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The_Lamb
06-10-2001, 01:21 PM
I 'am so overwhelmed as too the love that you all have brought to Sylvia, Nick, my daughters and I.
Dan and Pete ... and to who ever else is responsible in gettin her to Disney.... i want to thank you from the bottom of my heart .. i ment so much to her .... and it was a dream come true ... and you were so helpful and didnt even know her ... i was in aw of the response then ... you can imagine the aw that im in now .... The dis people a certanly a special bunch of people ... they havent made a word in any language as to how special you all are ... I would like to thank you all for helping me and Sylvias mom get thru this ... you have been a inspiration to us both and we will never forget you .. you have touched our hearts and soul ... When Nick gets older and can read better :}... he will be able to read this and know how well his mother was loved and cared for by you ... not much more to say at this time but Thank you ... .. thank you doesnt even close ... .. And Dan you are one of earths angels... just like Syl ... i will check in from time to time to read post and such and reply when the need be with any updates on Nick ..
Thank you all again :}

The_Lamb ... aka Dan Sturm

Goofball
06-10-2001, 01:26 PM
Please accept my condolescences. Sylvia is so special to so many people. I hope we will see you around again. You all will always be in our prayers.

amid chaos
06-10-2001, 01:29 PM
Oh my...here come the tears again. Thank you for taking the time during this very sad period to post. And thank you for being there for Sylvia when we could offer only emotional 'cyber' support. Print these threads so Nick can see how very special his mom was to us.

SonjaB
06-10-2001, 01:31 PM
Dan,

Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies as well. We loved Sylvia dearly, even those of us that never laid eyes on her and we miss her so much. :( Please keep in touch and let us hear how little Nick is doing and maybe let us see a picture now and then. He is such a precious little fella and a big part of Sylvia. God bless and comfort all of you and remember you have friends here who care. :(

WDWfanatic288
06-10-2001, 01:32 PM
Thank you for being there for her...Make sure Nick can read this understand how much we all love you,Sylvia and NIck.
Ill continue to pray for yall

glo
06-10-2001, 01:33 PM
Dan S.

My condolescence to you, Nick and everyone whose life was touched by Sylvia. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated from time to time on what is going on with Nick.

glo

preshi
06-10-2001, 01:33 PM
I am in tears too. All of you will continue to be in our thoughts.

Take Care.

EROS
06-10-2001, 01:38 PM
We know what a difficult time this must be for yourself, Emma, Nick, and Sylvia's family. Though only a few members here got a chance to meet her, we were all impressed by the love and courage which she constantly demonstated during her fight. It really is extraordinary that her life touched so many who knew her only through their screens. Rest assured that she will LIVE ON in our hearts and memories.

Take care,

Blondie
06-10-2001, 01:42 PM
My heart goes out to you, Nick and all those who were special to Sylvia. May you find comfort in your memories and in the condolences from Sylvia's extended family here on the DIS.

Pam
06-10-2001, 01:47 PM
Dan,
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you and your daugters, Nick, and Sylvia's Mom.

As hard as this is for all of us to deal with, especially those of you who had the privilege on loving and living with Sylvia, through my tears I have a sense of peace.

I never "talked" over the phone to Sylvia but through her posts here and our emails I discovered a lovely, compassionate woman. A woman who was witty and friendly and I just know that she must have had one heck of a laugh - because she could find sunshine in any situation!
Pam

Patrick IL.
06-10-2001, 01:47 PM
I offer my heart felt condolences on her passing. She was a very special lady-her impact on this sight alone is proof of that. My prayers are with all of the family and friends. Her spirit lives on in all of us in one way or another. I hope your hearts somehow can mend soon.

LisaTx
06-10-2001, 01:48 PM
My condolences to you, Dan, and to the rest of Sylvia's family, especially little Nick. {{{{{Hugs}}}}} to you all.

Please do drop in every now and then to let us know how things are going, and to show up pictures of Nick. I have to agree with you, Dan is an angel on earth, as was Sylvia.

Michelle
06-10-2001, 01:54 PM
Our hearts go out to you, Nick and all of your families during this very sad time. Bless you for taking the time to come here and share with us.

You all continue in our thoughts and prayers.

huckster
06-10-2001, 01:55 PM
Dan my prayers are with you and nick and your daughters slyvias mom, hoping things are easier every day remember she lives on thru you all we will miss her always.

Momof2
06-10-2001, 01:56 PM
Please find comfort in knowing how many of us have you in our thoughts and prayers. Sylvia is most certainly an angel above, watching over us all.

snuggles
06-10-2001, 02:13 PM
Dan, my deepest sympathy goes out to you Nick, and the rest of Sylvias family. We will continue to pray for you all. Please join us whenever you can.
Ann

skuttle
06-10-2001, 02:13 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. :(
I hope you can find comfort in the fact that Sylvia is in a better place now.
{{{Hugs}}} to you all.
And please give an extra special {{HUG}} to Nick from me.
Ya'll are definately in my thoughts.

Kaa
06-10-2001, 02:44 PM
Dan,

Please accept my condolences on your loss. You, Nick and all of your families will continue to be in my thoughts. Please post from time to time to let us know how you all are doing.

Buckalew
06-10-2001, 02:47 PM
Dan S.,
I am so very sorry about Sylvia's death. She had many friends here. Please give Nick and your girls a hug from the DIS. I'll be praying for God to comfort and watch over you all.
Brenda

Boots
06-10-2001, 03:04 PM
My deepest feelings of sympathy go out to you now. I am sure that you were blessed by being a part of her life. She will be missed here by us all. Take care and keep in touch with us. Ellen

CindyAnn
06-10-2001, 03:18 PM
Dan - Having you in her life must have made Sylvia's life so much more wonderful in the last few years. It's so good of you to take the time to post at this very difficult point in your life. I wish I had known Sylvia better, but I was always struck by her courage and the optimistic nature of everything she wrote. I'm just so sorry that she was taken from you so soon. Please do let us know how you, Nick, Margarete and Emma are doing. You're in many people's thoughts at this time.

kbeverina
06-10-2001, 03:24 PM
Our hearts go out to you--please know that Sylvia won't ever be forgotten here.

Beauty
06-10-2001, 03:46 PM
Dan, My heart goes out to all of you in this hard time. Even though I never met Sylvia, I felt like I knew her from all the love and support on this board. She was a WONDERFUL person. You will all be in my prayers every day. Please let us know how you all are doing. We will NEVER forget Sylvia or you, Nick and your family!

Maleficent2
06-10-2001, 03:47 PM
the loss of a loved one is hard at any age but to lose one so young as SyLvia is esp.hard.Thoughts are with you.


Mal

catsrule
06-10-2001, 04:03 PM
Prayers and thoughts will continue for you, Nick, and family...with deepest sympathy......

snoopy
06-10-2001, 04:09 PM
How very kind of you to come here and post, Dan! I also would like to extend my deepest condolences on your loss. Sylvia will be so missed.

Please send my love and blessings to dear Nick, and to Sylvia's mother, whose loss I cannot even begin to fathom. They, and you and your family, are in my constant thoughts and prayers.

Regina
06-10-2001, 04:10 PM
I can't imagine what you're going through right now.

You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Mackey Mouse
06-10-2001, 04:14 PM
Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that she will be missed by many...

sammi
06-10-2001, 04:23 PM
Dan......I am so sorry for your loss. This must be very hard on you, Nick, and all of your family. I really don't know what to say, I know the hurt and sadness will take time to heal. May it comfort you to know that so many people care and I felt like since you both are from Kitchener that you were also in a way my neighbour too.Please find comfort knowing that we all care deeply for your loss and that Sylvia was a very special lady.:sunny:

Kelsie
06-10-2001, 04:29 PM
My thoughts and Prayers are with you, Nick and your Family. Sylvia will be missed :(

Mrs. Potato Head
06-10-2001, 04:43 PM
God Bless You!

mickey65
06-10-2001, 05:28 PM
My sympathies to you and the rest of Sylvia's wonderful family. She was a truely special soul. Hugs to all of you.

DonnaS
06-10-2001, 05:32 PM
God bless you and the family you and Sylvia brought together. You, Nick, and rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

#1 Disney Fan
06-10-2001, 05:48 PM
Dan S., thank you for taking the time to stop in here and post. I do hope to see more posts from you in the future. I can only imagine what you and Nick and the rest of your families are going through right now... but you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please give Nick and your daughters another extra big {{{hug}}}.

deno2
06-10-2001, 05:53 PM
Dan,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and those close to Sylvia. I only knew Sylvia through her posts, but was inspired by her courage and strenght. Please stop by and visit and keep us posted on how everyone is doing. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
deno

SimonV
06-10-2001, 06:47 PM
Dan, it is so very good to see your message here. Sylvia's passing has touched us all more than we are ever likely to be able to say, but her presence here beforehand was such a gift and inspiration to so many. It was a real privilege to say we 'knew' her via her contributions here on the DIS, and she is a great loss in so many ways.

However, if Nick has inherited her spirit and compassion for others, I am pretty sure he will also grow into a very special and caring person in his own right, even if he has been deprived of his mother's love at far too early an age. It is heartening to hope and think that Sylvia's legacy will be maintained in this way.

I truly cannot imagine what you have been through and still have to to bear, but it is with the most fervent hope that we at the DIS have helped in some small way and can continue to do so in future that I trust you - and Nick, in time - will be able to contribute here in future.

I wish you peace and friendship,

Simon Veness

BambiTamby
06-10-2001, 07:25 PM
Thank you for sharing this!

Sylvia will always be remembered fondly by us all here on the DIS

God Bless YOU, NICK, and the rest of Sylvia's family!

You all will forever be in my thoughts and prayers!

perndwler
06-10-2001, 07:26 PM
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers to you, Nick and Sylvia's family.

Pooh93
06-10-2001, 07:34 PM
My sincere condolences to you and the rest of her family. I never corresponded with Sylvia or "knew" her in the sense that many other people here did. However, I can tell from her postings that I've read and the posts about her that she was a wonderful friend and mother.

God Bless all of you in the days ahead.

bashful64
06-10-2001, 07:36 PM
My deepest sympathy to you and the rest of the family (especially the kids). I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

laurenk
06-10-2001, 07:38 PM
Dan,

Hugs and sympathy to you and the rest of the family during this very trying time. Nick is lucky to have you.

becka
06-10-2001, 07:42 PM
God bless you, Nick and the rest of the family. My heart and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

tiggerlover
06-10-2001, 07:49 PM
Dan,

My deepest sympathy to you during this most difficult time in your life. Sylvia meant a great deal to a great many people who never even met her, the tears I shed are genuine, for Sylvia touched each of our lives in a way we will not forget.

Debbi

luvdsny
06-10-2001, 07:53 PM
Hello Dan (aka Sylvia's soul mate) and Welcome To The DIS.

Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathies. You and your family are in my thoughts each day.

Thank you for taking the time to post...this must be the most of difficult of times for you and your's.

I didn't know Sylvia half as well as other's here, but I do know from her posts that she was a good person with a pure heart...and I think she fought her best fight.

I hope you and your daughters and Nick will find comfort in our warmest wishes during this mourning period.

Tia

Ranatra
06-10-2001, 08:03 PM
Dan, You are all in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Sylvia will always be remembered here.

It would be so nice if you could pop in from time to time and update us on everyone. God Bless you all.

Barb
06-10-2001, 08:06 PM
Dear Dan, thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family, too. Sylvia's passing has been in my thoughts every minute since I heard the news. It's so sad when a life is taken so young. My prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time.

Helopoh
06-10-2001, 08:15 PM
I offer my condolences to your family... I am so sorry for your loss. Denise

Snowwark
06-10-2001, 08:20 PM
Dan,

My deepest sympathy and condolences to you, Nick, Sylvia's mom, and everyone else who held her dear. I will keep all of you in my prayers, and I know Sylvia will always remain in our hearts.

Thank you so much for speaking to us during this difficult time.

Dan Murphy
06-10-2001, 08:37 PM
Hi Dan. It's so nice to see you here so quickly after we talked about this. You are truly an amazing man, one I have been able to share a bit with over the past months while Sylvia fought her valiant battle. I have enjoyed talking to you at times on ICQ, at home, and the last few weeks at the hospital. You have been such a support to Sylvia over the years of her illness, as was the DIS. I am so happy she found us, and we found her. I will always remember her, her humor, candor, spunk, loyalty, love of family, love for life. She NEVER gave up. A week before she would have met us in Disney World, she was still telling me she thought there was a chance she would be there. What a fighter, Dan. As you were blessed with her, likewise, she was blessed with you.

We will be talking, Dan. Please keep up Sylvia's relationship with the DIS, you will feel the comfort and love as she did.

cotye
06-10-2001, 10:33 PM
Offering my deepest condolensces Dan. I only met Sylvia for a short period of time, but I can truly see how special she was.

mnbrowns
06-10-2001, 11:06 PM
God Bless

Big V
06-11-2001, 08:18 AM
My deepest sympathy to you and your extended family Dan. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you.
Scott

Dan Murphy
06-11-2001, 08:23 AM
Just bumping up for those who may have missed last week's news regarding our friend, Sylvia, and are logging in for the first time in a few days here on Monday morning. Keep her in your prayers.

Robinrs
06-11-2001, 08:32 AM
Oh, Dan....

I am missing her soooo much....

She was a sweet, kind and perfect creation of God in my eyes, and I have never laid eyes on her.

Her kindness and love for her son touched me on so many occasions, her selflessness never ceased to amaze me.

May God comfort you and the family during this horrible time. I will keep you all in my prayers....

God bless...

JorJor
06-11-2001, 08:38 AM
I also want to offer my condolences and sympathy, to you, Nick, and Sylvia's mom. May God bless you all immensely, and ease your pain. Please try to keep in touch with us. Thank you for your note...it was very thoughtful of you!!

Beanie
06-11-2001, 09:36 AM
My deepest condolences to you, Dan and your family, Nick and Sylvia's Mother...My God bless each and everyone of you...

noel
06-11-2001, 09:50 AM
Dan-

You, Nick and the rest of Sylvia's family and friends have been in my prayers. I am so sorry for you loss. PLease accept my condolences.

oldkicker
06-11-2001, 09:59 AM
Dan - so nice of you to stop by and share this message with us.

You have my deepest condolences.

helenabear
06-11-2001, 10:47 AM
Please know that I am keeping you and everyone close to Sylvia in my thoughts and prayers. She will certainly be missed.

MonaCK
06-11-2001, 01:16 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Serena
06-11-2001, 01:43 PM
Dan, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Emma, Nick and Margarete.
Sylvia will be missed by all.

nativetxn
06-11-2001, 01:48 PM
I am so saddened by Sylvia's death. She was a caring and thoughtful person and we will miss her very much.

Katholyn

goofygirl
06-11-2001, 07:21 PM
I am so glad that Sylvia had you, Dan. You stuck with her when it really mattered.



I know of a couple where the man left the woman because she had a mastectomy and "wasn't attractive" to him anymore. He thought her illness was too much for him and imposed on his needs. She was left alone to suffer! Can you imagine?!


I am glad that people like you exist. She was lucky to have you. May you find love and be loved again someday. You deserve that.


Peace and healing to all...
God Bless!

newHere
06-11-2001, 08:01 PM
Dan, thank you for logging in and joining us.

This community always pulls together in good times and bad. We have been holding a cyber vigil by holding prayer circles for Sylvia for the past few months. Now we mourn her and pray for her family.

Sylvia was a special lady with a lot of grit. Her courage inspires me. She will be missed.

sncbird
06-11-2001, 08:06 PM
Dan, thank you for your words. People like you and Sylvia are very special. You both have touched so many of our lives. I admire the strength and courage you both have. I pray for you, your daughter, Nick, Sylvia's mom and the rest of your friends and family. Sylvia was so special that God wanted her home. I believe there's a reason for everything and someday you'll know why Sylvia had to do this.

God Bless You!!!

Leota
06-12-2001, 04:51 AM
Dan, my Heart goes out to you & my deepest sympathy is with you, Nick, your daughters & Sylvia's Mom..... I continue to hold you all in my thoughts & prayers. Sylvia was & is such an inspiration to all of us (and other women who face health challenges, esp.) The outpouring of support & our sorrow at her passing is such a Testament of her Life - She has touched so many, so deeply, what a tremendous testament to how special a person she was.....
Thank you for dropping in during such a time....I hope you will continue to keep a link with our cyber-family & keep us posted from time to time. You have MANY friends here......

CathyCanada
06-12-2001, 07:04 AM
Dan, how nice to "meet" you, but I am so sorry that it is under these tragic circumstances. Thank you for being the source of strength and love for our friend, Sylvia and her beloved Nick.
Take care and we look forward to seeing more of you.
Cathy

ShynaCG
06-12-2001, 07:14 AM
I have been away from these Boards for quite some time. However, when I heard about Sylvia's passing I had to add my condolences. I remember her as a very sweet person, who loved her son dearly. Please know that my prayers are with your famly and tht she will be greatly missed.

NurseKim
06-12-2001, 08:29 AM
Dan, you have my deepest sympathy. She will be deeply missed by our DIS community. Hugs to you and Sylvia's family.

Dan Murphy
01-08-2003, 10:22 PM
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Mickey's sunshine
01-08-2003, 10:26 PM
this is a keeper thread Dan. :)