dates

[WDWfanatic288]

okie who else is like me and never gets a date to anything?!?! :(

I've never been asked on a date
I've never had a date to homecoming
I've never been asked to prom
to get techincal...I've never had a boyfriend that has gone to my high school!

so anyone have better luck than me? or have the same? or what's the deal?

[SDAngel101]

i feel you Jules... i have my first high school boyfriend in 11th grade (he didn't even go to my school). He was my date to my ASB ball but before that.. i have never been asked to HC or ASB ball. I allways hung out with guys, but i was more like the cool next door neighbor girl not the i wanna go out with you girl.

Its all gonna change now though :):););)

[dis_lovr_04]

omg I so know what ur talkin a/b Jules. I have never been asked on a date well not really nor have i had a bf. havnt been asked to HC or prom either:( wheres the love??

[bubblemutant45]

well, the social scene here is very different from in the states. we go out in groups a lot. when you want to go out at night you call up a bunch of your friends. dating isnt as big a deal here as it is in the states.:cool:
that said, ive been asked out a couple of times, but i didnt want to go out with the guys who asked me out.
i had a boyfriend, but it was more like a summer fling than the real thing....:rolleyes:

[PigSoldier]

I so thought this thread was going to be about those sticky fruity things you always eat at Christmas :rolleyes:

I don't like the pips, they should sell seed-free dates.

[bubblemutant45]

heheheheh:p
i dont mind the pitt. you know wut you should try (if we're already on the subject of suzis kind of dates...)? frozen dates. you stick them in the freezer. theyre sooooooo good!

[PigSoldier]

Frozen dates?? They sound sooo good :teeth:

(Change the subject? Me? Never...... :rolleyes: )

[KittieKat]

Jules thats me totally...lol. I think I scare off guys..hehe. Cuz Im one CRRAAZZYY Gal...lol..yes. I feel your pain.

[AbErGrl217]

yup the same with me too. But I am only 14. We dont really go out on dates yet its more like "going out". MY school isnt really big on "going out" and "dates".

[Evil Princess]

I never had a boyfriend until I was 15!

Then my best friend asked me out...and we went out for two years.

We just broke up two weeks ago..he's going to college...and I'm extremely depressed. I love him more than I love myself, I'd do anything for him. I miss him and I honestly can't see myself with anyone else. Its hard...

It's better to have loved and lost? HA it just makes it worse...

"Sometimes in my darkest thoughts I wish I never learned what it is to be in love, and have that love returned"-Aida.

[nsyncraider17]

I've never been on a date either.:( And I've never had a real boyfriend.:( I have the worst luck with guys...there have been guys who like me, but I don't like them, and the guys I do like say that they would never go out w/ me. And then there was one guy who I started liking after he stopped liking me...and now he's been arrested like 4 times or something and I feel like an idiot for liking such a loser...if you really want to know all the wonderful details let me know.:rolleyes:

anyway! This year if no one asks me to homecoming I might go w/ this guy who has a crush on me, because we're really good friends. at least that way I'll have a date.

[diDdLygRL]

hehe i hve never had that much trouble w/guys so i guess i should help jules out right?? lol i will!!! but i have had trouble w/guys lately....oh well

[iTtYbItTy LiL LeXi]

I feel all your pain. I've hooked up with guys but still havent had a real boyfriend :(...My friend Anthony says I'm not just some girl guys can forget about after doing stuff so I guess that's a compliment lol! Anyway I know how you all feel...if I was eighteen I'd have had numurous boy friends by now, cuz the guys I like are all like 21 and im 15!! No chance there lol

<3 alwayz

Lexi

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

I didn't have a date to any of my galas.
I didn't have a date to sophomore prom.
Junior prom my date was last minute and I would have been better off going alone.
I have never actually been asked out on a real date.
Two of my ex's I never went out with.
One of my ex's just never asked me out on a date. Yeah we got together but we didnt go out to dinner or to a movie.
I didn't have my first boyfriend until december of my junior year.
I better have a date to my senior prom...actually I already have an idea who i want to go with.

[WDWfanatic288]

well I know who I want now...I just gotta get him! :p

but I'm going to get a date for homecoming this year...I HAVE to!

I'm pretty crazy myself :crazy:
I think it's our disneyness..! :(

[BabyLove99]

I've been on dates and all that......but because of a certain ex (and other jerks), I'm now afraid of dating and getting emotionally hurt. (some of you know all about that :( :rolleyes: )

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by BabyLove99
but because of a certain ex (and other jerks), I'm now afraid of dating and getting emotionally hurt. (some of you know all about that :( :rolleyes: )
That is exactly how I am right now Marissa.

[WDWfanatic288]

boys are making me angry1! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

Eric is being a jerk 2day...argh!

