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WhitShores
06-30-2010, 06:57 PM
Men suck.
Divorce does too.
K.Thanks.Bye.

pixiedust9
06-30-2010, 07:43 PM
:grouphug:

3girlsfun
06-30-2010, 11:27 PM
Enjoy your new found freedom! It will take a while (and you may never be over him all the way), but, don't look back. For every person out there that is willing to treat you terribly, there is one that will Love you! :love:

Hugs to you!

clkelley
07-01-2010, 08:50 AM
Sorry to hear that Whit!!

ftwildernessguy
07-01-2010, 08:53 AM
Hey, don't blame us all because of some bad ones.

vick
07-01-2010, 09:00 AM
Whit, I saw the original post, before the edit. All I can say is, what took you so long? You deserve to be treated better. Never let anyone tell you it was your fault. Keep your head high. You will survive and be a better, happier person.

Born 2 Fish
07-01-2010, 09:32 AM
Men suck.
Divorce does too.
K.Thanks.Bye.

Uhh, okay,, my bad,,sorry.

Just Beachy
07-01-2010, 09:36 AM
Whit, I don't know what happened, but believe me....it WILL get better. Jim's right, not ALL men suck...just a lot of them. Let God and time help heal your heart. You're stronger than you think. We're all here for you. :hug:

polkadotsuitcase
07-01-2010, 10:12 AM
Whit, I don't know what happened, but believe me....it WILL get better. Jim's right, not ALL men suck...just a lot of them. Let God and time help heal your heart. You're stronger than you think. We're all here for you. :hug:

Ditto. Well said (although I'd change "a lot" to "some). :hug:

Gatordad
07-01-2010, 11:27 AM
Uhh, okay,, my bad,,sorry.thhis one isn't your fault Frank.

WhitShores
07-01-2010, 11:51 AM
Most men suck...

Fort fiends don't.

ntsammy5
07-01-2010, 12:02 PM
thhis one isn't your fault Frank.

I wouldn't so sure about that. But men do tend to do stupid things. I'll admit that beacuse I'm guilty of that. Very guilty

LORNADUCK
07-01-2010, 12:22 PM
Whit, I also so your post before it was edited. Please hang in there, you have done nothing wrong. Move on with your life and don't look back. You deserve better, you need to take care of yourself and don't let anyone put you down. He will keep doing this to you if you enable him.

WhitShores
07-01-2010, 12:24 PM
I realllllyyy shouldn't have posted that...
I definitely let my emotions get the best of me yesterday.
Rough day.
Sorry for the drama...

LORNADUCK
07-01-2010, 12:26 PM
You were venting, and since we are all friends it's ok. That's what we are here for, sometimes things just get out of control and putting something like that in writing helps us focus. Take care of yourself!!!

Lil' Lisa
07-01-2010, 01:35 PM
That's what fiends are for Whit! Go ahead and vent away! We are here to listen and give you a (virtual) shoulder to lean on.

Born 2 Fish
07-01-2010, 03:00 PM
Go ahead and vent away! We are here to listen and give you a (virtual) shoulder to lean on.

lean,,,,smack, hit, shove, bite, dislocate,,, what ever.

vick
07-01-2010, 03:19 PM
I realllllyyy shouldn't have posted that...
I definitely let my emotions get the best of me yesterday.
Rough day.
Sorry for the drama...

Whit, you should have posted what you did. That's what this group of fiends are for. We're here to support each other through the good times as well as the not so good times. Feel free to vent here whenever you feel like it. It's better to have somewhere to vent rather than keeping it all bottled up inside.

Gatordad
07-01-2010, 03:25 PM
I like you Whitney. For you, I will even convince you to stay at the Fort, lol.

des1954
07-01-2010, 03:35 PM
I like you Whitney. For you, I will even convince you to stay at the Fort, lol.

Yeah, yeah, Pete. You're a man. You suck. But you can change,,,,if you have to.:lmao:

Just Beachy
07-01-2010, 03:40 PM
Yeah, yeah, Pete. You're a man. You suck. But you can change,,,,if you have to.:lmao:

Would your insurance cover that procedure?

WhitShores
07-01-2010, 03:49 PM
I like you Whitney. For you, I will even convince you to stay at the Fort, lol.

Yeah... I wouldn't need convincing... I'm not that far gone yet, my dear!

Minnie&Mickey
07-01-2010, 03:52 PM
I realllllyyy shouldn't have posted that...
I definitely let my emotions get the best of me yesterday.
Rough day.
Sorry for the drama...

I also read your post before it disappeared. I just want to say that you definitely deserve better...keep your head up and you will find a man that will treat you the way you should be treated.

DaveInTN
07-01-2010, 04:34 PM
Whitney, NO ONE deserves to be abused...physically, emotionally, any way. Well, maybe Frank, but that's another issue. (Denise, you are a SAINT). :rotfl:

Anyways, it may seem like you can't live without him, but be strong. DO NOT accept that life for yourself. Aim higher. If not for yourself, at least for your son. A child raised in that environment will very likely fall into similarly bad relationships themselves someday.

And as far as apologizing about spouting off while under the influence...don't forget that at least half of the good threads on this board were posted under the influence of alcohol. No need to apologize or edit.

