James and Jeffrey PJ - 05/10/11 - SBP/Attic/UK DP/Wedding Day 2 Arrival

[Groom Mickey]

This is not a typical planning journal. As you can clearly see we are a non-traditional couple getting married at Disney World. This blog will also be non traditional in the fact that there will be no wedding dresses or hair (since I have little... neither does Jeff).However, There will be plenty of posts on invitations, rings, cake, floral (love roses), bridesmaids dresses, photography, planning session and everything else that goes along with a wedding. This is where I am going to need all the help from the brides on the board.

Quick Summary of Us
Jeff (DF)is 47, a lawyer and great Dad. I am 37 and a stay at home Dad.
My DF and I have been together for 8 years (who says bar pick ups dont last), have a house, three boys (6,5,4), two dogs and two cats. We really are just your typical everyday family. We are also Foster Parents and just recently had three foster children ( 5, 2, 16 months) in our home (yes I had six boys and they kept me busy). They just recently moved to their "Forever Home", and it was one of the hardest things I had to do ( I knew we were not the perfect forever home, but still miss them). I am so glad for the wedding planning because it helps me wind down from my day. Who knew wedding planning would help someone relax.

The Engagement

After two years of dropping hint after hint after hint I began to think Jeff was NEVER going to ask me. I wanted to get engaged in Walt Disney World since I found out they will do our wedding (Disney calls them commitment ceremonies but since we will be married legally in Vermont and I feel like it is a marriage I will be calling it a wedding throughout). It was a visit in April of 2009, that really sealed the deal. I had not been to Disney in over 15 years and that visit reawakend my passion for all things Disney. I caught the fever so bad that when we got back from that trip Jeff and I purchased our DVC membership (best thing ever). As part of the promotion to entice us to purchase we got bonus points, which we used to visit again in Jan. 2010. Now I had been dropping hints all along about wanting to get engaged at WDW and I was hoping this was going to the trip. On the first night there I even made a wish for a proposal at Snow White's wishing well in the MK. It was not to be. After we purchased our DVC membership my sister decided finally to get hers so she invited me to go on her trip in May ( Jeff stay home while I had a vacation without any kids!!!!) It was a glut of Disney trips and I was in my glory. I kept dropping the hints.... recording Disney Dream weddings, sending the Fairy Tale wedding website and showing him WDW engagements on YouTube(hint, hint). I hoped Jeff was going to come through ( now he is not romantic, but one can hope). I knew he was not going to propose on this trip. It would have meant he would have had to find a sitter for the boys fly down and prepare. That is just not his MO. I could still dream. :love:

Now on top of everything my sister had gotten us dinner in Cinderella castle ( could this finally be it...could my sister be in on it?). It added fuel to the fire. We got to the castle I kept thinking will he do it? No he would never fly down here, but, I did make that wish at Cinderella's wishing well by the castle during our January trip. I even threw in a quarter just to give it some extra oomp. It had to happen this place was magical and Disney couldn't let me down. So we got our picture taken with Cinderalla and head up to get seated (please ,please please by a window... everyone knows that is where you are seated for a proposal) We get seated in the back by the railing, not even close to a window (heart crushed... oh well I knew it was not going to happen). I did bring one son with me so at least we were going to have a good time meeting the princesses. We start to looking at the menu ( and dodging the play sword they had given him) and not even two minutes later to our left (next to the window) a woman is getting proposed to (lucky her, are you kidding me!) I then realized that when I wished for a Disney proposal at the well I forgot to wish for it to be MY proposal LOL. Disney gave me exactly what I had wished for "A Disney Proposal".

I do not know what I had done to anger Tinker Bell but come on throw me some pixie dust. At the rate I was going some dust from the Haunted Mansion would have been something. Jeff and I have been together eight years and three kids and I was wondering why I was still not married? On the way back to the bus I started to text Jeff. I knew it was not going to happen but what more did I have to do? Why could he not have stepped it up once and surprise me? I knew it was my fault for having such high expectations and I had built this up in my head so it was not his fault. So we get on the "Mickey Bus" (that is what the kids call it) and head back to the Saratoga resort ( which looks nothing like Saratoga as we only live 15 mins away) and start sending the texts about the nights event and start joking with him that it was supposed to have happend to me. That is when it happens IN TEXT " I know it is not romantic Marry Me?" I looked at the text shocked (that was not supposed to happen). I showed the text to my sister and looked at her and asked "is he serious?". I wasn't certain how to take it, but it did stop me from texting him (was that his plan ? was he tired of my texting?) I sent no response to his text. We still had a couple of days at Disney left and whenever I called I did not mention the text and niether did he. I figured it was a joke... but I did keep that text. The night we got home from the trip,and the kids went to bed, I pulled out the phone showed him the text and asked are you serious? He told me yes but was afraid to say anything because I did not text him back. I of course told him the answer was YES and that I have been waiting years for that question (who knew it was coming in the form of a text).:rotfl:

My dream came true! I got proposed to at WDW! Who knew it was going to be on a Mickey Bus, somewhere between Cinderella Castle and The Saratoga Resort through a text. It is not how I planned it but somehow it is even better. I truly do believe there is Magic in the Magic Kingdom, however, if you make a wish at Cinderella's wishing well watch out it is tricky. We are now getting married at SBP on May 10, 2011 and I can't wait!

[Princessfifi]

Welcome!!! Can't wait to hear all your plans :goodvibes

[Disney9.9.10]

Congratulations and welcome! I look forward to reading as you plan!

[Groom Mickey]

I have done some Disney planning (just a little). I do have a contract coming sometime this week. Pam has been great For the past two weeks I have done nothing but try to figure out STD's. Does anyone know how HARD it is to find gender neutral Disney related STD :laughing:. I just want a nice Mickey. Don't get me wrong the STD that Disney is sending are nice but the pumpkin coach and cinderella just do not work for us. I have had the card stock, gluegun and glitter out for the past two weeks and still have come up with nothing solid. If I could get the boys to stand still long enough I would have glittered them by now ( I have a major glitter addiction). After I stole my sister cricut from her closet today I spent the rest of the night trying to get a Mickey Icon centered (2hrs). Everything I have done looks so homemade. Let me tell you the Disney Brides on here are good. The stuff rocks. I am amazed at the creativity everyone has. It is putting my stuff to shame. I do have a call into Shelley at Impressions. I am hoping she can pull something out for me. If she doesnt the invitations will have to go out and I will still be working on these darn STD. I would post pictures ( I know they are popular) but I let my 4yr old take pictures with the camera and now there is not auto focus. In hindsight it was probably not the best choice. Oh well at least he was quiet for a couple of minutes and I did get some great pictures of the floor.

[tinkerbell 766]

Welcome!!
Your wedding is 6 days after my VR and I will still be at WDW so I may just have to stalk!!!!
Good luck with all the planning!!

[Princessfifi]

Hey!

Have you tried looking on Etsy for some ideas or inexpensive save the dates. They have fabulous sellers that can really help you. I'm the least creative person in the universe, and if it weren't for etsy I would have a tragic wedding.

Good Luck!

Anais

[Groom Mickey]

Welcome!!
Your wedding is 6 days after my VR and I will still be at WDW so I may just have to stalk!!!!
Good luck with all the planning!!

Stop on by, the more the merrier

[Groom Mickey]

Hey!

Have you tried looking on Etsy for some ideas or inexpensive save the dates. They have fabulous sellers that can really help you. I'm the least creative person in the universe, and if it weren't for etsy I would have a tragic wedding.

Good Luck!
'
Anais

After all the cutting, glitter and burns from hot glue I admit defeat. Everything I did looked just so home made (not in a good way). I took your advice and contacted a seller on etsy and Impressions is also working on something for us. We shall see what we get . At least it will not look like my pre-school child made it... keep watching for a decision to be made.

[Groom Mickey]

Congratulations and welcome! I look forward to reading as you plan!

Thank you Disney9.9.10 it is very nice to be welcomed.

[pixiegirl]

Congrats!! I can't wait to hear your planning. I am in the same boat as you trying to make STDs but they all look home made. I have not given in to defeat but it is near. Good luck can't wait to see what you come up with!!

[Mlissa88]

Hi James!

Welcome!

My husband and I are DVC members too - I'm so hooked on DVC it's scary! Like you, I made a similar wish at Disney years ago. Now, I well up when I hear the "when you wish upon a star" song...because it's true. For me, it took a little while but the Disney magic happened when I least expected it. pixiedust:

I'm along for ride on your pj and I look forward to your updates and hearing about your special day!

Take care,
Melissa

[pixiegirl]

I love your engagement story!!! I was like you had dreamed of getting proposed to in Disney and of course played it up in my head and when it didn't happen that way it was ok!!! It was better because it was individual to us. I love that it was a text message!!

[erin.w]

Count me as another follower - we will be getting married just over a month before your event!

[Groom Mickey]

I have been reading several different post the past few weeks and I have noticed a disturbing trend of crafty brides on here. Now I can handle myself around a glueglun, I worship Martha Stewart (cliche... but true) and can glitter almost anything in 10 seconds or less. Wedding crafts are a whole new ball game. Looking at them they seem so simple a little glue, good printer and a lot of imagination and poof instant greatness! Everytime I read a PJ it seems as if they are creating something. The brides stuff on here is amazing... gift bags, bouqets, jewelry... If they can do I can too! :lmao: I mean how easy to save some money on the wedding.

Tonight I tried my hand at Mickey cake pops (trial run) as welcome favors http://www.disneyweddingblog.com/search/label/DIY%20Favors .
They are so cute and perfects and all it takes is some box mix ,frosting ,a lollipop stick, candy melts and voila you have instant Mickey on a stick. EASY. Everything started fine until the dipping in choclate. I started dipping them, held them upside down for the choclate to drip and nothing. Turn that darn head right side up and choclate pours off it in a globs. Fine... we will add vegetable oil and thin... same thing... maybe warm it ... same thing. By this time I have 30 Mickey cake heads waiting for choclate and they have warmed up, the next one I dip falls off the stick into the choclate. Now I go to put them in the fridge and what happens the tray they are on is to big! I go to adjust and half the heads come tumbling off into the fridge and rolli across the kitchen floor. It looks like a bad accident in ToonTown. I have heads here and there, some split in half with sticks piercing through. Half of the heads had only one ear , some with none and there are mickey ears everywhere (candy melts). It was total carnage :rotfl2:

To those crafty Disney brides I tip my gluegun to you. I do not think there will be any DIY projects on this PJ because I am afraid I may have to rip what is left of my remaing hair out. Does not mean I will not stop trying, however, once you factor in all my failed DIY projects it may have ended up being cheaper to have just purchased from Disney to start with.
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[Groom Mickey]

Congrats!! I can't wait to hear your planning. I am in the same boat as you trying to make STDs but they all look home made. I have not given in to defeat but it is near. Good luck can't wait to see what you come up with!!

May Pixie Dust rain upon your projects and good luck with finishing them.

[Groom Mickey]

Congrats!! I can't wait to hear your planning. I am in the same boat as you trying to make STDs but they all look home made. I have not given in to defeat but it is near. Good luck can't wait to see what you come up with!!

Hi James!

Welcome!

My husband and I are DVC members too - I'm so hooked on DVC it's scary! Like you, I made a similar wish at Disney years ago. Now, I well up when I hear the "when you wish upon a star" song...because it's true. For me, it took a little while but the Disney magic happened when I least expected it. pixiedust:

I'm along for ride on your pj and I look forward to your updates and hearing about your special day!

Take care,
Melissa

I am so happy to hear that the Disney magic found you also. I love hearing these stories. You just never know when it is going to happen. I agree it just makes WDW that much better.
We LOVE, LOVE, LOVE our DVC membership. We always get a two bedroom and they feel so opulent compared to the traditional rooms. Having DVC is also making room commmitments so much easier. Between mine, sister, and fathers rooms we just need one night to meet the contract ( I am hoping we get at least one more persont to come to our wedding ). I was so relieved when I found out our DVC rooms met the needs of our contract.

[rpmdfw]

Hello! I followed you over to the Weddings board from your post on my thread on the GLBT board.

Congrats! It's nice to see another gay couple getting married at WDW!

Can't wait to hear more!

Have a blast, and enjoy every minute! It's so worth it!

-Rob

[rpmdfw]

Oh, and we're DVC owners too, despite living 8 miles from the Magic Kingdom! We love it!

[Mlissa88]

We LOVE, LOVE, LOVE our DVC membership. We always get a two bedroom and they feel so opulent compared to the traditional rooms. Having DVC is also making room commmitments so much easier. Between mine, sister, and fathers rooms we just need one night to meet the contract ( I am hoping we get at least one more persont to come to our wedding ). I was so relieved when I found out our DVC rooms met the needs of our contract.

I know what you mean about the room requirements. I was thrilled to hear that DVC rooms count towards the contract totals. Whew! I'm hoping that with ours and my brother's DVC ressies, we can fill up a nice amount towards what's needed. My only problem with DVC has been that I always feel like I need more points. We have a small contract and I'm always on the look out for a good resale.

p.s. - I'm envious of those crafty, creative folks on here... I usually ruin my projects and end up with two of my fingers glued together... I'm leaving some of the crafty/design of that stuff up to Disney. It's safer and cheaper for me...lol.

[erin.w]

Make sure you don't happen to buy a Cricut machine :p - I think it makes all those DIY crafts much easier. I just bid on one on ebay. Now I can create my own tags, etc!

[DVCDan36]

James,
Welcome to the boards. I can't wait to hear more about your wedding plans and to see pictures.
My partner and I have been together for 10 years and maybe on day we will do the Disney wedding. We also just bought into DVC and are looking forward to many trips to come. And we have just finished the foster parenting class and are looking at becoming fa forever family for some kids.

[MsEsty]

Welcome to the boards!

I'm getting married in December and just gave up on being crafty...if I can't find someone to do it for me, it's just not happening!

[pixiegirl]

OMG!!! The mickey pops is too funny!! Frustrating I'm sure but it is funny especially the way you describe it!! Keep trying. There has to be a way to keep the chocolate from globbing!!

[Groom Mickey]

Hello! I followed you over to the Weddings board from your post on my thread on the GLBT board.

Congrats! It's nice to see another gay couple getting married at WDW!

Can't wait to hear more!

Have a blast, and enjoy every minute! It's so worth it!

-Rob

Oh, and we're DVC owners too, despite living 8 miles from the Magic Kingdom! We love it!

