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janette
09-17-2002, 09:50 PM
I talked with Robin some today and wanted to give you all an update.

I had posted before that her SO Dan was pretty sick and didn't want medical attention. Several things have happened since then but I'll start there.

Dan & Robin were married in a small ceremony at their home. Caitlyn was thrilled that Dan is her new Dad.

She was able to get him to the Dr once but he didn't stay long, just enough for them to verify that he was very ill. About Labor he lost consciousness and she called 911. After about a week in the hospital they were able to stablize him but also diagnosed lung cancer. He opted not to receive treatments because the drs did not believe it would extend his time much if at all. They were able to get a hospice nurse to help with his care at home so he is able to be there with Robin & Caitlyn. He is more comfortable now that his pain is being managed but doesn't have energy for much.

They all need your thoughts and prayers.

Serena
09-17-2002, 09:51 PM
Oh no! I'm so sorry.
My thoughts and prayers for them.

Dan Murphy
09-17-2002, 09:55 PM
I too have been in touch in the past few days with Robin and she had passed this information on. So very sad, Janette. My prayers have been with them all. We do know miracles do happen.

The few times I have met them, I was always impressed by Dan's love for Robin and Caitlyn. My best for all.

Tuffcookie
09-17-2002, 10:08 PM
This is all so very sad. Prayers going out for Dan, Robin and Caitlyn.

TC

browneyes
09-17-2002, 10:11 PM
From what I remember of Robin's posts of Dan, he's a truly special man. I am so sad to hear his time on earth will be cut short.:( I can imagine how Robin and Caitlyn are handling all this.:( Caitlyn deserves a dad like Dan.

Saffron
09-17-2002, 10:11 PM
Oh no, this is all so very sad! I will keep them all in my prayers.

janette
09-17-2002, 10:19 PM
In our talks Robin has indicated that Caitlyn has very much enjoyed having Dan around. He makes a special effort to spend as much time with her as possible. Yes, they do deserve more of it. :( Caitlyn does know he is sick but not the expected result.

browneyes
09-17-2002, 10:21 PM
How old is Caitlyn now? My heart is so sad for them all.:(

janette
09-17-2002, 10:23 PM
She's 4.

browneyes
09-17-2002, 10:28 PM
:(

Thanks for the update, btw.

catsrule
09-18-2002, 12:50 AM
My thoughts are with them.

tiggerlover
09-18-2002, 01:02 AM
{{{{HUGS}}}} to Robin and Caitlyn! What a truly difficult time this is for them. If I remember some of Robin's posts over the year she has had her fair share of difficult times. My thoughts and prayers are with them all.

:bounce::wave::bounce:

snoopy
09-18-2002, 04:36 AM
Oh, this has me in tears. I feel so bad for Dan and Robin and Caitlynn, as if they haven't been through enough. :(

Please send Robin my regards, janette.

CamColt
09-18-2002, 05:03 AM
Oh how sad! Prayers & Pixie dust to them all!!!!!

glo
09-18-2002, 05:19 AM
my thought and prayers are with them...God bless them.

dizneenut
09-18-2002, 05:32 AM
How sad! :( My thoughts and prayers are with them.

helenabear
09-18-2002, 05:38 AM
So very sad :( My thoughts and prayers are with Dan, Robin & Caitlyn.

Doctor P
09-18-2002, 06:11 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with them all.

CRB#33
09-18-2002, 06:31 AM
Oh, how awful.

That poor girl has had enough :(

My prayers and thoughts are with them all.

Nancy
09-18-2002, 06:42 AM
My thoughts are with them. Thanks for the info.:(

Kitty 34
09-18-2002, 06:44 AM
How sad.:( My thoughts and prayers go out to them.

Spinning
09-18-2002, 06:49 AM
My prayers and thoughts are with them How sad.

chelsea&austinsmom
09-18-2002, 06:53 AM
:( :( VEry sad. My thoughts and prayers are with them.

RitaZ.
09-18-2002, 06:56 AM
This is so sad.:( My thoughts are with Robin, Dan & Caitlyn. {{{hugs}}}

Mamu
09-18-2002, 07:02 AM
So sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with them all.

CarolG
09-18-2002, 07:05 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll keep Dan, Robin and Caitlyn in my thoughts and prayers.

Baboo
09-18-2002, 07:09 AM
Prayers and pixie dust coming for all of them.

Credit Man
09-18-2002, 07:13 AM
My prayers will be added also.

Marla Hellwig
09-18-2002, 07:17 AM
Keeping them all in my thoughts

Blondie
09-18-2002, 07:28 AM
Robin and Caitlyn sure have their plates full.....sending prayers and pixie dust their way. I hope Dan can be pain free and surrounded by the ones he loves.

honeywolf7
09-18-2002, 07:37 AM
How terribly sad. I'll be keeping them in my prayers.

Kermit
09-18-2002, 08:43 AM
That is so sad. :( I'll be praying for all of them. It seems like they've all encountered more difficulties in life than most of us.

December99
09-18-2002, 09:17 AM
Oh poor Robin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Dan too....

I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers for all of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Towncrier
09-18-2002, 12:27 PM
How wonderful that they have such a warm and caring relationship to share with one another. Some folks never find that kind of love in their lifetime. And how sad that it may be cut short by illness. I will pray for them all.

ead79
09-18-2002, 12:41 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that Dan is so ill. My prayers are with him, Robin, and Caitlyn. {{{HUGS}}} for them also.

A kid at heart
09-18-2002, 01:05 PM
I've been in touch with her too and I was shocked when she told me. I'm at a loss for words on her situation, but my thoughts are with her.

newmousecateer
09-18-2002, 01:43 PM
Oh, this is so very sad to hear. My prayers are with them all. This fills my heart with so much sadness.

I will be praying for all of them. May the Lord give them the strength to see them all through these times of pain and sadness.

mamajoan
09-18-2002, 01:50 PM
prayers sent..
sometimes life is too short....

leahannpen
09-18-2002, 02:15 PM
WOW! I am so sorry! :( That is just so sad. Atleast they have made him a bit more comfortable. Please pass on good thoughts and prayers........

luvdsny
09-18-2002, 03:50 PM
I'm very sorry to hear this. :( I met them all last December and they are such a lovely family. Indeed, they were fortunate to find eachother. I'll keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

Thank you for the update Janette.

Robinrs
09-18-2002, 04:07 PM
Oh this is a nightmare...

Robin, Caitlyn, my prayers are with you and your darling husband and father.

I am so sorry.... :(

kejoda
09-18-2002, 04:29 PM
Prayers and hugs for you and your family Robin.

minniecarousel
09-18-2002, 04:43 PM
Adding my prayers for this special family!

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to Robin, Caitlyn & Dan

SonjaB
09-18-2002, 05:02 PM
Oh, this just breaks my heart for Robin......like they haven't already been through enough.....I am praying for them all and hoping for a miracle. This just isn't fair. :( :( :(

Rajah
09-19-2002, 10:07 AM
Oh how horrible!!!!!!!!! :( :( :( They didn't need this. :( Prayers heading that way

NurseKim
09-19-2002, 06:40 PM
That is just terrible :(