my cats too. Without sounding egotistical or something, I know I take good care of my cats because I love them with all my heart. Luis is a pretty close second too ;) Acutally I just set the VCR so that I can record some season premeirs for him tonight.

It is great to see everyone back here. I hope more people come back as I love talking with everyone.

Well I know have ICQ, Yahoo & AIM messengers all hooked up on my computer, so if you have one (or all three) I have them listed in my user id so you can contact me that way as well. I like the idea of chatting via ICQ, I've done it before and that is nice. I've done the DIS chat but I get lost every once in a while on that so these are nice. I hope everyone has a nice evening and I have to go now as my dinner is ready.

[IASW Rider]

Welcome back, Bashful64! Great to hear from you! Sounds like you are keeping busy! I was actually approached to be a Girl Scout Leader, this year - I never knew that one could do that without having been a Scout, herself! I had always wanted to be one, when I was younger, but for whatever reason, that never happened. So when I was in college, I joined the co-ed Service Fraternity that is associated with the Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts of America. Anyway, I wish I had the time to be a Leader, but I know that I won't be able to do that this year. Maybe another year!

I know what you mean about having joy from seeing the people who were in your group as children, SG - I was a sleep-away summer camp counselor for years, and I still stay in touch with some of my "kids". It's always great to hear from them or on occasion see them and relate to them as adults! It's nice to know that we've made an impression on these people which has lasted into their adulthoods!

So glad to hear that Gwen is feeling better, Helenabear! That must have been scary! :( I'm sure that that medicine will help and that she'll be completely fine, soon. My cats are also my babies and I know how upset I get when one of them isn't feeling well. I can relate to your "trials of feline motherhood"! And in a little over a week, my 2 feline "step daughters" will be moving in........!!!! Thanks for saying that you wouldn't mind being one of my cats, too, SG! I'll see if I can post a picture of them, when I am finished with this post.

I would love to have a live chat with you all! I have also tried the DIS chats and never quite got the "hang" of the system. The only instant messenger service which I have is AOL, but I could certainly try another, if you'd like!

It's pretty cold here, too. It's been in the 60's during the day, though it feels much colder. And it's been in the 40's and 50's at night. Where did summer go?????? :(

I wish that I could give you advice about staying in the Boardwalk area, SG, but unfortunately I'm not very familiar with that side of the "World". I'm sure that people on the Boards will be able to help and that you will be able to have your sister come out and visit, while you're there! I'm sure that you will have a great time! Your trip is coming up so soon! Boy, I wish that I was down there, right now! I saw on the weather, last night, that it's in the upper 80's, there! *SIGH*

Well, it's Yom Kippur today so I'm off from work. I'm "between synagogues" right now, as the one which I belonged to since childhood is a Conservative one, and it's relatively traditional - so I don't believe that Frank and I would be recognized or welcomed as a married couple, there (I'm also a little upset with it and its community since they have no programs for single people in my age range. When I was single and hoping to meet someone, I wanted to turn to my synagogue, but they only seemed to have programs for young couples, families, or older widows and widowers. I kind of felt like the assumption is that EVERYONE who is in their 30's and 40's is OF COURSE already married, and that made me feel a bit sour toward that congregation.) We're thinking of joining the synagogue with which the Rabbi who is marrying us is affiliated - that's a Reform temple - many interfaith families there. All this to say, I won't be going to services, today, so I'm trying to relax and keep myself from doing more stuff around the house in preparation for Frank's move. I took tomorrow off, as well, and I think that Frank will be spending most of the weekend in his apartment packing, so I will have plenty of time to finish things up, over the next few days.

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[IASW Rider]

OK - here they are - my brood (clockwise from bottom): Laverne, Shirley, Boo Boo Kitty, and The Big Ragoo!

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[IASW Rider]

And here are Frank's cats, my "feline step-daughters", Tasha and Ashley!


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[IASW Rider]

Boy, I'm really going to town, here! So glad that I finally learned how to post pictures! Let's see - what other pictures can I show you? Here's my house, My car and Frank's, and Frank lurking in the shadows of the doorway!


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[IASW Rider]

And look, SG - here is Nathan Lane, right after we saw "The Producers", earlier this month! (Unfortunately, he was in a bit of a rush, and I wasn't able to stop him long enough to tell him that Frank proposed to me at the exact moment that he won his Tony Award in June!)


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[IASW Rider]

OK - one more - here is our Leave a Legacy photo!


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[helenabear]

Wow Rider!!! You really have some great pictures!!! I am still working on finding my password for the DIS website so I can post pictures like that, but they look wonderful!!! Your Big Ragoo looks a lot like my baby Cleo, although Cleo isn't as fuzzy in the face as your baby. They are so cute. Have the future step siblings met yet? It will be interesting to see how that plays out for you guys. I am sure it will be fun to have all those cats running around all over the place :D

I just did a lot of cleaning tonight so now I am here to relax. It doesn't look like a lot but on a full stomach from Taco Bell, it sure feels like it. I jusdt had to do something to take up my time as I am lonely without Luis. It is so sad to think like this but when he is gone, I just go to nothing. I think after all the years of being independent and thinking I could take care of myself (and that started even in high school after my mother died) I found out that I really like being with someone and when he isn't around, I just don't feel myself. Even if he is in the other room I feel much better, but somehow even though we sleep next to each other every night it is very much like being alone. Anyway I should stop complaining, it'll be done tomorrow night.

Well I really don't have much else to say. I am a little tired right now so I had better get back to my cleaning. I hope you all are having a great day and evening!!!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, I just had to grin a bit at your lonliness. Not laughing, mind you but I have a retired husband and if he does not get his butt up off the couch and go somewhere sometime I may do grave damage to him. It has been almost 2 years and he never leaves(hardly). How can you miss someone who NEVER leaves? I am not so old that I do not remember the days when I was so thrilled to see the weekend come when he would be home so I do have sympathy for your plight and I hope this long week ends soon.

Wow, Rider, what great photos. It really helps to see your face and your place and your children of the feline race. (grin) I can just see you in your environment now. Thanks. One of these days I will find the time to scan and post some decent pictures.

I had my 4 year old this evening while DD attended a parent/teacher conference. He was being so sweet and managed to con me into making him some chocolate chip cookies. It did not take much. I am a great one for making extra cookie dough for the freezer so I can do a Martha Stewart when someone drops by. Sneaky devil ain't I?

I have a pot of my famous BBQ in the crockpot getting ready for the weekend. I always make an assortment of foods for the hordes that troupe through here on Heritage Days. I have a platter of assorted cheesecakes that should satisfy most people and cream cheese brownies to handle the rest. Please feel free to drop by. Sunday evening I will be ready for the jacuzzi.

Just noticed on my calendar that we will not get to leave for Florida until October 31st cause that is when the town will celebrate Halloween and I cannot miss my kids who are going to be the Cowardly Lion and the Tin Man. Their cousin is going to be Dorothy. Their one year old cousin is going to the the Scarecrow. I told my DD that she could be the Wicked Witch. She hit me! Ouch!! LOL

Somehow I don't mind getting in late for a Disney Day when it is only costing $49 a night. I can always add a day or two more on the end to make up for it.

I am going to wander over to Bomba's to eat this evening. Wonder if there is a place to see the animals at night for us poor people who are not lucky enough to have a room there?

I hope you are all having a great evening and I am looking forward to seeing what you guys are going to get up to next.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

Glad that you liked (and didn't mind - I think that I got a bit carried away - hee hee!) my little photo exposition!

Guess what? I got another call from WDW Guest Communications, today! This time, I got a call from the manager of the woman who called me a few weeks ago. I had written a letter to her, expressing my appreciation for the first call, and saying that the lady who called me did a great job, etc., so the manager called me herself to thank me! I thought that that was really nice! I love hearing from CM's, down there!

Is Luis's week of training and his night schedule over now, Helenabear? I hope so! I'm sure that this week was difficult for you both, but I'm sure that you will be able to spend a nice and romantic weekend, together! :) I also thought that Ragoo looked like Cleo, when I first saw her picture - it's that Maine Coon connection! I've been able to spend some "quality time" with my cats, as I had the day off again, today. I keep warning them "you don't know what's coming, next week......2 new sisters!"

You have to stop telling us about all the goodies which you are cooking and baking, SG - my mouth waters every time you tell us about what you're making - YUM! Are your Heritage Days this weekend? That sounds really nice! Do people go from home to home visiting? Are there lots of activities planned throughout your town? You'll have to take lots of pictures of the kids all dressed up for Halloween and post them here so that we can see - I'm sure that they will look great! Speaking of the "Wizard of Oz" theme, a few years ago when Frank was working for me (years before he and I were dating), our whole unit dressed up as characters from that film. I was Dorothy (I used a plush ML Bull as my "Toto"!) and Frank was the Tin Man. We decorated our whole area of the office - we even made a "tornado" in my office by attaching little dolls and dollhouse furniture to wires from the ceiling, and pointing my fan up at it! We're invited to a Halloween party this year - we haven't even thought about what to "be" yet, though!

Just a little over a month till your trip to WDW, SG! Can't wait to hear what you think of the EWP, when you finally see it "in person"! Wish that we could all be there to see it, together!

Oh well - we can be there "in spirit", right now! In about 45 minutes, it will be passing by the Poly - why don't we all hop on the monorail and head over there for KoKo Puffs at the Kona Cafe, followed by a viewing of the EWP! :)

[bashful64]

Hi everyone!

I still haven't had time to go back and read all the posts that I have missed. Life is still pretty hectic but I am hoping that I get some relaxation time soon.
I hope that you are all well. I miss spending time in the suite with you all. {{{HUGS}}} to everyone.

[IASW Rider]

Thanks for stopping by, again, Bashful64! Great to hear from you!

{{{{HUGS}}}} to you and everyone else in the Suite!

Hope that you're all having a great weekend! :)

[helenabear]

Hi everyone. Just stopping in really quick to say hi. Luis is basically done with training. Next week he is watched over very closely to make sure he is "doing good enough" then he will talk with HR to see about his schedule. They have him working Saturdays and he said he could only work until noon... right now they have him until four. So he is going to try for more hours and not on Saturday. But at least he is here now. Right now baby Cleo is on my lap being cute. You wouldn't think she is eight now by the way she acts. We got Gwen her birthday present today and I hope she likes it. It just happens that I am taking a half day for her birthday :D because of a doctors appointment!

Rider, you are the lucky one to be able to talk with those people so much. I am sure you give good comments about where you stay.

Bashful, it's great to see you again! Stop by more often. We have that huge Mickey shaped jacuzzi that needs to be used more!

SG, do you mind if I ask how you got that $49 a night deal? I would be willing to go every year if I only had to pay that much. Then every few years I'd go all out for the Poly.

Well I can't stay much longer we are going to my dad's for an end of the summer cook out! I hope all is well with everyone! Glad to see each of you again!

[SlightlyGoofy]

I wrote the best post ever yesterday and it has disappeared. Wonder what happened? I hope this one gets through. Just in case I pm'd Helenabear with the instructions on how to get the great rates. www.mousesavers.com is the answer. It is all over the boards and I figured everyone knew about them. We are booked for 10 days because of the rate and may extend our stay. I figure it makes sense for DW to offer great rates on places to stay cause the longer we stay the more money we spend and it is good for the economy.

I am in the middle of our big weekend and am just home for a bit of a rest before I head back up for the music contest. It is awesome. There will be more people coming to the concert than live in this small town. I am so glad I live near so I can walk as it would be terrible to try to get and back out afterward. I have all the food ready for tomorrow. I won't tell you all the particulars as I wouldn't want you all to drool all over your computers and short them out. LOL

Bashful, we are grateful to get you in here whenever you get a chance even if it is for just a few moments.

Helena, what are you doing on here this weekend? You should be having some together time with Luis and catching up on everything from this past week. See you later!

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all! I hope you all had a great weekend! I just finished raking some leaves. I guess we have an early turner in our front yard so I had to rake that up and then some of the grass since Luis cut the grass really short this time. Right now he is playing his Sega and guess what he was doing when I was raking... for those who guessed playing Sega you are right ;)

It was nice to finally have him back here so I could talk to him. I really don't get to talk to some of my friends too much (as we are now all over the country with many different hours for jobs) so he is someone I love to talk to. And right now he left to go rent a nice movie so we can have "movie night" together. And don't worry, yesterday when I stopped in he was watching football (OSU vs Indiana) and I figured since OSU was so far ahead with so little time left, I could stop in.

We got Gwen her birthday present yesterday and I am sure she will love it. I never noticed how much energy she had before but maybe because we got so much more room now they both love to run all over the place. Right now they are peacefully sleeping so I might just have to go and tourment them for a while (just like my parents did to me).

Well as much as I love to stay here I have a few things to get done for tomorrow before Luis returns. Let's just hope he picks a good movie ;) I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend!!!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Helenabear

Had to laugh out loud when I heard that Luis was going to pick out a movie. My husband is from another generation (even from myself) and has some odd habits. I would never send him to pick out a movie. One time recently we were at a video store looking for something to take home. He wanted to know why I did not allow him to pick out any videos. I told him it was because he has the habit of picking out movies by the picture on the front and overwhelmingly they have naked ladies on them. Now mind you, I am not a prude or anything but IMHO most vidoes with nudity on the front covers (or books for that matter) are that way to attract attention to poorly made or written material. The worse the material the more naked the lady usually is. My DH then reached over and picked up a video and said "How about this one". I swear, I am not making this up. The picture on the front showed a totally naked lady with a bass fiddle between her legs. He wasn't even joking, he honestly thought that it looked like a 'good' movie. Of course this is also the man who once cleaned the front light fixture by banging it on the concrete to 'knock the bugs off' and was surprised that the glass broke. Yes, I want a pity party and I want it NOW!!!!! :pinkbounc

I bet every woman who read this post would have guessed that Luis was playing Sega BTW. Some creatures take longer to evolve than others and men don't change too fast. LOL

Can't wait to hear what movie he picked out. Hope it was a good one. I am going to veg out tonight in front of the set myself. Had a very busy weekend and everyone has gone home and I need a break. I always read while I 'watch' tv as there is little that can keep my whole attention on the tube.

Got to start on cleaning out the flowerbeds and such tomorrow so I will have all the yardwork done before we leave in 31 days!!!!

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

I was honeslty hoping he would bring back a chick flick but he brought back two comedies. The first was Galaxy Quest and the other Shanghai Noon. I hadn't seen either but I was more in the mood for Galaxy Quest. It was good if you are for the silly stuff ;)

We are beginning to have the whole house in good condition and it almost feels perfect. I can't wait for all boxes to be unpacked and put away. I have ideas for the bathroom. It doesn't need paint but I really think I want to paint it. Right now it is a light blue and I think I want it to be a light green. We have dark green towels and I think I want a green scheme for the bathroom, but I really have no idea. A part of me wants to make it very dark or bright but then again it is kind of small and I am afraid it will make it look smaller. And if I did that I would have no idea what to pick for a color.

Well my dinner is ready and I should go. I will try to check back in later. Take Care everyone!!!

[bashful64]

Hi everyone!

How is everyone today?

I actually have a little while today to relax and enjoy myself. So I am going to hang out here in the suite and relax in the jacuzzi with a nice glass of lemonade.

We had quite a busy weekend....Saturday we spent cleaning up the house and yard so that we could have our DD's 2nd birthday party yesterday. My DH's family was over and we had some dinner and birthday cake. The kids played outside in the sunshine while us big people chatted inside. The kids had fun with a pinata (well okay a few of the adults got in on that too) and balloons. All in all it was a very enjoyable day.

Today I am just putting the house back in order and taking it easy!

I hope you are all having a great Monday!

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Sorry that I haven't been around, but I'm making those last-minute arrangements for Frank's move on Friday! Today is my last day of work until moving weekend - I'm taking tomorrow off to have that last day of "bachelorettehood" (which will be spent watching soap operas and resting!).

SG - I am still laughing thinking about your reaction when you saw the video cover with the naked lady with the bass fiddle between her legs! That is very funny! I also liked the story about your DH banging down the light fixture to get the bugs off! I'm sure that those are some of the quirky things that you love about your DH! How was the rest of your Heritage Days celebration? It sounds like a busy and fun weekend!

Helenabear - I don't think that you ever told us what you got Gwen for her birthday! What did you get for her? (I always like good cat birthday present ideas! I usually get toys for my cats - used to give them special food, too - ie: Sheba - but Laverne has a sensitive stomach so they all eat only Science Diet, now, and I don't want to upset her by giving the others special food, if she can't join them!) When you're finished unpacking all your boxes, I could send Frank over there to break them down for you - that's what we spent Sunday doing - getting the billions of boxes in my garage ready for recycling. Fortunately, I don't think that there will be too many more coming with Frank, as the movers are going to pack and unpack for him. My house also needs some repainting - maybe you could give us some color ideas, too!

Bashful64 - your DD's party sounds really nice! I'm sure that she and everyone else had a great time! And it sounds like you had nice weather, that day, too! Hope that she had a very happy birthday!

Well, I'm off to work, now (UGH). Have a great day, Everyone! See you later, in the Suite - Luis will be holding a Sega challenge, this evening, followed by movie night.......with a film of SG's DH's choosing! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

You have royalty amongst you today. Tuesday night we had the quarterly tourny for the trivia game I play. When the dust settled I was surprised and delighted to see that I had emerged as the "Grand Poobah of Trivia". It is such a fun group of people from around the world. No egos and great senses of humor. I would feel comfortable inviting any of them to come on over and put their feet up on the coffee table, sort of how I feel about you guys.

Rider, ah, you have too good an opinion of me. I do not find these quirky things funny. Well, maybe the naked lady thing as he honestly had no idea what he had just done but for the rest uhhhh. When he breaks something and it is often it is me who has to deal with it and as I am not aging well and find it hard to keep up with my regular duties the extra strain does not make me a happy camper. I complain about his sleeping 12 hours a day and watching tv the rest of the time but at least he is not destroying something when he is doing that. I hope you are enjoying your day off. I am going to be at DW on Super Soap weekend but plan to avoid the park where it is held. What soaps do you watch?

Bashful, what wonderful memories you are making for your DD. It sounds as if you had a perfect day. That is my idea of fun, Good food and good friends to share it with. We have a small yard but it is laid out well so I often use it as an outdoors living room when we have company. Best thing is you don't have to vacumn later. LOL

Helena, I have small bathroom also and know your dilemma. Might you not add a dark green accent color to the blue walls to match your towels? It would be easy and would not make for too dark a room. You just take a small sea sponge and apply the color over the base color as much or as little as you would lilke. Also choose your shower curtain in a lighter color to make the bathroom look bigger. That and not having too many things in there help. I can give this advice cause I have made each and every mistake in mine. (LOL) If you want a bigger accent you can use wadded up plastic grocery bags to apply the paint. That is my favorite way to do it and is free! Luis did not do too badly in picking out movies. You should be proud and happy.

I did not get much painting done yesterday. Other things kept getting in the way. I only got one door done and it is supposed to rain tomorrow. :mad: I have stuff to do in town today and will have company tonight so nothing will get done today. I have such a long list of stuff to get done before our trip and if I do not get into gear it will not get done.

I have a regular trivia game tonight but think that Dalton will provide much distraction. yep, I am using my little grandson as an excuse for my failure to win tonight. Totally shameless, that is me!:)

I hope you are all having a great day and not getting into too much trouble. I am going to wend my way over to the GF and enjoy a nice relaxing afternoon tea. Any takers?

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I have been so busy lately I didn’t even turn my computer on yesterday. I went shopping for a gift for Luis for our anniversary, which will be on Sunday and I got him just what he asked for, a screwdriver set. He gave me a list of things he wanted and that made it easy. He wanted a Roto-zip as well but I didn’t see a good package for one for him. Christmas isn’t that far away either though so hopefully I will find a good one to get him then.

Our baby Gwen is one today :D She is such a big girl now I can remember when she was only 2 pounds and now she is about 11 pounds bigger. We got her a neat toy that I think she will play with. It is a piece of wood covered in carpet then a spring is attached to it perpendicularly and on top of the spring is a fuzzy round thing. She loved to bat at things so we will see what she (or even Cleo) thinks of it. I hope they like it but if not, it was only $5 so it wouldn’t be that much of a loss. Our baby will get a special dinner tonight and I intentionally decided to cook chicken for dinner too so that the ‘kids’ can eat off of what we have left over.

I have a doctor’s appointment today (just an annual check up) and I really am not looking forward to it. I do not like doctors and I wish I didn’t have to go. Also it will be fun as I do not have my insurance card yet but I do have all the information and I do have proof that I have insurance (with the group ID and my member number and everything) so hopefully that will be good enough for them. The only good part of this is that I leave at one and I should be home by 3 at the latest. It will be nice to be home a little early so I can just relax and do nothing for a while.

SG, Congrats on being the “Grand Poobah of Trivia”:bounce: It is great to know that we have royalty amongst us ;) I am glad that you are able to find groups from all over the world that you feel so comfortable with. To me that is a great gift to find a group like this that you can feel that way. I wanted to let you know I can totally relate to how you feel with your DH. As wonderful as I make him sound, he does get on my nerves every once in a while. There are many times when things need to get done and all he wants to do is play on his computer… that’s what I get for marrying a computer geek though I guess. I will say I am lucky though, I haven’t had him bang on a light fixture in order to fix it though ;)

Rider, I do hope you enjoyed your last day “alone” and had a nice time watching your soaps. I am an avid CBS Soap listener (I have a TV radio at work so I can hear them even though I can’t see them) and I hardly miss a day. I will let you know what Gwen thinks of her toy. I am always looking for good toys for them although they don’t really need anymore and they even have their own box that I can put them in for when company comes. I think the best toy I ever found for them was a laser pointer. Also recently I got them small tennis balls that were filled with catnip. They seemed to like that a lot.