Thanks. We can't wait to have our moment at Disney. We are so glad Disney if finally allowing us to have our ceremony there. DVC is the best investement.

I know what you mean about the room requirements. I was thrilled to hear that DVC rooms count towards the contract totals. Whew! I'm hoping that with ours and my brother's DVC ressies, we can fill up a nice amount towards what's needed. My only problem with DVC has been that I always feel like I need more points. We have a small contract and I'm always on the look out for a good resale.

p.s. - I'm envious of those crafty, creative folks on here... I usually ruin my projects and end up with two of my fingers glued together... I'm leaving some of the crafty/design of that stuff up to Disney. It's safer and cheaper for me...lol

We just added more points! once is just not enough. I am afraid it is an addiction that may never end. I have given up on the crafts for awhile. I think it is safer that way.

[QUOTE=erin.w;37524059]Make sure you don't happen to buy a Cricut machine :p - I think it makes all those DIY crafts much easier. I just bid on one on ebay. Now I can create my own tags, etc!

I stole my sister's Cricut from her closet but I think that is where it is going "BACK INTO THE CLOSET" sometimes it is better for somethings to stay in the closet.

James,
Welcome to the boards. I can't wait to hear more about your wedding plans and to see pictures.
My partner and I have been together for 10 years and maybe on day we will do the Disney wedding. We also just bought into DVC and are looking forward to many trips to come. And we have just finished the foster parenting class and are looking at becoming fa forever family for some kids.

Children will change your life! :thumbsup2 foster parents have the hardest job but one of the most rewarding. Good luck. We can't wait to share Disney with our boys. I saw on one of your posts you are crafty and did a Mickey wreath. I might have to get some advice on the crafts.

Welcome to the boards!

I'm getting married in December and just gave up on being crafty...if I can't find someone to do it for me, it's just not happening!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I agree 100% sometimes there are things you are just not meant to be and wedding crafts are just not it for me. I am so glad we chose to do our wedding at WDW where it is all done for you and perfect.

OMG!!! The mickey pops is too funny!! Frustrating I'm sure but it is funny especially the way you describe it!! Keep trying. There has to be a way to keep the chocolate from globbing!!

The Horror oh The Horror. I still see those Mickey heads rolling across the floor. Make it stop :rotfl:

[pezaddict231]

Congrats and welcome! I love your proposal story, and that you did get your Disney proposal after all :).

The Mickey pops came out really good, before the chocolate fiasco, lol, sometimes the melted chocolate works really well and sometimes it's a nightmare! DIY projects always look way easier when they're done and you're just posting pics of them ;). I hope you don't give up completely, I love hearing about your DIY projects :goodvibes.

Looking forward to hearing more about your plans!

[pezaddict231]

okay, just re-read the instructions for the pops, and I don't think it was your fault at all. Sometimes melting the chocolate in the microwave just doesn't work and it clumps up too soon. Then the more you try to reheat it, the worse it gets :confused3. Try melting the chocolate on the stove-top, in a double boiler or use a small pot with an inch or so of water in it, and a metal bowl. The chocolate should stay melted nice and smooth for as long as you need it this way. ;)

[chaoscent]

Signing on for the planning. You are getting married on my birthday, so I will remember the day. :goodvibes Don't forget to visit us at the Creative DISign forum. We have some very creative people there who will be willing to help you out. :thumbsup2 Congratulations on the Proposal. I remember how exciting it was "waiting" for it to happen. Now have fun planning for the wedding. :cloud9:
Penny:hippie:

[LuluLovesDisney]

Welcome to the Boards!

You did a great job with those Mickey pops and I loved hearing about your engagement! I am really excited to read the rest of your plans!!

[Groom Mickey]

Today is an exciting day. Signing the contract and faxing to Randy Chapman for photography, signing the Disney Fairy Tale Wedding LOA and faxing, and making our additonal DVC points final today. The downside is that my bank account is hemorrhaging

[rpmdfw]

Today is an exciting day. Signing the contract and faxing to Randy Chapman for photography, signing the Disney Fairy Tale Wedding LOA and faxing, and making our additonal DVC points final today.

Awesome! Congratulations! And you're going to LOVE Randy!

The downside is that my bank account is hemorrhaging

Yeah, get used to that. It doesn't stop until well after the wedding! :laughing:

[Disney9.9.10]

Don't give up on crafting! It is a wonderful thing that can really make your wedding special. My very first attempt at making wedding invitations really did not go over well, but I stuck with it, and I am happy with how my final invitations turned out. I say Keep on trying!!

Congrats on all of the signing and faxing! It must be so exciting for you - despite the bank hemorrhaging lol

[erin.w]

I stole my sister's Cricut from her closet but I think that is where it is going "BACK INTO THE CLOSET" sometimes it is better for somethings to stay in the closet.

thanks for the giggle - I hope I'm as successful in reality as I am in my mind when this thing arrives! :rotfl:

[DVCDan36]

Children will change your life! :thumbsup2 foster parents have the hardest job but one of the most rewarding. Good luck. We can't wait to share Disney with our boys. I saw on one of your posts you are crafty and did a Mickey wreath. I might have to get some advice on the crafts.


We are excited about sharing Disney with our kid(s). When my partner lost his kidneys, his goal was to get a transplant and go to WDW. He had never been before, now we are hoping to share this with someone else (and if we can make a difference in someone else life).
Me crafty, debateable, able to make it through with all ten fingers, priceless.
I am looking forward to reading more about your plans and nuptuals.

[Groom Mickey]

Congrats and welcome! I love your proposal story, and that you did get your Disney proposal after all :).

The Mickey pops came out really good, before the chocolate fiasco, lol, sometimes the melted chocolate works really well and sometimes it's a nightmare! DIY projects always look way easier when they're done and you're just posting pics of them ;). I hope you don't give up completely, I love hearing about your DIY projects :goodvibes.

Looking forward to hearing more about your plans!

okay, just re-read the instructions for the pops, and I don't think it was your fault at all. Sometimes melting the chocolate in the microwave just doesn't work and it clumps up too soon. Then the more you try to reheat it, the worse it gets :confused3. Try melting the chocolate on the stove-top, in a double boiler or use a small pot with an inch or so of water in it, and a metal bowl. The chocolate should stay melted nice and smooth for as long as you need it this way. ;)

Thanks. I think the Mickey pops came out cute too.... until the chocolate. I agree the cheap chocolate and microwave were probably not the way to go. They are pretty tasty though. I will use a double boiler next time and better chocolate and hope it works out better. The kids were happy though they got a ton of Mickey Pops.

[Groom Mickey]

Signing on for the planning. You are getting married on my birthday, so I will remember the day. :goodvibes Don't forget to visit us at the Creative DISign forum. We have some very creative people there who will be willing to help you out. :thumbsup2 Congratulations on the Proposal. I remember how exciting it was "waiting" for it to happen. Now have fun planning for the wedding. :cloud9:
Penny:hippie:

Thanks for the welcome and will make sure to check out creative forum



Don't give up on crafting! It is a wonderful thing that can really make your wedding special. My very first attempt at making wedding invitations really did not go over well, but I stuck with it, and I am happy with how my final invitations turned out. I say Keep on trying!!

I am taking some time off, but I am sure I will continue.

Congrats on all of the signing and faxing! It must be so exciting for you - despite the bank hemorrhaging lol

Thanks we are soooo excited. I have a feeling that it will be awhile before the bank account stops hemorrhaging :lmao:

thanks for the giggle - I hope I'm as successful in reality as I am in my mind when this thing arrives! :rotfl:

I love the Cricut... it just takes sometime to get used to. I have hidden it away for awhile,but, it may return in a bit. Good luck with all your crafitng.

[Groom Mickey]

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I got my groom Mickey Ears. I love them.

[Groom Mickey]

Computer died, died, died this week. It is up and running,but, I think it is being held together only by gum and twine. All the contracts are signed and in. Randy Chapman will be our photographer, STD's will be on the way and I am now waiting for our planner to contact us. It looks like we are now locked into a Disney Wedding. There is no escape now for Jeff!!!!! We have less then a year to get everything done. It is kind of scarey since I know many of the brides have been planning for over year or two. I feel like I am behind the eight ball. I still have to pick out bridesmaid dresses and finalize our colors. We are thinking of Navy, yellow, and silver.... but keep going back and forth. I keep hoping David Tutera will show up on our doorstep and do a gay wedding.

[pixiegirl]

I love David Tutera!!! I keep wishing he will show up at my doorstep too. My DF keeps telling me to contact him. I like your colors so far. I think they will look nice together!!

[Mlissa88]

Computer died, died, died this week. It is up and running,but, I think it is being held together only by gum and twine. All the contracts are signed and in. Randy Chapman will be our photographer, STD's will be on the way and I am now waiting for our planner to contact us. It looks like we are now locked into a Disney Wedding. There is no escape now for Jeff!!!!! We have less then a year to get everything done. It is kind of scarey since I know many of the brides have been planning for over year or two. I feel like I am behind the eight ball. I still have to pick out bridesmaid dresses and finalize our colors. We are thinking of Navy, yellow, and silver.... but keep going back and forth. I keep hoping David Tutera will show up on our doorstep and do a gay wedding.

LOL...gum and twine :laughing:

I love David Tutera - I've seen that Disney Wedding show so many times that my husband stopped asking me "didn't you aleady see this one?" - instead he just rolls his eyes, smiles and walks back out of the room.

Don't worry about your time frame, things will all come together....

[Groom Mickey]

I love David Tutera!!! I keep wishing he will show up at my doorstep too. My DF keeps telling me to contact him. I like your colors so far. I think they will look nice together!!

Go for it.... contact David. You have nothing to lose but a few moments of your time.

LOL...gum and twine :laughing:

I love David Tutera - I've seen that Disney Wedding show so many times that my husband stopped asking me "didn't you aleady see this one?" - instead he just rolls his eyes, smiles and walks back out of the room.

Don't worry about your time frame, things will all come together....

You can never tire of his weddings. Even if you have seen them a thousand times it is like you are still seeing them for the first time. I am not going to worry to much about the time frame. That is one of the reasons we are going to Disney. I am just not an organized person.

[Groom Mickey]

We got Diane Bowen...Yahoo!!!! ok thats all I got. Kids were outside playing and I missed her call,but, I at least have a name.

[Jules~Marie]

I just caught up on your planning. I love your engagement story! And, although I feel bad that you're having troubles with your diy projects, it is nice to know I'm not the only one on here that thinks these Disney brides are all freakishly talented! :rotfl2: It's intimidating seeing what everyone can do! I will definitely be following along, I love all your witty comments. :goodvibes

[smileycrissy]

I love, love, love your engagement story!!!!!:rotfl: It's absolutely adorable. Congratulations! I'm really looking forward to following your wedding. :banana:

[Disney9.9.10]

Congrats on getting a planner!! I have heard from many on the boards that Diane is fantastic!

[minniebride]

Just signing on to say congratulations!!!! :goodvibes I loved your engagement story!! I got engaged in WDW as well (after dropping a zillion hints to my own DF!). We are part of a lucky bunch-it really is an amazing place to get engaged! :lovestruc

We are using Randy Chapman as well. I love your groom Mickey ears! I"m making my DF wear the top hat Mickey ears for a few pictures after the ceremony....he's not too happy about wearing them but hey, it's WDW-you have to wear your ears!!!

What town are you from in New York? My DF grew up in Hudson Falls & he says the same thing about Saratoga Springs Resort!

Anyways, I'm looking forward to reading more about your planning!!

[Groom Mickey]

Wow what a day yesterday. Computer died two weeks ago, everything reinstalled and everything was looking good. DF forgot,however, to install some sort of spyware and now I am fighting 30 viruses on this thing. Tried to craft yesterday and stabbed myself with a butter knife and cut through 1/4 of my nail. Please, dont ask why I was doing a craft with a butter knife... bad decision. Last night I also had a dream that we got down to Disney for the wedding and found out we had no money and could not pay for it. I woke up in cold sweats last night. I have a feeling this dream may happen often However :lmao: .On a happier note it looks like we are going the first thing in October for our PS. Our STD's are still a work in progress but coming along . and I am happy enough with one craft that I am going to post a pic of it. Mine you this is only a trial sample. I thought I would look for some feedback though.


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I was thinking I might be able to use them as wedding favors but not certain if they are cute enough or if Disney will allow me to use them.

[Disney9.9.10]

Great job with those favour boxes! They are adorable and I really think that they would work. You did an amazing job, and sometimes crafting comes with injury so don't sweat it lol I hope you get your computer situation sorted our real soon!

[daisygirl902]

Those favor boxes are adorable! I would use them for sure...they're great.

I have totally given up on being crafty...once in a while I get out all the scrapbook gear and give it a go, but that's the extent of it all these days...sigh.

[Sccrmnky2005]

I love everything so far!!! I love the cute mickey favor boxes!!! Those are sooo cute!!:)

Can't wait to hear more about your plans!

[pixiegirl]

Love your favor boxes. They are adorable. You did a great job!!! Congratulations on the sucessful crafting!!

[ChocoKat]

Ah! Those boxes are so cute!
I love!

Joining in a little late but I can't wait to hear all about your wonderful plans.
Congrats on getting your planner, it is so exciting, isn't it?

And about crafts and injuries... I burnt my index finger with super hot glue from the hot glue gun a week ago wedding crafting myself. It is my first wedding craft flesh wound, but I am sure there will be more to come, I am a klutz, so I feel your pain.

[MsEsty]

You should sell those boxes, I would be right up front to order them!

[jtanddolly]

The favor box is GREAT! And you said you aren't crafty. If you wanted to do something different and disney...you could even have your ring bearer carry it down the isle with your rings in it. I think it is that great.

[smileycrissy]

:rotfl: And you said you weren't crafty? :love: The favor box is beautiful!!! They are so amazing.

Would you mind posting instructions as to what you did for it?

[MomsOf2boys]

Hello! I am just now joining to follow your celebraton. My partner and I had a non-Disney ceremony 8 years ago but now that I have her Disney-ized we are thinking of a commitment ceremony renewal for our 10 year on DCL. So, I am starting my stalking ahem, I mean reading to get great ideas. I have a cricut and am not afraid to use it. :)

Anyway, congrats to you!

[girli565]

Your proposal was so adorable, I love that you still got your Disney proposal, so sweet.

I'm a bit late but welcome and happy planning. I'm also a DIY failure. If I cant buy it already made I will not attempt to make it myself. No way, lol.

[Groom Mickey]

So Sorry I have not responded but computer keeps giving problems but going to give it a shot today.