Born 2 Fish
07-01-2010, 04:55 PM
I'm a drug.
No, wait, I like drugs. No no, wait, I want drugs. Maybe its , I'm a druggy,,or was that you ? Are you a drug !

Man, I need a drug.,
my head hurts, anyone hava azz-burn ?

ftwildernessguy
07-01-2010, 06:12 PM
I want a new drug. One that won't make me sick.

stpetedisneydad
07-01-2010, 06:36 PM
I want a new drug. One that won't make me sick.

Thank you Huey Lewis.

BRDof3
07-01-2010, 06:48 PM
my head hurts, anyone hava azz-burn ?

I did, but I found this new cream and it went away.

ntsammy5
07-01-2010, 07:28 PM
...don't forget that at least half of the good threads on this board were posted under the influence of alcohol. No need to apologize or edit.

That's not true!!!! Almost all of the good ones have been under the influence.

Whitney, hang in there! Most of us have probably been in a similar situation at one time or another. More than would probably admit it!

homebrew2
07-01-2010, 07:34 PM
Men suck.
Divorce does too.
K.Thanks.Bye.

Whit...I saw the pre edit post and I'm glad you could vent. Now having said that I'm gonna ask all my fellow man type fiends to join me in saying the Possum Lodge Man Pledge;

I'm a Man

But I can change

If I have to

I GUESS.

BRDof3
07-01-2010, 09:17 PM
Possum Lodge Man Pledge;

I'm a Man

But I can change

If I have to

I GUESS.

Especially if there's beer involved.

ntsammy5
07-01-2010, 09:23 PM
Especially if there's beer involved.

ONLY, not especially

Lil' Lisa
07-01-2010, 11:04 PM
Here you go Whitney - this will make you feel better ;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atBg9zLI2bA

2goofycampers
07-02-2010, 08:03 AM
Some guys are no good, you'll find that out pretty quick usually. Move on, right away, every minute you're with a loser is a minute wasted finding Mr. Right.

Born 2 Fish
07-02-2010, 08:38 AM
too late, I'm already taken.

BRDof3
07-02-2010, 09:29 AM
too late, I'm already taken.

I was gonna say that. :mad:

vick
07-02-2010, 09:55 AM
too late, I'm already taken.

I was gonna say that. :mad:

Actually, you both could say that. I haven't met you Rob, but I can tell that Denise is lucky to have found you. I have met Frank, and know that Denise is lucky to have found him too. Both of you are great guys. :thumbsup2 I even think I found a pretty great guy myself. :)

Lil' Lisa
07-02-2010, 10:19 AM
Actually, you both could say that. I haven't met you Rob, but I can tell that Denise is lucky to have found you. I have met Frank, and know that Denise is lucky to have found him too. Both of you are great guys. :thumbsup2 I even think I found a pretty great guy myself. :)

Hmmm... I see a pattern here. It looks like the Denises of the world get all of the good guys! Well, it sounds like the Vicks and Lisas get 'em too!

vick
07-02-2010, 10:39 AM
Hmmm... I see a pattern here. It looks like the Denises of the world get all of the good guys! Well, it sounds like the Vicks and Lisas get 'em too!

:thumbsup2

DaveInTN
07-02-2010, 10:47 AM
I even think I found a pretty great guy myself. :)
Yeah, It's Not Art is a stand up guy. :lmao:

Or as Frank ended up calling him....Leon-Art-O.

vick
07-02-2010, 10:50 AM
Yeah, It's Not Art is a stand up guy. :lmao:

Or as Frank ended up calling him....Leon-Art-O.

:lmao:

Total Joker
07-02-2010, 03:26 PM
Actually, you both could say that. I haven't met you Rob, but I can tell that Denise is lucky to have found you. I have met Frank, and know that Denise is lucky to have found him too. Both of you are great guys. :thumbsup2 I even think I found a pretty great guy myself. :)

Denise is a busy woman!:lmao:

Born 2 Fish
07-02-2010, 05:35 PM
Yeah, It's Not Art is a stand up guy. :lmao:

Or as Frank ended up calling him....Leon-Art-O.


Thats right,,he's like a artist,, Vickie is to Leonard ,as paint to a canvas. :thumbsup2

2goofycampers
07-02-2010, 09:31 PM
Denise is a busy woman!:lmao:

:lmao:

auntie
07-03-2010, 03:23 PM
Men suck.
Divorce does too.
K.Thanks.Bye.

Not sure what's going on...but I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time.:hug:

Rhonda
07-04-2010, 09:25 AM
Not sure what's going on...but I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time.:hug:

Same here -- but that's nothing new for me. I'm usually in a cloud.

But I just wanted to pass on a :grouphug: for you too Whitney! Hang in there!

ntsammy5
07-04-2010, 12:37 PM
But I just wanted to pass on a :grouphug: for you too Whitney! Hang in there!

Me too Whitney. It'll get better, take my word for it.

Roz (aka Rhonda) I saw your name here and thought for a second you had closed the thread! :lmao::lmao:

That's the old Roz though....... :rotfl2::worship:

Rhonda
07-04-2010, 02:02 PM
Me too Whitney. It'll get better, take my word for it.

Roz (aka Rhonda) I saw your name here and thought for a second you had closed the thread! :lmao::lmao:

That's the old Roz though....... :rotfl2::worship:

LOL -- Nope. I lost all of my magical powers. :wizard: :(