It's the final countdown.... Or final poll rather. POLL IS CLOSED!

[mommaU4]

Okay ladies, we are down to the final two. Why do I feel like Ryan Seacrest on American Idol?

Anyway, these are your top two vote getters from our first poll:
March 31 - April 4
April 14 - 18

Once again this will be a public poll and everyone will be able to see who voted and for which dates, and you may only vote once.
It IS open to anyone who is considering attending the 4th annual Girls-only trip. BUT we would appreciate it if you please do not vote if you will not be at least 18 years old, and if you are not seriously planning on attending the trip. :flower3:


I WILL accept votes from any nonDISers which includes friends and family members planning on attending the trip. If they would like to cast a vote, post for them which dates they want and I will manually add their vote at the end. Thank you.


This is a short poll, no sense it dragging it on, and it will be final. Whatever dates win, will be our new trip dates!! So exciting!!!
Now.......... get voting ladies!!! :yay: :woohoo: :banana: :cool1:

[kelmac284]

And Beth can you add a vote for my mom as well. Thanks! :) (For the April date of course) ;) duh! Almost forgot

[Queenbillabong]

It might also be a nice idea if you are going to vote because you are planning on joining the trip that you also post a quick hi and introduce yourself, rather than just a vote :thumbsup2

[jordansmomma]

This is the final, final vote right???

[kaoden39]

I'm in and my marauding brats will not be here.

[stacielee]

Hi, I'm Stacie, I like walks in the park, picnic lunches... oops, wrong board ;)

[mommaU4]

It might also be a nice idea if you are going to vote because you are planning on joining the trip that you also post a quick hi and introduce yourself, rather than just a vote :thumbsup2

Good idea. We don't bite!! Say hello, especially if you are planning to be hanging out with us. Even if your dates don't win, we are a pretty friendly bunch. :goodvibes

[mommaU4]

Hi, I'm Stacie, I like walks in the park, picnic lunches... oops, wrong board ;)

But do you like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain??

[jordansmomma]

But do you like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain??

I like Mojito's minus the rain!

[mommaU4]

This is the final, final vote right???

Final! Done, done, done. Put a fork in me, I am so done with this. LOL Whatever wins, is when we will be there, for better or worse.

[stacielee]

But do you like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain??

NO RAIN!!! We've had more rain here in January & February then we had all last year!!! I didn't move to Phoenix to see rain all the time!!!

But I do like pina coladas, as well as Mike's lemonade and margaritas :drinking1

[jordansmomma]

Final! Done, done, done. Put a fork in me, I am so done with this. LOL Whatever wins, is when we will be there, for better or worse.

I prefer med well to done, well done, thanks, oh wait we are not talking about steak....

[kelmac284]

For richer or poorer, till death do us part?? ;)

[DangerMouse]

I like lobster nachos and pina colavas! But I hate voting.

[jordansmomma]

For richer or poorer, till death do us part?? ;)

Those words will never come out of this mouth......or fingers...

[kelmac284]

finger? I don't get it? Sign language? Ok I know I am dumb but clue me in. I hate when I don't get jokes. But I DO agree. I am DONE too! If this doesn't work out NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR again! D-O-N-E

I prefer things MY way. Girls rule, boys drool!!

[mommaU4]

Hmmmm........... what to do, what to do......

Being this far out, I can go anytime really, but looking at the two dates I realized they both have blackout dates, both have the potential for hot weather (or even rain for that matter), and both will have Spring breakers in the park at that time. Sooooo. I guess I will pick the Food and Wine dates then.

Not that I'm much of a foodie, at least not fancy foods, and I don't drink wine at all, but between the two I guess it makes more sense to have more options of things to do. Maybe they will offer something yummy to eat that isn't expensive and that I can actually pronounce. :lmao:

[LittleBlackRaincloud]

Maybe they will offer something yummy to eat that isn't expensive and that I can actually pronounce. :lmao:

I wouldn't count on it! :laughing: :thumbsup2

[daisy_77]

My vote is up for grabs... ;) I will take paypal or a money order.....:rolleyes1

[karylrocks]

I voted for the later April dates because, even though it is over a year away, I know there is no way I could come during the other time.

[disney-inspired]

Okay, I'm going to be upfront, I AM trying to sway people's votes :lmao:

Here's my logic:

Yes, there will be crowds no matter what. That's a given.

BUT why would you pick the week BEFORE Easter?! That's just insane....(in the membrane):lmao:

That is all :rolleyes1

[BillyFan]

I voted.

Neither date conflicts with any plans I have, and I love the F&W fest, but I do want to throw it out there that the later dates fall on the weekend before Easter. That would throw us right in the middle of Spring break crowds. :scared1:

[daisy_77]

good point, Cristabel!:eek:

The other date is during my district's spring break so that means I won't have to take any time off.:)

[disney-inspired]

My vote is up for grabs... ;) I will take paypal or a money order.....:rolleyes1

What's your email? :laughing::rolleyes1

[BillyFan]

Okay, I'm going to be upfront, I AM trying to sway people's votes :lmao:

Here's my logic:

Yes, there will be crowds no matter what. That's a given.

BUT why would you pick the week BEFORE Easter?! That's just insane....(in the membrane):lmao:

That is all :rolleyes1

You were reading my mind!

[disney-inspired]

good point, Cristabel!:eek:

The other date is during my district's spring break so that means I won't have to take any time off.:)

I'm glad it makes sense :thumbsup2

[daisy_77]

I am voting..... although, I am happy with either dates.:goodvibes

[stacielee]

Okay, I'm going to be upfront, I AM trying to sway people's votes :lmao:

Here's my logic:

Yes, there will be crowds no matter what. That's a given.

BUT why would you pick the week BEFORE Easter?! That's just insane....(in the membrane):lmao:

That is all :rolleyes1

I think anything in April will run into Spring Break crowds; pretty much from mid-March through the end of April will be like that. I think there will be more crowds the week AFTER Easter than the week before.

[disney-inspired]

I think anything in April will run into Spring Break crowds; pretty much from mid-March through the end of April will be like that. I think there will be more crowds the week AFTER Easter than the week before.

I think they'd be the same, just by using my family for example: I have spring break the week before Easter and my mom and little sister have spring break the week after.

I just need to psyche myself up when we get closer so I will expect the absolute worst and perhaps be pleasantly surprised.

[DangerMouse]

I think anything in April will run into Spring Break crowds; pretty much from mid-March through the end of April will be like that. I think there will be more crowds the week AFTER Easter than the week before.

I completely disagree, because Easter falls so late I doubt many will occur after Easter. I mean, most school districts won't push off breaks that late. I don't like either set of dates, personally, but I'm going to go with the earlier of the two.

But I love ya, anyway, Stacie! :)

[mommaU4]

I think anything in April will run into Spring Break crowds

I think so too. Jane said it best when she said pretty much anytime at Disney is crowded now. :sad2:

If I have to have crowds, I like the different options that Food and Wine brings. Will I take advantage of any of it?? Who knows. Maybe. Maybe not. But I remember our first year, some of the ladies were really into the tastings, and meet and greets with the chefs so that would be nice.

Either way though, I'm there. :banana: Well, hopefully. Unless a miracle happens and we can afford that Alaska family cruise after all. ;)

[jordansmomma]

good point, Cristabel!:eek:

The other date is during my district's spring break so that means I won't have to take any time off.:)

See you can go without using personal time & vacation or having to get someone to cover your class time!

[disney-inspired]

See you can go without using personal time & vacation or having to get someone to cover your class time!

Which I hear is a lot of work. I have a friend who I met through WW and she said it took her double the time to prepare a lesson since she had to make sure to write instructions for the sub.

[jordansmomma]

Ok I voted.
I picked that date because 1~ I want to share birthday cake with Cheryl, and 2 its my kids spring break & they will be gone & 3~ Life is really busy around the wk of Easter.