Those favor boxes are adorable! I would use them for sure...they're great.


I have totally given up on being crafty...once in a while I get out all the scrapbook gear and give it a go, but that's the extent of it all these days...sigh.
Thanks. If I use them I have to decide what to put into them. I should not be allowed to craft and I should be banned from Michaels. They keep selling me stuff. It is Michaels fault

I love everything so far!!! I love the cute mickey favor boxes!!! Those are sooo cute!!:)

Can't wait to hear more about your plans!

Love your favor boxes. They are adorable. You did a great job!!! Congratulations on the sucessful crafting!!

Ah! Those boxes are so cute!
I love!

Thank you all for commenting on the boxes. They have been my only semi success to date for wedding crafts.

Joining in a little late but I can't wait to hear all about your wonderful plans.
Congrats on getting your planner, it is so exciting, isn't it?

And about crafts and injuries... I burnt my index finger with super hot glue from the hot glue gun a week ago wedding crafting myself. It is my first wedding craft flesh wound, but I am sure there will be more to come, I am a klutz, so I feel your pain.

I understand the quote "no pain, no gain" and you can justify a hot glue gun accident (remember when you burn your fingers with a hot glue gun..... never put your finger in your mouth.... I am just saying .... not that I have ever done that :goodvibes). I, however, shold never have been using a butter knife for a craft... what was I thinking :confused3

You should sell those boxes, I would be right up front to order them!

Before you try to buy them I need to get the glitter to stay on in a more permanent manner. If a butterfly flaps its wings in the Magic Kingdom half of it will fall off :rotfl: Martha Stewart I am not.

:rotfl: And you said you weren't crafty? :love: The favor box is beautiful!!! They are so amazing.

Would you mind posting instructions as to what you did for it?

Once I can figure out how to get the glitter to stop falling off the boxes, and the ears on more secure,I will gladly post what I did. It was only a mockup to see if it could even be done.

The favor box is GREAT! And you said you aren't crafty. If you wanted to do something different and disney...you could even have your ring bearer carry it down the isle with your rings in it. I think it is that great.

I have three boys under the age of 7 not so certain I will trust them with the rings, but yes that is an adorable and a larger box could even be used with a small pillow in it. See everyone on this board has great ideas I would have never thought of. You are all the best. Oh shoot we still have to get rings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Groom Mickey]

So my partner and I are obviously not your typical couple and we face some different challenges to get married. First of all most states will not allow us to get married. These state include New York (where we live) and Florida. We plan on getting married in VT (only a few minutes away and where it is legal)before we head to Disney. We will be having only immediate family for the VT cremony. Disney is obviously where the Pomp and Circumstance will be,but, this is also only going to be close family and friends because of money restrictions. My father and sister have been asking what our plans were going to be for those we did not invite to Disney. Because Disney is a destination wedding I know alot of the Brides and Grooms on here have had a celebration party when they come home. Jeff and I were discussing it and if we do have a party it would be our third celebration. I like the idea of inviting our extended family to celebrate our commitment to each other, however, is a third celebration too much and does it look like we are just fishing for gifts? Thoughts?????????? Plus OMG do I have it in me to plan one more party? party:

[LuluLovesDisney]

I think in your situation, people should be more understanding since you NEED to go to specific places to get married. Maybe you could have an informal at home celebration rather than getting dressed up again, etc. I think if it is more like an open house, snacks, look at pictures event, it will be a lot easier. I know I didn't want to go through making new favors, new centerpieces, etc. type of event. It depends on what you want, though.

[smileycrissy]

I agree with Lulu, do an in-home party/celebration for those unable to attend (if you've got the space). I just think it'll make it easier on yourself. You could easily try to keep it in the Disney theme for the party, so those guests can feel as if they are included in your wedding celebration. I mean who says you can't continue the party at home? :)

Maybe even if you just make one or two extra of whatever little crafts you are making. Like the Mickey box, if you're making let's say 5 for the Disney wedding, it won't hurt to make two extra to keep at home to use to decorate the house. And you know you'll find lots of various stuff at Disney that you can use to decorate the place. I think this may make it a littler easier to plan a 3rd event.

[Belle2Be]

Wow what a day yesterday. Computer died two weeks ago, everything reinstalled and everything was looking good. DF forgot,however, to install some sort of spyware and now I am fighting 30 viruses on this thing. Tried to craft yesterday and stabbed myself with a butter knife and cut through 1/4 of my nail. Please, dont ask why I was doing a craft with a butter knife... bad decision. Last night I also had a dream that we got down to Disney for the wedding and found out we had no money and could not pay for it. I woke up in cold sweats last night. I have a feeling this dream may happen often However :lmao: .On a happier note it looks like we are going the first thing in October for our PS. Our STD's are still a work in progress but coming along . and I am happy enough with one craft that I am going to post a pic of it. Mine you this is only a trial sample. I thought I would look for some feedback though.

Man you are the Glitter King!(Queen? Not sure how that works LOL). I LOVE LOVE LOVE those for favor boxes!!! Are they going to be hard to make a ton of them?

Anyway (and BTW), I loved your engagement story and Mickey mouse chocolate posts, I'm looking forward to following your planning!

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/0813000956.jpg
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/0813000957.jpg

I was thinking I might be able to use them as wedding favors but not certain if they are cute enough or if Disney will allow me to use them.

Man you are the Glitter King!(Queen? Not sure how that works LOL). I LOVE LOVE LOVE those for favor boxes!!! Are they going to be hard to make a ton of them?

Anyway (and BTW), I loved your engagement story and Mickey mouse chocolate posts, I'm looking forward to following your planning!

[ChocoKat]

About the in-home reception I agree with the ladies that have replied before me. I think a third party would be sooo much stress, a get-together with snacks to show everybody photos, etc, sounds like a plan.

I went to an awesome engagement party a year ago, it was held in the backyard of the bride, they just strung some lights around for decor/lightning, got a bunch of folding tables with white table cloths and mason jars with flowers from the grocery store, the stereo from inside playing an ipod playlist, a bunch of snacks from Costco, a cake, and use mismatched chairs that they gathered from friends and family to give it a very informal yet incredibly cute garden party look.

We all felt it was just perfect and the bride and groom were sorely tempted to be married in the spot because it turned out so cute with such little hassle.

They also had soda and beer available and a friend that is a bartender had volunteered to put up a bar as a wedding present, so there was an open bar to boot.

It was a blast!

[PinkSleepingBeauty]

Hi, I'm a bit late but just wanted to join in and wish you all the best with your plans! We are planning for October 2011. Love your engagement story, so sweet :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

We have our planning session October 1st. Apparently the time we chose coincides with Mickey's Not So Scarey Halloween and Epcot Food and Wine Festival. We are DVC members and just bought 100 extra points at Bay Lake towers so we figured this was the best chance to use them this year. I called and tried booking a studio (kids staying with relatives) at Boardwalk. The cast member told me it was full. I figured no problem and told her to book anywhere but Saratoga (always end up there and wanted something new). She starts searching:

Bay Lake- full
Animal Kingdom-full

Thinking that is ok these are popular

Key West-full
Beach Club-full

I start thinking I am going to have to reschedule appointment

Wilderness Lode- full

I am never going to get in!!!!!

Saratoga....

No studio....but one bedroom available.

Thank goodness, but of course at Saratoga. Of course our flight gets in late so I am pretty certain our room will be at the farthest reaches of the resort. I am just happy we managed to get in. I was afraid we were not going to be able to get tickets for Mickeys not so scarey halloween because it was so hard to get a room. WE DID :cloud9: I guess because we are not going to have any kids this trip I am going to have to consider this our honeymoon :goodvibes

[smileycrissy]

Yay for being able to book something! :) Maybe you can call back in a week or two to see if anyone has cancelled their rooms in advance to see if you can escape Saratoga.

Yeah, I would turn that into a pre-honeymoon considering you have both the Food & Wine Festival & the Halloween party to celebrate. Are you going to dress up for the MNSSHP? I'm trying to convince DF for us to attend and dress up.

[pixiegirl]

I am so glad you were able to get a room somewhere!!! And get tickets to MNSSHP. It would be so fun to dress up and go!!

[Groom Mickey]

DF gave me my first wedding gift... ok I had to pay a price to get it but so worth it. Here is a picture.
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/0830001814a.jpg

We already have two dogs,two cats, fish, birds and a hermit crab so Jeff was not very happy when I mentioned getting another dalmatian. It tooks months of begging and pleading but he finally gave in (sort of). I was told that the cost of Jasper (puppies name) would have to come out of my floral budget. DONE. My bouncidng baby boy was picked up the very next day :rotfl: Flowers for wedding will only last a day but once the wedding is over I will still have a dalmatian waitng for me. I think I made the right choice even though I had to sleep on the floor last night.

[smileycrissy]

OMG, he is adorable! :love:

I agree with you, giving up the flowers is totally worth having him.

[pixiegirl]

He is so cute!! I agree with your logic on the flowers. If I was offered a Shih tzu puppy but it to come out of the flowers I would definitely say yes!!

[LuluLovesDisney]

Jasper! from 101 Dalmations! I love love love it!pluto:

[goofyfordisney16]

Just signing onto your planning journal now..congrats on your wedding! I love the Mickey Pops you made and also the Mickey favor boxes, they're sooooo cute!

Oh, and I've been BEGGING my fioncee for a dog like the one you just got, you're so lucky. Congrats! :cool1::cheer2:party:


(oh, and incase you were wondering, this is my 50th post on the threads. wohoo!)

[Groom Mickey]

So sorry I have not responded. Whenever I go to respond one of the boys or dogs is getting into something (go figure) and I had to battle a computer that no longer wanted to work. I believe if people are nice enough to post a response I should acknowledge them and let everone know how much I appreciate them. Thank you everyone and I hope to post soon enough some actual wedding stuff.




Man you are the Glitter King!(Queen? Not sure how that works LOL). I LOVE LOVE LOVE those for favor boxes!!! Are they going to be hard to make a ton of them?

Thank you so much and you may call me a Glitter Queen anytime. They are so much prettier.


[QUOTE=ChocoKat;37908891]About the in-home reception I agree with the ladies that have replied before me. I think a third party would be sooo much stress, a get-together with snacks to show everybody photos, etc, sounds like a plan.

I went to an awesome engagement party a year ago, it was held in the backyard of the bride, they just strung some lights around for decor/lightning, got a bunch of folding tables with white table cloths and mason jars with flowers from the grocery store, the stereo from inside playing an ipod playlist, a bunch of snacks from Costco, a cake, and use mismatched chairs that they gathered from friends and family to give it a very informal yet incredibly cute garden party look.

We all felt it was just perfect and the bride and groom were sorely tempted to be married in the spot because it turned out so cute with such little hassle.

They also had soda and beer available and a friend that is a bartender had volunteered to put up a bar as a wedding present, so there was an open bar to boot.

It was a blast!

I agree with both of you. A nice simple affair will be fun. A garden party... I like it. We will have to work on that.

Hi, I'm a bit late but just wanted to join in and wish you all the best with your plans! We are planning for October 2011. Love your engagement story, so sweet :goodvibes

Thank you so much for your well wishes. I hope you are not late because I feel like I have just started this thing. I have barely anything done and hope I still have time. Best wishes for your October plans :goodvibes


Yay for being able to book something! :) Maybe you can call back in a week or two to see if anyone has cancelled their rooms in advance to see if you can escape Saratoga.

Yeah, I would turn that into a pre-honeymoon considering you have both the Food & Wine Festival & the Halloween party to celebrate. Are you going to dress up for the MNSSHP? I'm trying to convince DF for us to attend and dress up.

I am so glad you were able to get a room somewhere!!! And get tickets to MNSSHP. It would be so fun to dress up and go!!

We both enjoy the Saratoga Resort just wanted something different this time. I am so excited about getting to see Disney during Halloween and can not wait. I will have to see about dressing up though.

OMG, he is adorable! :love:
I agree with you, giving up the flowers is totally worth having him.

He is so cute!! I agree with your logic on the flowers. If I was offered a Shih tzu puppy but it to come out of the flowers I would definitely say yes!!

apparently my color scheme has gone from navy and yellow to black and white. I wonder if this means we can bring him down for the wedding?????

Jasper! from 101 Dalmations! I love love love it!pluto:

If I had a prize you would win... you rock and are the first one to get the connection.

Just signing onto your planning journal now..congrats on your wedding! I love the Mickey Pops you made and also the Mickey favor boxes, they're sooooo cute!

Oh, and I've been BEGGING my fioncee for a dog like the one you just got, you're so lucky. Congrats! :cool1::cheer2:party:


(oh, and incase you were wondering, this is my 50th post on the threads. wohoo!)

Congrats on your 50th post... I am still having nightmares about those darn Mickey pops LOL. I have been unable to bring myself to make a second batch. I also still have to start working on those Mickey favors and welcome stuff. Oh where does the time go?

Just remember when you hear Dalmatians are hyper- active they are! I love them and would not have them any other way.

[LuvLuvLuv]

i'm joining in!!

[starann]

Followed you over from the GLBT Board.


Congrats on your engagement!

As far as the money pit of a wedding........it will stop eventually, but the money pit of 3 boys WILL NEVER STOP!!!!!!!! (I have 2 boys, ages 5 and 6) From what I hear, the teen years they will eat you out of house and home!

Congrats on your puppy!!!!!!!!!!! I had a dalmatian growing up, Sparky, DH had 2, Brooklyn and Tiller (DH is a fireman).............so when we met guess what we got...............a dalmatian (actually he is a mix, mom was dal, dad was Australian Shepard).................he is the BADDEST thing on 4 legs!!!! Thank goodness for him he is so darn cute!!!!!


I'll be in WDW Sept 25 to Oct 4!!!!!!!!!!!! So maybe one night we may 'see' each other!! LOL!

[brer rabbit 28]

Just catching up a little late here.

I love all your plans and your Mickey Pops saga made me laugh out loud. I feel your pain with the DIY stuff. I am currently trying to teach myself how to make a wedding cake for our at home party, not to mention the 150 cupcakes, table centres, bunting ....and on it goes!

Looking forward to following along with you in your planning.

[smileycrissy]

I love the black & white/dalmation theme for the wedding. It sounds really adorable. Could you imagine if you could get him to be your ring bearer. How cute would that be!!:lovestruc

[Groom Mickey]

I am feeling the urge to start working on our welcome "bags" tomorrow. What could possibly go wrong? I will keep you posted.