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

All boys suck..ok..they can deny it all they want and promise they wont hurt you..but they all want one thing.......

[WDWfanatic288]

oh yes!

I've heard-
I will never leave you
I wouldn't want to hurt you

that is all the biggest load of BS ON this earth! :mad: :mad:

[teh fish]

and I'm sure that girls are no different.

Then again, generalizing groups of people together won't fix the problems.

[bubblemutant45]

i have to agree with teh fish....guys can be jerks, but girls can be real bi%#*es. the truth is that in a relationship the girl really has the upper hand, and we can really hurt them. ive realized that you just have to pay attention, and actually - the girl is ussually running the show.
i dont think that there are more guys who treat girls poorly than there are girls who treat guys poorly. there are jerks in both genders.....:rolleyes:

[Mousekateer55]

Being a guy, I would like to put in my thoughts on this subject. I had never tried to ask a girl out until last year because I was fearful that I would rejected. I tried to ask a girl out to Homecoming last year but I was totally rejected before I even got to ask her (maybe it had something to do with me wearing a towel on Super Hero Day :rolleyes: ). After that I decided I would not go out with any girl until I was 16 (I know I'm so hard on myself). So technically I have not asked a girl out yet or been on a date and I have been rejected once. However, I go into this school year with a different mentality than last year and I hope to ask the girl I've had a crush on since May.

In response to some of your posts, I don't totally agree with any of your opinions and actually somewhat disagree with them. Oh yeah, please keep in mind that this is a teen board and that young kids do sometimes read the posts. That is all for now.

[dancergirl]

I had my first real boyfriend ask me out a day before my first day in high school. We dated for a little while. Nothing too serious. I went to homecoming but only in a group of friends. In January I started "seeing" someone. I had liked him for about a year!! We were good friends, always went to one another for dating advice, and everything else! Right after my grandaddy died he was there for me, he suggested we just do something to get my mind off everything. He came over and that start our "being together". A while later he asked me out officially. We went to Prom together, so technically that was my first date out somewhere really. Everything else had been casual, watching a movie getting ice cream and brining it home. After a while we broke up and I felt like i lost my best friend...We are getting back closer recently...we went to get something to eat after school the other day...who knows whats going on!! Some people seem to be convinced thats we are "talking", but I relly dont know!! I guess whatI am trying to say is wish me luck!:) hehe

And just because you've never had a boyfriend isnt bad! That just means the possiblities are wide open!:) Dont get discouraged!

[WDWfanatic288]

well I've had boyfriends and all that stuff..just never any at my school! :(

that is a story Jenn...You've never told me before!!

but oh-well...everything will work out...I hope! :)

[TiggerBelle05]

I feel everyones pain!!! i feel soo left out w/my friends!!!. but see some of the guys that go out w/myfriends, all they do is talk about them so im like, dont wanna go through that! daughter_of_amid_chaos: thats soooo true! we have all the ah's up here and im hatin' it, the guys i met from sc & ohio were prob the nicest guys ive met. nsyncraider17: i know exactly how you feel! when i like someone they sdont like me and guys who like me i dont like them. i havent had a true bf yet but im only 14 going on 18 sooo i guess i have time (even though time is painful!)

[Mousekateer55]

Here is a quote I got off someone's aol sn profile:

*No MaN iS wOrTh YoUr TeArS, aNd ThE oNe WhO iS wIlL nEvEr MaKe YoU cRy..*

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

OK yeah it is a Teen Board and young kids read this BUT as daniel said it is a public forum so we are allowed to post what we feel is allowed.
I'm 17 and still a teen so I can post on the teen board whatever I feel is under DIS rules and that goes for everyone else on here.
And if there is someone younger and they started reading a post that they feel they shouldnt be reading....they can hit the back button. Because the older teens dont have anywhere else to go on the DIS because we cant post on the CB.
If you don't like what you're reading...don't read it.

[KittieKat]

we cant post on the cb? why is that?

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by KittieKat
we cant post on the cb? why is that?
Ok we can if we want..but would you really wanna post a post about dating on the CB..I wouldnt for one because my mom frequents that board and I highly doubt they care about the dating lives of us..