Bashful, it sounds like you had a beautiful party for your DD. I am sure everyone had fun playing with the piñata as well. Were you able to get lots of pictures to capture the party? I love taking pictures so that is why I bought a digital camera. I can then share all my photos with those who are far away who has internet access. What a wonderful thing that is!

I am still working on color schemes for the rooms. Luis will be working some Saturdays now until four (not too bad as I usually poke around until about then anyway) and I plan on working on cleaning the house top to bottom (walls and all) and then work on painting sometime. I think for the bathroom I might actually go with a creamy color. I found a color called “Sand Dollar” (so you can imagine the shade) that might actually work very well. It is fairly close to the color of the vinyl in the shower/tub and it works well with dark green and many colors for that matter. I was thinking of doing some sort of beach kind of feel (I know dk green doesn’t work on the beach but I have sooo many towels that color) and that color would work very nicely with that. In the kitchen they had ceramic tile on the floor. Now it is not a color I would have picked but it will hide stains and the like very nicely. Well on part of the wall by the sink, there is tile on the wall itself. It is white tile with two shades of orange lines around the edges of each tile. Now I am usually not a fan of orange but it isn’t that bad. The flooring is a beige with some rusty colors marblized kind of in it. So I was thinking of using either the same color I want for the bathroom there or slightly more of a peach color that will work with it all. I like peach and it seems to work. In the bedroom I am almost sure I want a light olive green there. The rest of the walls for now are going to stay their beige color unless I can come up with something good for them. I really don’t need to do this but it isn’t expensive to do and it will give me something to do.

Well I should get back to work now. I have less than two hours to go now! I hope you all have a great day and I will be glad to join you SG for a nice afternoon tea at the GF. I should be done with the doctor by then.

[jstmee]

I'm home. Got back at 11:00pm last night 10/3/01. Had such a wonderful time. I will report later. Wanted to come visit my friends here though. The first few days of our stay were very uncrowded. Hotels were empty, etc.... We also had the $49 rate and stayed at ASsports. Got the back portion of the Football portion and loved it. Contrary to other peoples' reports. We also stayed at the PBH for 3 nights. If I knew how slow it was down there, I would have saved more money and continued for another week. The rates for the HRH were $99 a night. That place is incredible. PBH is too slow and quiet for people with kids. Beautiful though.

EWP absolutely gorgeous, we saw the electric light parade from splash mountain, which we rode continuously until closing time. Saw tinker bell before fireworks, aaaaah....that was the only truly busy time at the parks.

Gotta go, I'll tell more later.............yes, I was afraid during flying, and I'm not one to be afraid, the swat team at Boston airport walking around with their automatic weapons, kind of scares a person, however, the children did well, and so did we. No problems with flights or waiting for flights. Other than they did cancel two of our return flight options, but they rebooked on different flights. No biggie.

Let's all join for a chat soon. I took ICQ off my system, but I can reinstall it. the chat on DIS I don't have any problems with that either.

Have a good night all.

[helenabear]

Welcome back Jstmee!!! It sounds like you had a great trip!!! I look forward to hearing more about the trip!

Well I should get back to my baby. BTW Rider, Gwen loved her gift!

I hope everyone has a great evening!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Jstmee, I have a million questions but I will settle for one or two tonight. I have been thinking of requesting building 10 Touchdown as it looks to be near the buses, parking lot and not too far from the quiet pool. My DH will not get into a pool if there are a lot of people. I do pretty well when I start out in the morning but coming back from the parks every single step saved is necessary. Did you stay in or near Bldg 10 and if so what did you think of the location? When you post your trip reports please let us know so we can live vicariously through you until the next 26 days pass and we can enjoy it for real ourselves. LOL I am so glad that you and your family had a wonderful and safe journey.

Helena, the colors you are picking sound so lovely to me. I hope you take before and after pictures. I have a photo album of this house and all it's many transformations. I have found that having a plan is half of the solution. It is so frustrating to do one thing and then later change your mind and do another not to mention being expensive.

I can relate about doctor's. If I had my way we would go back to the way that the Chinese used to do. The doctor had a doll and the lady patients would just point to what hurt. LOL I have spent many thousands of dollars the last few years in a search for what ails me and have finally decided to just wait for the autopsy report. (raised eyebrows)

I am sort of glad to hear that Luis is not perfect. Life would be boring and terribly hard to live when living with perfection. LOL I think the key to a happy marriage is to find someone who has faults you can live with. Of course, as women, we have no faults. (big old belly laugh)

I am a bit tired. I played trivia earlier tonight and came no where near a win. I could blame it on being distracted by an attractive blonde feller (grandson) but I don't think I would have won anyway. Would be boring to win all the time anyway but I try. :smooth:

I have no one to cook chicken for me so I will go get some rest so I can get up and cook some pork chops for us to chow down on. I always cook in bulk so I can save on the grocery bill and not have to cook 3 big meals a day.

Have a great night all. The afternoon tea was delightful and so genteel. You would be so proud of me cause I kept my shoes on the whole time and held my little pinkie up whist drinking my Earl Grey. DH found that stacking 4 sandwiches together would make for a mouthful for himself. I think I will go to these kind of things without him in the future. I should have remembered his habit of ordering 3 meals at a time while on previous cruises.

Slightly Goofy

[SlightlyGoofy]

Jstmee, sorry to bother you again. I know you are getting some well deserved rest tonight but when you get a chance could you let us know how the Connections coupons worked out?

Slightly Goofy

[angelina]

Good morning, everyone. I've been enjoying my morning coffee on the dock as I watched the sun come up over Cinderella's castle. It's so nice watching the CM's getting things ready for another beautiful day in the World. I love to watch people as they head to the parks. There is truly no place as special as WDW. I think I'm going to have the Tonga toast for breakfast!

My husband left early this morning to go with friends to a hunting camp where they will spend many cold Saturday mornings in the next few months. I am going to spend today cleaning up our play room with the help of my 2 year old DD and my 2 1/2 year old niece. It will probably be a mess again this afternoon, since we're expecting rain later today and won't be able to play outside like we've been doing the past two weeks. I live in southern Alabama, where the summers are in the upper 90's with 80-90 percent humidity. We had a cool spell a couple of weeks ago, and really took advantage of the nice fall weather. It has warmed up again to the 90 degree range, but will be back in the 50s and 60s after this rain. Yeah!!!

I re-booked reservations for Thanksgiving weekend, hopefully my DH can get a few days off that week. I'm willing to do my part for the economy! When I get down, I close my eyes and remember the week we spent at Disney this summer. I can see the sun come up over the lagoon, and the mist rising from the grass. I can see the marina and boats, and smell breakfast cooking as I walk to the Great Ceremonial House. I hear the ducks as they root around in the bushes for their breakfast, and the swoosh of the monorail as it leaves the station on its way to the magic kingdom. That week was so perfect, I forgot about bills, and the telephone, there was no TV, no unhappiness, as though there was no other life outside
that time and place. Whevener I need to get away, I can go back to those memories, and relive it all over again. That's what's so nice about this suite. It's just another way to be in the most wonderful place in the world. Thanks to all of you who come here and take the time to let the rest of us in on your lives. I enjoy hearing about the cats, the grandchildren, the wedding plans, the good times and the bad. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all really meet one day?

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Congratulations, Grand Poohbah, Slightly Goofy! (What sort of trivia do you play? General topics? Or specific ones?)

Happy Anniversary, Helenabear and Luis! (Frank has the same sort of toy for his cats as you got for Gwen!)

Welcome back, Jstmee! (Can't wait to hear more about your trip!)

Great to hear from you, Angelina! (Loved your recollections of WDW - I do the same thing - think about our trip in June to cheer myself up or give myself a lift!)

Sorry that this can't be longer, but Frank and the movers are on their way over RIGHT NOW!! Just wanted to check in and say "hi" and say that I will be in touch when things settle down!

Have a great weekend, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

It is so wonderful to come in here and see you all gathered. It does this old heart of mine good. Angelina, what a descriptive and adjective filled narrative. Yes, I would love it if we could all get together someday. Jstmee just returned and I am leaving in 3 weeks and you will be there right after I come home. Almost, but our timing was just a bit off. If it were not for the memories of the scary trip home we had last year we would be there when you are. We love going down just after Thanksgiving. My DH is a Christmas lover. I decorate every room of the house and each room has a different themed Christmas tree. Yes, one is Disney. You are so right about being in a 'perfect' world while at Disney. I forget everyting except our nightly calls to our boys. They love hearing what we have been up to each day and offer so many good suggestions of things for us to do. Most of the suggestions center around what they want us to bring them back. LOL A piece of advice from an older veteran of the toy wars. Make it easy for the kids to clean up and make their beds and they are more apt to do it. I have storage boxes with general categories of toys in them so it is easy for them to throw their toys in there. Rule of the house is you must put one toy or category of toys away before you get another one out or the next time you visit you do not get to play with the toys. Has only happened a couple of times in all these (10) years. I also used to buy comforters for the beds cause they were so much easier for the kids to throw on the bed for a neat look without a lot of fuss. Lazy people usually come up with great ideas. (grin)

Rider, the trivia questions can be on any subject under the moon. Once a month we have topical trivia where questions are grouped according to categories. Also once a month we have Khaos trivia where you 'win' by giving smart aleck and sometimes a bit ornery answers. It is a great place. Everyone gets along well and no bad behavior is tolerated. I tanked last night. I will blame it all on my DGS who was here and wanted to be held. Sort of slows down your typing you know. However, I do know what is important so I gave up on the game and held him close. Got to take your opportunities when you can. Someday he will be 6 feet tall and won't be so easy to hold. Congratulations on getting the rest of your stuff in your new home. It is the big stuff this time? Bet you missed it all. We moved our big stuff first when we moved here and then made millions of trips back and forth for the rest of the stuff. Was many years ago and I still remember how hard it was and we had much less 'stuff' then. Inertia is keeping us here now along with the fear of having to move all this 'stuff'. It is a dreary day and I can't do any painting so I patched some holes and did some sanding in preparation for dry weather. Cleaned out another flowerbed and am doing small chores around the house. I think I will gove over to the Polynesian this evening. Can you believe I have never been to the luau. Naturally you know where I will be later in the evening. I will be thinking of you all. I have EWP pins on my shopping list in Nov.

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

SG, The connections coupons never got here in time. A lot of confusion between the connections and myself. Part of the blame is on myself however. The coupons would have come in handy. To connections credit, the woman manager I spoke with told me to save all my receipts and she would credit the amount of the bill vs. the coupon.----We didn't do that. Seemed like too much trouble at the time. Thinking about it now I should go through everything and send them off to her. We ate some pretty pricey lunches at Le Cellier, and evening snack at Beaches and Cream and lunch Sci-Fi Cafe. Dinner at Teppanyaki(sp?) All lot of breakfasts at All Sports.... The coupons would be well worth it for those places.

We stayed in building 7, rooms 7150 and 7148, they were just fine for our needs. Plenty of drawers for all. It was pretty far from the buses, but it was close to the quiet pool and close to the laundry at the quiet pool.. lol 4 kids = a lot of laundry. It would have been nicer to be closer to the buses. We had a rental car also so when we used the car it was very convenient because we were parked by the parking lot. We had a nice walkway outside our room with shrubery and trees. Keep the questions coming. I'll answer more ?'s later. My little one wants me to tuck him in.

Angelina, what a nice description of your WDW visit.

glad to visit with you all again, rider and bashful and helenabear.

It was slow down their, no lines for rides...........

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I hope you all had a great weekend! Things here are pretty good. We had a lot of fun yesterday with the cats. They were very playful and we had fun with them and our laser pointer :D They are so cute and I love being able to cuddle such a warm fuzzy body.

Angelina, you have such a wonderful decription of WDW. It was basically exactly how I felt.

Well Luis was almost in trouble this weekend. He made me think he basically didn't care about the anniversary and didn't even try to find a card. Well I was disappointed in him that he couldn't even go out and get me a simple card. So then he pulls out a box from my favorite jeweler and he got me a pair of diamond earrings. I have five holes in each ear and in three I have had CZs/crystals in them. About a year ago I bought myself my first set but never got any further. Well he got the next set and got the perfect size and the right metal (white gold). I was so proud of him for getting such a thoughtful gift. He found out that my last set were .04 carats each and this set were .06 carats each. So just when I was going to strangle him he turned out to be an angel ;)

I found my Halloween costume this year. Every year I dress up for the kids and I love this costume. It is a maiden costume like something Juliet would have worn in Romeo & Juliet. It is really cute and I am glad I found it. It wasn't even too expensive.

Well I have to get some laundry done but it was nice chatting with you all!

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Sorry that I've been away for a few days. Frank and I have the house set up - pretty much, anyway! I came back to work today, for the first time in a week - Frank is still off, so I'm hoping that all of the huge boxes which were still littering various rooms will have miraculously "disappeared" by the time I get home (hee hee!)! Frank's move went well - we've somehow managed to fit his furniture in with mine, and make room for all of his clothes and other stuff. And the cats seem to be tolerating one another surprisingly well, too! Frank's cats hid for the first day and a half that they were at my house. Then, they slowly started walking around....but every time they ran into one of my cats, they would hiss! (my cats were very puzzled and indifferent - they just sort of looked at Frank's cats and walked away!) More recently, they have gotten close enough to touch noses with my cats. One of them still hisses (and hit one of my cats!), but the other one seems pretty calm. I'm sure that they will settle in at their own paces. Anyway, I'm glad that the move is over - I feel much less anxious, now (now, I can save all my anxiety for work and for my father's upcoming hernia operation!)!

I'm glad to hear that you had a happy anniversary, Helenabear! You knew that Luis wouldn't forget! I'm sure that the earrings are beautiful! Glad to hear that the kitties enjoyed themselves, too!

You must be counting down the days till your trip, now, Slightly Goofy! It's so exciting! Are you making a "game plan", in terms of what you're going to do on each day, or are you going to play it by ear?

More questions, Jstmee? OK - you don't have to ask me twice! How was the weather, down there? (I'm sure that it was much more pleasant than when I go, during the summer!) Did you get to see any of the new 100 YOM parades? IllumiNations? Fantasmic? The biggest question of all: DID YOU RIDE IASW??? (hee hee!) :) )

I can't wait to go back to WDW - just 235 more days to go (that's 5650 hours!)! :)

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

Good evening everyone! I hope all is well with you! Right now my baby Cleo is sitting on my lap and I am enjoying my relaxation time. Gwen is here too and she is poking around the jacuzzi (crazy kitten... loves the water).

Well all is well and I think I may paint the bathroom this weekend. Friday during lunch I am going to go and pick out paint for the bathroom and hopefully I can get it all done while Luis is at work. I still don't know what color I will choose but I will decide that soon! I will need a small roller or two for this job as there isn't a lot of space to cover.

Rider I am glad to hear that your move went well. The cats sound like they will be fine. To this day Cleo still hisses at Gwen but I know they love each other and really enjoy each others company. They are rather cute to watch together sometimes.

Well my cat just impaired my typing ability so I will have to end now. I will just say one thing to SG, do you need another person to tag along with you on your trip... I am so envious of those who can take trips now :D Jstmee thanks for your description of the All Stars. If I get deperate I will try to convice Luis to take me and we'll stay there for a few days (make it a short inexpensive trip). Have a great evening everyone!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Whew! (collapsing on the deck setee and calling for a tall cold drink). This the first moment I have had all day to check the computer. After being gone all day I walked in the back door just as my oldest grandson walked in the front door ready for his lessons. Emergency call from DD sent me to pick up youngest grandson and feed both kids and watch over them until she could get here to pick them up. They just left. Calgon take me away!!

Helena, I wish it were possible for you to join me on our next trip. These things are just so much more fun with friends along. Don't think Luis would like it if you went without him though. LOL You might want to consider one of those new rollers that you see on tv. They have them in the stores here and I have a raincheck for one. They are supposed to make trimming a breeze. Please do not feel that staying at an All Stars is a bad thing. We stay at all kinds of places on vacations and unless we are planning on spending a lot of time in the room we do not stay in expensive places. Sometimes we do check into suites with jacuzzis and such but on those days we stay in the room and vegetate. The rooms are a bit small but for two young people in love it will not be a hard thing. Try it, you will like it AND you will be able to afford to stay longer and do other things as well. BTW Congratulations on the wonderful anniversary present. My DH once got me some pierced earrings after we had been married for quite a few years. I don't have pierced ears. (downcast smile)

What an adventure, Rider, starting life together in the same space. It is hard enough when you are 18 or so but for two mature grownups to have to shift their preferences to include one another is an awesome challenge. We have been married almost 29 years and we are still working on it. It sounds as if your 'children' are settling in pretty well. I think your cats are cool ones. (grin) I have file cards for each park and off site things that I put down information on but the particular days I go to each park can change according to what happens while we are there. I am concerned that the lines to get into the parks will be so long that park hopping would be difficult. I can walk, altho slowly, but cannot stand in one place for long.

Thank you for the info Jstmee. I am happy that you had fairly convenient accomodations. I think with 4 kids I would almost prefer to drive to the parks rather than fight the bus lines. How did your kids like the trip? Did you go back for an afternoon break? You had two rooms, great! Togetherness can be vastly overated all the time. LOL How much time before your trip did you order your Connections coupons? I wonder cause my time is getting short (21 days). I ordered a new pair of shoes and they are awful so I will be loping around in my nicely broken in but not as great looking shoes. Maybe if I wear a big old grin people will not notice my shoes? I have my green ribbons. Hope I meet someone from the DIS. I love meeting new people. Were the lines to get into the park very difficult and time consuming? Do they have lines for people with little to check? Do you have any tips or anything that I can use to get the most out of our trip? BTW that little one of your needs a lot of tucking. Please enjoy it while you can. Mine won't let me tuck them in. Their spouses won't share. (grin) My youngest turns 30 this week. I am older than dirt. (sob) :)

Have a little something to share with you if I can get it posted. Hope it works, Slightly Goofy


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[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I hope all is well around the world with you! Well I am finally nice and busy again at work. For a few days we were kind of slow around here so I am happy to get another part of the big project we are working on. It was on hold for a small time as the next phase was being re-evaluated for a small time. Now I am back in business and ready to be busy again :D

SG, it sounds like you had a very busy day. I hope the emergency was not something to worry about. I also hope you had your time to go and take that nice long relaxing bath you surely deserve. I also wouldn’t worry about your shoes. I take the same shoes every time I go. I swear by Tevas. I have owned four pairs of them since 1992 or 1993 (can’t remember which) and out of the four pairs I own I still have three. It took until 1998 for me to finally throw away the first pair I owned. I wore them all the time and walked them all over Ohio State campus and my school. The other three I own I love. I have a nice old dark pair, one with moons and stars on them and my newest pair I bought since they were so similar to my original pair (they are a nice teal color). To me those are comfortable and I don’t care if they look good or not. They feel wonderful and I would probably die in WDW without them. When my family went in ’95 along with my high schools marching band (us grads could go along for the trip if we wanted to so most of us did) I had brought a pair of tennis shoes (the Keds style but more comfortable and cheaper) that I had to wear with my uniform and my Tevas. Well my feet were dying by the end of the day having to wear my comfortable tennis shoes (or at least I thought they were comfy) but my feet were loving it when I wore the Tevas. I guess it might have something to do with the fact that my feet could breathe more and didn’t trap all that moisture so that my feet would ache by the end of the day. So to make a long story short, I go with comfort over looks! I would love to go with you and I doubt Luis would mind if I would go without him… but I guess I would mind more than him as I love sharing Disney with him. He is so sweet, he looks in my eyes and promises me that someday we will go. He knows how happy the trip would make me so that is why he loves going!

Oh the dilemma of my life. Do we go more often and stay in the All Stars or do we go less often and stay at the moderates or go even less often and stay at the Polynesian. I think the All Stars are a great addition to the price range of the resorts. Right now we cannot even afford them :rolleyes: so my dream right now is that we could scrimp and save enough for even just a few nights at the All Stars, but that isn’t going to happen :( Our problem is that on our last trip we did spend a lot of time at the Resort. The lines were so short on all the rides that we had plenty of time to relax back at the room & the Resort in general. We didn’t do it quite as much with my family in ’99 but that was because of the time it took to take a bus ride back to the room and it was summer time so the lines were longer. It wasn’t that bad at all seriously, but the time it takes to get the bus back vs. the time it takes to take the monorail back to the room was much more noticeable and longer. Oh how I wish I hadn’t stayed at the Polynesian again. I wouldn’t have remembered how lovely and convenient it really was. I do not get deterred by the size of the rooms (although we would need the two beds for us as Luis has a hard time staying on his side of the bed with a Queen bed or with kids we would have to sleep with the child and not each other… and I don’t mind that either) but really it is more of the convenience level. Luis and I love the MK & EPCOT and the monorail just makes life so easy. I really am awful about this because usually I am not such a snob that I would feel this way. I like quality most of the time but all of the resorts on Disney property are quality and wonderful. That and quality to me isn't the same as quality for others. For instance a quality meal at Disny to me is the Crystal Palace lunch. GREAT food and you walk away full if you choose, but others would say Victorias & Alberts would be quality. So I guess you could say I like quality but not extravagence. A weird thing I really missed when we stayed at Coronado Springs was the inability to take the boat back to the TTC and watch the MK lit up at night… how silly isn’t it. Well I will just resolve myself to not going for another four or so years. Hopefully I can plan a really nice trip with Luis for our 5th wedding anniversary and we may be able to renew our vows or something special. I had always kind of wanted to get married at WDW but, it could never have been a Catholic wedding and since we are those crazy Catholics who have to get married in the church, we couldn’t do that there. So it would be neat to renew vows at Sunset Pointe at the Polynesian (we loved the view from there more than any other place). Of course I just thought that if I stayed at the value resorts I could stay longer so that I wouldn’t mind the difference in time taking buses back and forth… ACK!!! How do you decide ;) Then again I am rambling and I shouldn’t worry anyway since we won’t be able to go back for a while no matter what! I think it is wonderful that Disney does offer so many different types of lodging that almost anyone could afford. Everything is done with Disney style and magic that you can’t go wrong and I guess that is why it gets to be so hard to choose sometimes.