[jtanddolly]

I am feeling the urge to start working on our welcome "bags" tomorrow. What could possibly go wrong? I will keep you posted.

If you are looking for ideas...check out this thread...it has a HUGE list of practically all the possibilities for things to put in a welcome bag:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1226681

Also, check out Joanne's (tinkerbell 766) thread. She has ideas for cute gift tags if you want to go the disney character route. Or you could use your monogram for the gift tags. I like choosing 3 monograms/logos that are similar in style and with the same colors to tie them all together and use them on different things. i.e. one for a wine bottle tag, one for a gift tag for the bag, another for a water bottle label, etc. Check out this thread post #212 will give you an idea for how to mix and match:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2417602&page=15

I LOVE putting together welcome bags and favors!

[Groom Mickey]

I love the black & white/dalmation theme for the wedding. It sounds really adorable. Could you imagine if you could get him to be your ring bearer. How cute would that be!!:lovestruc

That would be amazing. :goodvibes He is a dalmatian though and they are very different from the movie.

[QUOTE=jtanddolly;38089590]If you are looking for ideas...check out this thread...it has a HUGE list of practically all the possibilities for things to put in a welcome bag:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1226681

Thanks Dolly that list is going to be a huge help.

[hematite153]

I followed you over from your post on the G&L Board. Thanks for an entertaining read so far. I likely won't post much, but, will enjoy laughing along.

I also think a dalmatian was a better choice than more flowers.

So my partner and I are obviously not your typical couple and we face some different challenges to get married. First of all most states will not allow us to get married. These state include New York (where we live) and Florida. We plan on getting married in VT (only a few minutes away and where it is legal)before we head to Disney.

Does NY recognize you as married once you get married in VT?

I'm asking because there was a case in the NY State Supreme Court that said they need to recognize as legal marriages performed in Canada. I haven't followed these things closely, but, there was a brief tourism surge right afterward. I thought I'd mention it just in case it makes a difference for you.

I have to say that although you may not be a typical couple you sound like an awfully giving couple. We are also foster parents and it's a lot of work and commitment and you really need a strong bond with each other to support each other through the stress.

Enjoy the planning!

[Groom Mickey]

I followed you over from your post on the G&L Board. Thanks for an entertaining read so far. I likely won't post much, but, will enjoy laughing along.

I also think a dalmatian was a better choice than more flowers.



Does NY recognize you as married once you get married in VT?

I'm asking because there was a case in the NY State Supreme Court that said they need to recognize as legal marriages performed in Canada. I haven't followed these things closely, but, there was a brief tourism surge right afterward. I thought I'd mention it just in case it makes a difference for you.

I have to say that although you may not be a typical couple you sound like an awfully giving couple. We are also foster parents and it's a lot of work and commitment and you really need a strong bond with each other to support each other through the stress.

Enjoy the planning!

Thanks we are having fun with the planning,we shall see as it get closer :goodvibes. Thank you for the information, that was nice of you. New York is bizzare, they kind of recognize marriage, but is nowhere (that I am aware of) to register it. It basically allows me to see my parter in the hospital etc but nothing formal yet. I just find it bizzare that they will allow us to adopt but not marry??? That is ok they will someday. Until then whenever we go to VT we will be married and when we come home we are single again :lmao: (in NY that is ). You don't get that with traditional marriage :lmao:
Bless you for doing foster care. It is one of the hardest things we have done but so glad we can. It is great to see a child who has had a rough start in life find a loving family who will take care of them always. It is hard though to let them go but so the right thing to do. We both love it.

[hematite153]

Bless you for doing foster care. It is one of the hardest things we have done but so glad we can. It is great to see a child who has had a rough start in life find a loving family who will take care of them always. It is hard though to let them go but so the right thing to do. We both love it.

And you! We've only had teens so far and so we've gotten to see how pervasive the trauma can become when a child didn't get that early intervention and loving family. It is so important for there to be people willing to love them and then let them go so that they can have those opportunities. Keep up the good work!

(And, enjoy your multiple weddings!)

[Groom Mickey]

I have a dilemma! I need some advice. We have our planning session Oct 1 and our tasting has been scheduled for 2:30 but Randy Chapman can only meet us at 3:00n to discuss the photos. Obviously something has to go. Which oh which shall I chose? Tasting food (yum) how can you go wrong. However, we are doing brunch and how can Disney go wrong with breakfast food. Meeting with Randy would mean he would get a feel for us as a couple before the wedding and would give us a better understanding of what to expect from him. My theory is the pictures will last forever but the food is a here and now kind of thing. Food is easily forgotten (unless you get food poisoning like I did at a cousins wedding... you try to forget that food). The only thing I want to change on the menu is an addition of Mickey waffles ( I love those waffles). Do you think I need to taste brunch food or can I let it go? Let me know what you think.

[erin.w]

You can't change your menu tasting to another day? Or another time of day?

[jtanddolly]

I'm with Erin...you shouldn't have to choose between the two. If the photographer can only do it at 3:00...as much as Disney is getting paid...your coordinator should be able to find a different time for the tasting.

[KitKat5]

I agree with jtanddolly and erin...surley Disney can rearrange your tasting? Dont they know that you're the glitter queen?! ;) I have to say though, if they are really going to make you choose...I'd say meet the photographer. You're so right, you'll have these photos forever, the food is just for one day (and I've never had a brunch at Disney that hasnt been amazing!)

Im a UK bride and couldnt fly over for our PS or for a food tasting so Im doing everything over the phone and via email and Im totally ok with that! Im sure our food will be great whether I get to taste it before or not!

By the way, Im totally loving your PJ and cannot wait to read more!! :)

[Hayley94]

Oh Jasper is absolutely beautiful! I think I just fell in love a little bit! plus I loooooove the glitter favour boxes - very proffesional looking!

[Groom Mickey]

This is sort of kinda related to the wedding. Since we are going to Mickeys Not So Scarey Halloween I thought I would post a picture. I know we all love pictures and I have been limited on them:
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/downsized_0915000841a.jpg
Since we are flying I decided not to go with any bulky Halloween costumes, but we did want to get into the Halloween mood. I still have one more to make.
Hopefully soon I will have more "wedding" stuff to post. It has been a madhouse this summer. My focus was surviving until fall when the boys would finally go back to school. I "MADE IT!!!!!". Right now the focus is getting the house back in order and lots of :laundy:.

[Groom Mickey]

I think my theme is Martha Stewart meets Mickey Mouse in a vintage garden. Here are some cakes I like.
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/a99873_spr03_rosec_l.jpg
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwa103873_sum08_pansy_xl.jpg
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwa103873_sum08_emboss_xl.jpg


How fun would this one be with mickey confetti
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwd105009_fall09_wedck_006_xl.jpg

This is my favorite

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwd105426_spr10_rose4a_xl.jpg

[brer rabbit 28]

Gorgeous cakes. The last two are my favourites. Very stylish looking.

[2nd Time Bride]

I think my theme is Martha Stewart meets Mickey Mouse in a vintage garden. Here are some cakes I like.
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/a99873_spr03_rosec_l.jpg
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwa103873_sum08_pansy_xl.jpg
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwa103873_sum08_emboss_xl.jpg


How fun would this one be with mickey confetti
http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwd105009_fall09_wedck_006_xl.jpg

This is my favorite

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/Planning%20Journal/mwd105426_spr10_rose4a_xl.jpg

Just found your PJ and of course, am reading it backwards! LOVE your favorite cake, it's amazing! Were you able to reschedule your tasting? I hope so because I agree with the other posts, you should be able to do both! Although the brunch food is always good, don't you want to taste the cakes? Yum! :)

[Groom Mickey]

You can't change your menu tasting to another day? Or another time of day?

I'm with Erin...you shouldn't have to choose between the two. If the photographer can only do it at 3:00...as much as Disney is getting paid...your coordinator should be able to find a different time for the tasting.

I agree with jtanddolly and erin...surley Disney can rearrange your tasting? Dont they know that you're the glitter queen?! ;) I have to say though, if they are really going to make you choose...I'd say meet the photographer. You're so right, you'll have these photos forever, the food is just for one day (and I've never had a brunch at Disney that hasnt been amazing!)

Im a UK bride and couldnt fly over for our PS or for a food tasting so Im doing everything over the phone and via email and Im totally ok with that! Im sure our food will be great whether I get to taste it before or not
By the way, Im totally loving your PJ and cannot wait to read more!! :)

Thank you. I am afraid it is becoming a bit dull. I hope not. My next craft project will probably solve that problem. I just do not want to lose a limb.Thanks so much for the suggestions. For some reason I DID NOT EVEN THINK to change the time. I blame the kids. I swear they take brain cells,whenever the stand next to you, through osmosis. A quick email to Diane resolved the problem and we have now scheduled everything.

Oh Jasper is absolutely beautiful! I think I just fell in love a little bit! plus I loooooove the glitter favour boxes - very proffesional looking!

I think Jasper is adorable too. He is getting cuter by the day. Thanks about the boxes. I just hope I can find a way to keep the glitter on. Whenever you touch them they rain glitter. Glad they look good in pictures though.

[hematite153]

\I just hope I can find a way to keep the glitter on. Whenever you touch them they rain glitter. Glad they look good in pictures though.

Could you coat them with nail polish? (And, if that works on one, can you come up with something similar but faster? I seem to recall something along the lines of watered down white glue creating a clear top coat.)

[Princess Dahlia]

Just signing into your blog... I love your favorite cake. Have you thought about putting some hidden mickeys in it?

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[jtanddolly]

Thanks about the boxes. I just hope I can find a way to keep the glitter on. Whenever you touch them they rain glitter. Glad they look good in pictures though.

Go to Michaels or Hobby Lobby and ask them what they would recommend...there is bound to be a product that will seal the glitter...I would buy one bottle/can and try it out to ensure that you don't loose the sparkle. It seems like a shallack (spelling?), decoupage...something would be able to seal it so that the glitter doesn't "rain" off without loosing the sparkle. If there is a spray on product...that would be easier than trying to paint something on and loosing a bunch of the glitter in the process.

And you say you aren't crafty...but I think I read that you had one more mask to make for MNSSHP...you are definitely the glitter queen...if you can do that...you can make printables for your wedding!!!

One last thing...I love the last cake...and having hidden mickey's in it would make it perfect.

[Groom Mickey]

All I wanted today was a lunch date and some time to talk to DF. It is amazing how much easier it is to carry a conversation without three boys trying anything to get your attention (hollering, throwing a brother, building a swamp in the bathroom etc...). We talked mostly about our trip to Disney coming up in 12 days and working out the details of our planning session. Jeff wants to try to catch up on some sleep and I am going for DISNEY! I have already informed him that I will be in the parks every day and that he is more than welcome to catch up on his sleep. The only day he is required to get up is the day of our planning session.
We also met up today to go look at rings. Now up to this point niether one of us has really discussed what we wanted or had even looked at anything until we went into the jewelry store today. It was a tad akward becuase as you all know we are a gay couple. While we are not ashamed of it we try to keep kind low key. Oh who am I kidding, there is nothing low key about me, Jeff had been sorta, kinda, in the closet with family, friends, and co-workers until he met me (they had been wondering). However, once he started introducing me to everyone his closet door was thrown WIDE open with me throwing glitter everywhere :lmao: There was no more wondering about Jeff anymore.

It is always a bit akward though when you are a gay couple in Upstate New York and you introduce yourself. You are never certain how people will react. We told the guy we were looking for rings and waited for his reaction. There was not even a pause and he started showing us rings. In todays economy there shouldn't be any pause. We started off looking at this new space age stuff that does not scratch or break (betcha if I gave it to my five yr. old he would could). It just didn't look right us. When we started off I though I was going to like the white gold but when we tried them it looked mhhhh. So next we tried a classic yellow gold band and for some reason it just felt right. We put our order right there. Mens rings are not as much fun as womens rings but we did add something special to them. In a few weeks we will have bands and when they come I will have to take a picture. I was so dazed today that I forget to even take a pic to share with everyone. I just thought we were window shopping today and did not plan to order them today. OMG it has just hit me today that we are planning our wedding. It just feels so bizzare and foreign but felt so perfect today.

[DisneyGirl4188]

However, once he started introducing me to everyone his closet door was thrown WIDE open with me throwing glitter everywhere :lmao: There was no more wondering about Jeff anymore.



BEST line ever! I literally LOL! :rotfl:

I love your plans and those Mickey boxes are adorable!

My favorite cake is the fourth one.

[smileycrissy]

OMG, I so love reading your posts! :rotfl: You always make me chuckle. Your DF is so lucky to have such a funny person.

I can't wait to see the rings.

I love the masks, simple but not so simple, and of course very easy to travel with. See you are very crafty. :)

The cakes are beautiful. I love the last one too, what color(s) did you think of putting in there?

Yay, you're almost on vacation/planning/tasting!:banana::dance3::woohoo::cool1:

[rpmdfw]

We told the guy we were looking for rings and waited for his reaction. There was not even a pause and he started showing us rings. In todays economy there shouldn't be any pause.

Regardless of the economy, there shouldn't be any pause. If a store wants your money for a major purchase, they should treat you with respect.:thumbsup2

I know what you mean,though. It was a bit awkward for us, too. Especially when we said "we'd like to look at wedding rings, please" and the standard response was "which one of you is engaged?" :rolleyes: We ended up getting ours online.

Congrats on ordering your rings, though! How exciting! And you're planning session is coming up. How fun!

I love reading your posts!

[FutureMrs.B]

Hi! I just found your pj so I'm joining in. Better late than never. I'm loving all your plans so far. I thought your proposal was so perfect. You did get your disney proposal. Maybe not how you expected but you got it. Damn wishing you always have to be so damn specific. :lmao: We also hired Randy to do our photography. I will be looking forward to see your pics. Also for someone who says they're not that good with the DIY your things come out amazing. I luved those mickey favor boxes! :lovestruc Also I'm probably going to be down there for my planning session around the time of your wedding. I'm looking forward to reading more. :surfweb:

[hematite153]

we said "we'd like to look at wedding rings, please" and the standard response was "which one of you is engaged?"

We got a sort of weird, "okay, which of you would like the "woman's ring" and which would like the "man's ring."" It wasn't actually said that way, but, it was clear that they expected one of us to buy a girly looking ring and one to buy a manly looking ring.

We gave up on looking for rings in the stores and just started talking about what we wanted. Once we'd figured out what we wanted we went looking for someone willing to make it -- we also ended up ordering online.

GM -- I'm glad you had a better experience than we did and that you found the right rings so quickly.