[bubblemutant45]

mousekateer55 said: "Oh yeah, please keep in mind that this is a teen board and that young kids do sometimes read the posts"

i cant help but feel like you were talkin about a certain "bad" word i used in my post....lol
im sorry. last time i wrote that, it was automaticly censored into b****. so i assumed it would do the same thing this time.
even though i agree with nora (way ya go for fighting for wuts right! :Pinkbounc ), and obviously it wasnt THAT big of a deal cuz jenn didnt say anything about it, i apologize if anyone got offended, and i do watch wut i say (both language and content).
but norah does have a point - older teens sometimes have things to say or feelings to express that might not be appropriate for the younger teens. and theyre not neccesarily bad things, cuz lets face it - everyone on the TB are good kids, i mean we're disney kids! it doesnt get any better than that! ;) it could even just be a joke or a play on words that could be viewed as inappropiate for the youngins on the dis. but i guess thats just the way it is....:)

[Disney Daniel]

Here is a link to the DIS Guidelines, just in case anyone had not had a chance to read them yet. :)

Click Here (http://www.wdwinfo.com/guidelines.htm)

For the most part as long as posts stay within these guidelines everything, and everyone is happy. :)

[Evil Princess]

I have a fun quote that suits my mood right now in response to the "no man is worth your tears...."

"What do you do when the only person who can stop your tears is the one whos making you cry?"

And then you have those wonderful boys, well one in particular, who gives the whole "ill never leave you, never hurt you" thing, then breaks up with you and starts CRYING because he hates seeing you crying? The kid who hasn't cried in three years?

Yeah, girls are equally as vicious, but it depends on the relationship...honestly, we're so different, I don't understand why we're meant to be put together! Our brains are wired so differently!

[TiggerBelle05]

Bubblemutant45: i do have to agree with you with the jerks on both sides thing. A lot of girls do either cause the breakup and dont realizeit or they can be real jerks. This one girl I know used to take advantage of her bf, he could drive so she made him her chaffeur.(spelling is off). girls can be as much jerks as guys can, some girls git p-oed if their bf talks to another girl. but im not saying guys are angels. i have a friend, stacy, her bf wont let her see her friends. she hasnt seen barely anyone of her friends this summer because her bf doesnt like them. well i think everyone can see why each sex can be jerks in a relationship.

[SDAngel101]

Is it just me or is this thread turing into who is a bigger jerk in relationships the girl or the guy?? LOL i can't realy complain right now because my baby (this guy i like:)) is comming back from maine this week and i will be able to see him (hes been gone for a month) im soo happy :):):)

[WDWfanatic288]

yay for Maggie! :)

but we got into this argument last nite...there are people on both sides
I can think of one girl in particular that is worse than any guy ever but that is just how she is

[SDAngel101]

LOL i bet you i could guess who that girl is Jules

^^OMG IT WAS ONE LINE!! lol too bad this isn't the one line thread

[WDWfanatic288]

oh yes you do Maggie! :p

anyway...this seems like a good venting thread! :)

[DiSnEyGrL13]

I curently do not have a boyfriend. I have never been on a date. In our school (keep in mind that I'm only 13) We dont really go on dates yet. Its more like you just say your going out with someone. Guys can be such losers! Its the worst. I really liked this guy and I mean REALLY for 2 years and he like WOULDNT give me the time of day. And if thats not bad enough, he goes and dances with one of my best friends at a dance!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: AHHH!!! It gets me soo mad!!!:mad: :mad:

[Meg]

<font color=blueviolet size=3>I agree that it's unfair to generalize all guys as being jerks... however there are a few who've been in my life that really were & totally deserve that title. I've gone out on dates w/guys but I've only had 2 real boyfriends, with my first one, we were both sophomores & we dated for 2 years, & he was a really good guy... until he dumped me & told me that he had lost feelings over the last 3 months but didn't have enough guts to tell me... :rolleyes: & my current boyfriend is an absolute sweetheart, we've been dating for 5 months & things are going really good.

& on the topic of what's appropriate... even though we're older... we're still teens... & this IS a TEEN BOARD. We're smart & we know what to post & what not to post... everything in this thread has been totally appropriate... & if the mods don't have probs w/it... i don't think anyone else should either... remember... <b>BACK BUTTON.</b>

[Kim89]

Well, last year an 11th grader asked me to prom, but I couldn't go...lol, hmm I wonder why (maybe it has to do with the fact that he is four years older than me :rolleyes: ). I only had one "real" boyfriend though...we went out for 2 years until he moved :(

[Kiki]

Meg!! I haven't seen you post in forever!


Originally posted by WDWfanatic288
oh yes you do Maggie! :p

anyway...this seems like a good venting thread! :)

ok, so as long as this post is all about venting...

Let's see, um, I'm 15, I've never been out on a date, never have had a boyfriend (not like I need or want one), never been asked to dance at a dance, never been asked to homecoming or our 8th gr. dance thing. (Never.... my new favorite word :rolleyes: )
It's not like I'm all sad and depressed that no one likes me ( :( pity-party *rolls eyes again* ) but it makes people happy to know that someone let their guard down to tell you that they like you, with a chance of getting some rejection.

