Teen son's ocean baptism

[Tiggeroo]

My 15yo son has decided to be baptized tomorow. In our church, you choose this whenever you are ready. We are a shore town and the Baptisms are in the ocean. However, he does not want me to make a big deal out of this. He does not want me to tell my parents or brother or sisters. This is bugging me, although I have honored his wishes. Our extended family does not share our religious beliefs, however, they will be hurt that he did not give them a chance to share the moment. They all happen to be in town for a get together, so would be able to attend at a moments notice. I plan to talk to him tonight and give him another chance to invite them. He is shy too, and I think he figures they will do pictures and stuff.

[Claudia1]

What blessed news!!!! So happy for you and him, too!

I would think like you, too, and try to work out a compromise. Maybe ask them to attend but not take pictures?

Again, I am rejoicing with you!

[Tiggeroo]

I am really happy he has decided to do it. I don't really mention it to my kids. But I know they hear about it in youth group and church services. This is completely his own decision. This year he has shown a real spiritual side which is interesting.

[Pam]

How wonderful - please extend my best wishes to your son! I was baptized at age 14 in the pond of one of the congregation member's. Fish swam around my head!

I would talk to your son and ask him to reconsider. Growing up, my Mother's parents were dead (GF died when my Mom was only 6, her step-father died when she was pregnant with me and my GM died when I was 7), and my Dad's parents couldn't give a rip what any of us did.

My parents love everything the children and grandchildren do - the inlaws (only MIL left) DON'T!!:rolleyes: It really adds to the ocassion when you know that you are loved and that your family and friends want to share your joy with you.

And the photos would be a treasure in years to come, although they seem like a pain in the butt at the time!
Pam

[Kitty 34]

I was baptized in a lake at 18......awesome experience!!! How special this will be for your son.:D

[Saffron]

When I was baptized at the age of 26, I was dunked, along with 7 others, in the baptismal on the alter of our church during a special Sunday service that was packed. I really wanted a more intimate baptism, one like your son is going to have. Best wishes to your son on this special occasion. :)

[Kallison]

If he wants to keep it private I think you should honor his feelings.