[Groom Mickey]

It has been to long since I have posted. We are off today to fly down to Florida. It is rain, rain, rain here. Hopefully once we get to Disney World the sun will start to shine. I will try to update and take pictures. I will let everyone know how everything turns out. I am hoping we will finally nail down a vison of our wedding and get some things FINALLY planned.

[2nd Time Bride]

It has been to long since I have posted. We are off today to fly down to Florida. It is rain, rain, rain here. Hopefully once we get to Disney World the sun will start to shine. I will try to update and take pictures. I will let everyone know how everything turns out. I am hoping we will finally nail down a vison of our wedding and get some things FINALLY planned.

Wishing you a safe trip and lots of pixie dust for your planning session! Oh - and hopefully some sunshine!! :wizard:

[Groom Mickey]

We are back from our panning session... it was so much fun. Lets just say I dreamed David Teutera style on an escape budget. We got our BEO from Elizabeth (florist) today. I am waiting for Jeff to come home and open it. I do believe it is going to take a couple glasses of wine to deal with it. I have a feeling we are going to cutting,cutting, cutting. I will update tomorrow after we dare to open. I still have to post about our planning session. It will come this week.


Update......... we are at 3,000. We have to see the rest of the budget, but not bad so far.

[Groom Mickey]

I have been hoarding soda bottles for the last year. I think it is about time to retun themtoday. I have a huge collection sitting in my garage... barely can walk through it. Jeff has been trying to throw them out because I have not returned them. I know he has slipped some past me, but, anytime I see one he has thrown out, I go into rescue misson and retrieve it from the garbage and store it in the garage. Every nickel helps!

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It looks like there might be a few nickels here. My grand total came to $18.45. Maybe enough for one wedding favor...except I would have to decide on them.

P.S. The mess is in the garage and the rest of my house is much cleaner ( I swear)

[smileycrissy]

I agree that every nickel counts, especially since you have the wedding in Vermont, the Disney ceremony, and something at home. :) Can't wait to hear how much you saved by holding onto the bottles. :goodvibes

[HAVOKROTTS]

Hi

[Groom Mickey]

I am thinking of doing something sassy with my hair. Here it is now.
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Back

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Front
I am thinking some of these might work.

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Do you think I can grow it out in time?

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To much like Marge Simpson?

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To Drag Queen?

I am not certain if any of these will work but I am keeping my options open.:lmao:

[smileycrissy]

OMG! I love your sense of humor! :lmao:

I'm voting for the Marge Simpson. :thumbsup2

[HAVOKROTTS]

Hey Smiley Crissy, you're not interested in saying hi.

[tinkerbell 766]

I like the third one!!! :rotfl2:
I really enjoy your posts!!! They really cheer me up.
What time is your ceremony at SBP? As I said earlier in your PJ, I will still be in WDW for your ceremony and would love to come and be nosey (perhaps meet you both). I will look out for the man with the drag queen hairstyle!!!:lmao:

[Groom Mickey]

hi

[bambi0921]

I just discovered your PJ today. I've been reading it at work (very bad, I know) and trying hard not to giggle out loud and give myself away. I am excited about following along with your plans. :yay:

PS, definitely go with the Marge Simpson hair. That's totally fabulous. ;)

[brer rabbit 28]

Love the Marge do. Are you planning on going the whole hog and adding the face bling too?!!:rotfl:

[Groom Mickey]

So here are the save the dates created by Shelley at Impressions We met during our planning session and let me just say we love her and can not wait for the invitations. Shelley listened to both mine and Jeff's ideas and I think she is going to create something great.

The Save the dates are simple but I think they are perfect, plus my sister reads these reports so now I don't have to spend the money to send her one. She can just read it and save us the cost of postage. Every penny counts!


Tina and Angela:
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[erin.w]

love them!

[Groom Mickey]

OMG! I love your sense of humor! :lmao:

I'm voting for the Marge Simpson. :thumbsup2

One of my boys could give Bart a run for his money... if I go with the Marge updue I hope that means Jeff does not turn out to be like Homer.

I like the third one!!! :rotfl2:
I really enjoy your posts!!! They really cheer me up.
What time is your ceremony at SBP? As I said earlier in your PJ, I will still be in WDW for your ceremony and would love to come and be nosey (perhaps meet you both). I will look out for the man with the drag queen hairstyle!!!:lmao:

I am glad you are enjoying them. I have not been updating as much as I should. Stop on by and be nosey. Ceremony is at 10. I was actually thinking of your ceremony during our planning session and we stopped at the Swan. Your ceremony is going to be gorgeous. I did not think I would like the Swan as much as I did... Drag is forbidden for me though LOL it is not pretty. I will have to find the picture. It is scarey!!!!

I just discovered your PJ today. I've been reading it at work (very bad, I know) and trying hard not to giggle out loud and give myself away. I am excited about following along with your plans. :yay:


PS, definitely go with the Marge Simpson hair. That's totally fabulous. ;)

I am glad you are enjoying the post and thank you for following.

Love the Marge do. Are you planning on going the whole hog and adding the face bling too?!!:rotfl:

The Marge do seems to be winning.... if I go with the face bling don't you think it would be the perfect place to add a hidden Mickey.:wizard:

[Groom Mickey]

It is a cold rainy day today and I figure today is just as good of a day to start writing about the planning session/ honeymoon. You may be asking what is a planning session/honeymoon? A planning session/honeymoon is what happens when you and your future husband get a once in a lifetime chance to be away from thier children for four days in Disney World. When we get married we obviously will have the kids and since no one has offered to take the kids for the rest of the time we are at Disney( hint, hint) we combined our planning session and honeymoon into one. As I said from the start we are a non-traditional couple. We first sarted with the house, then the kids, the marriage. We just don't seem to like to do things in a typical "straight" linear fashion so I figure why break from tradition now.

We left for Disney September 30th and flew out of Albany, on a cold rainy day. Similar to today.


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It was typical running around, dropping of dogs, finish packing, trying to pick up the house... all those last minute things that need to be done before a trip. We arrived at the airport in plenty of time and had a non-eventul fligt (except for some turbulence). The only problem was our flight was an afternoon flight and we arrived in Florida late in the evening.
By the time we located our luggage, Mickeys magical express (which is not clearly marked in Orlando airport) and got to Saratoga Resort it was past eight. At this point in time I was tired, hungry and deaf.Deaf???? Both Jeff and I were just getting over head colds (gifts from the boys) and the pressure from the flight had left both mine and Jeffs ears completly plugged. We were like my father without his hearing aid. We could hear nothing. I looked like a total lunatic trying everything to unplug my ears. A trick that normally works is either yawning or cracking my jaw (nothing worked) So there I am from the airport to the resort moving my lower jaw up and down, side to side... and random yawning. I know I looked deranged. :laughing:

All of this led up to what was about to happen when we checked in at Saratoga Resort.... more to come later.


Editor Note. As has been established I do not do things in a straight linear fashion I will be adding picture,checking spelling and editing this and future post as we go along.

[Sccrmnky2005]

I love :love: the STD's!! What a great wonderful Idea to tie in the disney theme:goodvibes

[smileycrissy]

The STD's are awesome. Such a great idea. I can't wait to see what she does for your invites.

I may just have to join Tinkerbelle 766 and stand around in the background as a groupie. :rotfl: (I live not too far away from Disney).

[Groom Mickey]

I love :love: the STD's!! What a great wonderful Idea to tie in the disney theme:goodvibes

Thank you so much. You have to have a Disney theme if you are getting married at Disney. At least for us we do. I just wanted you to know that I have been following you PJ and impressed with all you have completed. Plus I am in love with all of your sparkle and bling. Your plans are fabulous.
The STD's are awesome. Such a great idea. I can't wait to see what she does for your invites.

I may just have to join Tinkerbelle 766 and stand around in the background as a groupie. :rotfl: (I live not too far away from Disney).

The more the merrier. We projected our guest list at 30 but Jeff's mother, sister and brother have already Strongly indicated that they will not be joining us for the celebration. On top of that I am insisting on a three tier cake. A two tier to me just looks like a birthday cake and I wanted something with mass. Lets just say we are going to have plenty of cake. Also with the reception I am required to have a minimum and not certain if my guest list is going to meet it, so we are going to have to pay for people to eat who are not there. So my gut tells me I am going to have plenty to go around and probably no sneaking in the background will be required. I know I could have gone with an escape package, but I am to much of a Diva and wanted (needed) choices. So who know maybe we will see you there. Plus wedding crashers could make my TR much more interesting.

[Groom Mickey]

I may just have to join Tinkerbelle 766 and stand around in the background as a groupie. :rotfl: (I live not too far away from Disney).

You just gave me an idea.... might have to make t-shirts for guest (cause we are only going to have 10...and five of them is my family) that say something like McMorris-Lawless wedding groupies and of course there will have to be glitter... I wonder if Dolly can work something up. I am going to have to check. I have always wanted groupies :yay:

[Groom Mickey]

I know today is a random day with random posting and I still have to finsih Day 1 of our planning session but I think my sister decided on MOH dress. originally I was going for a Disney Maidens dress in the Belle series, but leave it to Disney to change designers so it is no longer available. Here is a close second and I think she likes it. She has done all the work and found it.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/1022_25649_large.jpg

we shall see what happens with this.

[bambi0921]

Ooooh, the dress is so pretty! Understated, but very classy. Will it be in the purple? I love and had planned to use purple as one of my wedding colors but who knows what I'll end up doing at this point. I've changed my mind regarding various wedding details about a dozen times just today. :rolleyes1

Things are looking great so far. You should definitely make groupie tees. Imagine how awesome that would be for a photo opp!!! :love:

[tinkerbell 766]

Thank you so much. You have to have a Disney theme if you are getting married at Disney. At least for us we do. I just wanted you to know that I have been following you PJ and impressed with all you have completed. Plus I am in love with all of your sparkle and bling. Your plans are fabulous.


The more the merrier. We projected our guest list at 30 but Jeff's mother, sister and brother have already Strongly indicated that they will not be joining us for the celebration. On top of that I am insisting on a three tier cake. A two tier to me just looks like a birthday cake and I wanted something with mass. Lets just say we are going to have plenty of cake. Also with the reception I am required to have a minimum and not certain if my guest list is going to meet it, so we are going to have to pay for people to eat who are not there. So my gut tells me I am going to have plenty to go around and probably no sneaking in the background will be required. I know I could have gone with an escape package, but I am to much of a Diva and wanted (needed) choices. So who know maybe we will see you there. Plus wedding crashers could make my TR much more interesting.

I'll be there!! I love cake!!:lmao:

[daisygirl902]

I think my theme is Martha Stewart meets Mickey Mouse in a vintage garden.


I just caught up on your PJ - I literally cracked up loudly at my desk (yes, I'm at work) at the visual that the above statement created in my head. You are too funny.

Love the MOH dress, it's very similar in style to the one my MOH wore, except my wedding was all obnoxiously bright colors :)

Randy is so awesome - he's laid back, professional, and fun to deal with....and a GENIUS at his craft.

[smileycrissy]

The more the merrier. We projected our guest list at 30 but Jeff's mother, sister and brother have already Strongly indicated that they will not be joining us for the celebration. On top of that I am insisting on a three tier cake. A two tier to me just looks like a birthday cake and I wanted something with mass. Lets just say we are going to have plenty of cake. Also with the reception I am required to have a minimum and not certain if my guest list is going to meet it, so we are going to have to pay for people to eat who are not there. So my gut tells me I am going to have plenty to go around and probably no sneaking in the background will be required. I know I could have gone with an escape package, but I am to much of a Diva and wanted (needed) choices. So who know maybe we will see you there. Plus wedding crashers could make my TR much more interesting.

Oh such a bummer that his family won't be coming.

I'm marking your date in my calendar so that if I'm still free (currently unemployed but enjoying it), I'll head over to come support you/crash the wedding. See that, I can save you the money of hiring the wedding crashers from Disney. ;)

I'll have to check out the cake - can't resist seeing your Martha Stewart meeting Mickey in vintage garden and glitter all over. :lmao:

I like the idea of the glittery 'Groupie' t-shirts for your guests. That will make for some really awesome photos. :)

[smileycrissy]

Oh and I forgot to mention, I love the MOH dress and color. :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

I'll be there!! I love cake!!:lmao:

I will let you know what the flavors of cake are to see if you wanna come over and visit. bottom layer: chocolate and baileys, middle layer:yellow cake and orange,top layer: yellow with rasberry.

[Groom Mickey]

I have been saving money for the past couple of months and putting it in a jar on the counter. I decorated it in a wedding theme and had been putting spare change, bottle money, and any extra cash that I had (we all know that is hard to come by). The rule is that once it goes in the wedding jar it does not come out.

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My sad empty jar


Now I sorta believe in Karma, but I am starting to doubt. I am the type of person that really will give my friends something of mine if they need it. I gave my friend a car and gave her money for her flight to England to she could meet her online bf/ now husband. Jeff helped out a friend who ended up with a DWI at no charge. Nor did I ask for money from my friend. You never give money to friends and expect it back. If it comes back well all the better. I would never lose a friendship over money. However, today I started to count my jar,because wedding bands are in, to see what we had. My friend had given me money for the car so I put $100 in the jar and the rest in the bank. Guess what was not in the jar... a $100 bill. My house is not open to just anyone. The only people who come over are close family and friends. This means that one of them came into my home and stole from me. I did not spend it and double checked with Jeff and he didn't either (although I did find out there were less 20's because he had raided a couple of times.) I am just sad that someone took from me when we would have given it if we had it. The jar remains on the counter but only change and some small bills (just in case people want to donate) and the rest has to be hidden away. In all honesty Jeff told me not to keep it on the counter, but it made me excited to see the money build up, and I never thought anyone would take from it. I was wrong:sad2:

[mjshorses]

Hi, I just came across your PJ and I'm addicted! I love your plans so far and I can't wait to see more. I think if you ever decide to give up the DIY projects completely you should take up writing and become an author because I was literally doubled over with laughter while reading your post...and let me just say, for the record, I wasn't laughing at you, I was laughing with you?? ;)

I'm very sorry about the missing money. I can't believe someone would do that. Maybe their conscience (or Jiminy Cricket, if he's free from that wooden boy with the abnormally large nose) will get the better of them and they'll confess as well as replace the money that was taken with interest.

[tinkerbell 766]

OMG this is so sad!!:sad2:
Are you absoluely sure that you have not had any workmen or delivery men in the house recently (or has Jeff). I find it so cruel to believe that somebody could steal from an obviously lovely, kind person. It makes me so sad!!

[Belle2Be]

I have been saving money for the past couple of months and putting it in a jar on the counter. I decorated it in a wedding theme and had been putting spare change, bottle money, and any extra cash that I had (we all know that is hard to come by). The rule is that once it goes in the wedding jar it does not come out.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/1022002014.jpg

My sad empty jar


Now I sorta believe in Karma, but I am starting to doubt. I am the type of person that really will give my friends something of mine if they need it. I gave my friend a car and gave her money for her flight to England to she could meet her online bf/ now husband. Jeff helped out a friend who ended up with a DWI at no charge. Nor did I ask for money from my friend. You never give money to friends and expect it back. If it comes back well all the better. I would never lose a friendship over money. However, today I started to count my jar,because wedding bands are in, to see what we had. My friend had given me money for the car so I put $100 in the jar and the rest in the bank. Guess what was not in the jar... a $100 bill. My house is not open to just anyone. The only people who come over are close family and friends. This means that one of them came into my home and stole from me. I did not spend it and double checked with Jeff and he didn't either (although I did find out there were less 20's because he had raided a couple of times.) I am just sad that someone took from me when we would have given it if we had it. The jar remains on the counter but only change and some small bills (just in case people want to donate) and the rest has to be hidden away. In all honesty Jeff told me not to keep it on the counter, but it made me excited to see the money build up, and I never thought anyone would take from it. I was wrong:sad2:
Aw man that is so messed up!!! :sad2::sad1::headache::hug:
But...
I do see a Hidden Mickey in your change jar which is pretty cool! :woohoo:

[DoomBuggy0922]

Just jumping onto your thread now--- I love you guys! Jasper is so adorable, and I'm so sorry about the stolen money!

[hematite153]

I'm sorry both that Jeff's family won't be there and that the wedding jar has been stolen from.

I think it's great that you're thinking of groupie shirts and are welcoming crashers.

[Petals & Pixie Dust]

Finally got to stop in! I love it all...your engagement story...those super cute boxes! I love it! Can't wait to read more!!!

[smileycrissy]

What a bummer. I am so sorry to hear that money was stolen from your bottle. Don't give up on karma, I am sure that you will find some good fortune just around the corner for all the good deeds you've done. :)

(Sorry its the optimistic in me always trying to see good - hence the screen name). :rotfl:

[chaoscent]

I am sorry to hear about the money, that is sad. Also, It is unfortunate (and their loss) that Jeff's family won't be there. May 10th is my birthday so if I can swing myself a birthday visit? I will be another groupie. Dolly is very talented and I am sure she will "whip" something right up. I am enjoying your planning thread. :thumbsup2Penny:hippie:

[smileycrissy]

Just stopping in to say I'm due for a chuckle or two from you. ;) :lmao:

Hope all is going well, I know you are probably busy with the boys, etc.

[Groom Mickey]

Just a quick update. Today is the 180 day mark. OMG only six more months to go and I have to have this wedding paid for. I am still seeking donations but have not had any takers yet :goodvibes My sister (bless her) is on top of it and got our dinner reservations booked.

Saturday: The kids go to 1900 Park Fare and the Daddies get to go to Jiko (went there for the planning session and had a great time... ask for Mary...she was an amazing server) and the food was great.

Sunday:Breakfast Tusker House, We went as a last minute substitue during the planning session in October and had a great time. It is busy but the food was good (Banana Bread pudding was out of this world) and the service was amazing. (look out for jackquie (sp) she was great) Even though its a character breakfast I am so excited to see Mickey in his safari outfit. We always go to Chef Mickey for character meals but I am starting to get a little bored of the same pictures of Mickey in his Chef outfit with the boys.

Dinner
Le Cellier, one of the most coveted seats to get... cheddar cheese soup here we come.

Monday: Coral Reef. This is the third attempt at going to Coral Reef. The first time we were in a different park and just could not get there. The second time had to give the reservation up because four year old had HUGE,HUGE,HUGE meltdown. As we walked out people who did not have children gave me the LOOK "what is wrong with your child and parenting skills" The people with kids gave me the subtle smile and head nod that said "been there doen that and glad not my kid today". Even though reviews are mixed can't wait. Hopefully Mickey Mouse might swim bycongratulating us, as it is our rehersal dinner.
Who knows maybe the third time will be the charm.

Tuesday: WEDDING DAY. Dinner and dessert are on us. (Will tell you our choices later. It is a surprise)

Wednesday: Liberty Tree Tavern. A Thanksgiving type family style dinner. It just sounds like fun and in the MKI will be off the diet by then. Bring on the food!

Thursday: Via Napoli. Picked by my sister but since she is watching the boys one night and taking them to 1900 Park Fare so we can eat at Jiko she get a pick. Italian food, how do you go wrong.

Friday: The Last Day

Breakfast 1900 Park Fare. We are going back again! The characters are different from dinner so the kids won't be bored plus we are really going for ME. I want to see Alice in Wonderland and Mary Poppins! What a practically perfect way to end our stay at Disney World!

Dinner
O'Hana, I have noticed alot of Disney Brides doing O'Hans as their rehersal dinner but what a fun last meal. Grilled meat on a spit and family style. What more can you ask for. Lets just skip the Hula and bring on the piles of food.

As I write this post I am like Pavlov's dog. I am salivating just thinking about dinner at WDW. I am also on my Disney wedding diet and I am HUNGRY, but I do not want to look like Rolly Polly Ollie on the day of the wedding.

[JuliBells]

I absolutely adore the choices you have made!!!!!!:goodvibes
I can't wait to hear more!!:banana:

[Groom Mickey]

Just stopping in to say I'm due for a chuckle or two from you. ;) :lmao:

Hope all is going well, I know you are probably busy with the boys, etc.

Thanks for checking in. It is nice to know there is someone out there is interested. We are + one foster child and he is home with me all day so time has been limited on posting, but I will try to be better.

[hematite153]

Sounds like great plans!

We are + one foster child and he is home with me all day so time has been limited on posting, but I will try to be better.

Good luck finding time for posting, but, spending time with a child is always worthwhile.

[smileycrissy]

Aw, you're like a Super Daddy, taking care of all the lil munchkins. :) I really do admire you & your fiancee for being a foster family. I don't imagine it to be easy at all, especially when you already have 3. Big kuddos to you guys. :)

I think you are going to enjoy Via Napoli. My fiancee and I checked it out back when it first open and I thought the food was great. He felt it was a bit pricey for pizza but overall we had a really good time and enjoyed the food.I do suggest having someone order the iced tea - its got a perfumey/fragrant taste to it. I couldn't nail what it was but if I could describe it in a color I would say pink. LOL.

[Groom Mickey]

I know it has been awhile since I have posted but nothing really new to report. Switched over original website to facebook (have to start working on that this weekend). And last weekend my sister ordered her maid of honor dress. I am so cruel, it is showing more skin then she has ever shown. MwhaMwha (evil laugh). I think once the holidays are over is when the wedding will get the full focus it deserves. I just can't focus on more than one thing at a time.

[Petals & Pixie Dust]

I totally understand where you are coming from....When I'm at work...I'm hyperfocused on work...but funny...people at work are super excited!!! At home...it is all about the WEDDING! It is all consuming...Take your time and enjoy...We will be waiting for all the details here!!!

[LuvLuvLuv]

we just booked our vaca for next year and it falls may 7-14....

we may just run into you!! i'm excited, and i love all your plans so far!!

[tinkerbell 766]

I know it has been awhile since I have posted but nothing really new to report. Switched over original website to facebook (have to start working on that this weekend). And last weekend my sister ordered her maid of honor dress. I am so cruel, it is showing more skin then she has ever shown. MwhaMwha (evil laugh). I think once the holidays are over is when the wedding will get the full focus it deserves. I just can't focus on more than one thing at a time.

Great to hear from you!!
I am totally 'scaling down' Christmas this year!! My family have all been told to expect much smaller gifts this year as financially the VR is our priority!! Christmas will come along again next year and by then the VR will be over :sad1: so we can go mad on Christmas again then. I am finding it so difficult to get in to the Christmas spirit at the moment as I still don't know whether I will be working on Christmas Day or not. I really wish the rostering department at work would get their act together!!

[Groom Mickey]

There has been no activity on the wedding front. I knew I was going to be concentrating on birthdays and Christmas. We did get a few things done in October that I had planned on writing long, detailed, and involved stories about but that is apparently not going to happen. Just wanted everyone to know that I am still here we are still planning our wedding. We got a set of shirts to wear for the week of the wedding. I hear it might get us some free stuff!!!! Not that we aren't spending enough. You would think we wouldn't have to wear shirts :rotfl:

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/1021000953.jpg

[elleinad16]

Love the shirts!!! :goodvibes

We're having our planning session the day after your wedding!!! Horray for May! ;)

[Petals & Pixie Dust]

Love the shirt! Too stinking cute!!! Keep it coming...I'm going through withdrawal...and we've only been home 12 hours....:rotfl:

[smileycrissy]

Woo-hoo!! An update. ;)

LOVE the shirts. You guys are going to look adorable in them. :goodvibes

We do miss you on here but totally understand that sometimes life keeps you busy. :) Hope to hear more from you after the Holidays. :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

Great to hear from you!!
I am totally 'scaling down' Christmas this year!! My family have all been told to expect much smaller gifts this year as financially the VR is our priority!! Christmas will come along again next year and by then the VR will be over :sad1: so we can go mad on Christmas again then. I am finding it so difficult to get in to the Christmas spirit at the moment as I still don't know whether I will be working on Christmas Day or not. I really wish the rostering department at work would get their act together!!

We are having a small Christmas also...plus the kids break everything the elves make anyway. Those elves really are slacking off if you ask me. Toys don't even las a week. By the way no one should have to work on Christmas. Still enjoying the VR plans. Keep them coming. I need ideas to steal :goodvibes


Love the shirts!!! :goodvibes

We're having our planning session the day after your wedding!!! Horray for May! ;)

Stop on by if you want. Just make sure they remember the cake testing. Jeff just went to the planning session to taste and we almost forgot. So much going on it was almost overlooked. Just as we were ready to wrap up Shelley from Impressions reminded us we had not tasted cake. If you like orange make sure you ask for it. It is not on the normal taste testing.

Love the shirt! Too stinking cute!!! Keep it coming...I'm going through withdrawal...and we've only been home 12 hours....:rotfl:

Thanks. We still have to make something up for the boys. Your wedding sounds beautiful. Can't wait for the photos.

Woo-hoo!! An update. ;)

LOVE the shirts. You guys are going to look adorable in them. :goodvibes.
Thanks so much. After the New Year I plan on going into full wedding mode. Keep watching

We do miss you on here but totally understand that sometimes life keeps you busy. :) Hope to hear more from you after the Holidays. :goodvibes

Going to try a little harder to update. Have a few pics from Oct. planning to post and some decisions have been made. Yahoo!

[elleinad16]

Stop on by if you want. Just make sure they remember the cake testing. Jeff just went to the planning session to taste and we almost forgot. So much going on it was almost overlooked. Just as we were ready to wrap up Shelley from Impressions reminded us we had not tasted cake. If you like orange make sure you ask for it. It is not on the normal taste testing.

Oh, wow! Thanks for the heads up! We have quite a few people that are allergic to peanuts (no Reese's flavor for us ;) ) orange would be a really awesome flavor to try. We wanted to go with more of a fruit cake, THANKS! :lovestruc

[rpmdfw]

Oh, wow! Thanks for the heads up! We have quite a few people that are allergic to peanuts (no Reese's flavor for us ;) ) orange would be a really awesome flavor to try. We wanted to go with more of a fruit cake, THANKS! :lovestruc

We had orange cake with orange mousse filling at our wedding. It was awesome and a huge hit!:thumbsup2

[smileycrissy]

We had orange cake with orange mousse filling at our wedding. It was awesome and a huge hit!:thumbsup2

OMG, that sounds so delicious!!!! :lovestruc:lovestruc :)

[Groom Mickey]

We had orange cake with orange mousse filling at our wedding. It was awesome and a huge hit!:thumbsup2

OMG I did not even to think about putting it with orange cake. We planned on putting it with yellow... going to have to change that. Thanks for letting us know.

[rpmdfw]

OMG I did not even to think about putting it with orange cake. We planned on putting it with yellow... going to have to change that. Thanks for letting us know.

We really loved that combination! And so did our guests.

Our larger layer was chocolate cake with white chocolate mousse filling (which was also awesome). The orange/orange mousse filling slices were gone MUCH faster.

[Groom Mickey]

We really loved that combination! And so did our guests.

Our larger layer was chocolate cake with white chocolate mousse filling (which was also awesome). The orange/orange mousse filling slices were gone MUCH faster.

Now I am thinking I want that to be our larger layer now also. It is supposed to be Bailey's and chocolate. A hard choice to be made for certain. We do love orange in our house. I think this choice I will leave up to Jeff since the only thing he is really interested in is the cake. :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

Only four months to go and I still have not even figured how we are going to pay for this whole thing. LOL. Hoping pennies will fall from the sky. Have not posted in ages, I know. First was birthdays then Christmas and just the other day we started to foster a newborn. She came right from the hospital to us so it has been such a busy month. She will only be here a short time more so actually I am glad we have the wedding to plan so it gives me something else to focus on when she leaves. This is going to a heart breaker so I am going to need the boards to help me get through. Well hope all had a Merry Christmas and since I am writing on New Years Eve. Happy New Year!

[smileycrissy]

Aw!! We'll be here for you to help you through. :hug: We've missed you on here so I look forward to seeing you on again.

Best Wishes for you, hubbie, and the lil ones for 2011!!

[Groom Mickey]

My sister told me I need to update my blog about wedding info because it there was nothing about it anymore. Well here is an update Tina. Jeff and I are discussing if we are going to be able to have our wedding this year at Disney World. Reality is setting in and bills, children, Christmas and bathroom renovation are catching up to us and we are not certain Disney is in the budget anymore. We have a little less than half saved and don't know where the rest is coming from. We might have to wait another year or just cancel. We are going to really have to sit down and take a long hard look at it. Will keep you posted.

[jtanddolly]

My sister told me I need to update my blog about wedding info because it there was nothing about it anymore. Well here is an update Tina. Jeff and I are discussing if we are going to be able to have our wedding this year at Disney World. Reality is setting in and bills, children, Christmas and bathroom renovation are catching up to us and we are not certain Disney is in the budget anymore. We have a little less than half saved and don't know where the rest is coming from. We might have to wait another year or just cancel. We are going to really have to sit down and take a long hard look at it. Will keep you posted.