And, a lot of girls are posting saying that no one has ever asked me out (myself included, but I think I scare away boys like Steph :) ) but if you're going to say boys are mean b/c they won't ask you out, but you don't want to be going out on a limb to ask them out, you're just as bad.

Ok, I'm done :)

[bubblemutant45]

exactly! i totally agree with kiki.
the problem is we're been brought up on the false idea that guys are the ones who make the first move. wrong! theyre just as freaked out about the whole thing as we are when they like someone. i wish we could all just get over ourselves and tell ppl how we feel about them. its such a waste of time to be goin around waiting for something to happen, and not letting ppl know how we feel and wut we think. seriously, wuts the worst thing that can happen? isnt finding out better than never knowing? life's too short for us not to do things bcuz we're emberessed. i know i dont want to look back on my life and say "i wish i had faced my fears".
of course - easier said than done. A LOT easier said then done :rolleyes:

[lucky13]

I hate being old..well older than most of you (20, not a teen, but i seem to relate better to you guys than the CB, 1 becuase i just became 20 and 2, i am going to be a teacher of high school kids, so i can relate to that)

For the most part, guys are jerks, and i am guy. I hate to see a girl get hurt by a guy, she crys and then goes to her friends for support. She goes home and calls her best guy friend in the world and talks to him, "i cannot find the right one" and " why do i always get hurt"....You always get hurt becuase the right one, the one you are looking for is right in front of you....the right one is your friend who grew up with you and knows you and is there for you, that is who you want to be with, start hanging out with him, see how you should be treated, if it does not come into a relationship, then great, but now you know how a guy should act on a date, how she should pull out your chair, open doors for you and bring you flowers...most guys are jerks, when you get older, you will see that looks are not all that important. You will see that guys are "hott" on the inside...so i understand, you are still young, make mistakes, but keep in-mind the ones that care about you and have that stupid crushes on you but never let you know becuase they are you good friends and do not want to hurt the friendship, are the nice guys and the guys that will not lie...

And don't be scared to ask a guy out you like, more than likey he likes you too but does not what to ask becuase he thinks you are going to say NO...Sorry about this crazy post about nothing, that is all..

[teh fish]

(sarcasm) oh my gosh. There's a girl that i've been watching for four years and I really like her, but I never talked to her and do you know what she did? She went out and got a boyfriend. Can you believe that?(/sarcasm).

The first words to someone gives them an opportunity to see who you are. If you don't say anything, how will they know the type of person you are?

Just because you like someone does not mean that the feeling is mutual. Is it someone's fault if they don't see you as a prospective boyfriend/girlfriend?

[DiSnEyGrL13]

I think I need to consider what Bubblemutant said more often.:rolleyes:

[dancergirl]

Lucky13, I couldnt agree more than with what you said!! I think that alot of the time what you really want is right in front of you. I have been in the situation, got hurt by a guy, talked to my friend cause she was closest, then went straight to a guy friend, he gave the best advice!:) He told me about his girlfriend and asked for advice. After they broke up he came to me. Eventually we did go out, and we already knew alot about how we felt about dating. and it was much easier to talk about everything!!
My advice, dont look too hard...love will eventually come, it might not be right by your alarm clock, but it is by someones:)

[Meg]

<font color=blueviolet size=3>Well said lucky13 & Chani

I can relate to that as well. I was really good friends w/my current boyfriend for about 4 months before we actually started dating. We talked about everything & he was always there for me. When he told me he had feelings for me, I felt so bad because I didn't return them totally because I was afraid of getting hurt again like I had in the past... & hanging around w/him more & more kind of renewed my faith in guys... & taught me that not all guys are jerks...

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

OK there is a guy I like at work.
We went to school together before i went to private school.
Now he is working at Coony with me and his boss (my front desk manager) is his aunt.
But...I have no idea if he is single or if he likes me cuz he flirts with EVERYONE!

[jimmybop]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
I have no idea if he is single or if he likes me cuz he flirts with EVERYONE!

what type of guy would flirt with everyone???:p (I would never admit it in person, but yesh.. i do). apparently one of my past g/f didnt like it that much, but she for the most part she just let it be, because thats the way I act. I mean, I didnt just go up to random girls and just flirt with them (i'm to shy to do things like that), I just do it to my female friends, and they know its just all fun.

and for the rest of the thread which i just read the whoooole way through :confused: hehehe.... Just dont sweat the petty things, just go through life and enjoy yourself, dont let yourself get upset because someone dosent see you one way. just go out and make tons and tons and tons of friends, an thats all that matters. If something happens, good good... if not.. don't sweat it, the day will come. and if nothing works out in high school... remember there is a whole new life when you get to college ;) :p (and if not college, there is always the walt disney world college program... hehehehe):jester: