Need Dating Advice

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Ok... i need some unbiased advice.

I asked a guy out in December and we decided to stay friends and we became very very close.
But then i began to like him again and now i can't get him off my mind....now that it' summer i want to tell him how i really feel (that i really like him) but i don't know how to tell him and i don't want to ruin the friendship....so i need to know whether i should keep my feelings secret and stay friends as we are now or risk a wonderful friendship that i couldn't live without and tell him the truth and see what happens...i have no idea whether he likes me or not...he doesn't show or share what he's feeling.

What do you guys think?

[Mousekateer55]

I would tell him. I would personally like to know if someone liked me and they were friends with me. I have wanted to tell the girl that was friends with me for a while that I used to like her (we never went out) but we never see each other.

[nsyncraider17]

I would tell him, but make it clear that you want to stay friends no matter what. If you really are close friends, then he probably won't sacrifice your relationship.

[Amzey]

Well, I already told you what I think but I really do think you should tell him. :)

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

I told him.....and everything's fine!
YEAH!!!!!
he said he's fine with it and that I hid it well....
I told him and than we just began to talk about it when it had started again and why I thought he had happened and he found it sweet that I had been thinking about him instead of the 5 gorgeous guys (nsync) I had in front of me at the concert...so I don't think anything is going to happen romantically but I still have my best friend :bounce: :) :p
If you can't tell I'M VERY HAPPY!!!!!

[Girly2004]

Good JOB!!!!!