[Queenbillabong]

I picked the April dates. There is not much difference with crowds, weather, etc. between the two and they will both have the Saturday blocked out and both will be busy (spring break mid-March to mid-April), so I'm going with the F&W dates.

[Stacerita]

Hi, I'm Stacie, I like walks in the park, picnic lunches... oops, wrong board ;)

DO you have a velcro wallet?

I like lobster nachos and pina colavas! But I hate voting.

What if I find a sticker for you?

Okay, I'm going to be upfront, I AM trying to sway people's votes :lmao:

Here's my logic:

Yes, there will be crowds no matter what. That's a given.

BUT why would you pick the week BEFORE Easter?! That's just insane....(in the membrane):lmao:

That is all :rolleyes1

:rotfl:

Vote early and vote often. ;)

[Stacerita]

I voted! I also want to share Cheryl's birthday with her. Plus, so many will be on Spring break around here for the other dates I dont' want to deal with that.

[disney-inspired]

I voted! I also want to share Cheryl's birthday with her. Plus, so many will be on Spring break around here for the other dates I dont' want to deal with that.

Oh you mean like my entire school :lmao:

Oh and I also want to party with Cheryl :dance3:

[Stacerita]

Beth, dont' forget to add my mom's and sis's vote too. Thanks!

[prettyprincessbelle]

Beth, my Momma's vote too por favor!

I want to party with Cheryl too, please!

[Belle Ella]

I voted! I voted! And I managed to be decisive while not deciding on anything at all. You just tell me when and I'll show up.

[Queenbillabong]

Sunlover13 and CathrynRose voted - did I miss them posting hello and introducing themselves - or they just want to vote :confused3

[Stacerita]

Sunlover13 and CathrynRose voted - did I miss them posting hello and introducing themselves - or they just want to vote :confused3

CathrynRose is old timer on the Community Board.

[toocherie]

I like lobster nachos and pina colavas! But I hate voting.

I still haven't had the lobster nachos . . . .



Oh and I also want to party with Cheryl :dance3:

everyone does . . . . .

[Queenbillabong]

CathrynRose is old timer on the Community Board.

But has she posted a hi and introduced herself here for this trip??

[cheshiregirl]

WWS steak nachos and Magicale for me--a match made in heaven!

[grumpyvet]

I am AmyOkraSue

This will be my 4th trip, so most know me.

I do like walks in the rain, pina coladas...

I am old. oh, and I have a freakishly large head.

I think that is all.

Oh, and I iron, and am prone to bursts of craftiness.

[Stacerita]

But has she posted a hi and introduced herself here for this trip??

I guess I never looked for a post like that from here since I already know her from the boards.

I am AmyOkraSue

This will be my 4th trip, so most know me.

I do like walks in the rain, pina coladas...

I am old. oh, and I have a freakishly large head.

I think that is all.

Oh, and I iron, and am prone to bursts of craftiness.

You wanna share a bed?

[BillyFan]

I still haven't had the lobster nachos . . . .



everyone does . . . . .

I know I do!

Callie, my mom and I shared a plate of lobster nachos and a round of cocktails at Cove Bar while the group was at Ariel's. They were deeeeee-lish!

Bethy~can you please add my mom's vote for the first weekend? Thanks lady!

[Califgirl]

Food & Wine Festival all the way, baby! :yay: :woohoo: :yay:

[jordansmomma]

:confused3
Sunlover13 and CathrynRose voted - did I miss them posting hello and introducing themselves - or they just want to vote :confused3

They are going to stay in Calcutta! Why do people need to introduce themselves? Cat & Sun have been on the boards foreva!!
Cat & Sun are super cool!

Ok one question.....Why are we having a revote this year? Last year it was take the winning vote and get over it? But this year a revote with a no preference? I don't remember a no preference being in the top two dates.

[Queenbillabong]

:confused3


They are going to stay in Calcutta! Why do people need to introduce themselves? Cat & Sun have been on the boards foreva!!
Cat & Sun are super cool!

Ok one question.....Why are we having a revote this year? Last year it was take the winning vote and get over it? But this year a revote with a no preference? I don't remember a no preference being in the top two dates.

Why wouldn't they introduce themselves if they've never posted on the Diva thread before??

[mommaU4]

I'm removing my vote officially from the poll.

If anyone wants to take over keeping track of the results, feel free. If not, I will continue to track the results. If you want to cancel the whole revote that's okay too.

I'm sorry I upset anyone. I was only trying to be fair and keep the group happy. Clearly I have failed at that. Then again, I don't know if it's possible to keep 45-50 different ladies happy. Maybe someone else is better suited for the job.

[stacielee]

I'm removing my vote officially from the poll.

If anyone wants to take over keeping track of the results, feel free. If not, I will continue to track the results. If you want to cancel the whole revote that's okay too.

I'm sorry I upset anyone. I was only trying to be fair and keep the group happy. Clearly I have failed at that. Then again, I don't know if it's possible to keep 45-50 different ladies happy. Maybe someone else is better suited for the job.

You can take mine off too.

[toocherie]

I will 'fess up' that I expressed my displeasure to Beth about this year's voting procedure and the re-vote. Especially since the "rules" indicated that there would be a re-vote in the event of a tie.

Beth--I was very careful in my message to you to indicate that you were not to take it personally, but in the future that we needed to avoid misunderstandings about the procedure and throughly discuss options before jumping to a vote less than one week after everyone got back. If you will all recall, I came back sick, with a load of work and I know other ladies had families and other responsibilities that took much of their time last week--so they couldn't perhaps concentrate on the decision-making process. Given some of the posts I have seen for the rationale for the votes some people have cast it does not appear to me to have been fully thought through.

I also wanted to make sure that if we are going to do things as a "Diva"-group that everyone's input on activities is considered before decisions are made. My personal opinion is that this has not always been the case.

Beth: if you truly feel that you do not want to be a part of this group that is your decision--I hope that is not the case because I know you are valued by the group. If it was my single PM that caused you to post the above message that is and was not my intention.

[grumpyvet]

I'm removing my vote officially from the poll.

If anyone wants to take over keeping track of the results, feel free. If not, I will continue to track the results. If you want to cancel the whole revote that's okay too.

I'm sorry I upset anyone. I was only trying to be fair and keep the group happy. Clearly I have failed at that. Then again, I don't know if it's possible to keep 45-50 different ladies happy. Maybe someone else is better suited for the job.

Okay Beth. Absolutely NO ONE can make us all happy. In fact, I bet not all of us have the capacity to be happy, and certainly not all at the same time.

I have certainly proven that I have the uncanny ability to really piss people off with little effort...so I am not certain we have anyone jumping up and down asking for a chance to run this group.

I am sorry that in your efforts to try to please us...we try to push you around. Human nature I suppose.

So, put your vote back up you silly thing. (can I interest you in changing your date, howeve?r)


You can take mine off too.

Stacielee..I see the love you have for Beth here..and I understand it...but let us not let all this heat and fight and passion pull us apart...we have a year..we do..we will get over it, won't we?

OKay, maybe we won't and you all will want to vote ME off the island and come kick my a** out of Calcutta...but I HATE THIS!!!! So, Let's just Kiss and make up and have a group hug and cry and all that.


I will 'fess up' that I expressed my displeasure to Beth about this year's voting procedure and the re-vote. Especially since the "rules" indicated that there would be a re-vote in the event of a tie.

Beth--I was very careful in my message to you to indicate that you were not to take it personally, but in the future that we needed to avoid misunderstandings about the procedure and throughly discuss options before jumping to a vote less than one week after everyone got back. If you will all recall, I came back sick, with a load of work and I know other ladies had families and other responsibilities that took much of their time last week--so they couldn't perhaps concentrate on the decision-making process. Given some of the posts I have seen for the rationale for the votes some people have cast it does not appear to me to have been fully thought through.

I also wanted to make sure that if we are going to do things as a "Diva"-group that everyone's input on activities is considered before decisions are made. My personal opinion is that this has not always been the case.

Beth: if you truly feel that you do not want to be a part of this group that is your decision--I hope that is not the case because I know you are valued by the group. If it was my single PM that caused you to post the above message that is and was not my intention.

CHeryl.....the Lawyer voice, well said.

In our zeal to get planning, our excitement was high.

Let us calm down...Be friends and remember that the trip is what we can make of it.

AmyDuckingToAvoidTheHurledVegetablesOkraSue

[mommaU4]

Last year I received grief for not doing a revote. This year I am getting grief for doing one. I cannot win.
I had more than one person tell me on the trip that the sooner the dates were picked the better for their work and home situations. If it felt rushed, I'm sorry.

I just think maybe it's time I stepped down and let someone else take over. I'm not mad, nor do I want to distance myself from anyone. I just don't seem to be able to do a good job of it anymore and I'm fine with anyone else wanting to take over and try their hand at it. :)

I love this group and I'm sorry if I've upset any of you with my actions.

[stacielee]

Stacielee..I see the love you have for Beth here..and I understand it...but let us not let all this heat and fight and passion pull us apart...we have a year..we do..we will get over it, won't we?

I'm just backing off for now, this is too much drama for me.

[BillyFan]

OK, friends. I think we all need to sleep on it. The trips are fun bonding experiences that we look forward to all year. The stress of picking a date is getting too, well, stressful.

[grumpyvet]

Last year I received grief for not doing a revote. This year I am getting grief for doing one. I cannot win.
I had more than one person tell me on the trip that the sooner the dates were picked the better for their work and home situations. If it felt rushed, I'm sorry.

I just think maybe it's time I stepped down and let someone else take over. I'm not mad, nor do I want to distance myself from anyone. I just don't seem to be able to do a good job of it anymore and I'm fine with anyone else wanting to take over and try their hand at it. :)

I love this group and I'm sorry if I've upset any of you with my actions.

Sorry Beth..good luck with that!!! I am not seeing any takers!!;)

What is it my mom used to say, dam*** if you do, and dam*** if you don't!!

But, sleep well tonight and know while we are pissing and moaning...that is all it is...just complaining and making noise...when it all comes out in the wash we will have each others' backs...okay????

I'm just backing off for now, this is too much drama for me.

Okay...it is a bit of drama...and I was such the jock nerd in high school I really missed all this popular girl drama in high school, I really don't handle it very well either...my stomach feels all squirrelly...or as my DD said when she was about 2, "feels like I have a throat lizard".

So, as long as you Promise/PinkySwear to come back, I can handle that, but I think we really need to count your vote...you want to come during food and wine, that is cool.

Okay...You guys are driving me mad. I, AmyOkraSue, the hyper totally nonsensical member being the voice of reason...it ain't right, it just isn't.


So, we will all vote. We will all suck it up. We will all get along.

OR not.

Good night all. And take care.

AmySteppingOffTheSoapBoxForTheNightEvenThoughIDOn' tReallyKnowWhatThatMeansOkraSUe

[mommaU4]

Sorry Beth..good luck with that!!! I am not seeing any takers!!;)



Maybe we can take a vote on who should take over? :confused3







:rolleyes1


Sorry, couldn't resist. ;)


Thanks AmySue. Tomorrow things will be better.







Right???

[grumpyvet]

[QUOTE=mommaU4;35751274]Maybe we can take a vote on who should take over? :confused3







:rolleyes1


Sorry, couldn't resist. ;)


Thanks AmySue. Tomorrow things will be better.

Not going to work Bethie-Bug

We will just vote for you.

Oh wait....didn't we have that mysterious guy show up a couple times awhile back. QueendoOver really seemed taken with him and was ever so chatty with the fellow. I think I could be sweet talked into voting for him, I mean, the guy has chicken bones and everything.

Nah, he doesn't fit the criteria...dang...it will have to be you Beth. Sorry.


Night nighty, sleepy tighty.

amyGoshIAmEverSoPushyOkraSue

[grizbuzz]

Random thought from Quote Girl:

" A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away."

- Arabian Proverb

Peace, Love and Happiness:hippie:

[wvnative]

Golly, looks like it was a good thing I was otherwise absorbed last night. lol

I voted, before I read of course, and would like to humbly request that whomever is managing the tally add one vote for the April dates for my DD (19) who will undoubtedly want to tag along should the April dates win.

Oh and I want to mention that not all schools do spring break around Easter. Ours has nothing to do with Easter time. It's always in March because we get out of school in May and it's a break midway through the semester. :thumbsup2

[kelmac284]

Beth I love ya and I'm sorry that it has come to this.

I just wanted to point out that when I looked at the room rates yesterday it started out next week and went all the way through April. So the logic I was using was that if Easter THIS year is the first week of April and they are jacking up the rates almost a month BEFORE and AFTER the holiday. I don't think it is necessarily JUST for the weeks before and after the holiday but as someone pointed out pretty much for all of March and April because Disney probably pretty much figures that a lot of different states have breaks at different times. As WV just pointed out a lot of colleges don't tie their breaks to the holiday but rather to when school gets out etc.

I realize that easter is later next year but I am just figuring that since our trip dates are ALSO later that chances are the rates will be higher as well.

I remember Capri doing all that work to post all the different spring breaks for the major districts and they were all over the board and so that is what I based my info on. Not just on this years. I was just using that as a guide.

And I remember Stef saying she needed to know as soon as possible and a few DVC people saying they wanted to know early as well to book for next year so I totally see why the so called rush.

Again my only thinking was that if we were GOING to go during a high time and esp during a blockout time why not get the extra benefit of F&W but if NOT then why not go back to an earlier time in march or even feb when it would be cheaper. That was my only thinking.

I realize that the timing is good for some people on this march date but other than that I didn't see what the other draw was. It seems like it will be a higher season and we still have a blockout date. That was the only thing I was trying to point out when figuring out why and when to go. So I know for me I am not just basing my decision on hotel prices but also possible airfare, blockout dates, park crowdedness etc.

And I know for us we can't stay at the hojo because my mom has bad knees and can't walk that far. She always wants to stay as close to the park as possible so even if they DO manage to get a discounted rate we won't be staying there so for my own reasons I am looking at the other hotels in the area.

Anyway again that was just how I personally was trying to figure out the best dates but I wanted to reiterate that I wasn't just using hotel prices to figure on a date but all the different scenarios. And I hope that this doesn't tear our group apart or lead to hard feelings.

I like everyone here and I hope we can all get along!!

[Stacerita]

Oh wait....didn't we have that mysterious guy show up a couple times awhile back. QueendoOver really seemed taken with him and was ever so chatty with the fellow. I think I could be sweet talked into voting for him, I mean, the guy has chicken bones and everything.

Nah, he doesn't fit the criteria...dang...it will have to be you Beth. Sorry.


Night nighty, sleepy tighty.

amyGoshIAmEverSoPushyOkraSue

Nope, he didn't fit the criteria. He has chicken bones.

[stacielee]

Beth I love ya and I'm sorry that it has come to this.

I just wanted to point out that when I looked at the room rates yesterday it started out next week and went all the way through April. So the logic I was using was that if Easter THIS year is the first week of April and they are jacking up the rates almost a month BEFORE and AFTER the holiday. I don't think it is necessarily JUST for the weeks before and after the holiday but as someone pointed out pretty much for all of March and April because Disney probably pretty much figures that a lot of different states have breaks at different times. As WV just pointed out a lot of colleges don't tie their breaks to the holiday but rather to when school gets out etc.

I realize that easter is later next year but I am just figuring that since our trip dates are ALSO later that chances are the rates will be higher as well.

I remember Capri doing all that work to post all the different spring breaks for the major districts and they were all over the board and so that is what I based my info on. Not just on this years. I was just using that as a guide.

And I remember Stef saying she needed to know as soon as possible and a few DVC people saying they wanted to know early as well to book for next year so I totally see why the so called rush.

Again my only thinking was that if we were GOING to go during a high time and esp during a blockout time why not get the extra benefit of F&W but if NOT then why not go back to an earlier time in march or even feb when it would be cheaper. That was my only thinking.

I realize that the timing is good for some people on this march date but other than that I didn't see what the other draw was. It seems like it will be a higher season and we still have a blockout date. That was the only thing I was trying to point out when figuring out why and when to go. So I know for me I am not just basing my decision on hotel prices but also possible airfare, blockout dates, park crowdedness etc.

And I know for us we can't stay at the hojo because my mom has bad knees and can't walk that far. She always wants to stay as close to the park as possible so even if they DO manage to get a discounted rate we won't be staying there so for my own reasons I am looking at the other hotels in the area.

Anyway again that was just how I personally was trying to figure out the best dates but I wanted to reiterate that I wasn't just using hotel prices to figure on a date but all the different scenarios. And I hope that this doesn't tear our group apart or lead to hard feelings.

I like everyone here and I hope we can all get along!!

Ditto!!

[disney-super-mom]

I'm voting for the later dates because:

1. I want Marcie to be able to finally come on one of our trips.
2. I will most likely be done with my student teaching by then.
3. It's going to be crowded on either set of dates anyway, so I may as well enjoy some Food and Wine options.

But here's something to mull over so this isn't so stressful for Beth and the rest of us every year......maybe we should just pick a certain week of a certain month and stick with it for every ladies trip so there is no more debating and annual voting necessary. I mean, we all know that Thanksgiving falls on the last Thursday of November every year no matter what. We could set up something similar for the ladies trip.

For example, we could say that the ladies trip takes place during the first weekend of March every year (to start the Thursday before and end the Tuesday after).....and that would be that. Of course I'm sure whatever week chosen for the annual ladies trip to take place every year would take a vote, but you get what I'm saying. :upsidedow

(This is what we do for our annual family get together every summer up at the lake.....it's always the first week of August. Makes it simpler for everyone to plan.)

Anyway, just thought I would throw that idea on the table in my medicine head stupor. :sick:

[wvnative]

Setting a particular time frame for an annual trip is a pretty good idea. Nice!

[PrincessDuck]

I am still trying to figure out when I want to go. I am afraid that the earlier dates would actually be my kiddos spring break......looking at past years. Not sure if I want to head out of town at the end of their spring break. I am really pissed that we don't have a school calendar for next year! I am thinking about going to the school board meeting tonight and having my say about that. I really can't plan a whole lot until I verify dates for the kiddos.

[ImMarcik]

I'm voting for the later dates because:

1. I want Marcie to be able to finally come on one of our trips.
2. I will most likely be done with my student teaching by then.
3. It's going to be crowded on either set of dates anyway, so I may as well enjoy some Food and Wine options.

But here's something to mull over so this isn't so stressful for Beth and the rest of us every year......maybe we should just pick a certain week of a certain month and stick with it for every ladies trip so there is no more debating and annual voting necessary. I mean, we all know that Thanksgiving falls on the last Thursday of November every year no matter what. We could set up something similar for the ladies trip.

For example, we could say that the ladies trip takes place during the first weekend of March every year (to start the Thursday before and end the Tuesday after).....and that would be that. Of course I'm sure whatever week chosen for the annual ladies trip to take place every year would take a vote, but you get what I'm saying. :upsidedow

(This is what we do for our annual family get together every summer up at the lake.....it's always the first week of August. Makes it simpler for everyone to plan.)

Anyway, just thought I would throw that idea on the table in my medicine head stupor. :sick:

Awwwww that was just sweet! I needed that today, just not having a good day. :grouphug:

I agree that is a good idea.

[kelmac284]

I like that idea too Marcie! I can finally meet you!! Since lord only knows when I am ever going to make it to Vegas :(

[daisy_77]

Brilliant idea!!! :thumbsup2

I'm voting for the later dates because:

1. I want Marcie to be able to finally come on one of our trips.
2. I will most likely be done with my student teaching by then.
3. It's going to be crowded on either set of dates anyway, so I may as well enjoy some Food and Wine options.

But here's something to mull over so this isn't so stressful for Beth and the rest of us every year......maybe we should just pick a certain week of a certain month and stick with it for every ladies trip so there is no more debating and annual voting necessary. I mean, we all know that Thanksgiving falls on the last Thursday of November every year no matter what. We could set up something similar for the ladies trip.

For example, we could say that the ladies trip takes place during the first weekend of March every year (to start the Thursday before and end the Tuesday after).....and that would be that. Of course I'm sure whatever week chosen for the annual ladies trip to take place every year would take a vote, but you get what I'm saying. :upsidedow

(This is what we do for our annual family get together every summer up at the lake.....it's always the first week of August. Makes it simpler for everyone to plan.)

Anyway, just thought I would throw that idea on the table in my medicine head stupor. :sick:

[mommaU4]

......maybe we should just pick a certain week of a certain month and stick with it for every ladies trip so there is no more debating and annual voting necessary. I mean, we all know that Thanksgiving falls on the last Thursday of November every year no matter what. We could set up something similar for the ladies trip.

For example, we could say that the ladies trip takes place during the first weekend of March every year (to start the Thursday before and end the Tuesday after).....and that would be that. Of course I'm sure whatever week chosen for the annual ladies trip to take place every year would take a vote, but you get what I'm saying. :upsidedow

(This is what we do for our annual family get together every summer up at the lake.....it's always the first week of August. Makes it simpler for everyone to plan.)I could go for that. :)
Does this mean you are volunteering to set up that vote for which weeks?? :rolleyes1


;) lol

By the way, glad to see you posting and to hear you are starting to feel human again. :hug:

[BC Disney Lover]

But here's something to mull over so this isn't so stressful for Beth and the rest of us every year......maybe we should just pick a certain week of a certain month and stick with it for every ladies trip so there is no more debating and annual voting necessary. I mean, we all know that Thanksgiving falls on the last Thursday of November every year no matter what. We could set up something similar for the ladies trip.


Great idea, Capri! This years dates seemed to work out well.

[Califgirl]

Great idea, Capri! This years dates seemed to work out well.

I agree! Great idea. I'd be willling for it to always be the last week(end) of Feb.

[cheshiregirl]

I like the idea of setting a consistent timeframe in theory, but given how many of our lives revolve around school calendars and the ever floating Easter holidays/spring break schedule I am not sure that it's really practical in theory.

This year worked for me because of when Easter fell, but I had to do some major juggling to make it all work out (as did many other Divas).

If we go with the mid April dates I absolutely will not be able to attend as we have 2 programs each year that are all hands on deck, every staff member must be there from start to finish kinds of events--one at the end of August and one in April. Unfortunately, the date has already been set to be 16th. Even with a year's notice, I would not be able to get out of working that Saturday, and with the distance between Vegas and Anaheim, there is no point in coming for just Thursday & Friday or Sunday & Monday.

[Queenbillabong]

Great idea, Capri! This years dates seemed to work out well.

I like this year's dates too - not too bad weather, manageable crowds (except Sunday), good deals on hotel :thumbsup2

[lulubelle]

I'm good with set dates each year. End of Feb or early March I think is good. It just will never be very warm during that time of year.

[Queenbillabong]

I'm good with set dates each year. End of Feb or early March I think is good. It just will never be very warm during that time of year.

Hey, that's a good thing :thumbsup2 I always say if you're cold, you can put on a sweater but if you get too hot, it's best not to be walking around nekkid :scared1:......... at least not at Disneyland ;)

[DangerMouse]

I'm good with set dates each year. End of Feb or early March I think is good. It just will never be very warm during that time of year.

::yes::

I like this time of year as well. Lower crowds, good (cool) weather and did I mention LOWER CROWDS?

[toocherie]

Well, I know AmySue had a conflict during that week this year--her continuing education seminar is always that week. And personally I would prefer a little bit later in the year. Mid to late-March. It is sunny here today but COLD and windy.

[cheshiregirl]

Well, I know AmySue had a conflict during that week this year--her continuing education seminar is always that week. And personally I would prefer a little bit later in the year. Mid to late-March. It is sunny here today but COLD and windy.

Ditto--mid to late March is always going to be better for me than late Feb. into early March. And, I don't want to freeze at DL either. Not that I'm saying that I want it to be 100 out, but it would be nice to be able to ride the water rides without fear of hypothermia.

[toocherie]

but it would be nice to be able to ride the water rides without fear of hypothermia.

stacielee and I don't have that concern (because we don't ride the water rides!):rolleyes:

[disney-inspired]

I like the idea of setting a consistent timeframe in theory, but given how many of our lives revolve around school calendars and the ever floating Easter holidays/spring break schedule I am not sure that it's really practical in theory.

This year worked for me because of when Easter fell, but I had to do some major juggling to make it all work out (as did many other Divas).

If we go with the mid April dates I absolutely will not be able to attend as we have 2 programs each year that are all hands on deck, every staff member must be there from start to finish kinds of events--one at the end of August and one in April. Unfortunately, the date has already been set to be 16th. Even with a year's notice, I would not be able to get out of working that Saturday, and with the distance between Vegas and Anaheim, there is no point in coming for just Thursday & Friday or Sunday & Monday.

Well, I know AmySue had a conflict during that week this year--her continuing education seminar is always that week. And personally I would prefer a little bit later in the year. Mid to late-March. It is sunny here today but COLD and windy.

Ditto--mid to late March is always going to be better for me than late Feb. into early March. And, I don't want to freeze at DL either. Not that I'm saying that I want it to be 100 out, but it would be nice to be able to ride the water rides without fear of hypothermia.

Ditto.
I don't like rain while at Disneyland, even if it does produce lower crowds. I'm so done with worrying about crowds, unless a major holiday is involved because then I simply will avoid the parks.When I'm with the divas we are so on top of fast passes that the crowds don't really affect us.

[DangerMouse]

but it would be nice to be able to ride the water rides without fear of hypothermia.

I have an answer for that . . . PONCHO!! :thumbsup2

[disney-super-mom]

If we pick a set month/week for every ladies trip, keep in mind that mid-March through mid-April is typically spring break time, and with so many of us with kids in school, there will always be several of us who won't be able to attend because our own kids will be on spring break the same week as the ladies trip, if you know what I mean. And of course, there are the CROWDS.

I would recommend something on the outside of spring break season.....like the first weekend in March (right before spring break season), or the last weekend in February (fairly quiet during that time of year), or the first weekend in May (right after spring break season, and with Mother's day being that month, it's a good reason for our hubbies/boyfriends to let us go without too much grief - hee hee). ;) :goodvibes

[disney-inspired]

I have an answer for that . . . PONCHO!! :thumbsup2

That defeats the purpose of even getting on a water ride.

[DangerMouse]

Ditto.
I don't like rain while at Disneyland, even if it does produce lower crowds. I'm so done with worrying about crowds, unless a major holiday is involved because then I simply will avoid the parks.When I'm with the divas we are so on top of fast passes that the crowds don't really affect us.

It's not the lack of rides or large ques that bother me with the crowds. You're right, we are DLR professionals and know our FP collecting.

It's not being able to walk down Main Street USA without getting stepped on or pushed or feeling like you are being forced into someone else's personal space that really makes me anxious and uncomfortable. Crowds like that scare me. :scared1: That's why I avoid walking through Adventureland or Tomorrowland when at all possible.

[DangerMouse]

That defeats the purpose of even getting on a water ride.

No way. I still get to enjoy the ride without the nasty chafing afterwards. :laughing:

[disney-super-mom]

It's not the lack of rides or large ques that bother me with the crowds. You're right, we are DLR professionals and know our FP collecting.

It's not being able to walk down Main Street USA without getting stepped on or pushed or feeling like you are being forced into someone else's personal space that really makes me anxious and uncomfortable. Crowds like that scare me. :scared1: That's why I avoid walking through Adventureland or Tomorrowland when at all possible.

I have to agree with Callie. Collecting fastpasses is no problem. We're all pros at that. It's the actual number of people around so you can't move. Even on quieter days, Mainstreet, Adventureland, and Tomorrowland is crowded and you find yourself dodging through and around people. But when it's actually during a busy time, like spring break season, you can't even dodge through and around.....you're stuck in the herd, inching along.

[disney-inspired]

If we pick a set month/week for every ladies trip, keep in mind that mid-March through mid-April is typically spring break time, and with so many of us with kids in school, there will always be several of us who won't be able to attend because our own kids will be on spring break the same week as the ladies trip, if you know what I mean. And of course, there are the CROWDS.

I would recommend something on the outside of spring break season.....like the first weekend in March (right before spring break season), or the last weekend in February (fairly quiet during that time of year), or the first weekend in May (right after spring break season, and with Mother's day being that month, it's a good reason for our hubbies/boyfriends to let us go without too much grief - hee hee). ;) :goodvibes


These are the dates of Easter for the next 5 years:
2011 - April 24th
2012 - April 8th
2013 - March 31
2014 - April 20th
2015 - April 5th.

Early March for 2013 would not work because we would still have spring break crowds.

I hate that Easter always changes dates.

May sounds good in theory but with those in school facing finals and final projects, it would be very hard for us to get away.

There are no perfect dates.

[cheshiregirl]

stacielee and I don't have that concern (because we don't ride the water rides!):rolleyes:

I have an answer for that . . . PONCHO!! :thumbsup2

That defeats the purpose of even getting on a water ride.

Count me as another water ride avoider--I don't like to be wet and even with a poncho it seems like I have a tendency to get soaked. I was just trying to look out for some of those that do like the water rides, but only when it's warmer out.

[disney-inspired]

Count me as another water ride avoider--I don't like to be wet and even with a poncho it seems like I have a tendency to get soaked. I was just trying to look out for some of those that do like the water rides, but only when it's warmer out.

Like me!
I plan on bringing my bathing suit, boardshorts, and a change of clothes when I go in warmer weather. I love Grizzly River Rapids!

[disney-super-mom]

These are the dates of Easter for the next 5 years:
2011 - April 24th
2012 - April 8th
2013 - March 31
2014 - April 20th
2015 - April 5th.

Early March for 2013 would not work because we would still have spring break crowds.

I hate that Easter always changes dates.

May sounds good in theory but with those in school facing finals and final projects, it would be very hard for us to get away.

There are no perfect dates.

Uhhhh, Christabel, in 2013, Easter is in LATE March, not early March. :thumbsup2

And for those of us in school, that is a temporary thing. We won't be in college forever, only a few years, so early May could perhaps work in the long run for us. :)

[disney-inspired]

Uhhhh, Christabel, in 2013, Easter is in LATE March, not early March. :thumbsup2

And for those of us in school, that is a temporary thing. We won't be in college forever, only a few years, so early May could perhaps work. :)

But we would still have Spring break crowds. Isn't that what everyone has been saying about next year's two top dates? Spring breaks always run the month of Easter and about half a month after it.

[disney-super-mom]

But we would still have Spring break crowds. Isn't that what everyone has been saying about next year's two top dates? Spring breaks always run the month of Easter and about half a month after it.

Why would we have spring break crowds during the first weekend of March? Usually spring breaks don't start until mid-March and run through April. Easter usually falls somewhere in the time frame every year.

[disney-inspired]

Why would we have spring break crowds during the first weekend of March? Usually spring breaks don't start until mid-March and run through April. Easter usually falls somewhere in the time frame every year.

because some spring break vacations have nothing to do with Easter. I know people who get Spring break two to three weeks before Easter or two to three weeks after Easter.

[kelmac284]

One thing we MAY want to consider is the block out dates. I know a lot of us have APS and I know that at least for this year and I am assuming next year will be the same that starting the 2nd sat in march every sat is blocked out from then on all the way through april and I think into may. Although I didn't go into may but I know all of june july etc is so I don't know why May wouldn't be as well but I know that the ONLY sat not blocked out in march for THIS year was this past sat the 6th.

I don't know how big of a deal that is going to be to people to have to pay for that day or if we just want to always make that sat an offsite day or whatever but just an extra thought to consider. :)

[disney-super-mom]

because some spring break vacations have nothing to do with Easter. I know people who get Spring break two to three weeks before Easter or two to three weeks after Easter.

That's correct, so why would the first weekend of March be affected? Easter hardly every falls in March, and when it does, it's at the very end of the month. Are you sure you're not thinking of the first weekend in April? :confused3

[disney-inspired]

One thing we MAY want to consider is the block out dates. I know a lot of us have APS and I know that at least for this year and I am assuming next year will be the same that starting the 2nd sat in march every sat is blocked out from then on all the way through april and I think into may. Although I didn't go into may but I know all of june july etc is so I don't know why May wouldn't be as well but I know that the ONLY sat not blocked out in march for THIS year was this past sat the 6th.

I don't know how big of a deal that is going to be to people to have to pay for that day or if we just want to always make that sat an offsite day or whatever but just an extra thought to consider. :)

I'm not considering block out dates because I'd rather do one of the off-site options than battling Saturday crowds. I'm fine with not being in the park every single day from open to close.

Wow, I can't believe I just said that. I must finally be learning how to be laid back at Disneyland.:hippie:

[disney-super-mom]

One thing we MAY want to consider is the block out dates. I know a lot of us have APS and I know that at least for this year and I am assuming next year will be the same that starting the 2nd sat in march every sat is blocked out from then on all the way through april and I think into may. Although I didn't go into may but I know all of june july etc is so I don't know why May wouldn't be as well but I know that the ONLY sat not blocked out in march for THIS year was this past sat the 6th.

I don't know how big of a deal that is going to be to people to have to pay for that day or if we just want to always make that sat an offsite day or whatever but just an extra thought to consider. :)

I've thought about that too Kelly, and I'm not sure about May for AP blockouts. Maybe someone can let us know. It's possible that late Feb may be the best time for everyone given all the variables. The only bummer part of that timeframe is the weather, although some years will be warmer and dryer and others could be downright cold.

[Queenbillabong]

I agree! Great idea. I'd be willling for it to always be the last week(end) of Feb.

I'm good with set dates each year. End of Feb or early March I think is good. It just will never be very warm during that time of year.

I like this time of year as well. Lower crowds, good (cool) weather and did I mention LOWER CROWDS?

Yep, lower crowds, cooler (more comfortable) weather, less expensive hotels, no spring break = :thumbsup2

Why would we have spring break crowds during the first weekend of March? Usually spring breaks don't start until mid-March and run through April. Easter usually falls somewhere in the time frame every year.

Yes - here we're on spring break now until March 22 and next year we start spring break March 18......

One thing we MAY want to consider is the block out dates. I know a lot of us have APS and I know that at least for this year and I am assuming next year will be the same that starting the 2nd sat in march every sat is blocked out from then on all the way through april and I think into may. Although I didn't go into may but I know all of june july etc is so I don't know why May wouldn't be as well but I know that the ONLY sat not blocked out in march for THIS year was this past sat the 6th.

I don't know how big of a deal that is going to be to people to have to pay for that day or if we just want to always make that sat an offsite day or whatever but just an extra thought to consider. :)

Block out dates are a consideration as well..... An offsite day is also a good thing and sounds like fun. I don't think I would want to pay for the day at the parks, taking into account the already more expensive hotel, etc. Just my opinion.

[DangerMouse]

That's correct, so why would the first weekend of March be affected? Easter hardly every falls in March, and when it does, it's at the very end of the month. Are you sure you're not thinking of the first weekend in April? :confused3

Capri's right. The earliest Spring Breaks always occur the 2nd week of March (and those are normally AZ breaks). So the first week of March has always been a slow time (mid-week at least). Weekends are ALWAYS busy with locals. ALWAYS. But I enjoy the Thurs, Fri and Mon lack of crowds if we are there during off-season.

[kelmac284]

I def like the idea of an offsite day but not everyone can come for all 5 or 6 days. I know quite a few had to leave on Sunday and I know some couldn't get there till Friday so that limited the time they had in the parks to begin with. Perhaps it doesn't matter to them as they may be locals and don't really care but again I am just throwing that into the mix as a consideration.

I know for me for example I wouldn't mind paying the blockout fee during the F&W to go in for the special events but I wouldn't want to pay it in march just to go into the park. In that case I would rather do an offsite option. But I know there were some that couldn't get here till Fri eve so if we had to change the scavy hunt I guess we could do it on Sunday? I am just trying to think logistics. I like the idea of late Feb/early march only for the fact that it is cheaper, no spring break crowds, no block outs and then if we wanted to do an offsite day we could but if someone didn't want to do that they could go in the park and NOT have to pay the fee. That way everyone wins. But again just trying to think of options that would please everyone which of course I know isn't going to happen LOL.

I know personally that time frame is great for me because I usually have just gotten my tax refund and it is right after soccer and/or basketball but before swim so I have NO committments and can go worry free! :)

But I will go with whatever you guys decide just trying to put some more ideas out there.

[stacielee]

stacielee and I don't have that concern (because we don't ride the water rides!):rolleyes:

:thumbsup2

because some spring break vacations have nothing to do with Easter. I know people who get Spring break two to three weeks before Easter or two to three weeks after Easter.

That's the point, their Spring Break has nothing to do with Easter. If that's the case, they start the 2nd week of March and go through about mid to end April. Two of my kids Spring Break start March 12 next year; the other starts on Good Friday and goes through the following week.

If we always plan for the first weekend in March, we will miss the crowds and the APs shouldn't be blacked out on Saturday.

[DangerMouse]

:thumbsup2



That's the point, their Spring Break has nothing to do with Easter. If that's the case, they start the 2nd week of March and go through about mid to end April. Two of my kids Spring Break start March 12 next year; the other starts on Good Friday and goes through the following week.

If we always plan for the first weekend in March, we will miss the crowds and the APs shouldn't be blacked out on Saturday.

SEE? Now this is the kind of conversation we should have been having before ever even suggesting dates. . . right?

Some might find it frustrating, but I think it is very constructive.

[disney-super-mom]

If we always plan for the first weekend in March, we will miss the crowds and the APs shouldn't be blacked out on Saturday.

I think we could be on to something. :idea: :thumbsup2

[Queenbillabong]

If we always plan for the first weekend in March, we will miss the crowds and the APs shouldn't be blacked out on Saturday.

:thumbsup2 Very sensible :thumbsup2

[Califgirl]

For those of us who are considering using DVC points to stay onsite, Feb. 26th is the last day for Adventure season (i.e. the cheapest) and then it jumps to Magic Season (i.e. Spring break rates) from Feb 27 through April 14th.
April 15-30 is Premier Season and is nearly double the amount of points necessary for Adventure Season. (and is the 2 weeks immediately surrounding Easter).

Here's a link to the points chart for those who might be concerned with this.

http://advc.disney.go.com/media/dvc_v0302/languagespecific/eng/member/vacationplanning/pointscharts/2011/disneyvacationclub/2011PointsChart_DisneyVacationClub_DisneysGrandCal ifornian.pdf

[BillyFan]

It's not the lack of rides or large ques that bother me with the crowds. You're right, we are DLR professionals and know our FP collecting.

It's not being able to walk down Main Street USA without getting stepped on or pushed or feeling like you are being forced into someone else's personal space that really makes me anxious and uncomfortable. Crowds like that scare me. :scared1: That's why I avoid walking through Adventureland or Tomorrowland when at all possible.

And that's why she always has an exit strategy! :thumbsup2

Honestly, I just don't want to do the same weekend we did this year. Okra can't go, and I can't go to Disneyland on Marty's birthday two years in a row.
I also had the concern about blackout dates, but I really don't think that was addressed enough when we we picking dates. :confused3
Just my 2 cents.

[disney-inspired]

And that's why she always has an exit strategy! :thumbsup2

Honestly, I just don't want to do the same weekend we did this year. Okra can't go, and I can't go to Disneyland on Marty's birthday two years in a row.
I also had the concern about blackout dates, but I really don't think that was addressed enough when we we picking dates. :confused3
Just my 2 cents.

So if it were to be the same dates I wouldn't see you or Amy? :sad2:

If it happens, I'm driving up to see you! :hug:

[DangerMouse]

And that's why she always has an exit strategy! :thumbsup2


Exit strategies are muy importanté! :thumbsup2

[disney-super-mom]

And that's why she always has an exit strategy! :thumbsup2

Honestly, I just don't want to do the same weekend we did this year. Okra can't go, and I can't go to Disneyland on Marty's birthday two years in a row.
I also had the concern about blackout dates, but I really don't think that was addressed enough when we we picking dates. :confused3
Just my 2 cents.

Well, with how the discussion is going now, it doesn't look like it would be the same weekend as this year. It seems most of those participating in the discussion are leaning towards the first weekend in March (hopefully before any AP blackouts and before spring break season).

[daisy_77]

I am enjoying all the posts. I don't really care when we go. I know that there will be times that I can't go (like this year). But that is life. :)

I am easy on dates. I prefer Feb or early-March. I understand that doesn't work for everyone. But like I said...I am easy.;)

[stacielee]

But like I said...I am easy.;)

We've heard that about you... :rolleyes1

[disney-inspired]

So whichever dates win are the ones for 2011 right? Nobody's changed it again?

[kelmac284]

Tina I agree with the others. March is good. I would hate for you not to be able to come to!! I don't think mom would want to come on her b-day every year. Not that she didn't have a GREAT time, she did but I think she felt bad being away from my dad. Feb OR March is good for me but I want to do it when EVERYONE can come so March works for me. :)

[disney-super-mom]

So whichever dates win are the ones for 2011 right? Nobody's changed it again?

I guess it's up to everyone. We could either let the winning dates stand for the trip next year, or if we pick a fixed week to attend every year, we could start that tradition beginning in 2011.

Something else to discuss. popcorn::

[disney-inspired]

Let's just stick with the winning dates for next year, we've already run two polls. Let's just leave it at that and then we can plan for a set date starting in 2012 if we must.

[cheshiregirl]

Let's just stick with the winning dates for next year, we've already run two polls. Let's just leave it at that and then we can plan for a set date starting in 2012 if we must.

I find myself agreeing with Cristabel a lot these days, but I would definitely say ditto!

[disney-super-mom]

I would say to just bite the bullet and start a fixed week starting in 2011 so we can put it to bed once and for all, but I'm easy (like January) and I'll go with whatever the majority wants to do. :thumbsup2

[stacielee]

I'm easy (like January) and I'll go with whatever the majority wants to do. :thumbsup2

You too?!? Oh no, I'm hanging out with a bunch of floozies!!

[cheshiregirl]

I wish that I could say that I'm easy and could go anytime, but for some of us that's just not realistic. I get a ton of vacation days each year compared to people who work in the corporate world, but the catch is that I have to plan them around all of the events that make up a college academic year--and that schedule changes every single year. Our spring semester has started anywhere from Jan. 8-21st and then Spring Break, Easter and other events on campus dictate what my calendar looks like from year to year.

I am just really frustrated that we have spent so much time and energy working to find a date that accommodates the most people next year and now that we are less than 24 hours away from the second vote ending, people are trying to negate the results and start over. We just need to commit and stick with it at least for next year. If the end of March dates win for a second time in a week's time, can't we just say that the Divas have spoken and go with it?

[Queenbillabong]

I am just really frustrated that we have spent so much time and energy working to find a date that accommodates the most people next year and now that we are less than 24 hours away from the second vote ending, people are trying to negate the results and start over. We just need to commit and stick with it at least for next year. If the end of March dates win for a second time in a week's time, can't we just say that the Divas have spoken and go with it?

No one is trying to negate anything - Capri was just thinking out loud. No one was suggesting a revote.

[disney-inspired]

No one is trying to negate anything - Capri was just thinking out loud. No one was suggesting a revote.

No, they're suggesting a set date and to instill as of 2011. That means no one gets a vote.

[Queenbillabong]

I would say to just bite the bullet and start a fixed week starting in 2011 so we can put it to bed once and for all, but I'm easy (like January) and I'll go with whatever the majority wants to do. :thumbsup2

No, they're suggesting a set date and to instill as of 2011. That means no one gets a vote.

I'm not seeing anyone suggest that no one gets a vote :confused3

[Stacerita]

Great idea, Capri! This years dates seemed to work out well.

Not exactly.

And that's why she always has an exit strategy! :thumbsup2

Honestly, I just don't want to do the same weekend we did this year. Okra can't go, and I can't go to Disneyland on Marty's birthday two years in a row.
I also had the concern about blackout dates, but I really don't think that was addressed enough when we we picking dates. :confused3
Just my 2 cents.

Im in a similar boat with Tina here. James father (who I have known for over 20 years), his birthday is 2/29. Becaue he gets jacked on a birthday, they usually take a trip and take us with them to celebrate. I skipped out this year, and dont' think I could keep doing that.

I would say to just bite the bullet and start a fixed week starting in 2011 so we can put it to bed once and for all, but I'm easy (like January) and I'll go with whatever the majority wants to do. :thumbsup2

:confused3

[karylrocks]

Well I was going to try to stay out of the debate but I just wanted to throw out a suggestion - would there be any benefit to alternating weekends? First weekend of March one year then the last weekend of February the next, then back to March, etc.? That would always avoid the spring break/blockout date issue. Would that make it possible for everyone to have a chance to go at least every other year, and people who don't normally get an AP or make many trips to Disneyland could get an AP every other year and use it twice? Or just pick two different weekends farther apart and alternate between them? But for this year maybe we should stick with the dates we are already voting on. Just some suggestions......I am still new and haven't been as involved as most of you.

[lulubelle]

I think for 2011 everyone is right that enough energy, drama and time has been put into picking the dates. We've had two votes and whichever wins should be our dates. We can't make everyone happy, we all know this.

And although a set date each year is a good idea (at least according to a half dozen or so of us that posted), if the majority thinks this is the way to go in the future, it would be imposed in 2012. And that's even a big "IF" at this point because as I said, only a few of us have validated the idea as a good one.

Just my opinion since we all seem to be thinking out loud.:goodvibes

[Stacerita]

I think for 2011 everyone is right that enough energy, drama and time has been put into picking the dates. We've had two votes and whichever wins should be our dates. We can't make everyone happy, we all know this.

And although a set date each year is a good idea (at least according to a half dozen or so of us that posted), if the majority thinks this is the way to go in the future, it would be imposed in 2012. And that's even a big "IF" at this point because as I said, only a few of us have validated the idea as a good one.

Just my opinion since we all seem to be thinking out loud.:goodvibes

:thumbsup2

[BillyFan]

I think for 2011 everyone is right that enough energy, drama and time has been put into picking the dates. We've had two votes and whichever wins should be our dates. We can't make everyone happy, we all know this.

And although a set date each year is a good idea (at least according to a half dozen or so of us that posted), if the majority thinks this is the way to go in the future, it would be imposed in 2012. And that's even a big "IF" at this point because as I said, only a few of us have validated the idea as a good one.

Just my opinion since we all seem to be thinking out loud.:goodvibes

Linda is a smart lady.

[cccdisney]

I think for 2011 everyone is right that enough energy, drama and time has been put into picking the dates. We've had two votes and whichever wins should be our dates. We can't make everyone happy, we all know this.

And although a set date each year is a good idea (at least according to a half dozen or so of us that posted), if the majority thinks this is the way to go in the future, it would be imposed in 2012. And that's even a big "IF" at this point because as I said, only a few of us have validated the idea as a good one.

Just my opinion since we all seem to be thinking out loud.:goodvibes

Very well said Linda! :thumbsup2 I agree!

[jordansmomma]

Let's just stick with the winning dates for next year, we've already run two polls. Let's just leave it at that and then we can plan for a set date starting in 2012 if we must.

I agree with this.

I wish that I could say that I'm easy and could go anytime, but for some of us that's just not realistic. I get a ton of vacation days each year compared to people who work in the corporate world, but the catch is that I have to plan them around all of the events that make up a college academic year--and that schedule changes every single year. Our spring semester has started anywhere from Jan. 8-21st and then Spring Break, Easter and other events on campus dictate what my calendar looks like from year to year.

I am just really frustrated that we have spent so much time and energy working to find a date that accommodates the most people next year and now that we are less than 24 hours away from the second vote ending, people are trying to negate the results and start over. We just need to commit and stick with it at least for next year. If the end of March dates win for a second time in a week's time, can't we just say that the Divas have spoken and go with it?

Exactly, why have a vote, then a revote and then now skip the vote and go with the set date? But then again the first thread said that unless there was tie there would not be a revote. I must have missed the tie somewhere with the top 2 dates and the no preference date.


Linda is a smart lady.

Yes, Linda is a very smart lady.

[cheshiregirl]

Big hearts :love::love::love: for Linda!

[prettyprincessbelle]

I also agree with smart lady Linda.

[disney-super-mom]

I absolutely don't want to negate the results of the vote for next year. Seriously, as I said, I'm going with the flow. :hippie:

Don't everyone get their panties in a bunch. This is just a discussion. Yes, I'm thinking out loud, throwing ideas on the table. That's all....for reals. :goodvibes

I also have to agree with Linda. At this point, it would not be a good idea to just throw out the votes for the dates for 2011. Besides, most of the ladies who voted don't even know this discussion is taking place, and it wouldn't be fair to them to say, "Oh hey, guess what.....we decided your vote doesn't count for next year." You know what I mean?

But to avoid all this for future trips AFTER 2011, I still think picking set dates is a good idea. Since we're discussion it now and it's on the table, we could choose those set dates now and get it over with, so the fun planning can take place from here on out. Or we could put off picking set dates until next year.....or we could just go through this every year (picking dates and voting).

Hee hee, I feel like we're in a little planning committee. :goodvibes

Edited to say - (Although, any discussions on what to do after 2011 should probably be done on the regular planning thread so everyone can be in on it, right?)

[disney-super-mom]

Here is our current tally of votes for next years trip.

March 31 - April 4th: 24 (that includes votes for Stacerita's mom and sis, Courtney's mom, and Tina's mom)

April 14 - 18: 21 (that includes a vote for Kelly's mom and wvnative's daughter)


I do have one concern about the AP holders and the scavy hunt though: The AP holders will be blocked out on Saturday, but the scavy hunt really can't happen any other day because many of the Diva's don't arrive until Friday and leave on Sunday. So.......any thoughts about this?

Maybe have the scavy hunt on Friday evening/night? (I think most if not all of the Divas coming on the trip should be there by Friday evening - right?) An evening scavy hunt might be kind of fun.

Too many of the Divas leave Sunday morning, so I didn't think Sunday was a good option.

[mommaU4]

Here is our current tally of votes for next years trip.

March 31 - April 4th: 24 (that includes votes for Stacerita's mom and sis, Courtney's mom, and Tina's mom)

April 14 - 18: 21 (that includes a vote for Kelly's mom and wvnative's daughter)


I do have one concern about the AP holders and the scavy hunt though: The AP holders will be blocked out on Saturday, but the scavy hunt really can't happen any other day because many of the Diva's don't arrive until Friday and leave on Sunday. So.......any thoughts about this?

Maybe have the scavy hunt on Friday evening/night? (I think most if not all of the Divas coming on the trip should be there by Friday evening - right?) An evening scavy hunt might be kind of fun.

Too many of the Divas leave Sunday morning, so I didn't think Sunday was a good option.

Hey, thanks for posting that. Sorry for not updating sooner.

Actually, we are at:
March 31 - April 4th: 28 (that includes votes for Stacerita's mom and sis Nikki, Felecia, and Donna)

April 14 - 18: 26 (that includes a vote for Rosemarie, Stacie's DD and her roomie, Stacie's friend Tammy, and wvnative's daughter-which I missed somewhere so thanks for that!)



As for the hunt, an evening hunt does sound fun. :)

[disney-super-mom]

Hey, thanks for posting that. Sorry for not updating sooner.

Actually, we are at:
March 31 - April 4th: 28 (that includes votes for Stacerita's mom and sis Nikki, Felecia, and Donna)

April 14 - 18: 26 (that includes a vote for Rosemarie, Stacie's DD and her roomie, Stacie's friend Tammy, and wvnative's daughter-which I missed somewhere so thanks for that!)



As for the hunt, an evening hunt does sound fun. :)

Whoops, duh, I totally forgot to change the totals when I added in the extra votes. LOL! :laughing:

And I missed the extra votes for Stacie's DD, DD's roomie, and her friend Tammy.

See, I told you my brain was fried on cold medicine. :hippie:

[mommaU4]

Whoops, duh, I totally forgot to change the totals when I added in the extra votes. LOL! :laughing:

And I missed the extra votes for Stacie's DD, DD's roomie, and her friend Tammy.

See, I told you my brain was fried on cold medicine. :hippie:No worries. Thank you for updating, and like I said, somehow I missed wvnatives dd's vote, so good thing you posted that.
Hope you are feeling better. :hug:

[cheshiregirl]

It's KILLING me--one hour left to find out whether or not I get to go next year (insert a smilies for fingers crossed right here).

[mommaU4]

The wait is over. The poll is closed! New trip dates are: March 31 - April 4.

YAY for trip dates!!! :cool1:

[cheshiregirl]

Yay!!!!:banana::banana::banana::banana:

I am so glad to see I will get to be a part of the trip :cloud9:

Sending good vibes to all who have potential conflicts with the selected dates so that you will be able to join us too!

[disney-inspired]

Yay!!!!:banana::banana::banana::banana:

I am so glad to see I will get to be a part of the trip :cloud9:

Sending good vibes to all who have potential conflicts with the selected dates so that you will be able to join us too!

Yay now you, Amy Sue and Tina can all come! :yay:

[prettyprincessbelle]

Yessssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[disney-super-mom]

YAY!!! Let the planning commence!!! :woohoo:

[BillyFan]

Yay now you, Amy Sue and Tina can all come! :yay:

I'll be there!

[daisy_77]

Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!! I am sooooooooooo excited!!!

The wait is over. The poll is closed! New trip dates are: March 31 - April 4.

YAY for trip dates!!! :cool1:

Yay!!!!:banana::banana::banana::banana:

I am so glad to see I will get to be a part of the trip :cloud9:

Sending good vibes to all who have potential conflicts with the selected dates so that you will be able to join us too!

I am so glad that you get to come and I agree----I hope everyone can make it! :hug:


YAY!!! Let the planning commence!!! :woohoo:

This is what I am talkin' bout!