Well I should go now. I really have to decide on paint for the bathroom while I am here at work today. The bedroom is easy to decide on and I know that I am going to leave the kitchen alone for a while at least, but I think I am going to do it this weekend so I had better decide now. I think I am going to stick with a boring beige or light yellow but there is this part of me that really wants to do it in a very nice purple/magenta! How to decide. I feel like such an indecisive person today :)

I hope you all have a great day!!!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hi there Helena

I wonder if Tevas come in giant sizes? I go barefooted every chance I get and as a consequence my feet are not only big but very wide. Hard to find shoes that fit and are comfortable for me. I will check out their site later. Thanks for the reminder.

No way I thought you were a snob but I am getting the feeling that I am better off not trying any of the nicer resorts as I would find it hard to go back to the value ones. I used to love Port Orleans until they did away with most of what I loved about it but we have never stayed at any of the luxury resorts at Disney unless you count way back when we used to stay at what was called the Club Villas (now the Institute). We needed the room because of our teenagers and I enjoyed them.

Thank you so much for being worried about the 'emergency'. Our daugher is in charge of a medical billing office and often has last minute things come up and she calls me and I pick up her youngest from the daycare (have to pick up by 5:30). It is only a problem in the winter time as I have to be careful not to fall and ice and snow is not good for me. I enjoy spending time with my boys. Dalton was sitting on my lap doing his 'schoolwork' on the computer. He is like me and zones out completely when he gets on line. He has his own programs on the desktop and is very good about getting logged on and such. He is careful to ask if he can 'print' and even tho I am a very fussy person I trust him alone with the computer. I am getting a new one for Christmas and giving the boys this one. The oldest grandson is not too much for working on the computer. He has eye problems and I think he has trouble seeing the screen. I am going to upgrade to a bigger monitor next time and see if that helps. We had a reading break through last night. He requested to read for 40 minutes instead of his required 20 minutes and then when the book still had a few pages left he set the timer for 5 more minutes so he could finish the story! Yeah!!!

You have given me another good idea. I think I will wander over to the Crystal Palace for lunch. I have never eaten there but with your reccomendation as a guide I will give it a try. Any thoughts on what I should eat?

It is a dreary day back home so I think I will spend some time in here enjoying the sunshine and the laughter wafting over from the MK.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi there SG!

Our computer systems are being very slow today so I go and copy what all is said, put in my Word document and then type away while the system is slowly retrieving what I need. Not a bad way to spend the quiet time :D

Tevas are wonderful. I’d recommend going to a store and trying them on. The older styles seem to be a bit wider and some are better than others. I seem to find mine at most stores that sell mostly tennis shoes & hiking boots (outdoor/athletic stores) and you could probably find a really good deal now since they are considered “summer shoes”. But if you are anything like me, they work nicely in the fall as well with a good pair of wool socks! The web site has good information but not always be the best colors, selection & price so I really recommend going to a store. The thing I like the most about them is that there really isn’t much break in time for them. The three I own now are the Terradactyl (my dark blue ones), Pretty Rugged (Moon & stars) & Inversion (teal… most like the original pair I had). The colors change often (you may not be able to find the colors I have now in the same style) but they do come in a good range of sizes (I think from 5-11) and the other really good thing is that if you have big feet, you can find a style. For men, they go up to 14 at least and for women if you run out of room in the women’s you can find the exact same style & color for the most part on the men’s style AND they are the SAME price. Luis bought his first pair last year at the same time I bought mine. So we have matching shoes now :D

I know I am not a snob but I surely can’t help but feel that way about the Polynesian. I will tell you now DO NOT STAY AT A DELUXE RESORT!!! It is just soooo hard to go back… really it is. In ’99 we were planning our last family trip and since my sister and I were poor and in college (well I was in college), my dad said he would foot the bill for tickets & hotel I suggested the All Stars. I thought we might try it since it had never been there before but my dad wanted the moderate resorts so my sister and I fought and we decided on Coronado Springs. It was a great choice! So if you ever want to try a new moderate I highly recommend this one. I did say before I had stayed at the Polynesian but I was very young and I don’t remember how good it was. We also only had MK & EPCOT at that time so it was nicer to have that resort to stay at. We also stayed at the Villas but then again we had eight or nine people so we needed the space then. Those are nice places but they aren’t quite the same as a Deluxe resort room. So now we have the dilemma of where to stay… like I said it doesn’t really matter right now but as I dream I like to dream about where I will really stay.

I am glad it was only that kind of an emergency. I completely understand what that is like as my cousin is in charge of payroll for a hospital and sometimes she has emergencies she needs to take care of all the time. Recently it has been for reservists who were called up. One Saturday night she was there until almost 10pm!!! I do not envy her job! It sounds like you had a great evening with your boys there. I think that is exactly why my dad looks forward to becoming a grandfather ;) Just be careful in the winter, we wouldn’t want to hear of you laid up because you hurt yourself on the ice!

The Crystal Palace is a great place for lunch. I think that is the best deal of all the food in the parks! It is a really cute buffet but I think I will have to recommend the chicken. It is always very moist and flavorful! The potatoes are great as well. They have a wonderful selection and I love seeing the Hundred Acres Wood Gang! The food really does remind me of something my grandmother would cook for us (she is the perfect example of a farm wife) and she always has a lot of yummy food! It is your classic “American” style food (there is even pizza for the ‘kids’) but I will say the chicken is the best!

I will have to join you there for lunch. It is rather dreary here today as well so I could enjoy the warmth and sunshine of the MK!

[SlightlyGoofy]

What a great job, Helenabear. Time out for fun in the middle of the day. I am sure that there are plenty of times when you have to work twice as hard though. It is almost impossible for me to find a place where I can try on shoes. I wear a 10WW and would love a 10WWW if I could find it. I am going to return the shoes that I do not like but it will cost me almost $5 to do so as I have to pay shipping both ways. Keeps from ordering a lot of things I might otherwise try. I hear that tiny women have trouble finding clothes also and while I am not proud of the fact it gives me a small amount of satisfaction. (grin)

I now know why I have never eaten at the Crystal Palace. That is the same food I cook every single day of my life. I like to order things that I would not make at home. To give you an idea our favorite restaurants at DW are Norway, Mexico, Trail's End, Brown Derby and I bet Bomba's will be our new favorite.

My daughter and family stayed at CSR and we did not like it. We don't like the big resorts too much. We had a lot of trouble getting in and out with the security gates also. One of the bus drivers on our last trip pointed at CSR and made the comment that "There are lots of great places to eat here but this is not one of them". You are younger and better able to get around and that would make a big difference. We stayed at CB one time and could not find our room amongst all the similar buildings. I have friends who love the place though. Go figure. Different strokes for different folks.

You say that you have to type in all that is said? What exactly is it that you do? I like to imagine people in their environments.

See you at the Palace at noon!

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

We just got the word today, no more mandatory OT. Now I know I will be putting OT in here and there but I won't have to give up my lunches unless I want to. So I took some of my lunch break and went over to Sears to look at paint chips again. I thought I knew which color I was going to use and then a co-worker of mine brought in the 6 month pictures of her baby she recently got done (okay he was really 7 months at the time but close enough) and I saw the color of the background on one of them. It is a beige and it has the right amount of golden and brownish pink in the tone of it. I saw it and I said "This is what I want for my bathroom!!!" My description won't help at all but it is a very nice color!

Well let's see, how to describe what I do. Well I work for a long distance company and what I do is look at the design of circuits for phone lines and data lines in our sytem (the equipment type and all) and then I take that route (ie goes from Tampa Fl to Jersey City, NJ) and see how I can make it better. So if my circuit route goes from Tampa to Jersey City it may actually go from Tampa to Atlanta to Philiadelphia then to Jersey City because when they installed the line they had no direct way to go from Tampa to Jersey City and now we do so I make the changes in our databases and we have "paper trails" in other sytems showing what step I am in during this process. I tell men at the sites that this circuit goes through what to do and they do it. So the end result is we have a better route for a circuit. I hope that made sense. So the short of it is that I sit at a computer all day long and work in our databases mostley. The funny thing is when I was in college people asked me what I wanted to do with my life, and I said I wanted a job that I could sit in front of a computer all day and work in it. So I was lucky and got to do what I wanted :D

I think the reason why I like the Crystal Palace so much besides Pooh and friends... Okay... that is the only reason why I like it ;) sorry... um I like it because it is good food that I can cook but they make it better. Like going to a steak house. I can make a steak but they always seem to make it better! I think I like it for the constant quality of the food (well prepared that is) and the atmosphere. But you are right SG, if you are looking for new and exciting, this is not a place to go. But if you just want a good deal on food and good taste (but it could be what you find at home) this is a great place to go.

I also stayed at CBR and I was not impressed at all with it looking back on it now. I was excited because at the time, it was the only "reasonably" priced resort onsite. Even though it doesn't have as many rooms, we got really lost there. I never did find the main pool. The best part though was I was impressed with the Disney bus system. Before the system really was bad and this was a breath of fresh air for me. I thought CSR was much much nicer and the theming I thought was much better. I know we got lucky with our location. We were in Casitas 4 and it was maybe a 7 minute walk to the lobby as well as the main pool. We were right by bus stop #3 (the first to get on) and we were right next to the pool. The resort felt much smaller than CBR and the view of the lake was beautiful. I think on the whole we got very lucky with our location. I think the food there is an either love it or hate it. I loved it and so did my family. We were always making stops to the food court to get food. One thing I found out accidentally is that if you eat sit down and then leave with something to go (I always did this with the flan) they didn't charge you for the tip. I didn't notice that at all until later. For a food court I thought it was good as it had a good variety of food, nice quantities and good price. I was in love with the flan as it was similar to what my MIL and I make. You know I have heard many people complain about security at some of the resorts (all over) and it seems to be very touch an go with how good/bad it is. We personally didn't have a problem, but I know others did. I have heard the monorail resorts are strict with security as well. That makes us feel good but at the same time I heard it can be a pain. We never made it to PO and I am not sure if I want to go now based on the changes. I wasn't fond of DxL at all (the theming that is) so that was never on my list of places to visit, but we were considering PO for our honeymoon.

Good luck SG trying to find your shoes! I can relate with clothing. I am short but I am not a "petite" build (as I am not a size 6 or 8) so things are made for tiny ladies. The worst thing about trying to buy petite clothing is that they "proportion it to your height" which means they take off inches here and there at the waist, hips & thighs. So I can't fit into petite clothing well at all since I have a butte and I am proud of it!!! Regular length clothing doesn't fit either as the waists are too long and the legs are way too long. Oh well, that is my hardship of life. You know my sister has very wide feet too and she has a tendency to buy mens shoes as they are made for wider feet. She has several pairs of sandals made for men that fit her great. The sizing I believe is off by 1 1/2 to 2 sizes. I am a 7 to 7 1/2 and i can fit into some size 5 up to a size 6 (I sometimes buy mens boots). So you should be able to find a decent selection of mens sandals if you look and some look identical! Well I should get back to work. I hope you enjoyed lunch SG!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Ah, yes. Now I understand your obsession with the 'perfect' bathroom paint color. You are very detail oriented. In your job that must come in handy. So you are the reason I can pick up my phone and instantly connect with my friends and family. Thank you very much.

Glad to hear that your manatory overtime is gone, at least temporarily. The person who took my reservation at Disney the other day was telling me that she was getting more mandatory overtime also. Must be all those cancellations and new bookings. The money is good but not much use if you have no time to enjoy it. I never wanted a big expensive house cause I figured we would have to work too much to able to enjoy it. Got the big part but not expensive. Best of both worlds?

I have always felt very secure with Disney security so I guess the gates and such at some of the resorts bother me more than they should. I always wondered about people parking at the resorts and then hopping on the Disney transportation for free. I guess they had to do some of this stuff to avoid that happening.

We have always been an one income family so it has always been my job to stretch it as far as I could so I tend to be on the cheap side. If I could afford to stay at the expensive places without feeling guilty I probably would try them. It would be fun to stay at all the different resorts. I am lucky in that it is not something that is real important to me tho.

Would you believe as big as I am I wear a petite sized pant? Took me until I was in my 40's to figure that out. My legs are shorter. I laugh when I order petite. I have tried buying men's shoes but at my size if I wear men't shoes I would look a bit too butch to suit my tastes. Not that there is anything wrong with that but it is not who I am. LOL

It was a delicious lunch Helenabear and was a bit better than I prepare at home (sometimes). Not always in the mood to go that extra step that you need to have the food be special. Of course, good company always seasons everything to perfection. Enjoy the rest of your afternoon and I hope you get home to Luis soon so you can have an even better evening.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Greetings!

I have returned, once again!

I am also a fan of the Crystal Palace - I love the buffet and the atmosphere there, as well! And needless to say, I love seeing Pooh and friends, too! When I was a child and used to go to the Crystal Palace with my mother, there used to be a palm tree growing right through the roof of the building (I think it was removed to make way for the floral Hundred Acre Wood figures that are in the entrance area, now). Well, because we loved seeing it, my mother bought a miniature palm tree at a florist on Main Street in the MK (which no longer exists) and brought it home with us. We had it in the living room, and it grew so tall that it touched the ceiling! Unfortunately, it didn't last very long....but my mother refused to throw it away, since it was from WDW.....so now my parents have a miniature palm tree TRUNK in a pot in their living room!

I also love Restaurant Akershus in Norway, SG - Frank and I tried it for the first time when we were there in June, and the food was amazing (especially if you like different kinds of fish, which we do. And the salads and cheeses were great, too!)! We had a really nice waiter, who told us all about Norway, too. He even drew a map of Norway for us, on a napkin! I think that my favorite WDW restaurants are the ones at the Poly, for sentimental reasons - and because the food at both are great - the Kona Cafe and 'Ohana - as well as the Prime Time Cafe at DMGM Studios, because the food is great and it's so much fun! I really enjoyed the California Grille, as well, and the Brown Derby is very nice, too. When we go back next year, we're thinking of trying some other restaurants which we've never eaten at, like Restaurant Marakesh in Morocco and Citrico's at the Grand Floridian.

I wish that I was able to get away from work at this time of year - there are tons of great deals on WDW vacations, now! Unfortunately, this is our fiscal year end, and "real" year end follows immediately, so there is no way that I could get away. The only time that we can really go on vacation is after tax season - I wish that we could go somewhere warm when it's cold out, but as long as we are working in finanicial services, I doubt that that will happen. Anyway, we're hoping to make our honeymoon reservations, soon - hopefully it will be safe to fly, then!

It's really interesting to hear about your experiences at different resorts, SG and Helenabear! I wish that I was more familiar with the newer resorts - maybe we will have to wander over and have dinner at some of them, next time! I'm also curious to see what the AK Lodge looks like, and what the Pop Century will look like when completed!

WOW - 21 days, SG! That is so exciting! I would be beside myself with excitement if I had 3 weeks to go! Already, I think about WDW every day......when the time for a trip is getting closer and closer, that's about all that I think about!

I'm sure that your bathroom will come out great, Helenabear! Once you have completed it, maybe you could give me some painting advice. I've never actually painted a room by myself before, and many of my walls desperately need to be painted - maybe I will get brave and try! Since Frank has moved in, I have actually gotten brave and cooked for him, several times! That is a big accomplishment for me, 'cause I was always afraid to cook for anyone except myself (afraid that anything I made wouldn't come out right). Unless Frank is just being polite, I think that I've been doing a pretty good job......I even offered to my father, last night, that I would make Thanksgiving dinner for him and my mother (maybe that's a little TOO ambitious......!!)!

I agree with Helenabear, SG - definitely comfort over style at WDW - that goes for all clothes, including shoes! 2 years ago, I bought a whole new wardrobe for our trip, at the Disney Store. Although the stuff I bought was cute, some of it was really impractical for walking around the parks in 90+ degree heat all day, and I wound up with rashes and discomfort. This past year, I just got a whole bunch of just-above-the-knee denim shorts and cotton tank tops, and that's what I wore every day and was much more comfortable and "better off" than the year before! I wear my trusty sneakers for park walking!

Well, aside from the boxes piled up to the ceiling in the garage, Frank is now all unpacked and his furniture is all arranged, now. His cats are settling in - they can now walk past my cats without hissing (every time they hiss at eachother, I would tell them "no hissing - only kissing!" - I think that they are listening to me - now they touch noses with my cats ("kissing") without hissing at them! My only worry is that one of Frank's cats has taken to using my couch as a scratching post. I remember when my cats used to do that, when they were kittens, before they were de-clawed. We sprayed some stuff which is supposed to keep the cats away, on the couch - hopefully it will work - I really don't want to have to replace the couch. But, I'm happy that she is scratching on the couch......instead of on my cats! I'm just glad that they all seem to be getting along pretty well and that there has not been any physical conflict (that I'm aware of, anyway!). In the mean time, I'm getting used to living with someone, again. Fortunately, Frank and I know eachother so well and are so comfortable with one another that it has been pretty "easy" and "natural", so far. We're both sensitive to each other's schedules and needs, which is good. There is a lot more laundry and many more dishes for me to do, now, but I'll get used to that too. I'm sure that we'll settle into a weekday routine, over the next few weeks.

We actually had a pretty frightening experience, 2 nights ago. We were sitting and watching TV, and all of a sudden, there was a huge explosion outside, and the entire house was immediately plunged into darkness. No warning - no flickering or dimming lights - just a big explosion and the power just shut down. The first thing I thought is that we had been bombed - I was totally petrified. Of course, it turned out that it was just the generator for our townhouse complex - I guess it had broken down.....LOUDLY! All of our neighbors came outside and were talking with one another and offering eachother candles and flashlights, which was nice. We were without power until 4:15 the following morning - at least it came back in time for us to get ready for work! But that loud "bang" and the power just turning off were pretty scary! It's sad that we've become conditioned to immediately think the worst when something unpredictable like that happens.

Anyway, on a lighter note, why don't we all go and check out the new Walt Disney exhibit at the Studios and play some Disney trivia, this afternoon?

Hope that all is well with all of you! Have a nice day! :)

[jstmee]

How difficult it is to recuperate from a beautiful vacation. I still have suitcases and "stuff" all over the place. Depression has sunk in and I want another vacation. The rates at various resorts at Downtown Disney are $25-35 per night. Heee, heee, I can dream can't I....I know so soon after our vacation too.

Okay, here goes, all of the parks and waterparks check your backpacks, fanny backs, purses, etc. before entering the park. If you have NOTHING on you, you may go directly to the turnstile and enter the park. If you are carrying something they have a few tables with security checking the items. The longest line we had to wait in was about 5 people ahead of us. The days we carried only a "fanny" pack were the easiest for us they checked it put for ease in walking around that is. I was the one carrying things....I decided I wouldn't carry a fanny pack this year, but we paid for some room nights with an American Express card (actually a Cobalt Blue card that we pre funded and it works just like AMEX-heard about it through this site) and they gave us the White Glove Treatment pack and I wore that pack around my waist, it was big enough for my waist, i'm a rather large gal. I wore the waist part beneath my shirt and the pack on my front side. It had a zipper so I was assured I wasn't going to lose anything on rides. Some days we carried one backpack with our cam corder and cameras and ponchos in it. That worked out fine also.

SG my suggestion, take as little clothes as possible and only take the clothes that you usually wear that are comfortable for you. I ended up wearing my favorite jean shorts, that were longer and washed them a lot and also another pair of jean shorts. In the evenings I wore other outfits, but I packed WAY tooo much.

I read a post about a girl that got rashes between her thighs and I was sooo fearful of this. Thankfully not a problem for me. My DH on the other had did get some rashes but he didn't tell me about them. My DS told me about potential rashes between his thighs and I brought some Triple Antibiotic Lotion, generic and before bed each night they applied some to their rashes and good as new the next morning.

The weather was unbelievably great. It did not rain once the entire 12 days we were there. It rained once while we were eating lunch, alas, after we ate we went outside and no rain. Also, I forgot we were at Typhoon Lagoon and it rained, but we were wet. I highly recommend the Snorkeling at the reef, the kids loved it. Yes, there were even shark in the reef area.

TEVA TEVA TEVA, I only heard about them on these sites and saw some at a store for an incredibly high price and didn't bother. WELL, I went in Marden's "a discount" salvage store and the sales ladies were putting up rows and rows of Teva's. Wide and as large as size 12. I take an 11WW so I got a pair. It is called ROMA Style #6339 and on the heel it says "shoe pad". It's like walking on air. They are suede material a light tan. I have NEVER worn anything more comfortable. My feet sustained WDW with a feeling of air cushions for the trip. On day 2 I did get a blister on my pinky toe, but switched to a good pair of Asic Sneakers for that day and I was all set and went back to my Teva's. I don't want to wear anything else now. I bought them for $27.00....

I bought moleskin because of what I heard on this site. Didn't work for us, it just rolled up. I had a blister and by accident packed a "Corn" bandaid. I thought it was a real one. It was a free sample I put it on the blister it stayed put and was the best thing ever. Stuck good and was padded. It was bandaid brand.

Connections, I ordered the coupons 3 1/2 weeks out, but they thought I had cancelled my membership and they also cancelled my order and when I called to confirm things they said they were sent out ( the coupons). When I called the day before my trip they looked further and said they cancelled the entire order. Thus, the confusion.

AKLodge is the most awesome place to see. We went to eat at Bomba's----ahhhhh, SG you will love it. The scent of all the exotic food when you enter the Lodge is fantastic. The restaurant is open aired in the lower level, so the scent of the food rises to main lobby. The colors and beauty of the lobby are fabulous. My kids spent at least one hour in their gift shop before and after dinner. All the foods were fabulous.......Desserts, have to try them all. The kids especially liked the ones that were on a triangle wafer and had a raspberry, blueberry, other fruit and sparkled with sugar. I like the chocolate ones, all of them.... They had seafood gumbo, different rices, plain stuff for the kiddos. Different kinds of fish, meat, chicken, sauces and breads, all different ethnic kinds from different parts of Africa. Yum, Yum.........

100 Year Celebration parades. We saw the new one at Animal Kingdom. Ahhhh so nice. Colors were brilliant and they had the tall figures dancing and singing and drummers in huge elephants and zebra floats. Saw the Car Parade at MGM Studios, it was nice also, I didn't really ooh and ahhh over this one though. We went on a specialty cruise for the Illuminations cruise. I met someone from this DIS site ahead of time and we split the cost. Very nice family, I reserved the cruise and they met us there. Our boat took off from YC and there was a Private party going on for National Black MBA Association, It was soooooo fun seeing their party they had Minnie and Mickey Hip Hopping and they had Donald Duck Juggling. I got videos of all of this. This was really a special treat. The specialty cruise was fabulous also. for $120 ( $12 per person this pontoon boat fit a max. of 12 people)you ride a pontoon boat, it was very nice, padded seats etc. and you go around the water see boardwalk all lit up go past dolphin and swan, park under the bridge and watch the Illuminations cruise. Best part, boat takes you back to YC----leisurely walk off, no congestion and we went to Beaches and Cream with the other family to top off the evening, with you guessed it sundaes....!!!!!

Of course, we saw Fantasmic, my DD has her headband with a sorcerers hat to prove it. We sat in the front row..........I don't recommend this, if the wind is blowing you get wet. The kids didn't mind a bit. I was wondering why the guy next to me had ponchos for all his family and there was no threat of rain in the sky. It is better to sit a little bit back.. Although I still think I'd sit in front if I were to do it again.

Rider, I am sooooo embarressed after all this time, I cannot figure out what IASW means. I know you are a rider but sometimes, the abbreviations I can't make out. Example it took me the longest time to figure out that ToT was Tower of Terror. My absolute Favorite was Rockin Rollercoaster. If I could I would ride that all day long. We only rode it once. We rode ToT twice, no line no wait... We went on Splash mountain three time, without getting off the ride. Test Track 3 times, Space Mountain, once we weren't impressed by this. Everyone liked the ?Men in Black? one that you shoot at aliens and get points---oops I think that was at Islands of Adventure. At MK they had the Buzz Lightyear one, that was liked by all. The Haunted Mansion was fun. My DD didn't like this one. Honey I shrunk the audience, fun, DD scared.......It's a Bugs light 3D, DD scared......Safari--the best went on it 4 times, no wait. A Rino was sooo close to our vehicle it rubbed the side of it right next to me, I could have touched it.

SG, Building #10 is the closest for the transportation. Just make sure you ask them to place you closest to the transportation end. Because this building is long. I'm sure you've seen by the maps. They are very accomodating. We also bought the cups for $8.99 and could refill soda, coffee, juice or hot cocoa any time we wanted to for the entire stay. Well worth it. And now we are using the cups for our coffees in the car.

I don't think I mentioned that I made ressies for the Contemporary for our last night but cancelled cause the kids were happy with All Sports. My dream however would be, Poly, with the Grand Plan,,,, heeee heeee we can dream can't we. Take Care all......For all you southerners out there, our leaves are changing and it is the most beautiful sight outside.

[IASW Rider]

Thanks so much for your great trip report, Jstmee! So happy that I happened to sign on and see it now, 'cause as soon as Frank is out of the shower, we are off to the travel agent to make our honeymoon reservations! Yipee! :)

I loved hearing your descriptions of the parades and of all the rides that you and your family enjoyed! And it sounds like we definitely have to try Bomba's - that sounds wonderful!

Wish that I could write more, but we are going to head out, soon! Can't wait to hear more about your trip! And please post some pictures, if you have a chance!

Oh - and IASW = It's a Small World (I know, I know - perhaps not as exciting as Rock 'N' Rollercoaster, but it's my favorite! :) )

Have a great weekend, Everyone! :)

P.S. - The thigh rash person was probably me, Jstmee - I had that problem so badly at WDW, 2 years ago, that I had to go to First Aid at DMGM Studios. I'm so happy that I got smart and got those longer denim shorts for our trip, this past June!

[jstmee]

Just had to RUN to the Computer

I was singing "It's a Small World" while I was cleaning the bathing, and lo and behold, I figured it out IASW, yes, we went on that ride also, and it is my favorite also, the kids didn't want to go on it because the older ones are 13 after all, lol, but once on it, they loved it.

Have fun at the travel agent, it's sooo fun to plan.

Also, we got to go into WWTBAM--?Millionaire twice, I came in third once and my boys got in the top ten

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I am just checking in really quick before bed. I wanted to let you know jstmee that I loved your trip report! When we went last Oct it didn't rain once the whole week we were there! Not once during the night even. It surely has made me swear off the summer months!

Rider, enjoy planning your trip with the travel agent!

Well I am going to go now because as soon as I started to type this Luis called me over to help him with something :rolleyes: So more later!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Well, I was in the middle of a lengthy missive to you all a few hours ago and then my company came and I was diverted. My DS just got off my computer and managed to do away with all my pithy comments and wise observations so you will have to settle for the tired ramblings of a weary woman.


Jstmee, you are a font of useful information. Do you happen to know if they have a quicker line to enter if you have a small purse or fanny pack as opposed to those who have large things to check? I cannot stand in one spot for long. I was crippled as a child and still have problems with my legs. I can walk around although slowly but standing still is a killer. I have two huge rolling suitcases that I pack enough clothes for 2 weeks for each of us in. I use the two shirts for every pair of pants system. I also pack a small bag with enough stuff for the 2 days down and the two days back so we do not have to unload the entire car each night. I h ate the idea of doing laundry on vacation. If I were a swimmer it would be different. I could toss the stuff in and swim until it was done. My DH does not like to swim in a crowded pool and I am required, by law, to file an environmental impact statement before I put on a swim suit. LOL I did buy a shorts set for this trip. It will be the first shorts I have had on in over 30 some years. I don't like displaying my flab but I thought I might enjoy dipping my feet and sore legs in a pool if it was not too busy. Having gone that far I went all the way and the set is fire engine red!! I have a sneaky suspiciion that the outfit will linger in a hidden corner of the suitcase. (grin) Tevas sound great but until I find a great sale like yours I will just make do with a new set of insoles in my favorite walking shoes. I learned a long time ago that it was not worth ruining an expensive vacation by being uncomfortable. I went to the site and checked on Connections but did not feel it was worth the money as I cannot eat all that much. My DH orders a whole meal, appetizer and dessert and I eat his salad and maybe a bite of his dessert. Bomba's is on our list for our November trip. We have our name on the list for an Illuminations cruise but have not had any luck. I should check and see if we can get our own reservations. I would not be good at getting others to share the cost though. Rain is not a problem. Except for my hearing aid I am wash and wear. It sounds as if you guys has so much fun. I don't blame you for having post vacation let down. I am always glad to go AND glad to get home but it is much easier to pack than to unpack IMHO.

Poor Rider. I know about thigh rub. I had it so badly one time that I was actually bleeding. You must have been miserable. I am glad that is all behind you. Awaiting with baited breath your report on your honeymoon plans. Well, maybe not ALL of them but the ones that you can share with your bestest friends. (grin)

Helena, ever notice that when you want to talk men are busy but when you get on the phone or the computer they are right there needing attention? I pronounce you now ready for motherhood. It is not so very much different from raising a husband. This comes from a woman who is celebrating her 29th anniversary today AND is married to a much older man. I can only imagine how it must be with one about your own age. LOL

I am getting pretty tired and loopier than usual so I will sign off and go find a quiet corner where I can enjoy the bright lights of the Kingdom while sipping on an iced tea.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Happy Anniversary to you and your husband, SG! Hope that you had a wonderful day! :)

And I'm glad to hear that you are an IASW fan, too, Jstmee! :)

Hope that you had a nice weekend, Helenabear! :)

Well, we made our reservations on Saturday - yea! :) :) :) We'll be going on the exact same dates as we did, this year - June 3 -9. And we specifically requested the exact same room at the Poly which we had, this year. Coincidentally, when we came home from the travel agent and checked the mail, our WDW 100 Years of Magic Vacation Planning Video had arrived! We watched it last night and it was great! Now I'm even more excited about going and seeing the new parades!

Yes, that thigh rub is no fun (such a pleasant topic to discuss - hee hee!). I was also bleeding - that's why I had to go to First Aid at the Studios. They gave me antibiotic ointment and an ace bandage to put around it....but they wouldn't help me put it on, so Frank had to do it for me! I thought that it was pretty rude that the "nurse" wouldn't help me, but my friend who works at WDW told me that the First Aid station people are only allowed to help guests with certain things, because there have been too many frivolous law suits, etc. Anyway, the ace bandage helped a bit, but I was still miserable. I carried baby powder around with me in the parks, and put it on, occasionally (it kept getting all over the ground!). Anyway, the best way to prevent that, I've found, is the RIGHT SHORTS!

I'm sure that your new outfit will look great, SG!

Congratulations on your great success at WWTBAM, Jstmee! I'm really hoping to play it when we go, next year! When we were there, a few months ago, we went to visit my aforementioned friend, who at that time was one of the tech people on WWTBAM (lighting, video, etc.). We spent some time around the soundstage, but never actually got to go in and play the game / see the show. So, we definitely have to do that, this year!

I can't wait to get back to WDW and look out over the Seven Seas Lagoon and imagine where our Suite would be!

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hi everyone

I had a bittersweet weekend. Please pardon me for venting but I feel safter here than in the 'real' world.

One of my sisters and her DH came in Saturday afternoon to spend the night and go to church with us Sunday to see DD be baptized. I fixed dinner and our daughter and family joined us Saturday evening and we have a very nice time. DD told me that her DB had called and said that 'they' were coming on Sunday. I was so hopeful and excited at seeing my grands whom I have not seen in almost 11 months. When we arrived we sat in front of my son and dil. I smiled and said hello but got no response. I looked around and spotted my two oldest grandkids (got them the easy way as they came with Ddil). I tried to make eye contact but they avoided looking. I managed to ask one if he remembered me and he said yes but they looked so sad an scared. My sister had my youngest granddaughter on her lap and when I came in she was nice enough to hand her to me so I was able to spend those moments of the service with her. Never in my life I have ever prayed for a long sermon before! LOL I did not get to see my oldest granddaughter at all as she was in a Sunday School class. As soon as the service was over my Ddil pushed the couple at the end of the pew out of the way and was heard to say"Let's get the h*** out of here". I was able to pat my son on the shoulder (reaching high up to his height) and say "Happy Birthday". I am trying hard to concentrate on the fact that they showed up at all and that I got to see 2 and hold 1 of my grandchildren but this is just so foreign to my nature that I just don't know how to cope. I tried hard not to be a stereotypical MIL and even kept my mouth shut at times when I probably shouldn't but it did not work. I called the other grandma to tell her about the service as she is shut out of their lives also and she was grateful for the report. She had been worried because the younger boy had been beaten up when he was visiting his father up in Northen Indiana and there were reports that his nose had been broken and Ddil had said that she was not going to take him to the doctor. One of Ddil's sisters is the only person in contact with her and so the other grandma hears more than I do. I did not see any obvious injuries but everyone had long sleeves on and it would be hard to see. I, unfortunately, know a lot about child abuse having been in that situation as a child myself. Our father kept us secluded and we were constantly warned about telling family stuff outside the home so I am hoping that I am reading more into all this than is really happening. I had not seen evidence of physical abuse before I lost contact but much extreme emotional abuse. The only thing that I think I can do is pray because I have no control over the matter and I would surely appreciate any PD you guys can send to my Fab Four.

Life is too short to spend it hating and fighting IMHO. Just because someone is not exactly what you might want or do everything the way you personally do is no reason to write people off. You miss far too much when you do that IMHO. In the end what you own is not important at all but who you love and who love you is all.

I think I am sore need of this place today. I am counting the days until we leave and cannot wait until I pull into the resort and can get away from everyday life for a bit. I have 16 days to go!!!

I am so glad to have your upbeat post to read Rider. What a wonderful idea to repllicate your engagement visit for your honeymoon. I think I was one of the ones to reply to your 'thigh rub' thread. I suggested bike shorts. It must be great having an inside view of DW. I have an address of the maid that we had last time. I just found it. She was such a sweet person but far too trusting. She came into our room and sat down and we had a great visit. She was expecting when we were there and I am bringing something for the baby on this trip.

I have to go fix lunch. I am so looking forward to no cooking for a couple of weeks!!! I got my DH to play with the computer the other night. I put on the DW menu site and let him search where he wants to eat. He did not find one single restaurant he did NOT want to eat at! LOL

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I am at home today. I didn't get enough sleep and well a bunch of things later here I am at home. I have issues with water retention during certain times of the month and on top of it I have issues with falling leaves and the mold they produce so I woke up with a sore throat as well so I am trying my best to relax, decongest and sort of enjoy my day off... but it gets hard when your head is all mushy inside ;)

I too can relate with that thigh rub thing. People have even asked me if I was wearing courderoys because they heard my pants rubbing because of my thighs :confused: I hate the rub I can get with some shorts and the rash is just awful. It hurts and there is nothing you can do to help it (or at least I couldn't find it). Oh how I envy those who don't have that happen to them.

SG, don't you worry about how you look. My sister and I looked at one of our videos from WDW and we saw some really huge people wearing skimpy clothing, which isn't an issue to me but when your body hangs outside of your clothing in ways it shouldn't, then I find that wrong. So we both agree that if some people like that can have less fabric on their body than I do on mine then anyone else no matter how big or small can wear whatever they want (as long as they wear the right size clothing). I hope I said that in a good way as my sinus meds makes me leave out words here and there... but my whole point is that I am sure you will not offend a soul in your shorts or even in a swimsuit! Which leads me to a silly story about swimsuits that just popped in my head. There was this woman I saw at the pool, just to set it even better, she was middle aged with what I consider a normal middle aged body, well I couldn't help but stare at her because I swore that she had no swimsuit on! Not that seing a teenage girl like this would be any better but maybe less shocking... I don't know, well anyway I must have looked at her for about 5 minutes when I decided to go sit down with my friends near her and when I got up close enough, I saw her swimsuit was almost the exact same color!!! I swear from far away she looked naked, but not! It was so shocking to see that, but as soon as I saw the lines on her from the swimsuit I was much better. I don't know why I am rambling like this... I will chalk it up to the drugs now.

SG, I am so sorry about your experience this weekend. That is just awful! That was rude on so many accounts with out even bringing in the fact that you are family. To say something like that at a baptism and to act like that! I feel so badly for you and your family. I wonder what some people do sometimes to their children and why. I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers (still) and I will keep hoping for the best with them.

Well my brain is fuzzy now so I should go. This med can either keep me up (as it did last night) or zonk me out like it is trying to do now. I hope everyone has a coherant day ;)

[bashful64]

Hi everyone. Life is hectic as usual so please let me say in advanxce that I haven't had timeto go back and read what I have missed. {{{{HUGSS}}}} for those who need them and congrats and smiles to those who have passed milestones and shared happy experiences.

SG - I did read your last post as it is the one that was at the end of the thread. First of all let me send great big {{{{HUGS}}}} your way.

I am very worried about your grandchildren. I know you do not want to cause problems in your family but if you believe that your grands have been abused or are being abused in any way please please please report it to the proper authorities (even if you have to do it anonomously). Those children need someone who is willing to protect them and advocate for them if they are too frightened to speak up for themselves.

As for your DIL I am sorry to hear that she is still being so difficult. My best advice would be to talk to your sone privately. Tell him how much you miss the family and your grandchildren and try to come to an understanding with him. If he is evasive ask him what the problem is. Ask him how you can help the situation. Do not be agressive or attack his spouse in any way (not saying that you would but I know that when my DH's family didn't like me so much anytime they made a comment about me it was bound to be taken the wrong way...if you know what I mean). If your DIL just plain doesn't like you and refuses to let you have anything to do with the children then your only recourse is to try and work something out with your son. If that doesn't work then perhaps see if a mutual family member can intercede on your behalf (do you get along with DIL's mother? could you speak to her about it? is there any other family member that your DIL will talk with...your youngest gd wason someones lap...would your DIL speak witht hat person?). Your last resort may be to cause a few waves and confront your DIL person to person. Maybe she is walking all over you because you allow it. This last option is obviously the one with the most risk involved becasue it may cause an even bigger rift between you(although I'm not sure that it can really get much bigger).

Lastly more {{{HUGS}}} for you my friend.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, I know where you are coming from about very large people who dress inappropriately. I guess it is the opposite of anorexia (where you think you are fatter than you are). However, I do know how hard it is for large people to find nice clothing that flatters them. I also see older people who dress like teenagers and they would look so good if they dressed nearer their age. I have told my daughter to institutiionalize me when I start dying my hair jet black and wear bright red lipstick. LOL I envy and admire large women who do wear swimsuits and go for it to enjoy swimming and such. I just ain't one of them. I believe that whatever anyone wants to do is fine as long as it does not harm anyone else. Not tooooo sure about the large lady with the invisible swimsuit though. That sounds painful. LOL I hope you get to feeling better. Have you tried Sinulair? It works pretty good for me.

Bashful, you gave me so much good advice and I really appreciate it. The authorities have been called (by neighbors) and my DS and Ddil were required to attend parenting classes which they did not. I truly believe that in all but the most extreme cases children are better off left in the home, imperfect or not. If they are taken into child protective custody they would be split up from one another and there is always that feeling of abandonment. Children can withstand a lot of bad treatment. I know as I was an abused child myself. That makes me fret about my grands AND know that you can come out the other side stronger. I will try to write another letter to my Ddil tomorrow when my heart is less muddled and my mind stronger. You are right that she walks over me cause I allow it but then her grandmother who raised her 'tells it like it is' and she treats her badly also. My son has lost all control of his gonads and I have a lack of respect for someone who would stand back and allow his children to be mistreated. Sorry to be so blunt but it is so true. He did the same thing with his first wife but thank God there were no children involved.

My oldest grandson is due any second now and we have to do our schoolwork and get ready for our party. I have the battery recharging on the camcorder so I can tape it as parents are NOT invited and my DD is hearbroken. LOL

Thank you for all your kind words and {{{{hugs}}}}

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Wow, it's really funny to read what you write when you are drugged up :D At least I sort of made sense...

SG, I am with Bashful, if you can alert the authorities annonymously hopefully that can help, but you are right though, it can lead to bad things. If the kids are lucky, family can take over custody of the children temporarily but that can be hard as well. I always wonder about things like that and if I had a lawyer I could talk to to find out about it, I would. I am just worried that they will be reported again by someone else. How many times do they have to be suspect before they are required to do more than take classes? (I don't know but that would be interesting to find out). It is a tough situation and I wish I could help more but I will give you a big old {{{HUG}}} and hope that helps. I meant to say that yesterday but I guess I missed typing it :p It is just awful that they have to live with that and you as well. You always speak of your Fab Four and it breaks my heart to think of having to live like that! I just wish your DS had more say in how the kids are raised or do you think he is just a guilty as she is (not to say anything bad about him, but sometimes family we love do stupid things...). I constantly think about the kids and I feel so bad for them. I hope there is someway somehow sometime to get the kids the help they need.

I just had to laugh at the thought of you with black hair & red lips, SG! I tried to picture it but I really couldn't, sorry. Now I can see myself doing this, but my hair not sunbleached is dark brown and I look good in red lips but I just had to laugh picturing you with this... and I put the long black hair on you as well. Just promise me you won't wear bathing suits the exact color of your skin ;) I think the world of designers really need a wake up call. Not all women are 5'7"-5'10" and wear a size 2-6 with small chests & little hips & rears. I had a friend who was the "perfect" size (5'7" and a size 4-6) naturally but the funny thing was she tried to gain weight with the help of her doctor. She was the only person I knew who could look right in clothing. Otherwise the true average woman (a 5'5" woman size 14 wearing a 36 C bra) can't find clothes that fit! I actually admire many women who can wear a bathing suit and be CONFIDENT while doing it! Even smaller women are concentious of their bodies in the suit and it shows. I know I am and I am slightly smaller than the average woman (but bigger in the chest area). The really funny thing about petite clothing is that the legs are a tad to short for me. I have longer legs than the normal 5' woman but not long enough for regular lenghts. I have a 29" inseam and fortunately they now make the Short, Regular & Tall lengths on some pants so I do well with them. Otherwise I will have to invest in a decent sewing machine so I can hem my own pants.

Sinulair, is that a prescription med? I don't have much luck with them and most make me feel on edge. I currently am using Aleve cold & sinus and that decongests me quite well but I can't use it at night as it speeds up my heart rate (and thus I can't sleep). My problem is one day one thing will mess up my sinus and another day the same thing won't bother me. It all has to do with the climate and all so I stay away from the prescription meds that prevent it because I hate taking meds for something that may or may not be needed. It is a pain to work my way, but I do try some prescription meds that work after the fact and actually one lead me to Aleve cold & sinus (my doc said it is similar to one prescription med I used to take but actually cheaper on the whole for me & much more convenient to get since I don't use it daily or even all year long).

Well I have rambled long enough. I hope everyone is doing well today and sounding much better than I am (yes I am feeling fine but my voice surely doesn't sound so fine).

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, you always make sense and besides if it were a requirement of this forum that you have to make sense I would not be allowed to post. LOL

I have been over the situation in my head dozens of times and unless I would see actual physcial abuse I will not contact the authorities because I really believe that kids are usually better off in a less than perfect family than in a foster home and they are usually seperated from one another. In this case since it is a blended family it would be a sure seperation. I have it from the other grandma that the authorities were called several times when Ddil was married before and I know of 2 occasions since she has been married to my son. I appreciate your politely asking about my DS. I understand that he is to blame also. Maybe more since he should know better. I remember being more upset at my mother than dad cause she saw what he was doing and did nothing. Now that I am older, I understand she was in a bad position though.

I wish the children were in school and such where I would know that others would be able to keep track of them. Where they live is a small community and there is a good chance that someone will call and I know that the other grandma is thinking of calling. I want to do everything I can so that if something happens I will be eligible to take the girls. I would take all 4 if I could but I know that would not be allowed. I have made friends with the other grandma and plan on trying to make friends with the boy's father also, if I can so I could keep in touch. The father is no better than the Ddil from all reports. Thank you for sending PD to my Fab Four. I really believe that every little bit helps.

You have me looking like Elvira or my Dsd now. Long black hair indeed!!! (grin) I just think that fake black hair does not look good on older people and it makes some faces look older as it brings out all the wrinkles. I do not have nary a one. One of the few blessings about being fat!!! I do not wear makeup as I just don't have the time or patience for it. One the upside I never look any better but I also never look worse. LOL

You are right, nicer clothing needs to be designed for full figures. Ever notice the larger sized clothing that has buttons, pockets or other details across the widest part of the hips? Just what I need, something to call attention to that area. I go for the slightly lower cut tops and hope that people might notice that I am large up there rather than so much down there. (raised eyebrows and a great big old grin) Since I am married and my DH likes what he has it really does not bother me at all if others are not interested. (big laugh) Since there are large parts of my anatomy that have not seen sunlight since the dawn of time I don't believe I could find a bathing suit in that shade anyway so you are all safe.

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I think maybe, even though you are short, that you may not need petite pants. I am 5'7 or so and do need petite length pants. It is not just a matter of the length of the pants but the inseam fitting properly. I have thought of buying another sewing machine (gave mine to Ddil) because the kind of clothes that I like to wear are simple designs and would be pretty easy to sew and then I would get a better fabric also.

Singulair is a prescription medicine but if you do not need help all the time and what you are using works I would not worry about it. I am lucky that we have a good prescription medical plan as I need many kinds of medicine a month and would be hard pressed to pay the full cost of them.

Went and got the car all checked out for vacation. Getting haircuts tomorrow and then in a few days I will bringing out the luggage. I am already taking my predisone and medrol so things are starting to feel real. 15 days to go!!

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone,

Sorry that I wasn't able to post sooner, SG - I also feel terrible about the situation with your DGC's. I think that you're doing the absolute right thing by befriending the children's other grandmother and even their father, if you can - so that if and when the time is right, you may be able to have at least a few of your DGC's come and live with you. I understand your not wanting to alert the authorities at this time (though that would have been my first inclination as well, as Bashful and Helenabear stated), especially since they have been alerted so many times already - even before your DS was married to your DiL. You are extremely patient and strong to stick to your convictions and try to step back from the situation, for the sake of your DGC's being able to stay together in one home, with their parents. I wish you all lots of PD, prayers, good luck, and good wishes. And lots of {{{HUGS}}}, too!

Great to hear from you, Bashful! Hope that all has been well with you and your family!

How are you feeling, Helenabear? The mold and falling leaves are getting my throat and sinuses, too. UGH - it's just that time of year. I stick to good old Sudafed and Benadryl......but usually hold out as long as I can before taking anything, as well!

Speaking of medications, doesn't predisone have something to do with sinuses as well, SG? I believe that my uncle was recently taking it. Oh boy - you must be REALLY excited about your trip, now! I always love pulling out the luggage and starting to pack or put things aside! Just a little over two weeks till you're in - what I refer to as - "the promised land"! (hee hee!)

To add to our real-size fashion conversation, I actually think that designers are starting to make more and more stylish and comfortable clothing in larger sizes. I never would have thought of wearing leather pants - even when I was thinner than I am, now - but I bought a great pair, last winter, and I'm really glad that I did! (I'm 5'2" and also wear petite sizes to avoid pants that are too long!) I think that the industry is really starting to change. I have been able to find many outfits that are similar to what my thinner friends are wearing, that are comfortable and look good. I also found some bathing suits which are comfortable, "hold me in", in the right places, and look decent (about as good as I can hope to look in a bathing suit, at this point - hee hee!). I just figure "whatever", when I'm at the pool - there are always people of all sizes there, and I think "well, if people don't like looking at me in a bathing suit, then they don't have to look at me!" I believe that I bored you all with my charming bridesmaid dress story of last year - where my friend (the bride) was told that a particular designer boutique carried dresses in a variety of sizes, but when we got there nothing fit me and the very "hip" (and RUDE) salesman humiliated me in front of my friend and her sister, later calling my friend (even though he had MY number, as I would be the one PAYING FOR THE DUMB DRESS) to tell HER that they had nothing in their stock that would fit ME. Needless to say, I wrote several letters - to the local manager and the marketing / advertising manager of the store, as well as to the designer herself, telling them how I was mistreated, how I never have trouble finding things that fit me in other stores, and that they should wise up and start carrying a larger variety of sizes, since 90% of the population can't fit into their clothes, anyway. They wrote me back immediately, and even sent me a cute umbrella (which I refuse to use) - I guess they thought that that would be appropriate for someone who can't fit into their clothes! They did the right thing by apologizing, but I will NEVER buy anything - clothes or otherwise - by that designer, EVER. I SHOULD be discreet and not mention the name of the designer.....but I won't, because it still pi**es me off to think about how that salesman looked at and spoke to me, especially in public. So......DO NOT BUY ANYTHING BY NICOLE MILLER!!!!!!! P.S. - we wound up going to a "real" bridal store, and I had absolutely no problem fitting into any of their dresses - go figure, right! :)

OK - I'm off my soapbox, now! :)

Well, Frank and I have pretty much settled into a routine, now. We're still getting used to the schedule, and to living together, and to creating a new "schedule" for the cats, but we're a lot more settled than we were, last week!

Hope that you all are having a good night! {{{{{HUGS}}}} to everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Now ladies, you guys may be a just a touch fluffy but I am majorly fluffy. I have been on every diet known to man, had my stomach stapled and while I know that I eat more than I should I do not eat vast amounts of food and when I eat out with others I notice that they eat quite a bit more than I do. I think I am just made to be this size and have learned to do the best I can with it by working hard so I am in the best 'shape' I can be in. Everyone in my family is about my size. I work from the time I get up until I fall in bed at night doing all sorts of manual labor around here. I cannot abide mindless exercise and want something to show for my efforts. I used to go into shops looking for things for my DD who was thin and blonde (opposite of me LOL) I used to be very ashamed of myself before almost dying from the stomach stapling but afterward I was a woman on a mission. There were times when I would go into a trendy store looking for special things for my special girl. Most of the time it was fine but there were times when the size 0 shop girls would look horrified at my walking thru their stores. I developed a 'pay back' for those people. I would pick up a couple of outfits and head to the dressing room. LOL Naturally, I would never actually try anything on. I am bad, not evil!!!

Rider, I have a wide circle of friends and have ways of keeping up with what might be going on with my grandkids so it helps a bit. My Ddil does not know that I know these people and they are concerned and that helps some. It is the hardest decision that I have ever made NOT to call someone but since they have been there a few times already and have not really done anything I would be afraid of it happening again and I know how that goes. When they leave the kids are left to face recriminations. I think about the grandma in Texas who has to live with the fact that her Ddil killed her 5 children and the fact that she has to live with it daily that she might have been able to do something. I think the husband should be arrested for contributing to the crime IMHO.

Predisone is used for a variety of things. I use it for my asthma. It is a dangerous medicine to use full time but I use it off and on to enable me to do things as it helps my breathing. I will eventually have to go on oxygen and am putting it off as long as possible. I love prednisone, it works so well and is so very cheap. Less than a bag of cough drops!!!

Rider, I do not remember the wedding dress story. You were right to be ticked and I am glad that your friend was not one of those shallow people who would have picked a dress over a friend. The advice columns are full of people who disinvite friends cause they do not fit the dress they want in their wedding. Seems to me a great way of finding out if you are a friend or a decoration! LOL

Doctor visits today, haircuts and a bit of Halloween shopping and back in time for my Dgs's tutoring. DH goes bowling tomorow so maybe I can make up some work then. I am bringing the suitcases down to the pool table this weekend and it is starting to feel real. 14 days and counting!!!!

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi all, just popping in to say hi. My allergies are now in full force and I cough, sneeze & have itchy eyes :( but I am doing the wonderful decongestants and that seems to help a lot.

You know I was thinking about all the problems people (especially women) have buying clothing that fits and the looks people from those who aren't their size. People are made to be a certain way no matter what they do. I will never be tiny and that is fine. I am only not quite so happy with my size because I know I am not being healthy and that is more important to me then saying I am 5'1" and I weigh ___ (like I'm going to tell you that ;) ) I know that one should do their best by being healthy but if you do that then you are fine. My dad is a fairly healthy man who is just a big man. He can never be small and he could never be anywhere near 200 pound if he tried. That is fine because that is who he is and will always be. I know there is no way in h*** I could fit my hips into some of the smaller sizes because I know I'd have to cut through bone in order to do that ;) So once I know I am healthier in how I live, I will be happy with my size. I don't eat a whole lot but I know I don't eat what is best for me, so that is what I have to change about myself to be happy. I am proud of my curves and I want to keep them because I know this is what my DH finds sexy to him. He loves me how I am and only pushes me to change because I want to. Now if I didn't he woudln't say a word to me. Diets are evil and magazines are evil as is those terrible fashion shows. Honestly how can a girl be close to 6 feet tall and only weigh 120 or so and that is who the designers design for and those designs are supposed to work on all body types and on top of that I am supposed to want to wear a big feather in my chopped up icky hair :D Seriously one thing that people have found that I hope all clothe manufacturers realize is the proportions for a size 2 really shouldn't be the same for a size 20. Adding inches only to certain parts just doesn't work and what fool thinks that the arms and calves of a larger woman are the same size as a small one. Same goes for neck holes. I swear for a lot of T-shirts they don't know how to make bigger neck holes from S to M to L to XXXXL. I could go on and on but the only way to get something that fits perfectly is to have it tailor made for you. My wedding dress was and you know even the sleeves were two different sizes in diameter. One of my arms is bigger than the other due to driving a manual transmission. So we had to let out one arm about 1/2 inch or so to make up for that. My shoulders are not even so we had to adjust the neckline as well. My cousin who is wonderful at making clothing has said many times that no one is symetrical on both sides at all. One is bigger than the other or slightly off or something that makes buying clothing in stores hard for everyone. I wish I had the talent and time to make more of my own clothing. It is just hard to do it for yourself sometimes. Okay I am done, I just really hate shopping for clothing. It gets really frustrating not being able to find things that fit without altering them.

Our managers made brunch for us today so that was nice. They did a very good job too and I am impressed by the quality of the food. Someone made really good pancakes and I want to find out who made them and what they put in them to be that good!

SG, I am glad that you are able to keep tabs on key people in your Fab Four's lives. It really must be a tough situation... you don't want them to get split up from the family yet at the same time you want them to be safe. I agree, sometimes it is better to keep them in a slightly off situation than to put them in foster care where they can be bounced from home to home. Everything about that situation is hard and I just hope for the best for them! But to make yourself joyful, think that you will be on your way to sunny WARM Florida soon :D What a wonderful time of year to go there!

Rider, what an awful story about the dress! That is horrible that you would be treated like that. I always think about the movie "Pretty Woman" and would love to go do what she did to those saleswomen in that one store that snubbed her. There are many times where people don't offer the help they could and you'd just love to go back there and say "Look what you missed out on" especially at places that go off of comission. I'd love to do that to some car sales people who treated me like a dumb woman. But then again I probably couldn't rub much in their faces as the deal I got was really good and they didn't make much off of me. What I find funny about my bridesmades is that they all wore the same size give or take one size. I was only mad at one of them because she got a size 12 and she really needed a size 14. She stuffed herself in that dress and it didn't look so good on her but hey that's what she wanted and that made her feel good to get a size 12 I guess. I think if you are their friend, then you should take into consideration what they like and don't like and what would be comfortable for them. Now I found a dress I loved and it got nixed because of the buttons down the back. Granted they were there for show only and not even real but my sister hated them and refused to wear a dress with them... I almost killed her for that and almost kicked her out because she was being what I thought too petty, but it is nowhere near as bad as a group I know who had some of the bridesmaids say they couldn't be in the wedding because the bride INSISTED on having them wear a red strapless gown. A few of the bridesmaids were either really big or really small chested for their size and did not feel comfortable wearing that. So they left the bridal party (a roommate in college was one of the gals who left) and the bride said she was happy to be able to replace them with a better body anyway. Some people have NO tact.

Well I have rambled much too long. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

[IASW Rider]

Sorry - I'm at work and can't write very much, right now, but I just have to ask you one question, SG:

IS THERE ANY ROOM FOR ME, IN ONE OF YOUR SUITCASES????!!!

Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

You know Rider, I was thinking the same thing... maybe she has one REALLY BIG suitcase for us :D I am sure we all could use the nice warmth the Florida sun would give us!

[IASW Rider]

Wow - Helenabear - how did I miss your post?? At first I thought that we posted at exactly the same time, so I didn't see it after reading SG's post....but you posted before I did! Oh well - still can't write very much right now, but just wanted to say "hi" and hope that you're feeling better! :)

[IASW Rider]

Oh my God - you just did it again, Helenabear! How did you do that? You must be on line, too! (Guess I should check my buddy list, right? Hee hee!)

[helenabear]

I have Yahoo messenger and it alerts me when I have an e-mail and I can subjects of e-mails so since I get notifications on this thread, I can pop in and see what's been said.

[IASW Rider]

That is so neat, Helenabear! I used to have Yahoo Instant Messenger, too. Well, I would have sent you a "PM" yesterday when we were both on the boards, but work was just too hectic. I'm trying to sneak in a post, now, before I "dive in" to my big pile of work, this morning.

How are you all doing, today? How are you feeling, Helenabear? And how are you doing, Slightly Goofy?

Yeah, that was a pretty annoying experience at Nicole Miller. I'll never forget the condescending way that that salesman looked me up and down, as if I was a piece of garbage. And how he took my measurements and announced them at the top of his lungs so that the whole city of NY could probably hear him. The most humiliating part was the fact that the salesman called my friend to tell HER that they don't carry (or can't order) a dress in my size.....so that SHE had to call ME and tell me. That must have been really hard for her to do, plus it was really embarrassing for me to be caught off guard like that. To be honest, I was so humiliated after the initial experience when we were IN the store that I just didn't feel like dealing with it any more and told my friend that I would back out of the bridal party since it was obviously inconvenient to find me a dress, blah, blah, blah. I just didn't want to think about it, any more. Fortunately, my friend refused to accept my "resignation" and went and found another dress. Ah, the things we do for friends! I never told my friend how angry I was at the store and how I was treated, and I never told her that I wrote that complaint letter - I didn't want her to feel badly or like it was her fault. Anyway, at least I will be prepared, now, if I am ever faced with a situation like that, again!

Moving right along.....!

Yes, my uncle was definitely taking predisone, SG. He was taking it because he has a polyp in his nose (which the doctor doesn't want to remove, 'cause my uncle has heart problems and shouldn't bleed, so he can't have surgery) and was having trouble breathing. Unfortunately, the predisone made him dizzy and disoriented, so he wound up feeling worse than before! But I think that he has finished this most recent course of medication.

I love the story about how you used to shop for your DD and take things into the dressing room, just to annoy the salespeople, SG! And I can't believe the story about the wedding your friend was in, where the bride insisted on a specific dress style and was happy to replace bridesmaids with others who had "better bodies"! That is unbelievable. If I was in that wedding, and the bride said something like that to me, I would tell her where she could stick her bridesmaid dress, her wedding, AND her friendship!

That's great that you stay in touch with people who can keep you abreast of the situation with your DGC's , SG. I'm sure that you are on top of everything. And I'm sure that they will be all right. Just concentrate on the fun that you're going to have with everyone on Halloween and getting ready for your trip!

I don't know if I mentioned that my WDW 100 YOM Vacation Planning Video arrived in the mail, a few days ago. In fact, it arrived on the day that we went to the travel agent to make our honeymoon reservations (good timing!)! I'd never ordered one of those tapes before, 'cause I figured that after 11 WDW vacations, I didn't need any travel planning help. But that was really silly of me, 'cause I was missing out on some great tapes! This one is really nice - they show snippets of each of the new parades, too. I can't wait to hear what you think of them, SG! I also ordered the WDW wedding planning video and other information, just for the heck of it, and just out of curiosity, but I haven't received them yet. Anyway, I'm already ready to go! I wish that the time was closer, so that I could start making Priority Seatings, etc.! But I still have 4 1/2 months to go before I can even do that! Oh well - I can plan in my head and live vicariously through you, SG!

Well, I'd probably better get some work done, here. Hope that you're both having a nice day! Talk to you soon! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

I cannot think of a better bunch of people to share DW with than you guys. Climb into the backseat, you don't have to cram into the suitcases although they are pretty big. I am taking enough clothes for 2 weeks cause I don't like spending MY vacation doing laundry and too darn cheap to spend $2 a load. LOL Well, if we decide to extend our stay I would be willing to do so tho. (grin)

A funny fact. The daycare that my youngest Dgs goes to is run by the neatest couple. They cannot have children and so the daycare is great for them, not to mention all the lucky children that pass through their doors. They have been in the business for so long that they are on their second generation of kids in some cases. The older kids watch out for the younger ones and it is almost like another family. At any rate, one of the other couples who has 2 children in the daycare are going to be at DW at the same time we are. They just happen to be our DD and Dsil's best friends. The daycare couple are going to be in FL at the same time and are going out of their way to go over and watch the kids while the parents attend a convention meeting or two. What service is that? Anywey we are all going to get together and go out to eat or something. I love my DH but he is not much fun and I love people so this will be wonderful for me. I love to laugh and cut up and my DH is older and not the kind to do such things.

Rider, are you sure it was prednisone that your uncle takes cause that is for respirtory problems as a rule?

We could go on all day about clothes not fitting. There is just one thing to do. We MUST all win big lotteries in our states and hire someone to custom make our clothes. When I find something that fits well I buy several in different colors. I really don't care a lot about clothes as long as they are clean and fit it is fine with me. I don't like shopping much either although I have and still do it for a living. I am a Secret Shopper now and used to be a coupon queen.

I have felt so badly when I have come back to the computer and found an ICQ from Helenabear and I missed it. We will have to make an appointment one night for a group chat. Hint, hint.

I collect those vacation planning videos. My grands were raised on watching them along with the park videos that I got years ago. When my 4 year old went a couple of years ago he already knew so much about the place it was not funny. He was talking today about going when he was in his mommy's tummy. 4 and he has sort of been there 2 times. Lucky kid.

I am having lunch with some friends tomorrow. I really don't have time for it but it is not something I can do that often so I am not going to miss it. I need to go to the hardware store as I am making some acrylic panels for our basement windows to protect them from being broken and keep some of the cold air out of the house. This, along with doing the cooking and cleaning is starting to get me down. I need DW and I need it NOW!!! 13 days and counting!!!!!!

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

SG, you must be so excited only 12 more days---well in about 40 minutes that is until WDW for you. I am finally getting over my post vacation blues. I cleaned more today than I have in the past couple of weeks.

I am freezing typing this up. The temperature is in the 30's right now. I'm am so worried about my cat "Mittens". She loves going outside. But I don't want her to freeze, she's very thin. Sometimes she stays out all night, but in the winter she stays in. She doesn't like the snow. Now, I'm worried that she doesn't realize how cold it will get with no snow on the ground. We also have a lot of fox up here so when she stays out I don't get a lot of sleep.

Rider and Helenabear, I get such a chuckle on the clothing department talks. Ha, my first marriage I wore a size 10 and thought I was fat the second time around I was married I wore a size 18 (oops did I fail to mention I was pregnant) and my maid of honor and bridesmaid were both size 8's. They are really beautiful girls too. I thought it quite amusing that the bride was not the "most" beautiful.---Of course, I'm joking, because on that day no one could have told me that anyone was more beautiful than I.

I am one of those gals that swims and does everything, regardless of my weight. I do keep in shape though. I am very large but all Doc's blood tests and my strength etc. are in order. I would like to lose weight some day, but my DH said the nicest thing the other day. I said the only thing wrong with me was my weight and I'll lose that someday. He said no you won't and there's nothing wrong with that. For the past 10 years we've been married i've told him I would lose weight and look like some gorgeous bombshell. heee heee, like that will ever happen. I guess after ten years of marriage I can be comfortable with who I am and realize I too will never be tiny. My family has "large" bones. I can eliminate some of the -blubber- lol though. but if I don't, I certainly won't stop living. By the way, my bathing suit is really cute. The top portion is floral print, purples and pinks and greens, with black, and the bottom portion is black, and it has a black skirting around it that is a thin see throughish material. I sewed up the front a little so I wouldn't hang out and my rear stayed put in the bathing suit. So,,,,I felt comfortable in it. I also used to be a lifeguard and swimming is a passion of mine, so I will never give that up. I did think I was going to have a heart attack a couple of times climbing to the top of the mountains at Blizzard Beach, 7 times in one day aaarrrgh.

I'm now a size 22-24, and I do more places to buy clothing that looks good. Thankfully though, I'm not working now so jeans are my staple item. Have any of you tried the "stretch" jean that they have at I think Walmart or Kmart. They are great. I highly recommend them.

I didn't feel self conscious about my weight in the slightlest on vacation. It's only around my family who I only see about once every other year. Okay, I'm rambling now.

I'll have to reinstall ICQ again. I'm going to check the back door for the 10th time to call my cat. and DH has only been home 2 days since we got back from vacation. It's a tough year for us.

bye

[jstmee]

Where is everybody? In the jacuzzi? I was up way too late last night and I even got quotes for a 7 day WDW cruise for next September. I think I am only dreaming, but hey why not dream. I think this would be great because the food is included in the price and my children love food. Especially my 5 foot 7 inch 13 year old 150 lbs. boys.

I am going to sniffle a little tears here. My DH as you know travels for a living. In the past 4 months I think I've seen him just a handle full of times. (Not counting vacation-which he is now paying dearly for by not being able to come home at all). It's very lonely having a home and 4 children in your husband's hometown were the majority of people speak French. I was at the PTA meeting last night and they all broke out into their home dialect of French. Yes, I think it's neat at times, but without DH to joke with about it...I'm downright teary eyed.

Well, I think I need a good jacuzzi and a nice movie, any suggestions? Who wants to join me. Promise I won't belly ache.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Good evening Jstmee, it is so nice to see you here relaxing a bit. Being in charge of 4 youngsters on your own is very wearing and missing your DH is to be expected. It is not belly aching, it is sharing so we can understand where you are coming from and what we can offer you in the way of friendship. Such an interesting life. Please pardon my ignorance but do you live near Quebec? I am not much good at geography and such. What a wonderful way to wile a few hours - daydreaming about a summer cruise. How in the world did you handle DW on your own with 4 kids? Even with teenagers it would be a daunting feat for me. I can barely control my DH let alone several people at once. Did you have much trouble with people wanting to go in seperate directions and such? I hope things calm down and your DH can get off the road and back with you giggling at the townspeople. (whom I am sure you are very fond of)

I sure hope that Mittens made it home safely. It is so difficult to see our loved ones go out into the world even though we know we need to give them freedom to do so. LOL

I was a size 12 in my first marriage and was told I was too fat all the time. He was much older than I was and used to run around and blame it on my weight or the fact that the corners of the kitchen floor were not clean enough and my all time favorite _ because I was too young to go to bars with him. Boy, would I like to go back in time for just an hour or so to do some serious damage to that delightful fellow. Gotta admit I learned a lot from that relationship though. That which does not kill us makes us strong and boy am I strong. LOL

I think I will join you in the jacuzzi Jstmee. Would not do that unless I was very comfortable with you and I am. Just advert your eyes and let me settle down in privacy. "Don, a tall cool one over here please?" Temperature is just right, the stars are shining bright and I think I see the EWP coming around the turn. What more could we want?

Slightly Goofy/Linda

[jstmee]

Aaaaah, the feel of the warm jacuzzi and yes, I see the EWP coming also. I am so excited to see it from here. I am relaxed and comfortable. Mittens made it home safely and she slept all day long. I am not letting her out this evening however. I live across from Edmundston,New Brunswick. I am also only 20 minutes from the province of Quebec. Quebec is huge. From where I live to 7 hours away in Montreal. We are 3 hours from Quebec City.

We also are only 45 minutes from whale watching in the St. Lawrence Seaway. I went with my daughters' class last year we saw at least 4-5 whales and many seal. It was amazing that I live so close to that beauty.

My DH went on the vacation with us. He arrived home 3 hours before we left for the airport and left 9 hours after we got back. So, we did have 12 glorious days with him. I told him he couldn't call work and that he couldn't take his laptop, which he didn't and he said he was glad he didn't bring it. We have a web cam on our puter here at home and he just bought one for his laptop, so we are able to talk and see each other on the internet. We did that for the first time tonight. The tears just welled up in my eyes to see him. It was nice.

Thats it for now. Don, i'd like a nice frozen drink please.:jester:

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Jstmee

I am so glad that through technology you are able to SEE your DH but I feel so badly that he is not there as much as you would wish. It is a hectic world we live in where we feel we have to work so much and do not get to spend the time with people we love. I find myself sometimes realizing that I am spending too much time on th ings that do not matter much and neglecting some of my friends. I imagine it is very hard on your DH to be away from you all so much and knowing that he needs to work also. A hard balancing act. It is wonderful that you guys thought of the webcam idea.

It sounds so lovely where you live, at least most of the year. I think I would dread the winter months tho. I have enough trouble down here. I do not do ice and snow. I told them at the school library when I signed up to volunteer that the bad news was that I was almost deaf, sick a lot and did not drive on icy days BUT I could work for free. I guess that they thought the second fact overrode all the other problems. LOL I have often dreamt of an Alaskan cruise to see the whales and such and you only have to go such a short distance. Have you ever dreamt of going to the Indy 500 or Kentucky Derby? We could swap homes for a week or two. LOL

It is much more relaxing now that I know that Mittens safely survived her night on the town. Sure glad that she does not tell us what she has been up to as it might cause us some heart flutters. I believe I will order a frozen drink also, no sugar, no alcohol tho. OK, I like just plain ice to tell the truth. The EWP was a little more sparkley tonight. Must be the patriotic fervor of the times.

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

I did forget to mention that when I was down at WDW in September the EWP had a bunch of American Flags all lit up, you should have heard the crowd roar. Oh, such a sight and sound.

I just got back from "Link of Hope" a walk for breast cancer. I'm a girl scout leader and I got a bunch of white T-shirts, dyed them pink and during our meeting every one used fabric paints to paint the ribbon symbol on them and other creations. We walked about 4 miles in the rain in 40degree weather. Well worth it though for the awareness. A friend of mine is terminal and I've been taking her back and forth to her radiation treatments. She also is going through chemo again. She has two DD ages 9 and 12. The closest place to go for radiation is 1 1/2 hours away, and she goes every day, so I take her every once in a while to "give her a break from her DH" lol as she says.

Everyone have a glorious day. SG are you packing yet? Helenabear hope all is well and same with you rider.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Jstmee

I know what you mean about driving your friend back and forth to radiation. It helps so much to be able to do SOMETHING in such a circumstance. I have a dear friend who is her 80's and I drove her back and forth to radiation eveyday. She was so worried about the 'trouble' she was causing and I so enjoyed spending that time with her. She survived. I will keep your friend in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot imagine how painful all this must be especially for a young mother. You are a good friend. I am glad to be able to know you.

No, I am not packing yet although I did pack my vacation purse last night. I have severe breathing problems and saving even a few ounces in my purse means a lot. My DH carried my purse a few times but I did not think it was fair so I bought a purse on a string and put only the most essential things in it. We are working on cleaning the flowerbeds today. I have a very small yard but many flowerbeds. I need to get all this winterizing stuff done before we leave as well as some of the Christmas stuff also (cards) as we might be getting back just before Thanksgiving. We are thinking of extending a few days possibly and then going thru Ohio to visit some family before we return. The suitcases will come down to the pool table next weekend. We will load the car Halloween night and then entertain all our little hobgobblins and such. Our grands come here afterward for a pizza party. After they leave we will throw the paper plates and such away, go to sleep and wake up very early on the 1st to try to get through Atlanta at a good time (NOT rush hour). I usually don't cut it this close going down but we have to be here for Halloween and have to be back in time to take our oldest grand to see the new "Harry Potter" movie.

Do you know how much your troop raised for the Breast Cancer drive? It makes kids feel so good to do for others. I was explaining the president wanting dollars for the Afghan kids to my 4 year old grandson and told him about other little boys like him that do not have food, warm clothes or maybe even a bed to sleep in and how he could dust the music boxes (his favorites) to earn a dollar to send. He told me we should go get the little boy and bring him back here and he could be my son. If only life were that simple.

Slightly Goofy

[CathyCanada]

Hey fellow EWP groupies!!
Haven't been around here much but caught up on a few pages and wanted to suggest a group hug!!! I'm sorry that some of the nicest people on the DIS are having some tough times here and just wanted you guys to know that I haven't forgotten you!! :)
CC

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hi there WM Cathy C - It is always a delight to have royalty stop by, especially when it is you. Don't fret we are all doing fine. Life happens and no matter what is going on it can always be worse. I am a tough old bird who has seen much in my life and survived and I wills survive this. My only real worry is the kids and I am here for them. I survived a tough childhood and had hoped that my family could evolve into something resembling normal but then I am not in charge of the universe and can only do so much.

Only 11 more days for me. Just about have the yard all cleaned up and I will plant the rest of the bulbs tomorrow and get DH to throw some mulch on and that much will be done. I am getting so excited about the trip now that we are down to the last few days. I don't look forward to the drive but the destination is a goal worth striving for.

Some of the posts say that attendance is way down and others say it is very crowded. Hard to figure. Might be that attendance is down but because of the shorter hours and closing of some things it just seems like it is more crowded. My heart goes out to all of those who will be coming for the first time and will miss out on so much. I am afraid that they will not want to return over and over like those of us lucky ones.

I have always used the stragedy of going to the parks that do NOT have EE and with no EE to guide me it will be dificult. Not being able to stand in line for long periods of time I fear the admittance lines. In the past, when we have gone to a park to find it too crowded we have hopped a bus and went to another park but if I have to spend so much time (for a good cause) to get into the park and the short hours also it is difficult to know what to do.

Cathy, would happen to know if the story of the flags noting attendence levels is true? The CM's won't tell you which park is the least crowded. I think it would be good if they did as it would make it more enjoyable for all by getting people into the slow parks and out of the crowded ones. IMHO

Have heard reports of coupon books for discounted meals off season and off peak hours before and am hoping they might offer something in return for all the things they seem to be taking away. I just keep reading the posts each day and trying to gain wisdom from you experts.

I am hoping that Cirque will extend it's discounts but they might not feel that they have to since people will be looking for other things to do since the parks will be closed earlier. Oh well, gonna go and have fun no matter what. :cool:

How are you doing Cathy? Been to DW lately or planning a trip?

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone!

Sounds like you are keeping busy, as always, SG! I wish that I had your energy and stamina! And that's so neat that you are going to get together with the owners of the daycare center and another couple from daycare, when you are in Florida! I'm sure that that will be a lot of fun! And I'm sure that DH will enjoy it! In fact, I'm sure that he will be even much more "fun" than usual, when you are in WDW - who isn't energetic and fun when they are there?! I do the same thing that you do - if I find a piece of clothing that I like, I buy it in every color available! If you look at my WDW pictures, you will realize that I am wearing the same shirt in different colors in every picture, and the same shorts, too - found the ones that felt the best and bought 8 pair! I'm sure that you will have an amazing time in WDW, regardless of the crowds or early closings. Besides, I'm sure that you will be well prepared by reading the Boards ahead of time, as you're doing, and know what's closing when, so that you won't miss anything! And I'll bet that the crowds won't be too bad, either!

Hi Jstmee! I'm sorry that you and your children are not able to spend more time with your DH! :( I got choked up reading a few of your most recent posts! I'm sure that he misses you all very much, too, when he's travelling, and wishes that he could spend more time at home. That's great that you are able to see and speak to one another via computer, though (I always knew that we would see that technology in our lifetime - kind of like the telephones on "The Jetsons"!) But if you ever feel lonely, please know that we're here for you, in the Suite! Even if we can't see or speak to one another in person, we can always "come" here for good friends and fun conversation! I'm sure that you looked absolutely beautiful at both of your weddings! You too, by the way, SG! I was a size 8 at my first wedding. In fact, I just packed up my first wedding dress (I looked at it for the first time in a long time and could not believe that I ever fit into it!) and veil with the thought of giving it to charity, when I'm ready to part with it - it still "lives" at my parents' house. Now I wear size 18-20-22, depending on the cut and the piece of clothing. Whatever. Hopefully I'll be a bit smaller by the time of my wedding, but I'm not going to kill myself to get there. I also exercise just about every day, and have recently started eating better and at more reasonable times of day (having DF here, now, helps with that - someone to actually sit down to dinner with at a "normal" dinner time!). I'm not meant to be really thin - to stay the size 8 that I once was, I basically had to starve myself and exercise every day. (not hard when I had an "ex" who constantly commented on everything that I ate) But at the same time, I want to be healthy. I see what's happened to my mother by not going to doctors, not taking care of herself, and becoming obese (around 300 pounds) - and ultimately getting diabetes - and I don't want that to happen to me. Just like you said about your wonderful DH's, Jstmee and SG, my DF also thinks that I look great just as I am, which makes me very happy (and I wasn't lacking for dates after divorcing "ex" and getting together with DF 2 years ago, so we know that not ALL men are only interested in those stick-figure-types!). But I wouldn't mind trimming down a bit for my own peace of mind.

I also love when the EWP turns into the flags and stars, Jstmee, and I'm sure that it was even more meaningful and touching seeing it at this particular time! Did you see the American Adventure show at EPCOT? I have been thinking about that show and about the song "Golden Dreams" and get goosebumps - I'm sure that people are walking out of there teary eyed, these days - I know that I would, if I was there now! Is the Hall of Presidents open, or are they "installing" President Bush? I would get choked up seeing that now, too!

It's so kind of you to drive your friends to radiation, SG and Jstmee. I'm sure that it is very difficult for you both to do that because you care so much about your friends, but I'm sure that they appreciate what you do for them and the fact that you are both such good friends to them. It's wonderful that you and your Girl Scout Troop participated in the Breast Cancer Walk, Jstmee, and it sounds like you all had fun doing something for such an important cause! And I loved hearing about your DGS, SG, and his wanting to bring a little Afghan boy to live with you! That is very sweet! And it's great that you're teaching him about the horrible situation that the innocent people of that nation have to endure.

Great to hear from you, Webmaster CC! Thanks for checking in!

How are you doing, today, Helenabear?

DF and I are celebrating the 2 year anniversary of our first date, this weekend, so I'd better jump into the shower before we go out to dinner!

Hope that you're all having a wonderful weekend! Since I missed the jacuzzi last night, can we all meet there again, tonight? I'll have the gentlemen make up a platter of goodies to bring to us while watching the EWP and MK fireworks over the Lagoon! What do you say? :)

[CathyCanada]

Congrats on your anniversary Rider! :)
Thanks for remembering me ladies!! LOL

Linda, from what I hear, during the week the parks are quiet but on the weekend, the locals come in and are more crowded. If possible, other than to see the fireworks and parade at night, I would stay away from the Magic Kingdom that day.

I have been busy cruising with the family. Had a wonderful time, thanks!!

Have a good weekend all, anyone for the jacuzzi tomorrow night? Don is serving. :)
CC

[SlightlyGoofy]

Rider, I just love your verbosity and your way with words. My favorite line was what you said to Jstmee about us being there for her. Just what I thought and did not have the words to say. I will take you up on that offer of joining you at the jacuzzi for a platter full of goodies. I had a piece of toast for breakfast and have been too busy to eat since then. I am starving. Only problem is I am too tired to cook. Whine!!!!

I think Jstmee will agree that we are not so wonderful for helping our friends. It is such a relief to have something concrete that you can do. I just hate it when someone has a problem that I can do nothing about. I have dreams about winning the lottery and doing like a really old tv show used to do. It was called the Millionaire and he sent his man around to people in trouble and spent his money to make their problems go away. Now, I know that money cannot solve every problem but it is especially sad when it IS a problem that can be solved by money and it is not available.

I surely do not know where you think I have so much energy or stamina. You work a full time job and do all sorts of things I do not. I work for a bit and rest a bit and then work some more etc. I cannot do too much at one time cause of my breathing. The prednisone is helping a lot right now.


I cannot buy clothes from the rack so it is really hard for me to find clothes I like. I have to read the descriptions carefully and then pray that they are acurate. You have to pay return shipping even if you do not like the clothes so you often keep things you don't like because it would cost too much to return them. If I do get something I like the chances of them still having more in stock later is uncertain. I tell you, it is almost enough to make me starve myself down a few sizes so I could at least shop at Wal Mart. LOL

I am not going to sweat it too much about the changes at DW but with the early closings I will probably go earlier than we usually do. We are second shift type people so that will be difficult. I get up at 7 most days but DH often sleeps until 10 or 11.

I believe I am the only one on this thread that has never actually seen the EWP. I am so stoked about it. I have a file card of suggestions that each of you have given me and plan to put them to good use. Thank you.

I will miss you all so much while at DW. I will have a lot of reading to catch up on when we return home.

Rider, congratulations on your anniversary. I hope you will have a wonderful eveing.

Slightly Goofy

[CathyCanada]

And let me add, I love all of you ladies just the way you are. Your big hearts are what makes each of you so special.
CC

[helenabear]

Hi all! Wow I seemed to miss so much in just a short amount of time. It really warms my heart to hear how wonderful everyone here is! It is so nice to see also that it is easy for us to share many stories that have nothing to do with Disney. I guess the love of Disney helps breed the same kind of wonderful people no matter how old or where someone lives :D

SG, I had to laugh when I read that you buy many of the same clothing articles once you find it fits. I think for work I have three or four styles of shirts and when I found that I liked these particular styles I bought at least 3 of them in different colors. I will keep going back and back buying more when I can until they either change the cut or get rid of the style. If you do stop back in Ohio and have time, give me a call... we are a boring group at my house and usually are home :D

Jstmee, wow, I can feel for you. I don't know what I would do if I couldn't see Luis that much. I have my cats and my family and a few friends but when Luis isn't around I go to pieces. I know we aren't the same as your husband by a long shot but if you ever want to laugh or cry we are hear and ready to listen :D

Cathy, it is great to see you back here! We missed you around here! I hope all is well with you!

Rider, congrats on your two year anniversary! And in about 7 1/2 months you will have one more anniversary for your DF to remember ;) I just can't get over how much all you all seem to do. Today I visted my grandmother and dropped off some quarters and dimes for her. She uses them to go get sodas from their loung in the apartment building she lives in. If I could smack my 90 year old grandmother I would. I only say this because she went on about being useless and being a pest. I told her that she is never a pest and it is always wonderful to hear the stories of her life. She has lived through a lot... two world wars, the depression, all the ups and downs some of us have only read about in history class. It never amazes me to hear what she has to say. I feel good going to see her and she feels like she is wanted. I don't know what I'll do once she is gone.

I can't believe that some men actually have the gall to tell each of these beautiful women here that they needed to lose weight! I am a nice average 10/12/14 depending on the cut so I am in no way a huge person. I am rather unhealthy (in the way I eat and take care of myself) but by no means am I big. When I was a definite size 10, someone told me that I was a little over weight, so I asked my b/f at the time if I was a little fat and he said yes! Well he and I were rocky after that and I never forgot he said that. I didn't ask him thinking I was fat but for him to say it really made me mad because he was just as flabby as I was (and I wasn't too flabby... just my hips won't let me fit into anything smaller than a 10). I couldn't imagine being married to someone who said that of me. I was thinking about our converstaions here and if I ever win the lottery (which isn't likely because I don't ever play it) I will make sure that I can come up with a good inexpesive way for people to get tailor made clothing. I had it done once with my wedding dress and I wish I could get it more often. I mean men get psuedo tailor made clothing with suits so we need more of that for us... we have more curves to deal with :D

I am finally just about 100% decongested :D My hearing is practically perfect and my coughs and sneezes are almost gone. I am very happy because if it didn't seem to go away by the end of the weekend I thought I'd have to go to the doctor to see if I had a sinus infection.

Well Luis just returned from Blockbuster so we could watch a movie or two tonight. He brought back Bedazzled because it was a free rental and he heard it was funny but really for me he brought back Cats & Dogs. I wanted to see that but we never got a chance... boy do I feel lucky. Well I am sorry I was away for a small time but I truly enjoyed reading about all you! You guys are truly a special group. Well off to watch my movies and eat my Junior Mints (boy does he think of it all). I hope you all have a great night and weekend!

[SlightlyGoofy]

I am delighted to see almost everybody in here tonight. It gets kind of quiet around here sometimes but with all that has been going on it has been hard to think of anything else.

Thank you so much Cathy, for all the kind words and great advice. We usually watch the parades from the porch just inside the gates. I stake out a couple of rockers and DH goes to get some food and drink and we rock and roll until it starts. One of my favorite things is to invite the small children to stand in front of us when it begins. Never watched the fireworks from there though. Is that possible? Am I missing out on a better place to watch the parade/fireworks? I always think I am missing something. LOL I bet you had a blast cruising with your family. That might be something for us to think about sometime. I think I have my DD and family talked into a slow, relaxing weekend with us at a nearby place next year. I am very family oriented, probably too much.

Helenabear, you hit the nail on the head about not wanting to be with a man who would criticize our weight. Rider, I hope you don't mind but that first husband of yours was a jerk and I am glad you are rid of him. So there!!! It is one thing to help when we ask for help but quite another to pester so we fit some perfect fantasy. My DH used to come home and tell me about the guys he worked with that had beer bellies hanging down to their knees who would hoot and holler at the girls who were 10 pounds overweight. He was kind to one poor girl who was very large many years ago, before me, and after she lost all the weight and became a bigwig in the company she would only talk to him when she came out on the floor. She said if she was not good enough for them before she wasn't going to have anything to do with them now!!! Love the spirit.

I am afraid that we will be going to Cincinnati instead of Columbus Helena. I would love to meet you and get a tour of that lovely home of yours. Maybe next spring. My sister who lives in Columbus has been here twice in the last couple of weeks so we are caught up on our visiting and she is leaving for a Carribean cruise with my FL sister next weekend. My FL sister will come over to see me when she returns. She sells advertising for a major newspaper and says she only works so she can afford to travel. My brother who was missing for 18 1/2 years lives in Cincinnati so we want to spend some time with him and his family. He is a major miracle in my life. I saved the bill from our first phone conversation. Most of the time was spent crying and laughing. Worth every penny of it. God bless the Internet!!!!

You are so lucky to have such a great relationship with your grandma and to be able to still have her around. Sounds like you are both good to each other. When this life is over the house and material things that you have gathered mean nothing but who you loved and who loved you is all you can take with you. IMHO

Slightly Goofy

[CathyCanada]

Elaine, sorry to hear that you were not feeling well but glad you are on the mend.

Linda, I don't think you can see the fireworks from there, 2 of the best spots to see them are from Toontown Fair (or near the Tea Cups) and the bridge to Tomorrowland. Rather than join the rush on the way out of the park, grab an ice cream and your sweetie and sit on a bench and watch the Castle change colours....sigh. :)

Enjoy.

Hope everyone is having a great Sunday!
Cathy

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear WM Cathy C

Thank you for taking the time to set me straight, as usual. I appreciate it. Did you find the goodies that I had Bo and Don whip up for you? Even got you one of those layered margaritas from the Mexico pavillion. You deserve something. It is this way, the people who do nothing don't get a lot of baloney. Anyone who tries to make a difference in the world is beset by those who don't do anything and envy the others status and preceived power. Just relax and stay here as long as you want. We appreciate you.

I am sorry to make this post so short all but I have not slept in 2 days and I worked in the yard all day and am totally bushed. Think I will crawl into bed and veg out. See you tomorrow!

Slightly Goofy

[CathyCanada]

Thanks Linda, the margarita and snacks were appreciated and I am just mellowing out here..... ahhhh, just what I needed, my dear EWP friends, Bo and Don. Does it get any better than this?? :D
CC

[jstmee]

some PD please

I don't think any is needed, but just in case. I had a rare form of a malignant tumor that was removed last year and now need to be rechecked to see if another biopsy is needed. In a not so pleasant area, lol. I go to the surgeon this morning and am rather nervous about it.

It's nice to see you WB Cathy. On 9/22 I watched the fireworks from the bridge as you mentioned and that was a perfect spot. Although, Linda, It sounds like you may be better in those rocking chairs. The crowd to head out if you want to see the EWP will be pretty busy. Plus we stood on the bridge. I think the seating would be hard to come by if at all. May Cathy has more info. on that.

Have to run, get kids off to school and doctor for me. bye Wendy

[helenabear]

Jstmee, you can count on us to send loads of PD your way! I hope it all turns out for the best!

CC, I am feeling better and I only seem to have a residual cough in the morning and then it fades away. So I am pretty much back to myself!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Jstmee

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers today. I will be wishing on a star that this is a false worry. {{{{{Big fluffy hugs to you}}}}}. Please let us know as soon as you can so we can celebrate this evening?

Helenabear, we would never want you to be anything other than your dear self so I am so happy to hear that you are doing better.

Cathy, life can always get better (or worse). I keep hanging around just so I can see what is going to happen next. Life is like the weather, if it were perfect every single day we would not appreciate it when it was.

I slept like a rock last night. I had not slept one wink Saturday night so I was overdue. I feel much better today and am ready to face the day. Whether the day is ready for M E is another story. LOL

May the day bring you all more smiles than tears and may sunshine follow you.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! I hope you all had a great day! I am just finishing up here at work and am ready to go home. This morning I came in to a voice mail left for me on Friday at 5:30... now I am long gone by then and so I waited until 9:00 to call him back since all he did was leave me a cell phone to call. So I called him back and he proceedes to yell at me blaming me for causing a T3 not to be turned up due to one of my orders. He interrupted me and would not even let me explain. All he cared about was that his order didn't work and he wanted me to know it. Well I finally almost told him to go to h*** when I finally got a word in. He attempted to interrupt me again when I told him curtly, "No you let me finish!" We had a conversation and it came out that it wasn't my order that most likely messed up his.... well to make a really long story short it turns out that I was right, and even more so than I thought. My order did not have anything to do with his and in NO WAY was my order related. The order number he was trying to look at was one off from mine and he looked at mine instead of someone else's. I found this out later on and boy was I mad. So now I am relaxing and happy the day is done (or almost) :D

SG, I am so glad you had a good nights rest. It sounds like you have been busy as a bee and deserve the rest. I want to thank you for your kind words about myself. I am just happy that I don't have to take any more meds (the amount I cough or sneeze is nothing I can't live with) and everything naturally will fix itself.

CC, I think I am hard pressed to find a better place than here as well. Our wonderful guys who do everything from get us food to massages are just wonderful! I am so happy to have this place to relax in and just get my feelings out, stupid or not! Well I should get back so I can do one tiny more thing before I leave today. I will see you this all this evening. You know I think I am in the mood for a nice hotdog tonight so maybe I will mosey over to Casey's hot dog place (you know the one on Main St right by the hub) and get me one of those. Anyone care to join me?

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Helenabear

WTG!! You were right and you stuck up for yourself. I am proud of you. I hope the curr who was on your case is justifiably ashamed and will do his best to make amends to you for his horrendous behavior.

About not taking meds tho. Ummm, my doctor says that I have to finish mine even tho I am better cause it can come back. Not sure about what you have as I have asthma and it might be different.

I slept like a log last night. I was up and at em at 5 this morning but when you go to sleep at 10 that can happen. We are usually up late at night and I get up about 7 most days. Second shift lives.

I am waiting to hear from Jstmee and how she came out at the doctor's office. The only bad part about getting to know new people is that you start to care about them and it can be very rough - - - - but it is worth it. PD headed toward Jstmee********************

Slightly Goofy

9 days to go!!!

[IASW Rider]

Hi Friends!

Jstmee - I've been thinking of you, today, and hope that everything is all right! I'm sure that it will be! Lots of PD and good wishes to you! I'm sure that everything will turn out well.

Glad to hear that you're feeling better, Helenabear! Those allergies can be a real pain. I hope that you're over the worst of it and that they don't come back any time soon! I'm sorry that you had to deal with that jerk on the phone - UGH - I hate when people get like that. God knows, I have people like that to deal with at work, too. It sounds like you handled the situation beautifully and now have the satisfaction of knowing that it wasn't even your order - and that it was his mistake! Ah, it's good that the day is almost over! It's wonderful that you are able to spend so much time with your Grandmother and that the two of you share such a close and special relationship! And that former boyfriend of yours sounds like an insensitive fool - I would have felt the same way - not quite being able to forget about that comment - and it's good that you eventually ended things with him!

How are you doing, today, SG? The countdown continues! I really can't wait to hear what you think of the EWP after you see it for the first time! Do you have an idea of what night you might see it first? Let us know before you go, and I will watch my tape at 9:00 that night and pretend that I'm there with you! (Very corny, I know, but fun!) Hope that you have been able to catch up on some rest - you have some busy times coming up soon! Yes, I agree - my ex-husband IS a big jerk - I'm not offended that you said that! (hee hee!) And thank you for your kind words, too! My favorite place to watch the fireworks is one which Webmaster CC suggested - the bridge to Tomorrowland. If you get there early enough, you can get a great seat on one of the benches (I like to sit in the corner where the 2 benches meet, so I can put my belongings in the corner!), with a beautiful view of the castle changing colors....and when the show starts, Tinkerbell flies right over your head! And I enjoy seeing the MK parades from the same area which you do - the "foot" of Main Street, near the train station. I've been told that the train station platform is the best place from which to watch the parades, but I never seem to be able to get up there in time. So, I usually stand right by where the parade leaves Main Street to go backstage - by the barber shop, I believe.

Hope that you had a wonderful trip, Webmaster CC! It sounds like a lot of fun! And thanks for coming by to visit us, again!

I'll be happy to join you at Casey's, Helenabear! Do you know that in all these years, I don't think that I've ever eaten there??? It's one of the few places in which I've never eaten, at the MK! Let's go!

Have a great night, Everyone! :)

[jstmee]

Casey's Here I Come

What a surprise I had at the surgeons today. My appointment was for 9:30, he spent barely any time with me and sent me to the specialized surgeon. He saw me at 1:00pm. This was supposed to be a routine follow-up right? lol. Along comes the needle "aka novocaine", and along comes a biopsy. After he had me all prepped he said, we can do this over at the hospital and sedate you some. When he gave me the novocaine, I didn't budge and I think he thought I passed out or something. I just said I am practising my relaxing techniques. But, I will tell you it did hurt. Lots!!

Anyway, the good thing is, I'll have the report back by the end of the week and I don't have to wait for another appointment to go back and have the biopsy. Whew. So, things turned out good for now.

I will join you all at Casey's for a brief time. heee heee need some rest after that.

Helenabear, what a day you had, glad it turned out good on your part. I'm sure it can get frustrating at times. It's nice that it wasn't your error and it wasn't good that that guy yelled at you over it.


Rider, yes, I agree about the bridge to Tomorrowland, we happened upon it completely by mistake and we were in the right place at the right time. We saw Tink fly through the sky and everything. I even had tears in my eyes.

SG, so glad you got a good nights sleep, sounds like you certainly needed it. Make sure you are rested taking care of yourself before your trip so you will be healthy for your vacation.

CC, It's nice to see another person here, how was your cruise, how many people in your family went? I'd like to go on the 7 day one with my DH and 4 children.

Have a joyous evening everyone.

[SlightlyGoofy]

Jstmee, you are such a wonderful person to be in here and posting to let us know how you are. We really appreciate it. You will have to spend some extra time in here to take your mind of waiting for the results. I have been thru this a few times and I know how it goes. Just remember, if you don't hear anything it is good news. They are awfully fast with the other kind. They are awfully careful so they send you to specialists for the least reason nowadays. Not a bad thing tho. Did you get a lolly pop for being good during the shot? I hope it was one of those giant MM ones. You deserve the best. We will keep on sending those good vibrations your way.

I am thinking of going to the EWP on November 3rd. Things might change but that is the date I have planned and I would enjoy having you guys with me, in spirit if I cannot get your real selves. I am going to take the advice and plant myself on a bench at the brige for the fireworks. I send DH for snacks and drinks and I stake out the seats. I are meaner looking than he is. LOL He got hurt on one trip looking for a good place to watch the parade and I don't let him wander far.

May I join you at Casey's? Not hungry but sure would enjoy the conversation.

Slightly Goofy

9 days and counting!!!

[IASW Rider]

That sounds like quite an ordeal, Jstmee! I'm sure you're glad that that's over, and I'm sure that you will be hearing some good news, soon. I hope that everything is all right - I'm sure that it will be. I agree with SG - they send you to specialists at the drop of a hat, these days (God knows I have been to many, recently!). But I'm sure that the tests that they did were just precautionary and that everything will be just fine!

Oh good - November 3rd is a Saturday, and I'm pretty sure that I will be home that night, so I will be certain to have my tape ready at 9:00PM, so that I can experience the EWP with you, "virtually", SG! I still say that the best place from which to see it is the dock at the Poly....though that's a sentimental favorite spot of mine! There are other good places from which to see it, too - I'm sure that you'll find a good one!

Well, back to work - UGH. Hope that you're all having a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

Hi everyone. I hope you all are having a great day especially in spite of this ugly weather we seem to be having here. I am certainly happy not to have to live with my bad allergies anymore (I still have a little residual coughing but not bad at all) and I am glad not to have to take anymore pills. The only bad thing is people around here seem to be getting colds so I hope I don't have to get that now!

Jstmee, I am so glad your procedure is overwith now as sometimes the worst part is having to wait and dread the procedure itself. I hope for good news for you and I am sure all will be well!

SG, you are down to the SDD (single digits dance) and boy am I envious of you for that. I wish I had a copy of the EWP because I would watch it with you if I could. But I will be there in spirit!

I am glad all of you could join at Casey's. I don't know why but I love those huge all-beef hotdogs they serve at WDW. They make all other hot dogs pail in comparison. It was nice to have so many join even just for the conversation which always is good here :D

Well I should get back to work now :( It was great to pop in for a quick lunch served by our beautiful men :D

[IASW Rider]

You're welcome to come to my house and watch my EWP tape with me, Helenabear! Bring Luis and the cats - and all of our cats can hang out together - all 8 of them! :)

[helenabear]

I can just see it now Rider, our 8 babies getting along... okay maybe not ;) But I did remember that I do have pictures from our last stay of the EWP so I can at least look at them :D

[jstmee]

EWP on Cam Corder also

I'll be watching also.....

SG, don't forget to watch the lady that makes candies in Japan at Epcot, she is right across the walkway from the drummers. She makes all sorts of animals, my kids got an alligator, crocodile and shark. She makes beautiful hummingbirds. She is also very funny when she makes these.

helenabear, stay away from all the colds, and wash your hands frequently with lots of soap bubbles. I started taking a multivitamin with folic acid that were given to me at a health fair and I haven't been really sick since then, that was last winter. I'm one to get sick quite often, so maybe there is something to those vitamins.

Rider, I'd come over also and watch the parade and bring my cat, but she gets so stressed out she'd probably lose all of her hair in the ordeal. Our newest adventure might be a dog. Wish us luck....:smooth:

[SlightlyGoofy]

8 days to go and I am so far behind in everything that needs to be done or I THINK needs to be done. I know I am not going to make it but hopefully I will get the important things done. I always sigh with relief when I finally pull out of the driveway.

I loved the hot dogs at Casey's but I beat that tonight. They had double/triple coupons at Krogers and I just came from there and got some the Eckrich Grillers to take to DW with us. DH will not eat hot dogs at home but loves them when they cost $4 or 5. I am bringing some fancy buns and fixings so he can pig out on them without the long lines or bill bills. LOL

I had been thinking about taking a camcorder with me but with all the baggage checks and such I am paring down to the essentials. I will just have to enjoy the video that Rider made. I will have to check out the candles at Japan that Jstmee reccomends. It would be perfect present for my dear older friend. Thank you so much for the suggestion. I am afraid that I am not much of a shopper. I have done it for a living for so many years that I am burned out.

On the 3rd I will picture you guys all together at a home with all your pets sprawled out on the floor. You guys are great!!

I am a bit bushed from another busy day. Just got home a bit ago. Had to drive my DH to visit with his brother. It is quite a ways away from here. I took a bunch of work with me so I would not waste too much time.

I am going to stake out a chaise and see if I can look pitiful enough so that all the guys will come and tend to my every need.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

I'm sorry, Jstmee - of course you and your cat are welcome to come over and watch the EWP with us - we'll have a regular feline gala! It's OK - one of my cats is pretty timid, too, so she and yours can hide together!

Seriously, if any of you would like a copy of the video which I made 2 years ago, on which I taped many attractions (and the EWP, of course!), I would be happy to make a copy and send it to you! I could also throw on my footage of ToN (I2K didn't come out that well!) from last year and Fantasmic from last year or this year. Just something to keep in mind! If anyone is interested, please PM me your home address (if you don't mind) and I'll make a copy and send it over!

I know what you mean about bringing the video camera and wanting to bring just the bare essentials, SG. It's a pain to lug it around the parks all day.....but I love having the videos so much that I lug mine around anyway! I'll be bringing mine when we go in June, so I could send you footage of the new parades after we come back, if you'd like!

I've never seen the lady making candies in Japan either, Jstmee - I will have to look out for her, next time! And those vitamins sound really good. Do you know what my "secret weapon" against colds is? Listerine! Ever since I started using it, I haven't caught a cold! I never liked the taste, but the mint isn't too bad. DF told me that it prevents him from catching colds, so I started using it last year and haven't had a cold since!

Hope that you are feeling well, Helenabear! And hope that the weather has improved out there. Again, come on over and visit - believe it or not, it's 76 degrees and sunny, here in the Garden State!

Well, time to get ready for work! Have a great day! :)

[helenabear]

Hi everyone! All is well here in rainy Ohio. It is warm but there isn't a speck of sunshine here. It makes driving in so early unbearable because it is pitch black. The bad thing is as soon as the rain is supposed to go away it is supposed to get cold (around 50 for the high). I will just be glad to get my extra hour of sleep on Sunday :D I said last year had I realized when the time change was, I would have gotten married the day before so I had an extra hour to sleep in before our 6:30 flight ;)

I don't seem to be getting the cold others do... maybe I suffered enough with my sinuses and so it decided to pass me over because I had something worse... I don't know. Or it could be because I use Listerine toothpaste. Let me tell you that after using that in your mouth every day the mouthwash is a breeze to use. I don't really use both together as that would be overkill for my mouth I think, but when I feel an illness coming on, I was always sure to use that daily and I think it helped. I also take a daily vitamin which I know helps me and also I use the Zinc tablets if I think I am getting a cold and it seems to kill things off quickly for me. I figure Listerine has to be a decent preventative because it does kill so many germs and I can't see how it wouldn't help kill cold & flu germs as well. Just in case I have my lysol here so I can spray away people's icky germs ;)

SG, you are almost there... about a week to go now! I will have to live vicariously through your trip and I am sure you will have a lovely time with lovely weather! We still have no idea when we will go back but I know we will make it someday. Even if we have to share a small room with my dad & sister, it will all be worth it! I can relate with you on the camcorder thing. The last time one was taken for my family was in '95 and even though between all of us there have been three trips since, no one has ever taken one. If I ever get one of those tiny little digital camcorders I would consider taking one again since they are actually smaller than one of our regular cameras.

Rider, you are so sweet ot offer to make copies of videos. You will definitely find a PM from me there today as I mentioned before we have only old copies of rides, but that is okay because Digital Disney helps me relive rides as well :D

Jstmee, I too have missed the lady in Japan making candies. I am surprised because I love wondering around Japan. Next time I go I will have to hunt her down and watch. That sounds like an amazing thing to see :D

Well I should get back to work now. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Lots of rain here yesterday and bad storms last night. Not sure if we sent it on to Helenabear or she sent it on to us (probably the former). Sure glad I got the yardwork done. I need to plant some more bulbs that is easier in wet ground. Making a big pot of chili for this evening. Fits the weather and will be great for my DD and her family. They go to church right behind our house and she has to come to pick up the older boy from our house after work as I tutor him twice a week. She only has about an hour between that and the revival that is going on all this week so I try to have something for them to eat. I am using up some of my last tomatoes from the garden. You know how you have to clean out the fridge before you leave on these long vacations. I can cook some mighty 'interesting' meals under these circumstances. LOL

Rider, I would love to take you up on your offer on the video. One suggestion tho, You might wait until after your next trip so we can get more. Greedy!!!! Also I insist on paying postage and also pay for the tape itself. You are so wonderful. If I check around I may have some tapes of the old parades and such myself. I know that I have the electric light parade, the MK parade with the Toy Story characters and who knows what else. After the holidays I have some serious editing job to do on a buinch of tapes and will check then and let you all know what I have. Won't be the quality that Rider has tho.

I have not gotten a cold in so many years and I figure it is a combination of the fact that I take so much medicine AND when I get sick it is always pneumonia instead of something small. I get the pneumonia on such a regular basis that I have my own nebulizer so I can treat myself at home. For some reason I have not (knock wood) had it this year. Probably been to busy to catch anything. (grin)

Hope I can make some headway on my list today. Not much hope tho as this is a granny day. I do the Dalton shuffle at 11 and then Austin comes at 3 and by the time DD leaves it will be 7. I move slowly but surely.

I have been reading the weather reports with much interest and see that DW is expecting temps in the low and very low 70's when we first get there. I will be such a happy camper but fear that others might not be so happy.

Hope the weather improves for you Helenabear. It is still drizzly here but I see some breaks in the clouds so I have hopes for the day.

Have a great day gals and I will meet you in the suite this evening. Anybody got any ideas for tonight?

Slightly Goofy

[jstmee]

This is so weird, I posted a lengthy post for me and it never made it. I suggested a ride on IASW and a leisurely walk through MK, followed by EWP on the balcony and room service to end it.

SG, sounds like you'll need the jacuzzi by then.

Helenabear, when the clocks turn this weekend you should have more light I hope.

I backed into a vehicle at the mall today when we went to look at a puppy. Par for the week. Oh well, things can always be worse. I am on hold with the IRS now, trieng to straighten some things up.

Rider, have a nice day.............


Lots to do today.

[SlightlyGoofy]

The only good thing I can think of for you Jstmee is the fact that your day can only go uphill from here on out. A smashed car AND the IRS? I hope the IRS thing is for work and not personal. My Dbil was a big man in the IRS before he retired and it was scary listening to him tell about his work.

I have never, in any of my trips, managed a leisurely walk thru MK. It is the hardest park for me. I always take at least 2 days there. I love MGM the best. Maybe we could get them to allow us in to wander one night after closing. A few cleaning personel would not ruin the magic for me at all.

I have my itinerary all done. I have large index cards with all the info for each park. I don't really plan for exactly which park we are going to each day as circumstances (especailly right now) change. A few things are written in stone like my visit with my sister and getting together with our neighbors and such. Suitcases are coming down to the pool table today. I have a master packing list that I use and adjust for how many days we will be gone and how often I am willing to do laundry and such. The hardest thing to pack is the case for the bathroom and since we travel so much I keep it packed at all times and replenish the supplies when we return so that is already done.

I have to get a few things done before I do the Dalton shuffle. I pick him and a friend up at preschool and take them to daycare. He is all excited about the week he is going to spend with me the first of December cause he will not have to go to daycare but stay here instead. He goes around with all his fingers on one hand up and says "I get to spend this many nights at grandma's". I love it.

Looking forward to that 'leisurely' tour of MK. Maybe some of you commandos can give me a guided tour of the spots I have missed in my previous tours.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Wow, I am glad that I am not you Jstmee... it sounds like you are in for one heck of a day. I hope the call with the IRS went well and that not much damage was done to your car or the one you backed into. I remember trying to get a hold of the IRS to straighten them out and it took me forever. I was so mad with them at one point that Luis had to do all of the calling. You know it took them from August to Oct to get our refund check to us. THEY had typed our address in incorrectly and they wouldn't do anything even though our post office said they couldn't forward the check to us based on the address. When we finally got our check, we found out that they couldn't even spell Columbus correctly! ARG!!! At least we finally got the check.

