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Boardwalk_bride
04-09-2010, 04:07 PM
I know that technically you do not need to tip people that own their own company, but I was wondering here has given any sort of gratitude (cash, gift card) to their photographer?
Skylarr29
04-09-2010, 07:36 PM
Well I flew in my photographers so a different situation. I was contracted to pay for their hotel room but I threw in a couple extra nights for them and park tickets. In return they then threw in a newlywed photo shoot so it worked well.
I think just making sure they are well fed and have access to food and water through out the day is a great gesture. My photographers were vegetarians and were so appreciative of the fact that I took the time to find that out and give them an actual meal. They were telling me of how many times they work 12 + hours and then they get a deli plate that they can't eat and that no one even offers them water. I told them to help themselves to drinks at the bar etc. and made sure they had a place to sit and breaks during the day.
If they are happy they will work harder for you as opposed to being hungry and tired.
I personally don't think a cash tip appropriate but a useful gift of some sort would be nice.
Chilly
04-11-2010, 01:40 PM
We did give Randy a tip at the end of the night as he had in the end worked a whole extra hour for us but I can't remember how much it was.
Boston Disney Bride
04-11-2010, 06:28 PM
I'd like to know if I should tip the following?
Steamer
Photographer
Hair/Makeup
Wedding Coordinator
Officiant
Thanks in Advance!
Sparky534
04-11-2010, 07:48 PM
I found this website about tipping. I hope this can help you.
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/planning-a-wedding/articles/wedding-vendor-tipping-cheat-sheet.aspx?MsdVisit=1
Boston Disney Bride
04-11-2010, 08:39 PM
I found this website about tipping. I hope this can help you.
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/planning-a-wedding/articles/wedding-vendor-tipping-cheat-sheet.aspx?MsdVisit=1
That helped immensely! Thanks!
Rebclay
04-11-2010, 10:50 PM
I found this website about tipping. I hope this can help you.
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/planning-a-wedding/articles/wedding-vendor-tipping-cheat-sheet.aspx?MsdVisit=1
Are these still relevant with a disney wedding? Just curious.
Chilly
04-12-2010, 03:17 AM
Photographer - I did
Hair/Makeup - I did
Wedding Coordinator - I gave her a gift
Officiant- I didn't
Boardwalk_bride
04-12-2010, 07:22 AM
Photographer - I did
Hair/Makeup - I did
Wedding Coordinator - I gave her a gift
Officiant- I didn't
I'm planning on the same as this, and also the musician (since they are learning the sheet music we sent) and the transportation.
Skylarr29
04-12-2010, 11:29 AM
Rule of thumb is to not tip proprietors.
Also, read your BEO carefully to make sure you aren't already being charged a service charge for people whom you are thinking about tipping.
irisbud
04-12-2010, 11:36 AM
We tipped the photographer (used Disney; he refused the required amount of times then accepted) and Patricia LeJune. Both of them went above and beyond.
We may have tipped our officiant as well, I don't remember!
We didn't tip our planner or give her a gift. I felt rude not doing so, but we didn't have a very good experience with her so we decided not to.
kcampbell
04-12-2010, 11:55 AM
I understand the rule about not tipping if they own their own business, but we still did for many because of their service level. For ex:
Steamer- Absolutely did
Photographer- Did not (used DPS)
Hair/Makeup- Absolutely did (*tipped seperately for the trial, wedding day, and MK shoot)
Wedding Coordinator- Gave the coordinator a gift, the planner both a tip and gift
Officiant- yes. We didn't need to, but threw in an extra $50
Off the top of my head I know we also tipped DJ Scott Messina (for his outstanding service) and the Limo driver (because we felt we had to-- not for any other reason) . I didn't tip the string trio b/c it wasn't necessary in my mind since they were already being paid.
I think if you want to give any of your vendors a tip or gift for their excellent service then you absolutely should. Guidelines are simply that...guidelines. :thumbsup2 HTH a little. :goodvibes
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