In the end...the only thing that matters is that the two of you have a special day to celebrate what is important to you. The location and all of the sparkle really don't matter. You can always have a VR later on at Disney if it is important to you. Best of luck in what ever you decide. One of the best things that I have learned from my husband is to make a decision then make it the right decision. Never look back with the if only or what if...just make it the right decision for you.

[pixiegirl]

I totally agree with Dolly!! All that matters is that the two of you have a special day!! Hope it all works out for the best even if you have to postpone. Keep us posted. We are all here for you!!

[Petals & Pixie Dust]

Here is a little pixie dust headed your way that everything works out...:wizard:

[Mindyjoy]

I echo what everyone else has said. It sounds like you have a very busy life and I applaud you for being a foster family because I realize it's very rewarding but equally difficult. I have a co-worker who is a foster dad and he goes through a lot of heartbreak. A wedding is not the most important thing; it's the marriage that's important, and whatever path you take will be magical. I wish you the best in your decision making and hope you both end up getting the day of your dreams!!

[tinkerbell 766]

Thinking of you both and I know you will make the decision that is right for you both and the boys. Much love to you all!!!

[smileycrissy]

I totally agree with everyone else. All that matters is the two of you celebrating this wonderful occassion which can take place at Disney, at home, or wherever. :) Keep us all posted and heck, even if you decide to do a small ceremony at home, come on here and let us all know about the details. :hug: We'd all love to hear about your plans because you are such a wonderful, kind, and caring person. :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

Thanks everyone for your support. Jeff and I have decided come hell or high water we ARE going to have our Disney Fairy Tale wedding. It may mean cutting to the bone but we will figure it out. Guess it is time to contact Shelley and get those save the dates out.

[elleinad16]

Jeff and I have decided come hell or high water we ARE going to have our Disney Fairy Tale wedding.

Woohoo!!! :yay: :woohoo: :banana:

[pixiegirl]

WOOOHOOOO!!! Can't wait to see how it all comes together. You will have a beautiful wedding even if you have to cut the heck out of everything!!!!

[Mindyjoy]

Thanks everyone for your support. Jeff and I have decided come hell or high water we ARE going to have our Disney Fairy Tale wedding. It may mean cutting to the bone but we will figure it out. Guess it is time to contact Shelley and get those save the dates out.

YEAH! However it goes down, it will be great!!!!

[tinkerbell 766]

Yay!!! Good to know your plans are back on track!!!

[Groom Mickey]

We decided our colors are going to be navy, yellow,and silver. I chose the colors and said I was going to stick to them. So far so good. However, over the past couple of months, as I have tried to work with them I have become less and less enchanted with them. Blue and yellow (gold) were the colors of my High School and lets just say being gay in a small town creates a bit of trauma. I also blame my sister,:goodvibes because she mentioned it the first time she saw the colors and she PLANTED the seed. The truth is also I have a passion for pink. I know it is a cliche but I just have a fondness for it and do not shy away. So I have been asking myself why have I been shying away from the pink? Why am I so afraid of it? Anyone who has been invited to the wedding, I think, would be surprised actually at the lack of my favorite color. Today it happened. As I was browsing through an old Martha Stewart Weddings magazine (could I be an even bigger cliche...yes I can) I saw the color combination that I wanted. It is a great use of navy and pink and I am in love, love, love. Now the focus will be primarily the navy but I have no problem adding the pink into shirts, ties, flowers and smaller accents.

I just love the way they look together and I think I can butch it up some, but seriously we are two men getting married if I wanted butch I would be 100% straight:lmao: So here for your opinion are a couple of pictures.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_ties4_xl1.jpg


http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_cardtable1_xl1.jpghttp://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/3412293403_35bbe9febe.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAZ1PMYU.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAXTEVSO.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAHJM720.jpg



Let me know what you think.

[daisygirl902]

We decided our colors are going to be navy, yellow,and silver. I chose the colors and said I was going to stick to them. So far so good. However, over the past couple of months, as I have tried to work with them I have become less and less enchanted with them. Blue and yellow (gold) were the colors of my High School and lets just say being gay in a small town creates a bit of trauma. I also blame my sister,:goodvibes because she mentioned it the first time she saw the colors and she PLANTED the seed. The truth is also I have a passion for pink. I know it is a cliche but I just have a fondness for it and do not shy away. So I have been asking myself why have I been shying away from the pink? Why am I so afraid of it? Anyone who has been invited to the wedding, I think, would be surprised actually at the lack of my favorite color. Today it happened. As I was browsing through an old Martha Stewart Weddings magazine (could I be an even bigger cliche...yes I can) I saw the color combination that I wanted. It is a great use of navy and pink and I am in love, love, love. Now the focus will be primarily the navy but I have no problem adding the pink into shirts, ties, flowers and smaller accents.

I just love the way they look together and I think I can butch it up some, but seriously we are two men getting married if I wanted butch I would be 100% straight:lmao: So here for your opinion are a couple of pictures.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_ties4_xl1.jpg


http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_cardtable1_xl1.jpg

Let me know what you think.

I love love love the color combo - wow I love the 2 colors together so much more than I ever would have thought if you had just posted "pink and navy" without the photos - you're lucky my wedding is done, or I might steal that idea!!

BTW - congrats with sticking with your dream venue....there are so many places to cut corners and still have the event of your dreams...Happy (Continued) Planning!!!

[tinkerbell 766]

Love the pink and navy colour scheme!!!!

[Groom Mickey]

I love love love the color combo - wow I love the 2 colors together so much more than I ever would have thought if you had just posted "pink and navy" without the photos - you're lucky my wedding is done, or I might steal that idea!!

BTW - congrats with sticking with your dream venue....there are so many places to cut corners and still have the event of your dreams...Happy (Continued) Planning!!!

Love the pink and navy colour scheme!!!!

thanks both of you. Jeff seems down with the new color scheme so now I just have to contact Diane, Elizabeth and Shelley to see if I have time to change the yellow to pink. I can't imagine there will be a problem. We shall see.

[Tinker Bell Fan]

Count me in for pink & navy. I love it! :thumbsup2

[Groom Mickey]

Today starts the Disney diet. Last night I had a piece of carrot cake (my favorite at Disney) because I am going to not to eat a ton of junk until we go. I just need to lose two sizes to get back to a respectable weight for the wedding. I am pushing 40 and know I am never going to be the size I was in my 20's. I need to stop eating the kids junk and exercise. I think I might take the kids for a walk around the block today. Wish me luck.

[daisygirl902]

Today starts the Disney diet. Last night I had a piece of carrot cake (my favorite at Disney) because I am going to not to eat a ton of junk until we go. I just need to lose two sizes to get back to a respectable weight for the wedding. I am pushing 40 and know I am never going to be the size I was in my 20's. I need to stop eating the kids junk and exercise. I think I might take the kids for a walk around the block today. Wish me luck.

I'm trying to get back into shape AFTER my wedding and vacation (I put on 10 lbs on vacation and another 5 over the holidays) - I've been keeping a food journal at fitday(dot)com and also drinking lots of tea and water during the day. I feel like every year I eat healthy just so I can go on vacation and throw out all of my progress!! It's worth it though - I love eating whatever I want at Disney....good luck getting in shape!

[Mindyjoy]

Count me in for Navy and Pink, too. They are a beautiful color combo.

[pixiegirl]

I love the pink and navy. The colors look so good together!!

[KitKat5]

Great colour combo! :thumbsup2

[smileycrissy]

Oh I'm so happy to see you posting again!!! We've missed you so much on here (well I know I have and I am sure a few of your other groupies have too, LOL).

I love the new color scheme and I have to agree with a previous poster that the pics you selected really do a great job of putting the colors together.

I hear ya about the battle of the bulge. I am extremely determined to loose some of the weight I've put on. During the holidays I had a pretty bad cold that I just had no desire to eat, I ended up loosing 5lbs (woo-hoo!). I think the walks around the block will be a good start. Also, I'm not too sure how many lil ones you have with you during the day, but a friend of mine got rid of her baby weight by putting the baby in the stroller and walking the mall in circles. At least you'll be indoors which would be good for the cold weather. Although I imagine it'll take a lot of strength not to go shopping. :)

[geek+nerd]

We decided our colors are going to be navy, yellow,and silver. I chose the colors and said I was going to stick to them. So far so good. However, over the past couple of months, as I have tried to work with them I have become less and less enchanted with them. Blue and yellow (gold) were the colors of my High School and lets just say being gay in a small town creates a bit of trauma. I also blame my sister,:goodvibes because she mentioned it the first time she saw the colors and she PLANTED the seed. The truth is also I have a passion for pink. I know it is a cliche but I just have a fondness for it and do not shy away. So I have been asking myself why have I been shying away from the pink? Why am I so afraid of it? Anyone who has been invited to the wedding, I think, would be surprised actually at the lack of my favorite color. Today it happened. As I was browsing through an old Martha Stewart Weddings magazine (could I be an even bigger cliche...yes I can) I saw the color combination that I wanted. It is a great use of navy and pink and I am in love, love, love. Now the focus will be primarily the navy but I have no problem adding the pink into shirts, ties, flowers and smaller accents.

I just love the way they look together and I think I can butch it up some, but seriously we are two men getting married if I wanted butch I would be 100% straight:lmao: So here for your opinion are a couple of pictures.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_ties4_xl1.jpg


http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/mwd105363_spr10_cardtable1_xl1.jpghttp://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/3412293403_35bbe9febe.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAZ1PMYU.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAXTEVSO.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/imagesCAHJM720.jpg



Let me know what you think.

LOVE the navy and pink! And BTW, the bottom picture of the guys in navy and khakis is one DF saw when I made him sit down with me to try and find something he'd want to wear for the wedding. That's the look he wants.

[Groom Mickey]

Less then four months to the wedding. We are a tad behind and just got the save the dates out (bad me). However, people have known for almost a year. I do have to get started on the invitations this week. To get the celebration started my sister has started a Disney World trivia contest for all those invited to the wedding. She has been sending out questions on Tuesday and Saturday through facebook. It is fun....but I am not doing so well. Apparently the winner will be getting a special prize. How much fun is this!

[Disney9.9.10]

Glad to see that things are going well again! I love the colour combo!! And it is great that you are going with something you want - it is your day after all! I am so jealous of your Disney trivia contest! I wish that I had that kind of enthusiasm for my wedding lol Good luck with the rest of the trivia, and let us know how the invitations turn out!

[smileycrissy]

That is such a cute idea with the Disney trivia. :) You've got a really great sister.

[KitKat5]

I love the Disney trivia idea! What a great way to get everyone excited for the wedding!! :thumbsup2

[Groom Mickey]

Here is the first mockup of our wedding invitation. Only the design represents us and none of the names. I just love Shelley she is just so awesome to work with. If you look at the Rococo design closely you just might spot a hidden mickey.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/MeriMockup3.jpg

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/MeriMockup2.jpg

[Princess Dahlia]

Good start to the invitations. I can't wait to see the final ones. I LOVE the pink!:cheer2:

[Pengwend]

Signing on waaay late, but we are getting married in May too! I love your navy and pink colour scheme. We are doing green and magenta, but I nearly switched to navy and pink a couple times in the beginning. Those invites look almost exactly like what we are going to be doing, too! We visited a couple places to look at invite suites, but I felt like I could make them for way le$$. I don't have the design of the actual invite panel and enclosures totally down yet, but I'm pretty close! We're ordering the supplies (paper, pocket folder things) from cardsandpockets(dot)com I think. I actually just ordered paper swatches yesterday!

On another note, I didn't realise how close we are to The Day until I saw your wedding ticker! I can't believe we have less than 5 months... I'm going to have to go into crafting hyperdrive! I am planning to make (read sew up messenger bags) for each room and separate backpacks for each child...

[smileycrissy]

The invitations are cute. I love that it has a side pocket for you to slip all the info/response cards to keep everything neat.

[Groom Mickey]

The invitations are cute. I love that it has a side pocket for you to slip all the info/response cards to keep everything neat.

Thanks. It is just a start but I like the direction they are headed. I am glad you like the neat and tidy look of the invitations...because that is the only thing that is neat and tidy in my life.:goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

It is official the Save the Dates are OUT. Just got off the phone with my father and apparently his brother (my uncle) got his invitation today and plans on attending the wedding. I guess there is no turning back now. :goodvibes

[smileycrissy]

Yay for sending out the STD's!!! :goodvibes:cheer2:

[smileycrissy]

BTW, did you still use the same STD's you had shown earlier in your PJ?

[Groom Mickey]

BTW, did you still use the same STD's you had shown earlier in your PJ?

Yes. We did use the same ones posted. Made a slight change in the paper. Was going to use a shimmer paper but used ivory stock due to ink coverage. Shelley from Impressions did a great job with them and they are so cute and fun.

[DisneyAngel05]

I've just finished reading your pj in one hit! Loving reading along with everything :goodvibes
My husband and I got married on May 10 2008, so it is a GREAT date!!!
And, my baby boy's name is Jasper! :rotfl:
Look forward to reading more...

[DisBride011]

Hi. I just found your PJ, and can I say I love it and love your sense of humor. Looks like your plans are coming together and your date is approaching :goodvibes

How are you enjoying all this snow? I'm also a New Yorker ans I know we are getting hammered with it :eek: You must be busy with 3 boys and wedding plans.

Looking forward to keeping up with your PJ, and can't wait for your TR in the future.

Happy Planning! :dance3:

[tinkerbell 766]

James - Yay for having the STDs out!!!
Makes it feel real eh?
I am currently working on the invitations for our VR but I am waiting on a swatch of DD's MOH dress fabric so I can match ribbon. There always seems to be something that holds me up!!!

[Mindyjoy]

James, I was searching around for my own wedding color inspiration and found this, and of course I thought of your PJ! haha :laughing:

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5245/5374581640_e6413047c0.jpg

[Groom Mickey]

Going to my sisters to work on welcome bags. I have supervision today so hopefully I will not be hurt in the process. Good or bad I will be posting the results today. I have to get on the road. Wish me luck for successful crafting today :laughing:

[sw33t_angel]

Jumping in a little late!! popcorn::

I love your wedding colors and all your ideas! :)

[DisneyAngel05]

Good luck! Can't wait to see the results - I LOVE reading about welcome bags :banana:

[smileycrissy]

Good luck & safe driving! I can't wait to see the bags - will they have glitter? :)

[Groom Mickey]

Good luck & safe driving! I can't wait to see the bags - will they have glitter? :)

sorry...there is no glitter tonight....but maybe on the final version. Here is the first trial of welcome bags. I have to stop making trial versions and get these things done.:goodvibes

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/0122012106.jpg

The colors are not the ones we will be using. We just wanted to try it out to see how they will look. I have been online looking for other fabrics. You can't see it but there was a little blood shed during the making of this craft. The tradition remains alive and well. Let me know what you think. Are these cute enough for welcome bags?