SG, you are so lucky to begin the packing for your trip. We are kind of like you with our planning. If we have something special planned, we will intentionally go to a park a certain day, otherwise we go with the flow. EEs actually made it harder for us since we liked to get ready leisurely in the morning so we wrote down the days for the EEs before hand so we could avoid them if we felt like changing out plans. It also sounds like you have a wonderful grandson. I can just picture a cute boy holding up his fingers and smiling while thinking he has that many days with you :D

It is very possible to do a leisurely walk around the MK... you just have to be there at certain times of the year. Another thing we do with leisurely walks is to go towards a certain ride and if the line is too long, we keep walking. I've noticed that except for days when there is fireworks & the parade, the later in the day it gets, the fewer people come out to "play". Honestly though the time I loved best for walking around the park is at night either during the parade or if it is an E-night. It is just beautiful and quiet in most areas... and if in the summer you can stay after the first parade, the park really seems to clear out really quickly. That was the time we had the best ride on the Jungle Cruise. Our "tour guide" was so funny and he had the only kid on the boat "driving" it and he had her believing she was really driving. If only we had our camcorder there then because I would have loved to share that one with you all.

Well even though I am not too busy right now I really should get back to "working". I hope you all have a wonderful evening and I look forward to strolling through MK with you all.

[jstmee]

BAD TO WORSE

Okay, I just thought the day was bad. The accident actually happened yesterday. I must have typed it wrong. I got a call from the specialist. You know, the one that you won't hear anything from too soon if nothing is wrong. Well, there seems to be abnormalities.......aaargh, i'll be checked in another 6 months. Vewy Scawy Stuff!!! ?Wonder what they'll do if it grows?

I am not fretting however and not worrying too much.

I am going to put my kiddos to bed now, but wanted to give you an update and thank you for all the PD lately.

WEndy

[helenabear]

Jstmee here is a big {{{HUG}}} A co-worker of mine had a similar thing happen. Six months later she came up normal. I guess that can happen. Don't you worry though, if it were major they'd check right away and not in six months. Of course there are always the second opinions. Here's a bunch of PD that you will feel better about it all!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Dear Jstmee

Most insurance companies cover second opinions @ 100%. I think that you should go and get a second opinon NOW!!! Please get referrals from several sources and pick someone who sees lot of this condition and specializes in the procedure. IMHO a monkey can do something right if they do it over and over and over again so I feel about a doctor. I am sorry, I forget where you live but if you live in a rural area you need to get to a big city where they see lots of cases. Don't mean to scare you but it is better to be safe than sorry and when you are talking about cancer or even possible cancer 6 months is too darn long. BTW, darn is NOT the word I am thinking. I hope you are not offended but I cannot be silent on this. You are precious to us not to mention your family and if it were a member of your family I think you would be more adamant.

Helenabear, another IRS story. When I was very young I deposited my refund check and then proceeded to spend it. Upshot was that in that year the IRS had made some mistakes on the checks and they bounced!!! I was one scared puppy with the bank manager threatening me with everything including death and I had no money to cover them. Turned out ok later but it was a scary thing for a young girl fresh off the farm.

My DD has just told me that she has an appointment to get on the cornea transplant list. She had an eye problem when she was a child and it caused her to go blind in one eye. I am a bit scared for her but also very hopeful as it would make such a big difference in her life. She does not know how big of a change it would be as she probably does not ever remember seeing well. She was just a baby when she was laying in my lap and I saw the scar on her eye. I have given her 3 choices only. #1 She comes here for me to take care of her. #2 Igo to her house to care for her #3 She lets the boys come here and I'll watch them so she does not do something she should not. She has a bad back and she is always picking them up and allowing them to jump on her. I understand but I worry.

Too much happening today to all of us. I think we should all go over to Jelly Rolls, howl at the moon and have many of their huge drinks. LOL

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

You know the more I thought about it, the more I though Jstmee, go see another doctor please! From what I remember now about my friend is that she had one abnormal, then went back less than a month later and had a normal result and THEN she had to go back for another follow up on ever six months for a while just to make sure. I guess things can come up abnormal but be okay but they should check immediately. I lost my mother to cervical cancer and had they waited six months she would have been gone long before that time. Now granted she had abnormal growth for cervical cancer (the rapid speed of hers was unreal) but if things are found in the early stages, then there is a greater chance of survival for all types of abnormalities. I just hope all goes well for you.

SG, I love these IRS stories. You'd think they'd try to be a little more helpful but I guess not! I hope for the best for your DD. It sounds like a very scary thing to have to go through but if it works, she might be pleasantly surprised. I recently saw on "Ripley's Believe it or Not" about a guy who was basically blind and hadn't seen anyone in his family ever. He got a special implant in his eye, basically a little lense) and now he has 20/50 out of his one eye. The interesting thing is the lense works 24/7 and in order for him to sleep, he has to put a little cap on his lense since it isn't covered by an eye lid or anything like that. I find it amazing what they can do now for the eyes. I want the lazer surgery and as much as it has improved with time, I will still wait... but I am impressed with how much it HAS improved over the years.

Well it has gotten very cold here after the rain we got last night and it is very windy. I guess the temp here is 45 degrees but with the windchill it feels like 22! So I could use a nice warm walk around WDW. I am in the mood for shopping so maybe I will go to Downtown Disney. For lunch I will stop off at Bongo's Cuban Cafe. I love this place. The food is excellent (although their flan isn't as good as mine ;) ) and the servings are HUGE! So would anyone like to join me and split the Arroz con Pollo (chicken and rice) with me?

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, they are forecasting freezing temps tonight thu Friday for here. Unusual weather for this time of the year and this location. We had planned this trip earlier than the one we made last year as we had such a scary time getting home but if this keeps up we might have trouble coming home the middle of November!! On the good side, it should be my kind of weather at DW. I love the l ow 70's. I would settle for 80 or below so that people who like to swim will still be able to tho. I am not totally selfish.

I am glad to see you join me in encouraging Jstmee to get a second opinion. If she won't do it we will just all have to gather together and go to her house and drag her out kicking and screaming. LOL Can't you just see her face when she answered the door and saw all thes unfamiliar faces glaring at her? Better safe than sorry. Jstmee, do you have help with your husband gone so much? I worry that you might not be as proactive in caring for yourself if you don't have someone to drive you and watch the kids while you have your appointments and such. I have a feeling that you have many wonderful friends tho, as I can tell you are a wonderful friend also. Pixie dust is flying all around you. Wouldn't want you to mistake it for anthrax. (silly smile) Take care of yourself and we will be rooting for you.

Slightly Goofy and your EWP friends

[IASW Rider]

Hi Everyone,

Jstmee - I am with the other ladies - I think that you would feel much better if you went to have a second opinion. It would give you peace of mind, and the more information you have, the better. I'm sure that everything will be all right! But I'll bet you would feel much better and more confident if you were to see another specialist and see what he or she has to say.
Hang in there and try not to worry! {{{HUGS}}} and PD to you!

I'm sorry that it's been so cold and unpleasant out there, SG and Helenabear - weirdly enough, it's been in the 70's all week, here - and sunny, too! It almost hit 80, yesterday! I wore sleeveless summer dresses to work for the past 2 days! Very strange to have that sort of weather when the leaves on the trees are all beautiful yellows, reds, and oranges! Unfortunately, it will be ending tonight - we are supposed to have thunderstorms this afternoon, and then weather in the 50's tomorrow and in the 40's on Saturday - YUCK.

I agree that the eye surgery which can be performed now is just amazing. I know that this is completely different from what your DD would like to do, but the laser surgery which my mother had to remove her cataracts and later to stop retinal bleeding due to diabetes was unbelievable - it was so quick and the results were very quick, as well. I'm sure that the procedure will make a tremendous difference in your DD's life and I hope that she is able to have the transplant soon. Please keep us posted. And I loved your story about Dalton holding his fingers up in anticipation of spending time with you!

I also enjoy strolling around the MK in the evenings, after dinner, when many people are heading toward the gates to leave the park. It's nice to just wander around, then find a shady place to sit and just watch people walk by. *SIGH* Less than a week to go, SG! If I was you, I would be jumping out of my skin with excitement! Have you made whatever PS's you're planning to make, yet? Or are you waiting until you get there to do that? I know that I asked you this before, but how long will it take you to drive down? Will you be stopping, or will you be driving straight through?

I will split the arroz con pollo, Helenabear! (Believe it or not, I was an honors Spanish student in high school.......now I probably couldn't complete a grammatically correct sentence if I tried! My elementary school Hebrew is probably better than my Spanish, at this point!) Although the line was too long at Bongo's the last time we were in the Downtown Disney area and we didn't get to eat there, I love that sort of food and hope to get there some day! I'm getting hungry just thinking about it - YUM! I can smell the spices, now! After we eat, we should wander around Downtown Disney and do some shopping or window shopping - what do you say?

Have a nice day, Everyone! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

No, Rider, we do not do PS's. I will call over and check to see if there is availability before walking or driving over to a place tho. I don't want to be tied down and miss other things by having ressies. We never know when we are going to be hungry and what we feel like eating that particular day. It takes me about a day and a half to drive down. I usually leave here about 8 to avoid the Louisville traffic and try to get through Atlanta before I shut down for the night. I avoid rush hour at Atlanta like the plague. I used to drive 100 m iles out of my way to avoid the city until someone clued me into driving thru on 75 instead of taking the bypass which is terrible and it is much better. I can handle 10 minutes of terror as opposed to 30-40 minutes AND having to change lanes back and forth. I stay in the middle lane and pray that everyone else behaves well. LOL I am so stressed out with everything I have to do that I am not excited. I won't be until we pull out of the garage on Thursday morning. There is a revival going on at my DD's church (behind our home) and so I am cooking for them all this week as well. She is very appreciative. She picks up Dalton from daycare at 5:30 and the revival starts at 7 so it does not leave much time for doing anything else. We had a big pot of chili and cream cheese brownies last night. Stuffed peppers, homemade wheat bread and peaches tonight. Too busy to get my fancier than that. It will have to be lunchmeat and such tomorrow night as I will be gone all day tomorrow. I am going to sign our new wills and buy our cemetary plots. Fun day. I am looking forward to getting this done so I won't have to think about my demise again for a very long time. Next year I am going to get my headstone. Gruesome ain't I? My DD is totally helpless (hopeless) and could not handle anything so I am trying to make it as easy as I can on everyone.

I am just a tiny bit worried about DD having the surgery. It is very routine and not too dangerous. Because of the shortage of donors it was a proceedure that they did not do unless you were totally blind years ago. It is a wonderful gift and I think it is wonderful to have part of a loved one live on after their death. They take donations of skin for burn victims and I am signed up for that one. I have loads of very nice skin. (sick today aren't I?) Nuff stuff!

With the parks closing early and opening late I am sure that I am not going to get in the lines for either time of day. I wonder if we will be able to make ressies at restaurants near closing or even after? Would be great to have a nice meal before going back to the room. The pools will be so crowded and the food courts too. I am glad that we will have a car and even though I am night blind I know my way around enough that I can drive to some places to get away from the crowds.

Rider, did you HAVE to tell us about your great weather? You could be a friend and send us a few degrees so we won't freeze to death tonight. LOL Reminds me of my Florida sister who delights in calling in the dead of winter and telling me that she had to turn on her furnace last night cause it got down to 70.:bounce:

I have to go plant some more bulbs and dig up some other things so I had better head. Got the breadmaker all programmed and set. Ain't technology great?

More Pixie Dust for Jstmee * * * * * * * * * * *

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

I everyone! I hope all is well with you guys! Well it is cold here and we finally got someone to turn the heat up near by where our cubes are at work :bounce: We just hope it will bring in some heat. I think it might be working now as I speak :D

You know we don't do many PS either. Last time we went, we made one for Crystal Palace and one for 'Ohana. We didn't mind doing that because we figured that for lunch we could easily work our way over to MK and for 'Ohana it was for dinner at about 7:00 and that was easy to do as well. Since both have a bunch of different types of food for us to choose from those are easier to get to. I think the last time I went with my family we chose the same thing as well. So compared to most we don't pick many PS. If we decide earlier in the day that we want to eat at, for example Akershus, we will just make the PS and see when we can get in. We don't seem to have too much trouble doing that. Truly though on the last trip we ate almost every evening at the Poly concierge lounge and every morning we ate there as well. So it just left us with lunch and for us we normally eat at whatever "fast food" we can find. I guess I don't go to WDW for much of the food. I loved Bongo's when we went there in '99 and I did want to go when we were there last but we just never made it. I don't like to do a lot of sit down places mostly because I like spending as much time in parks as possible. I might be funny like that but we do what we like I guess :)

SG, it sounds like you have a busy few days ahead of you. But remember in about a week you will be IN sunny old Florida :D I think it is very smart though to get your wills and your cemetary plots laid out already. My grandmother has hers all picked out and her coffin all paid for so we won't have to worry about that when she is no longer with us. My dad has his plot as well, but his is only because of my mother's death. But it is better to plan ahead I think. It isn't morbid either, it is just a fact of life and you can go on living after that.

Rider, I am glad that you have such lovely weather... want to send some our way. It really is too darn windy right now and not very warm. My sister is having to look for new winter coats now and she is not looking forward to that!

Well I should get back to work now. I hope all is well with you all today and Jstmee let us know how you are doing!

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

We, on the other hand, are big PS people! I had a big, formal schedule laid out, before our past 2 trips, and made all of the PS's at least a month ahead of time! We had so many PS's that we had to miss a personal tour of "Fantasmic headquarters" (ie: the control booth) by my friend who works there, because I didn't want to miss our California Grill PS and couldn't switch it around with the other 500 PS's that I made! I definitely think that it's a good idea to make PS's for character meals, in particular. And they really did save us a lot of time, when there were specific places at which we wanted to eat (ie: Prime Time Cafe, at lunch time). At the same time, I'm sure that it's nice not to be bound by having to be at particular place at a particular time. I'm going to try to "calm down" with the PS's when we go in June. And I promised my WDW friend that we would not make any dinner plans till we knew when his days off were, so that we could have dinner with him and not have that upset our PS schedule. Plus, I want my tour of the Fantasmic booth, next year!

You're making me hungry with all that talk of the great food that you're making, again, SG! We actually just had stuffed peppers, too! It's good that you're taking care of all of these things before your trip. I also already have a cemetary plot, believe it or not. My grandparents arranged it so that there were plots for themselves, my parents, my uncle, me, and I think that there is even one for my husband, too! (Although I don't know whether by religious law Frank can be buried in a Jewish cemetary) UGH - even though we know that those are important things to think about and take care of......let's not think about them, now!

Less than a week now, SG! Have the suitcases arrived on the pool table, yet?

I hope that it's warming up a bit, out there, Helenabear! Our warm weather left last night - we had our last day of weather in the 70's, yesterday, I believe. I think it will get up to the 60's, today, and no higher than 50-55 over the weekend. Time to break out the sweaters, I guess!

I will have your tape in the mail tomorrow or at the beginning of next week, Helenabear! I may try to put some more footage on it, tonight. But I want to make sure that you have it by next Saturday for our "virtual EWP viewing"!

Hope that all is well with you, Jstmee - we're thinking of you! :)

Have a great day, Everyone! Talk to you, soon! :)

[SlightlyGoofy]

Helenabear, did the storms do much damage there? Some places around us were hit pretty badly but the weather service said they did not issue a warning cause it was not bad enough!! I subscribe to the weather warnings on my computer. I spend so much time on this thing that is the onlyway I would know if it is storming. I do not hear well and we live in a huge house and the top of the house is so far away I don't hear the rain. A lot of power outages here but I think that is more the miserable electric company we have than the storms. IMHO

Have bunches of little stuff to do today. Cemetary plot buying has been put off as the man in charge has had to change plans. People do not live long in my family and when we go we go out big time. My poor mother who was as smart as anything had a series of strokes before she finally collapsed on the kitchen floor. She was up early working while everyone else was still asleep. Used to think that was terrible but the older I get the more attractive it seems. Beats laying around in a bed for a few years. IMHO

I am reading the posts with even more interest to finalize our plans, such as they are. Will do most of the packing this weekend. I am taking off some time on Sunday to go see "Little Shop of Horrors". I just love live entertainment especially if there is music involved. Now if it is sick and twisted, so much the better!!! (grin)

Have the breadmaker set up and got some lunchmeat and cheese out of the freezer for this evening. No big meals today. Take care all and hope to see you all during the day. I just love dropping by and seeing what everyone is up to and finding some quiet time here that I don't seem to have much of in my 'real' life. LOL

Slightly Goofy

[SlightlyGoofy]

Hey Rider, you must have been in here the same time I was. It is a wonder we did not bump into each other!

Yep, the suitcases are on the pool table with their mouths wide open and ready to be filled to the brim with everything I find 'necessary" for existence for the next couple of weeks. I go on the 2 shirts for each pair of pants theory. I figure you can always wipe off a pair of pants but I must have a clean top each day. I take a small bag for necessities for the trip down and back so we don't have to lug vast amounts of stuff in and out each night. We are taking a big one for each of us this trip so I probably won't have to fight the hoards at the laundry.

You underscored the main reason I do not make PS ressies. I cannot imagine missing out on a chance to see behind the scenes to eat at a restaurant no matter how nice. The restuarant will (maybe0 be there forever but not the chance for the special magic. I love being able to stop and see the small things like the live entertainment and talking to cm's and other visitors and such. My real life is so hectic that I enjoy relaxing on vacation. Different strokes for different folks. (grin)

As soon as I get a chance I will dig out my tapes and dub what footage I have for you Rider and send it to you. You can be our curator of video footage. Will probably be the first of the year though.

Dalton was trying to stay here last night instead of going to church and I reminded him that he was going to get to spend a lot of time here soon. He held up his 5 fingers and told his mother he was going to stay here that long and then he slid his other hand , with the resquite other five fingers, up beside the others and smiled and said he was staying THAT long. LOL I have a feeling that he won't be quite as thrilled by the end of the 5 days he will be staying as I have bedtimes and rules and such that his parents don't have. Should be interesting tho.

I have to get some work done before the Dalton swap so I had better run. I will walk around the suite before I leave in case I am missing someone who is curled up in a corner enjoying some solitude.

Slightly Goofy

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

I'm sure that you will enjoy "Little Shop of Horrors", SG! I loved the film version, but I've never seen it performed live - I would be curious to know how they stage it!

I love your stories about Dalton - he sounds so cute! You'll have to post pictures of your DGC's some time, when you have a chance!

I would love to be "CURATOR OF THE VIDEOS" - please - I'm always happy to make tapes for people and would love to see yours, too! :) I'm really "into" pictures and video....in case you couldn't tell (hee hee!)!

Sorry that this is such a short one, but I'm trying to sneak these posts in while at work, and am constantly afraid that someone will sneak up behind me and see me on the internet. So.....I'd better run! Will check in again as soon as I can!

Hope that everyone is having a great day! :)

[IASW Rider]

Hello!

Just wanted to check in and say that I hope that you're all having a nice weekend! My father is going to have his hernia surgery tomorrow (could be as early as 5:30 AM!), and I am going to take him to the hospital and do a bunch of things to help him and the home health aide who is going to be living with my parents. So, I may not be able to check in for a few days. Hope that all is well with all of you! I'll stop by the Suite as soon as I can for some relaxing in the jacuzzi and fun conversation! And I'll definitely be back in time for Slightly Goofy's BON VOYAGE party! Have a nice day! :)

[helenabear]

We had a busy weekend here. One thing we did was to cut down a tree that was pressing up against our house. It was a sickly tree as well and probably wouldn't have lived much longer so we put it out of its misery. We have soo many trees here that one sickly little tree probably won't make much of a difference.

PD to your day Rider. I hope all goes well with his surgery. Well I have a few things I need to do yet today so I had better go. I hope all had a great weekend!

[SlightlyGoofy]

Lots of Pixie Dust for Rider's Dad. * * * * * * * I am so glad to hear that you were able to get them talked into getting an aide. Maybe if you Dad is comfortable with this he might consider hiring someone to help out even after he gets better so he won't have all the care of your mother. How did you get him talked into it?

You done good Helenabear. Cutting down that tree might have prevented some serious damage to your house. You have t o watch out for shrubs and such too close to the foundation also. IMHO Owning a home is a neverending source of wants and needs. Very satisfying though. I was going to install acrylic panels on our basement windows but Loew's is in the process of moving to a new store and did not have the sizes I needed. When they tear down the house next door it will open up the alley next to our house to the street and I thought a bit more protection would be in order. Hope it survives until we return home. Probably will, our tiny town is not known for much crime.

Little Shop of Horrors was a blast. Not many people in the audience tho. It was at a different school from where they usually hold them. Not too good a neighborhood. There were some very talented people in the cast. The staging was very simple with just the store and a 'sidewalk' in front. The guy who played the dentist was scary. He was a blonde and his face turned so red that it really looked like he WAS dying. He used an asthma inhaler for his 'gas' fix. I love live performances. Am thinking of subscibing to a "Broadway Series" this coming year. Will wait and see what shows they are going to offer. I bet you see some of the current plays hitting the sticks a bit sooner than you would expect cause of the downturn on Broadway.

I will steal a minute, after the trick or treaters and the pizza party for the grands, on Wednesday evening to go over my last minute plans with my dear EWP buddies. I have a small photo album with all my file cards all filled out and ready. Don't want to miss anything. I also have the menus printed out and in a file to refresh our memories. I have had to change our plans to see EWP to the 9th. I hope that will not mess up any of your plans. Would not be the same without you.

Slightly Goofy

[helenabear]

Hi ladies, I wanted to pop into here quickly because the next few days will be kind of busy. Tonight I have to finish sewing up a part of my costume for the kids tomorrow and tomorrow we have the Beggars Night. We never do it on Halloween anymore and never on a wee