I have something to say...

[preshi]

I want to thank everyone for the support they have given me regarding my marital problems. We are in counseling and it is working out alot better then I could have ever imagined.

I deeply regret the things I said here about DH. I have had alot of things happen to me that I haven't dealt with and the only person I have to vent on is Dh when really I am the problem.

I was almost too embarrassed to post this as I seem to type before I think quite often. I do appreciate the support and the advice you all gave to me. It is time for me to grow up and deal with my outstanding problems.

Thank you, all of you.

[catsrule]

Good luck, Meagan. Hope everything works out for you.:D

[tiggerlover]

I haven't read your previous posts regarding this, but I wanted to offer some {{{{HUGS}}}.

:bounce::wave::bounce:

[snoopy]

{{hugs}}} Preshi, glad to hear you guys are working out your problems.

And don't be too hard on yourself, we all have vented on this forum before, and then maybe thought better of it. At least you recognize that marriage is a two way street and that both of you need to work on making it work.

Good luck!

[dizneegirl]

Hugs Meagan.

Marriage certainly isn't easy, even if you're in the best of relationships. And I've been where you are... I was unhappy and causing problems early in my marriage, and never realized that it WAS me. Thankfully I realized what was going on before it was too late & made a few changes that have improved things 1000%.

You'll get through it, no matter what "it" is, or how "it" turns out.

Best wishes to you! :)

[tc]

Didn't read your earlier post, but I am glad you're working on it. Working for a divorce atty, I see so many couples just give up when it gets rough. I am glad you two are working on making your marriage last. Prayers and pd sent from (I usually say "out west", but you're further west than me, so) out east?? {{{HUGS}}} to you and your Dh.

[Blondie]

That's what we're here for! Best wishes to you and your DH as you work through your problems. Sounds like you are already on the road to realizing what is/was wrong and hopefully you two will come to a common ground.

[nativetxn]

I'm glad that things are going better for you Meagan. {{{HUGS}}} sweetie. We're always here if you need to talk :)

[mamajoan]

Meagan, I am glad to hear that you are in counseling with your dh. I am PROUD that you are working towards reconciling. Marriage is worth saving. It is a commitment btwn two. Yes, I believe that sometimes a marriage may be doomed to a divorce. However, I feel that marriage is one of the REALLY GOOD things going for us here on earth.
Take care dearie,
prayers and pd on the way.
Joan

[DisMNagain]

Preshi, it's neat to hear from you that your still hanging in there with your marriage...it does sound like you're doing well and that's good to see.

I do think of you often and only send you and your husband my best wishes!

[oldkicker]

Best wishes, Meagan......

[Serena]

Meagan, I'm proud of both of you.

[Saffron]

Best wishes to you preshi as you try to work things out. I'm hoping for the best for the two of you. :)

[JC2]

Meagan, I just wanted to say that your post totally touched me. :) {{hugs}}

[minniepumpernickel]

Meagan,
I hope that everything works out really well for you!:D

[SuiteDisney]

(((hugs))) I hope your marriage comes out of this stronger and happier.

[Boots]

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} We are always here for you!

[WDWHound]

Megan,
It takes a lot of courage to face your problems and decide to solve them. Many people would not have found that strength and instead would just continue to run away. It takes person of true character to do what you are doing.

I wish you and your Husband all the best.

[nuke]

Best of luck to you Meagan. I'm sure that lots of people post things they shouldn't have, you had the guts to admit it. I hope you work everything out. :)

[Kitty 34]

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you, Meagan!

[browneyes]

Good luck, Preshi.:)

[Deb in IA]

Meagan, I am so glad that you are in counseling and that things are getting better.

I am strongly in favor of trying to save a marriage, especially when young children are involved. As long as there is no violence involved, of course.

Just remember, every marriage has it's ups and downs, but something that is worth fighting for and working for will be that much more precious in the end . . .





Best of luck to you and your DH, preshi . . .

[helenabear]

Meg, I am so glad to hear you guys are in counceling. I wish you both the best and I do hope the two of you can work things out {{hugs}}

[SonjaB]

Beautifully said, Meagan. Best of luck to you and DH for a lifetime of happiness. :)

[Buckalew]

Meagan,
I glad to hear the counseling is going so well! Don't feel bad. We are hear to hear you and support you... venting is good. I don't think I have ever read anything that you said about your DH that made me wonder why you were married to him. We all take baggage into relationships -- some more than others. I'm happy to hear you are going through yours. :D {{{hugs}}} my friend.

[Mary Jo]

http://www.wdwinfo.com/sites/family/flowerface.GIF <font face="Comic Sans MS"><font color=navy>Meagan,

I think one of the beauties of an internet board is to be able to vent and get some unbiased opinions.... never worry about what anyone here is going to think of you, just appreciate the sincere thoughts of best wishes.

Hope it all works out and that some day in the future, you & your dh can look back at all this as just a simple memory.

Best wishes and hugs,

mj

[Pooh93]

Best wishes for you and DH.:D

[RitaZ.]

Preshi~ That's great! I'm glad that you and your DH are working things out.:D

[Lucky4me]

As my kids say, it's all good!

Hang in there and don't worry about what you've said here. We all understand.

I'm hoping for a good outcome for you and DH and I have a smile on my face just thinking about you trying to work things out. Thanks! :)

[bsnyder]

Preshi, glad to hear that the counseling is helping and that things are better between you and DH!

I hope and pray that your family can remain in tact and that you have a lifetime of happiness ahead of you. Remember that steel is strongest by having gone through the fire!

[Lynn CC]

I'm glad you are getting things straightened out.

I try to keep this little thought in mind each day....

When you wake up in the morning and start your day just think to yourself how lucky you are to wake up and start your day, someday you won't have that opportunity.
It just makes me appreciate every little thing thoughout my day.



:)

[DopeyRN]

Wow Megan...what a brave thing to post. Good for you girl! My prayers that you form a rock solid marriage out of all the hurt.

[Keli]

Megan, I'm really glad to hear you guys are trying to work it all out.

[Dan Murphy]

That is great, Meg. So happy for both you and Patrick, as well as Austin!!!! Very nice to hear!!!!!

[WillyJ]

Well sweetie, you know I have always been there for you no matter what, and I am certainly with you now.. . you are my friend and I admire you more then ever. .. .{{{hugs}}}} and if you ever need a shoulder, just ask.. ...

[jfulcer]

Meg, I remember your earlier post when you seemed at the end of your rope. I'm glad that you took our suggestions and went to counseling with an open mind.

It makes me happy to know that you are working it out.

[Leota]

Two Thumbs up Megs- That was a brave realization & it takes alot of class & courage to admit it when we make mistakes - Only when we see the things we don't want to, can we work on making them go away.....
My best thoughts for healing to you & your hubby - and most especially to your little guy -
Hoping for many years of Love & Happiness for you & your family....

[dianeschlicht]

So glad things are working out Meagan! PD and Prayers for continued success!

[EROS]

Such great news:D :D :D . Relationships for ALL OF US are so dynamic; they require a lot of work, but the payoff is awesome:D :D :D .

Much love to one of my favorite birth-mothers on the DIS
:cool: :cool: ........

[The Mystery Machine]

I'm glad to hear you are working things out! Thanks for the good news.

[JerseyJanice]

Here's hoping it all works out for you guys. {{{hug}}}