[DisneyAngel05]

So cute!! I love the 4 mickey head print - it looks like artwork. What are you going to put in them?

[Groom Mickey]

James - Yay for having the STDs out!!!
Makes it feel real eh?
I am currently working on the invitations for our VR but I am waiting on a swatch of DD's MOH dress fabric so I can match ribbon. There always seems to be something that holds me up!!!

You know what makes if feel real is the updated timeline sent by Diane (wedding planner) and it remined me that our minimum deposit is due in February. Now that we have the STDs out, and people are responding, it is pretty set in stone that we are going to have to PAY for the wedding. Until now it was a concept so far in the distance we did not have to really think about it. :rotfl: I think it is time to start thinking about it.

I wouldn't worry to much about things holding you up though. You are much further along than we are and I am certain you will end up with the VR of your dreams.

[Groom Mickey]

So cute!! I love the 4 mickey head print - it looks like artwork. What are you going to put in them?

My sister and I are working on it. We made a list yesterday and going to start working on getting stuff to put in them. First I need fabric we are happy with. I will keep everyone updated once I finally get some suff to actually put in them.

[KitKat5]

I love your welcome bags! They are super cute! And you totally reminded me that I STILL need to finish ours! I've had the bags for ages but still havent got round to printing our logo on them! We're due to pay in Feb too...I'm actually looking forward to paying them! :rotfl:

[Princess Dahlia]

The bags are very cute. I can't wait to see what you are going to put in them. :goodvibes

[KristiLyn]

I think the bags are really cute!!!

[smileycrissy]

Those are super cute! I can't wait to see what fabrics you are going to pick for them. :goodvibes

Any idea on whether you will make them all the same design? As in using the same 4 pieces of fabric or do you think you might pick up 8 pieces of fabric to kind of switch them around? LOL, I know I'm making it complicated huh. :rotfl:

[tinkerbell 766]

Love love love the bags James!!!!
It's always scary when making payments - not least because of the effect it has on your bank balance!!!
All my deposits are paid now but come March all the balances need paying, and that will be a heck of an outlay. I fear my bank mananger will not be best pleased with me!!!! ;)

[Groom Mickey]

less than a 100 days until we leave for WDW:eek:

[tinkerbell 766]

Eeeeeekkkk!!!!!

[KristiLyn]

So lucky!! I can't wait until I can say, "less than 100 days!"
Your ideas are all wonderful!!! It's going to be amazing!

[Groom Mickey]

The bags are very cute. I can't wait to see what you are going to put in them. :goodvibes

You know I can't wait to see what I am going to put in them also. I have grand plans but like to wait until the last minute to complete projects. It will probably be sticks of gum and whatever I can buy at a gas station on our way to Disney is my guess. Slim Jims for everyone! I am going to have to make sure I wait until I get into the southern states. I will at least have a chance of finding Disney items I can put into the bags. :rotfl2: Maybe I can even find Disney themed Slim Jims.

[Pengwend]

I read on another PJ somewhere here that a bride emailed companies saying she liked their products and wanted to give some out in her welcome bags. She said quite a few of them ended up sending her enough samples that she didn't have to buy them! I've started to do the same (as in, I sent 2 emails last night) on the off chance that I have the same luck. Anyway, I figure there's no harm in asking! Plus, if they do send stuff, it's less to buy!

[Groom Mickey]

How could I have not been nominated for a blog award?????? I mean no nomination for best DIY project or mention of my fine crafting ability ...... just look at my past post about the DIY crafts I did!!!!!


7-22-10

By this time I have 30 Mickey cake heads waiting for choclate and they have warmed up, the next one I dip falls off the stick into the choclate. Now I go to put them in the fridge and what happens the tray they are on is to big! I go to adjust and half the heads come tumbling off into the fridge and rolli across the kitchen floor. It looks like a bad accident in ToonTown. I have heads here and there, some split in half with sticks piercing through. Half of the heads had only one ear , some with none and there are mickey ears everywhere (candy melts). It was total carnage

7-18-2010

I have had the card stock, gluegun and glitter out for the past two weeks and still have come up with nothing solid. If I could get the boys to stand still long enough I would have glittered them by now ( I have a major glitter addiction). After I stole my sister cricut from her closet today I spent the rest of the night trying to get a Mickey Icon centered (2hrs). Everything I have done looks so homemade


8-13-2010

Tried to craft yesterday and stabbed myself with a butter knife and cut through 1/4 of my nail. Please, dont ask why I was doing a craft with a butter knife... bad decision.


How was I snubbed by the voting members of the board....rofl

[DisneyAngel05]

:lmao::lmao:

[Groom Mickey]

I love your welcome bags! They are super cute! And you totally reminded me that I STILL need to finish ours! I've had the bags for ages but still havent got round to printing our logo on them! We're due to pay in Feb too...I'm actually looking forward to paying them! :rotfl:

thanks... I am betting you will get your bags done well before I get ours done.

I think the bags are really cute!!!

Thanks so much.
Those are super cute! I can't wait to see what fabrics yomu are going to pick for them. :goodvibes

I can't wait to see what fabric I pick either. I can't seem to find a navy with pink in it at all!!!! Not that it has to be in the wedding colors but would like it to sorta kinda tie in.

Any idea on whether you will make them all the same design? As in using the same 4 pieces of fabric or do you think you might pick up 8 pieces of fabric to kind of switch them around? LOL, I know I'm making it complicated huh. :rotfl:

Oh they are going to be done somehow. I have no idea. I just like to create projects and not start of finish them LOL

Love love love the bags James!!!!
It's always scary when making payments - not least because of the effect it has on your bank balance!!!
All my deposits are paid now but come March all the balances need paying, and that will be a heck of an outlay. I fear my bank mananger will not be best pleased with me!!!! ;)

My bank manager is not pleased with me already let alone when we pay for the wedding. Still it must feel good to have a large chunk of it paid for. I can't wait until we can just enjoy the day.

So lucky!! I can't wait until I can say, "less than 100 days!"
Your ideas are all wonderful!!! It's going to be amazing!

Thanks. Just wait it goes by so quick soon you will be saying "I have less than 100 days" :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

Ever since Jeff and I decided to get married at Disney World I have been complaining that Disney did not feature same-sex couples. Well finally they have. Good job Disney!

http://disneyweddingsblog.com/real-weddings/1446/

There is no way Disney,however, will ever feature us though. How can two chunky middle age men possibly compare to two wedding dresses and six kids.

[DisneyShamrock]

Ever since Jeff and I decided to get married at Disney World I have been complaining that Disney did not feature same-sex couples. Well finally they have. Good job Disney!

http://disneyweddingsblog.com/real-weddings/1446/

There is no way Disney,however, will ever feature us though. How can two chunky middle age men possibly compare to two wedding dresses and six kids.

I think if they knew your story, they might do it. You two have gone through a lot to get where you are and are going. Including family drama and crafting attacks. :goodvibes

[smileycrissy]

I think they would feature you. You guys have been such awesome foster parents, you always give us a good laugh. And of course, no one does more glitter projects than you. :rotfl: Who can I complain to and demand they feature you. :goodvibes

[Groom Mickey]

I think they would feature you. You guys have been such awesome foster parents, you always give us a good laugh. And of course, no one does more glitter projects than you. :rotfl: Who can I complain to and demand they feature you. :goodvibes

Have you not seen Amanda and Miltons PJ(Sccrmnky2005) She is the queen of sparkle and glitter projects. I am just a humble peasant compared to her. :worship:

[smileycrissy]

Shh.... we gotta tell them no one else makes glitter projects like you so they'll pick you. ;):rotfl:

[Groom Mickey]

Shh.... we gotta tell them no one else makes glitter projects like you so they'll pick you. ;):rotfl:

I think it might be a bit late for that. :lmao: It is now 100 days that Jeff and I will be getting married at Disney World!!!!!!

[pixiegirl]

How exciting!! 100 days!! WHOOHOOO!!

[Groom Mickey]

Been trying to get wedding stuff done... but we have the newborn back and just trying to stay awake. :goodvibes. Will keep you posted about our updates.

[smileycrissy]

What happened that the newborn is back? I hope all is well.

[tinkerbell 766]

I am with Crissy - hope all is well (and you get some sleep!!!)

[Groom Mickey]

I am with Crissy - hope all is well (and you get some sleep!!!)

What happened that the newborn is back? I hope all is well.

Yes the baby is back... and she is starting to sleep longer through the night. However, I still feel like this :surfweb: Jeff and I have increased our intake of coffee lately. Lack of sleep is worth it though.

Here is some wedding info though. Here is my latest revised BEO. I thought maybe some of you might like to look at it. I know there are going to be some cuts (unless we hit the lottery). Here it is for your viewing enjoyment. Or NOT. I can not figure out how to get it to post here. I will get my sister on it and have her post it.

[Mindyjoy]

Can you select the text, copy it, and paste it in the post? May be easier than trying to convert it into an image. :hippie:

[Groom Mickey]

Lets see if this works.

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/budget2.jpg


http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/budget1.jpg

[smileycrissy]

What areas do you think you will be cutting in?

[Groom Mickey]

What areas do you think you will be cutting in?

None if I can help it! I think the cake is going to 2 tier and the dessert party I will probably go to the black lawn chairs they have and also get rid of the centerpieces for the DP also. If you look there is a $400.00 dollar charge for the Illuminations viewing and Diane (wedding planner) said as long as guests have park passes (which they do) I will be only charged for those who do not have park tickets. My guest list is getting smaller and smaller and the BEO is priced for 30 guests which I am pretty certain will not be attending. I am actually afraid I am not going to hit the Wishes minimus of 20... going to have to have some people stop by for brunch and cake just to hit it.

[tinkerbell 766]

None if I can help it! I think the cake is going to 2 tier and the dessert party I will probably go to the black lawn chairs they have and also get rid of the centerpieces for the DP also. If you look there is a $400.00 dollar charge for the Illuminations viewing and Diane (wedding planner) said as long as guests have park passes (which they do) I will be only charged for those who do not have park tickets. My guest list is getting smaller and smaller and the BEO is priced for 30 guests which I am pretty certain will not be attending. I am actually afraid I am not going to hit the Wishes minimus of 20... going to have to have some people stop by for brunch and cake just to hit it.

I am sure Crissy and I could be persuaded to volunteer our cake eating services!!!!:lmao:

[Pengwend]

I'm thinking of cutting our DP centerpieces too. It doesn't save much ($250?) but every little bit helps right? I just hope it's not super dark! 'Cause we're going to have some older folks there... I emailed our florist (Rose) a couple weeks ago giving her our floral budget max and she's still working on what she can do for us...

[smileycrissy]

I am sure Crissy and I could be persuaded to volunteer our cake eating services!!!!:lmao:

LOL, yes, especially if James is still thinking of that Orange cake. ;)


Well that's good that you know you'll be knocking the $400 off right away since your guests will have the passes.

Have you thought about using an outside vendor for the florist? It doesn't hurt to get a few quotes. :)

[Groom Mickey]

LOL, yes, especially if James is still thinking of that Orange cake. ;)


Well that's good that you know you'll be knocking the $400 off right away since your guests will have the passes.

Have you thought about using an outside vendor for the florist? It doesn't hurt to get a few quotes. :)

we did think about an outside vendor. However, I am not organized enough to arrange flowers on my own. I would have them on the wrong date, or color and even the wrong flower. Having Disney do them I know at least I will have flowers. We don't need that many of them so we are willing to pay the little extra cost to make sure we actually get flowers.

[Groom Mickey]

I am sure Crissy and I could be persuaded to volunteer our cake eating services!!!!:lmao:

We look forward to having you and Crissy for cake.

[tinkerbell 766]

Yay!!! Look forward to it!!! I am looking forward to meeting you all - not just the cake!!:rolleyes1

[Groom Mickey]

Yay!!! Look forward to it!!! I am looking forward to meeting you all - not just the cake!!:rolleyes1

Oh my goodness...it is getting close. It hit home yesterday when I made the reservations to board the dogs. I only had to flip two pages on the calendar to see the dates :eek::eek::scared1:

My sister is correct. I need to get some things done on the wedding. For two days I have been looking at toasting glasses on etsy and I have not purchased them. I think it is because I have been hoarding money for so long that I just can't spend it. I want them but I just keep putting them into the shopping cart and then I don't pay. LOL. I have not even purchased anything for the welcome bags. I just can't seem to get past this block about spending money. You know what must have frozen over because I LOVE spending money. :love::love::love: I know I am going to be doing everything last minute and stressed because I waited. Keep reading for the future meltdowns LOL.

[smileycrissy]

Oh James, buy the glasses. Do it, do it, do it!!

Maybe if you post a pic of the glasses so we can all 'ooh and ahh' over them, you'll be convinced enough to purchase them. :)

[Groom Mickey]

Oh James, buy the glasses. Do it, do it, do it!!

Maybe if you post a pic of the glasses so we can all 'ooh and ahh' over them, you'll be convinced enough to purchase them. :)

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/il_75x751878519941-1.jpg

good luck 'oohing and ahhing' over them. This is the best picture I can get. I will take a picture when they come in. If you squint and look at the center of the glass you just migh see a teenie tiny itty bitty mickey. I did purchase them today and I got my groom gift for Jeff also.

[tinkerbell 766]

Crissy is right!!! Do it, do it!!!
I love the glasses - I looked at them too!!

[smileycrissy]

http://i758.photobucket.com/albums/xx230/jimmycworld1/il_75x751878519941-1.jpg

good luck 'oohing and ahhing' over them. This is the best picture I can get. I will take a picture when they come in. If you squint and look at the center of the glass you just migh see a teenie tiny itty bitty mickey. I did purchase them today and I got my groom gift for Jeff also.

I pulled out the magnifying glass so I could 'Ooh and Ahh'. :lmao:

They look cute and I can see the mickey. I'm so glad you did order them. :goodvibes

[Princess Dahlia]

hi daddy
love
christopher :dance3: